₦airaland Forum

Caracta:
Lol...nice strangers, you mean?

Lalaosky is ochon now...that's if he hasn't deactivated.

Others are here and there. Good to have you around too. Take care babe.

baibijay:
Cara baby its me!! Bin searching everywher for you guys.... Dairyland was full of strangers so I ran away!
Where is lalaosky, oahray the Esan guy, mynd and everyone I used to know

BTW its good to know you are here

akinsadeez:
@ the bolded....
The bride price payment analogy you have made is also flawed. There are some places where if you want to obtain the services of a sex worker, you pay the madam/owner of the house and not the sex worker directly. Now does that change the act from being prostiution? No. The same thing with the payment of bride price to the parents of d bride and not d bride herself.

Why is it that traditional divorce necessarily entails the return of d bride price? If you pay a prostitute for her services thru out d night and one hour later she says she is no longer interested, you are entitled to collect back your money. At worst or best depending on how u look at it, she deducts an amount commensurate with the one hour service she gave you. When you also marry a lady(which is supposed to be for life) and you guys later decide to part ways, you are also entitled to receive back ur bride price. Again, at best ur in laws would deduct an amount commensurate with what you have used in their daughter.

I might not personally agree with him, nonetheless there is a bit of logic behind his assertion that marriage is a form of legalised prostitution.

mumumugu:
you beat me to it. In my next post,i was going to write on "marriage as legal prostitute"
"marriage as longterm prostitution" since bride price is the price.

missjenna:
Its supposed to be, To every successful man, there is always a woman "Beside" him

When you use the word "behind", you are in a way demoting and disregarding the huge influence of the woman

Let me give you an example.
Steve Jobs is widely recognized as the sole founder of Apple, but he didn't found it alone. He alongside his friend, Steve Wozniak, co-founded Apple.

When you ask people, they will say Steve Wozniak was the brain "Behind" Apple. But I tell you one thing. History will only remember the great Steve Jobs

I just used this illustration to buttress my point
Thanks

niggi4life:
LORD PLEASE HELP ME.... I AM STAKING 50K TO WIN 100K (DRAW NO BET) FOR MANCITY TONIGHT... I PRAY TO COME BACK HERE AND GIVE TESTIMONIES IJN... AMEN

Nneka123:
I totally understand your point of view and where you are

coming from with your point. You're actually talking about the women who just decided that they wanna show their booobs or asss on social media like Instagram. For example, if a girl was suppose to put a picture of not showing her breasts or ass, just a simple picture, she will not get as much likes, as she will, if she had a picture of her displaying her boobs. I'm not against you trying to prove this point that women are the cause of them being objectify, but first of all it's not in any way their fault! it's society.The idea that sex sell is a hallucinating idea, A false hope in some sense because when we try to sell sex, we try to sell subjectivity and objectivity, where men act as subjects and women acts as objects. And objects can never be empowered. So, even those models who are paid, they are not empowered, and they are not choosing it they are being forced to do it, As because of the existing male chauvinist society, where women are for being used for sex, to do work at home, to be a baby doll, etc.And that's what mainstream media tries to project and tries to sell women in this way.
In all those music videos, you will realize that women are unnecessarily asked to be dancing and shaking their ass! while men are in full clothes. most of the male singers are comfortable in clothes while female singers are overly sexualized and hyper sexualized to sell that music or video. It's not the fault of those women but it is the fault of those directors trying to promote those videos.

Anyways! your point wasn't bad. i understand where you were coming from.

NinoBrown888:
calm down give the phone to someone else so that he or she can read out the story and thereafter explain it to you. your comment doesn't correlate with the story ma'am.

JonBee1:
Alameseigha only use his position/power/authority to steal
He's not corrupt
He's an ordinary thief
When a man sleep with another man that is corruption!

englishmart:
you didn't post anything

dealslip:
Let whoever wins take his rightful position in Aso Rock. Whatever be the case do not help to heat up the polity. This politicians we always clamour for dont have our interest at heart. When the violence start, they and their children will flee to fortification while the military men will be wasting the lives of Nigerians. Recall the Nigerian civil war, the principal actors lived to ripe age. Gowon is almost 80 and Ojukwu died at the ripe age of 78 leaving inheritance for his children but do not forget that 3 million people lost their lives on both sides. Their death was in vain as the politicians reconcilled and many are now great friends and they are still ruling us. Let us be wise, vote for your candidate and move on. We have never voted anyone that will please us for even a term, before the tenure ends we will start screaming and shouting for another. Politicians are not your messiah. We are the ones to drop our selfishness, materialism, hatred, insensitivity and wickedness towards another. Our division is greatly helping their own agenda. As long as we are divided we will always be at the loosing end. What they owe us is infrastructures, security and proper resource control. It is not theirs to help us define our heritage, an Hausa man is not better than all the other 250 tribes and vice versa. We are first human before we recognise any tribe or nation what we owe each other is love. We are not different in anyway except our mindset. It is not theirs to help us discover religion, it is supposed to be between us and our God. Religion is a personal thing, as long as it works for us. God is the judge not us or them. Please keep yourselves safe, you too can rule one day.

englishmart:
stealing isn't corruption. No problem.
But corruption is stealing....

falconey:
just because I said poor doesn't mean people you see under the bridge or almajiris........am talking about middle class guys , they are comfortable with the little they make but don't live a luxurious life. Besides we are talking about relationship aren't we?

falconey:
acknowledging a poor man as great isn't poverty mentality but shows everyone can be great