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falconey:
"if you can hustle for years live through POVERTY you are a great person" -prof falconey mastermind

all the best with your poverty mentality then.

Greatness lies in a man's heart, not his wallet (full or empty).

Wait... Your topic says poor guys marry the less beautiful women, but your post says great men. What's the correlation? So poverty makes a man great? You think poor men don't get divorced?

Lol. Thought provoking, especially the last part about making the new man work hard for what she freely gave others earlier. I'm not sure I know why, I can only speculate.

Maybe ladies can help out, even if they don't personally fall in the category.

Yeah, silly stereotyping everywhere.

Smh... I actually thought I could come to read meaningful comments without having to say anything.

Why is it the first thing you ask is about guys? So guys are supposed to watch you ladies spin tales and play the victim card as usual, while you assume the male silence is consent.

Aren't there real issues that exclusively affect girls, issues about which the average guy wouldn't have much to say even if he wanted to? Girls' existence and worth shouldn't revolve solely around guys.

In any case, your choice of first question is not the only error so far. If you must ask a question based on a personal opinion (like guys being vulgar), try to define your terms outright or illustrate with an example.

Cheers.

Blah blah blah...

What do you do? Funny question.

I dunno about you, but if I walk away cos a lady made me tired with her styling, I walk away for good. Stop being indecisive.

Lol. One truly needs experience to be an expert writer. @kowema, while some parts of your story may be true, some parts were obviously added for the effect.

First of all, jeans couldn't have gotten soaked immediately, and that is even assuming he wasn't wearing boxers inside.

If you later went BEHIND him (in the crowded bus) as you said, how is it you saw the wet patches that wouldn't appear at the back of his trousers?

In any case, you should have turned back, looked him in the eye and told him in a loud voice to stop. Those people mistake silence for loud consent.

I hate how some people believe they have to lie and make up tales to defend the Bible

"Messi alone is more dangerous than Ronaldo, Bale and Benzema put together." - Diego Simeone

This dude just proves his every claim

4? Lol. Atletico no get joy for Real again

Make barca beat bilbao tomorrow jor. Great weekend

Shugaryme:
Oahray come and see o...

hmmm...

Haha Madrid!

Barca > Atletico > R. Madrid

pen2:
It's not the way with humans, its the way with women!

lol. That's what we like to believe, that the other gender is always the one with the problem

Dude, you are the one she chose. Always remember that. You think big chested guys don't hit on her? If there's anything that should hit the gym, it's your self-esteem.

She's not helping issues though, but you should understand that it's the way with humans. At times we take for granted the emotions of people we care about, and would not consider how our words or actions would affect them. Well, until we hurt them real bad or lose them.

I'm sure she doesn't realise the effect it has on you. If roles were reversed, you'd have known cos she wouldn't keep quiet about it. You shouldn't either, or resentment would build till you explode. Have a heart-to-heart talk with her about the way it makes you feel.

Wait, lemme get your story straight. It's okay for a girl to cheat on her serious boyfriend/fiance with your friend. It's okay for her to open her legs to him. None of those make her a 'cheap shameless slut', no.

However the fact that she reminds a guy (who isn't mature enough to keep private info private) that she is capable of seeing her period or using the toilet, like every other normal lady, makes her cheap and shameless.

Guy you fake pass Nicki Minaj azz. Childish pretender

Op did you intend asking "when you are attracted to someone you see?" That's what people are answering.

If you meant it the way you asked it, that is, attraction precedes the moment in question (meaning I am already attracted, then I see her again), I simply reflect on the things that attracted me in the first place, or observe new things that would kill the attraction.

I usually don't get attracted at first sight without any form of interaction. I do appreciate a pretty face silently though. You don't have to buy every artwork you see, at times you just tell yourself "the artist tried" and you move ahead. Unless you know it would be good enough for your home.

Ermm... Maybe you should rephrase your question. When you see a girl AND you are attracted...

Yelx! I like it sef

kilokeys:
i am guilty

funny enough i see mum sis cousins and crushes in a different light

it has the do with her ( NIGERIA)
She dey frustrate pesin.. i guess if she becomes more tolerant with her inhabitants.. the likes of us would be d romantics we initially were.

listening to L.O.V.E by Nat king Cole (1965).. so so relaxing.. and i love u atm

when i start hustling in d heat of d afternoon.. i can yab for Africa

hmmm... Your honesty shines bro.

I wish the op were as honest you. She wouldn't have innocently pretended it's the guys that do all the bashing here.

@op, there's no smoke without fire.

I don't get what beauty is doing in the matter. The prettier the face, the more honest the statement?

It would only be special if it's coming from someone I'm totally crazy about, else I'd wonder what she's up to. After all we are humans, and humans lie.

*sigh*

What is wrong with my fellow humans?

laykorn:


Ray, wetin you find come here?

Ayamlaykorn

someone was disturbing my Idowuogbo

Strange place *looks around*

Idowuogbo:
well...so you know, I only remember the ones that deserve my attention.

hmmm...

*book of quotable quote updated*

kenex4ever:
Guy, it's very possible, I am igbo but I grew up in delta state, schooled in PH and now in Lag. Most of my university close frnds ( boys/girls) n class mates never knew my tribe except d ones I told. I dated an igbo girl for over six months b4 I told her I am igbo, she had always thought I am frm delta state because she sees me speak d language with frnds.

well I can't stress myself reading stories of such whack relationships. How can a girl you are dating just ASSUME you are delta? You no get igbo name? She no dey ask questions? Una no dey talk about each other?

You guys should stop dating people who aren't really interested in you jor. That's not a relationship, bro.

It's not at all possible for any girl I choose to date.

Pheeew! I'm no gentleman

And 'personal issue' is trending