EricSmallz:


This is not true. Maybe you downloaded a different version of the app. I use android phone and here is how mine looks

I downloaded the wrong App then. Thanks

tottdekunle:


This is how mine looked like… Downloaded from Apple store (iOS).
But I guess the iOS version is different from the Android version.

Ooh! That's where the problem is. It was a poor approach from their end as it appears they have a different App created for iOS and Android, the later version is what seems underdeveloped which is where I fall under.

Zzyy:


Yeah bro I tried sending 1000 to d account earlier today but d money bounced back but I retried after ur comment and it went but I got no alert.

It might be network delay, you should receive alert, all things been equal. Moreover, you can check your balance using their USSD code of *5757# while you follow the pop-up menus

tottdekunle:


Just click on Create Account on the app.
Create account using ur BVN and Date of birth.
After that u will upload a passport photograph and fill the necessary information needed on the app.

It's like I downloaded a different App cos nothing like Create Account on the one I downloaded. Picture attached

Zzyy:


I have d account number just dat it hasn't been validated I visited dier branch today dey said dey are having network problem dat dey will fix it

Try send a token into the account, with that, you get to know if it has been validated or not. I used the USSD code to open mine too, and I did send #100 into it from a different a/c after receiving message containing my a/c no, and I did received credit alert of the value immediately which tells d a/c is up and running.

sdhusayni:
Pls will d account b able to contain 250k without going to d bank to update it due to network issues in d bank

Sure, except that one might not be able to withdraw it until one go to upgrade it.

tottdekunle:
Hello my people,
Do I still need to go to the bank at this stage??
I have submitted my offer letter too.

Biko, how did you sign up on the App cos the one I downloaded was only showing sign-in which I don't know what the username and password ought to be?

I suggest u exercise some little more patience. Don't conclude yet, based on your narration it appear real and convincing enough, albeit, ur due diligence. Keep trying to keep in touch and be optimistic.

I ain't surprise Ifeoma died cos Op already gave d hint right from start, just shocked about how it came to play. My thought ever since Op hinted about it was that, it would be a natural death or accident, not knowing how it happened was how she gonna lost her life. So sad and painful. The only offence she committed in those scenery was loving Op, she couldn't help, but love him genuinely. Love at times make one do crazy and dumb things one wouldn't have done, all things been equal.

Just as someone rightly pointed out, the genesis of the whole shenanigans was poor parenting. Imagine, not only Op, but also his elder ones were into those vices. Imagine Ifeoma Dad sponsoring his daughter to go meet an acclaimed boyfriend, even at the detriment of the unknown mum. Other factors might contribute, but parental factors plus environment are the bedrock of those predicament.

I can only pray Op find peace he seek. Only God is in position to judge or condemn anyone, not human.

Happy Birthday Chief. Many happy returns in good health and wealth. Keep flourishing sir.

Whether ur act was wrong or right, the deed has been done already. U can't undo it. It's normal ur brother felt the way he did, that's being sentimental in his own part, hence, guilt tripping u, likewise it's normal the way u now feel i.e. feeling guilty, most people would do. At times we do things, thinking it's the right and normal thing to do, not until someone observe and point our attention to why such act of ours isn't fair, that is when we tend to now see it from their point of view and agree with them, but such realization could only be put to use some other time, it's no longer valid on the subject matter. That's just the situation you are in.

Just talk the affected individuals, ur brother especially into reason why u did what u did, if the circumstances that surrounded the said property was different, u might not need to, but based on what u narrated, u need to so as not to look like an ingrate.

Stargurl20:

I'm not oppressed by anyone. Even if there are in gold. I'm just wondering what being the good gurl has gotten me so far. Nothing. Whereas the so called wild gurls are doing perfectly. In fact, I've come to realize thatost guys just come to the public to rant they desire good gurls where as deep down it's the bad ones they want...
Being a good gurl in this Nigeria is of no single value

That's where u got it wrong. Nothing like wild girl doing perfectly well, maybe based on your isolated experience sha. Moreover, that's what u conditioned ur mind 2 believe, ur suppose Reality. Good or bad is of the heart which is open 2 God alone, as per we human perspective, they (good or bad) are subjective. What u view as bad in someone might appear good to me, that doesn't mean either of us are wrong with such thought, just that our definition of both terms varies contextually.

Life isn't always Black & White, at times, it's a Shade of Grey.

Everything in life is based on luck and destiny. The phrase, 'Bad thing happened to good people while good thing happen to bad people' was probably coined by an individual of myopic thought.

Just as the saying, 'If Education Is Expensive, Try Ignorance'. If you think being modest (or good in your terms) is not favourable, you may just give the other way round a shot, so as to see and experience things yourself.

My one cent.

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ststyreal:
Uncle Ignatius, please don't follow some childish advice of some people who don't know or understand what marriage is all about. No one is perfect and each of us react to things differently. She is angry and may not have gotten it right by blocking you but trust me, when she is calm, she will unblock you herself and also call you. Please, just laugh over her action, and make light the misunderstanding and get your home back to it's peaceful state. When the dust is settled, call her attention to this blocking issue and let her know it isn't the best. When I was newly married, I usually keep malice with hubby whenever he offends me but now, I don't do such anymore, I told my self recently that I was really childish then.... Maturity is a gradual process in marriage, please, don't permanently block her like some advice... You are the head of the family and God expects you to love your wife as he loves the church. Forgive her in advance please..
... We women dey get scoi scoi for head sometimes. God bless you and grant you more wisdom and patience to sail this married life happily in Jesus name amennnnn

@Op, here is the solution to your predicament.

GeneralKoko:
Good day Nairalanders!
I don't know if anyone has passed through this but I really don't how to make firm decisions. I don't know if I'll attribute it to lack of boldness, lack of gut or fear.
In cases where I should say an outright NO, I'll end up saying maybe or just going with the flow. This has gotten me into deep shit at the moment. I don't just know how to be brave ND bold or something. It's really getting me exhausted.
I also think I give too much respect to what others think or feel about me. I don't just know, I'm a people pleaser in a lot of cases . There are lots of people I should have cut off but no!! They're are still lurking around because I can't tell them how I truly feel.
I just tire!!! I need help.

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique Roctation farano please front page

You are probably an empath, and should that be the case, there is little or nothing you can do about it than to learn to live with it.

Guys, should we tell him?

Sometimes I just wish NL could be like Facebook, where we get to react to post using emoji without having to comment under such post. Post like this is what do bring such to mind..

Just as someone rightly said under a thread here, 'Live right, so that people will not misinterprete your misfortune to be the nemesis of your bad act'. This is just what is happening in your life presently.

The cause of your misfortune might not be from the sex you had with her, perhaps, it is, but could still be coincidence, and since it happens, yourself and others would keep nursing the idea of the sex (bad act) you had with her being the cause. All in all, you need God factor, that's if you believe in Him atleast.

It's obvious he doesn't love you. He probably missed the goodies that comes with him dating you and probably sex with you. He's just probably trying to manipulate you by keeping you to himself while he keep on philandering with other ladies, knowing you love him more, so wanna capitalize on it. Remember, the one who has more control in relationship is the one whose love and commitment is less. The foundation of your relationship with him was even build on lies, so don't expect something good from such.

Meanwhile, just focus on being the better version of yourself for now, don't rush into any new relationship. Take your time to heal completely as time heals all wound. Rushing into a new relationship with the thought that it might let you overcome the feelings you have for him faster would only get things worst as the new guy would be the one to bear the rot. So, take your time.

I'm AA, O+ too. I treat malaria once or twice a year. It has become a yearly routine for me that I now anticipate it..lol!

Do you have the one for PC cos this appear to be Android version?

Dear Op, I really don't know how best to encourage or motivate you, but will like to leave you to the hand of a quote from Tyrion Lanister in the movie, GOT, he said and I quote, "Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you."

aklion:
This topic get volume. I don suffer the matter tired. Now I wan begin de ruthless but anytime I start I de get this guilt within...

Sadly, I'm with u on this.

Oga Op, u no try at all o. As mata be so, na 2 wake up 2 reality remain. Stop playing the blame game. The lady never impregnated herself, but you.

Once is a mistake, twice is no longer a mistake, but an habit. Since, that's what you've chosen for yourself, so it's best you deal with it.

If you are expecting someone to advise you leave the girl to bear the cross you are meant to both carry, you must be delusional cos you can't run more than your shadow.

You never thought about your condition before procreating, now doing so afterward.. What a misplaced priority!

Ur uncle Accounts or BVN has been compromised. He probably clicked some links or unknowingly gave out some of his sensitive info.

All in all, let him visit those banks, but stand his ground that he never do any of what I earlier guess cos they (Banks) would try to convince him to admit it, and should he do, bye bye to his money as Banks wouldn't take the matter serious owning to the fact that, the fraudulent acts was from his end, but should it stand his ground, they could help out, even thou chances of him recovering the money is very slim, the process is even tedious and time consuming, plus he will have to seek the service of a good lawyer to make those Banks cooperate in the recovery.

Is the Game Pad for the FIFA football game also for sale? If Yes, how much?

@Op, in case you don't know what RED FLAG mean or stands for, that's it staring at your face. All what you narrated about her the way she's handling the situation are enough red flag. You need no soothsayer to spell it out to you. Once a lady initiated a breakup, especially based on flimsy reason, just know that's the end of such relationship regardless of whether or not you both later reconcile, experience have taught me so. Her gibberish about her sister not aware bla bla bla alone should even alert you about her immature or not feeling your vibe acts, not to talk of her raising issue of you being older than her with 5years, like seriously? Was it suppose to be the other way round ni? Lol! All her excuses, if true based on your narration, are so childish and flimsy. Just ghost and let go of her. There is tendency for her to come back, and when that happen, it's now left in your arsenal to do whatever please you, but for me, wouldn't take her serious again cos I wouldn't keep up with someone with those kind of reasonings.
Meanwhile, some relationship are better off as FRIENDSHIP. So, move on already, and not have a misplace of priority. Your Master programme and every other personal development first no matter what.

@Op, ironically, this is how politics plays out. He who comes to equity must come with clean hands, but this, most times don't apply in politics. When you unapologetically condemn people in power, it's cos you haven't gotten close to it before, hence, the criticism. There are situations you would find yourself doing what you wouldn't have done under normal circumstances, but unfortunately, circumstances just have a way of shaping our acts. That's why as human, we shouldn't be quick to judge or condemn others cos we know not what they must have gone through or what actually influenced their decisions.

All the same, you don't have to be hard on yourself, shit happen, we aren't all perfect, and don't think you can be the Messiah in an already messed up and corrupted country. Just do your do in the way you felt is right. It ain't changing any moment, we can only hope it does.

Interested, but distance seems to be a barrier

Ladyhippolyta88:


I am not irresponsible and immature.

Everyone to their beliefs, I believe in it and will never call it nonsense because I understand and appreciates its value astrology is as old as time.

People are good at condemning what they don't understand and it is not stupid because you say so.

I for one definitely relies on astrology for many things including a life partner and it has been working very well for me

Don't mind him jare. Most people are quick to condemn anything that doesn't go inline with their perspective or believe which is myopic.

I for one also share belief on the Astrology stuff as it has personally help me discover my true self and how I naturally acts. It was like someone somewhere narrating me as if he or she actually know me as it so align.

Meanwhile, I've developed a conscious act to put it to use while choosing a life partner. As a #Cancer, I'm on the look out for a fellow Water sign (Pisces and Scorpion) or maybe Taurus which is an Earth sign, but my wish is for a #Pisces.

BigFrog:
Thanks for all your advices, I consulted my friend. And he told me the only thing I can do for him is to tell him to find someone that will use his name and document to sign and stand for him. But he is free to use the shop. I will allow them to use the shop but not my documents and name will be in it.

I saw him today and told him exactly that. Let him find someone to stand for him and let them person pretend to have the shop.

That's still fair. Even if he defaulted and they (Lapo) choose 2 storm ur shop, they would have no case with u, but the one who choose 2 stand as surety for ur landlord.

BigFrog:
Mod and seun,

Please I don't want this thread on the front page for privacy reasons. Please kindly respect this act before any further decision is taking without my notice.


Here is the story. I rented a shop I am still nurturing. I haven't made money in the said shop compaire to money I keep spending for maintainance. Only hoping one day everything will get better if not I will have to pack out.

Now my landlord called me to discuss some important issue which I obliged.

He told me he is trying to get a loan from Lapo Microfinance Firm. And they required two guarantor with operating business like shop which they will come to visit and make confirmation which the guarantor will agree and confirm to have sign the document.

He said he already told them that he has land and document for Collateral. Which they refuse as they only want a business premises. He said he doesn't want people to know that he want to collect the loan and the loan is for business purposes. Because of the talk and the news will spread that he is collecting loan. He said because I am calm and matures that why he is telling me. Those kind thing and I should help him I have nothing to fear or worry.

He said he will be servicing the loan every week for 6 months and he was sure of paying as it's just half a million. He was so confident of paying it. Of which I know he cannot run away because of half a million.

But I don't just understand the implications of such loan. What if he failed to service the loan will th loan firm come for me? I was just thinking it will be only if he run away that when they will come for me because I don't understand this Microfinance loan.

I need advice as I need to see in less that 24 hours time

Dear Op, please, on no account should u stand as guarantor or surety for anyone, especially when money is involve, even for normal oaths form, if the person isn't ur family which u could vouch for, never fill in that guarantorship post.

Let him (ur landlord) go look for his family members to stand for him. Many borrow with true intention of paying back, leaving out the fact that, they aren't in control of all variables involve, circumstances beyond their control may arise, hence, causing them to default.

When people need ur help over a situation, they act the #puppy way, looking all calm and pitiable, but after such help must have been rendered, they become a #tiger u wouldn't be able to face. Biko, don't dare take panado over someone else's headache.