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Sports / Re: Frank Lampard To Become Chelsea's 'caretaker' Manager by Obalola4: 10:24pm On Apr 05, 2023
Chelsick!!!!

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Family / Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Obalola4: 7:03pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247 is full of wisdom! Shalom.

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Education / Re: Teacher Dances With Her Students On Assembly Ground, Netizens Hail Her As Video by Obalola4: 6:31pm On Nov 07, 2022
How come nobody is talking about those young SA babes. Some of them are riped for chopping I think.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Paul Rusesabagina (Hotel Rwanda Hero) Sentenced To 25 Years In Prison by Obalola4: 6:52pm On Apr 04, 2022
Why was he jailed

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Education / Re: Grammarians Please I Need Help In This Sentence by Obalola4: 8:10pm On Apr 02, 2022
This thing is simple brother.

Just change the word redesign with another meaning. Redesignation means "Change....* So, I believe this should be more apt in that context.

Request for the redesignation of my appointment to administrative staff.

Cheers! I scored A1 in English..lol!
Politics / Re: Customs Intercepts Drones, Military Uniforms, Others In Lagos (Pictures) by Obalola4: 6:30pm On Mar 30, 2022
Cant they show Nigerians the face of the person who was caught bringing them in. Is it not the same Airport where NDLEA catches drug dealers and we see their faces carrry EFCC placard on social media. Show us the face of the person or the video when interrogating these enemies of Nigeria.
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Ghana: 2022 World Cup Qualifier (1 - 1) On 29th March 2022 by Obalola4: 7:01pm On Mar 29, 2022
That guy at the left back needs to be substituted asap. He lacks confidence!
Family / Re: Woman In Tears As She Reunites With Mentally Challenged Son Who Went Missing (vi by Obalola4: 3:03pm On Feb 04, 2022
I shed tears while watching this. It's heart touching. May God completely heal the him and make him a proud son to his parent.

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Sports / Re: Iheanacho & Onyekuru Engage In A Play Fight In Cameroon (Photos, Video) by Obalola4: 5:22pm On Jan 10, 2022
Instead of them to focus on the matches they become too playful
Education / Re: Please How Do I Solve These Difficult Primary 4 QR Questions (pictures) by Obalola4: 11:13am On Jan 08, 2022
I wouldn't know how my brain has never failed me blasting all the kids quantitative and verbal reasoning. I always find them easy. My son likes them too. I guess it's a gift having part of ones brain being sharp grasping those stuffs.
Family / Re: Cyril George Carsten: Don't Be Nice To Your Mother-In-Law, She Isn't Your Friend by Obalola4: 7:47am On Dec 16, 2021
Some stupid wives who are lucky not have mother inlaws still misbehave in the marriage.
Nairaland / General / Re: What Calms You Down Whenever You Are Angry? by Obalola4: 6:52am On Dec 15, 2021
For me....sex
Food / Re: How Much Is A Bag Of Sachet Water In Your Area? by Obalola4: 5:21am On Dec 02, 2021
N150 @ Ogba, Lagos.
Family / Re: How To Avoid Family Disputes When One Dies by Obalola4: 11:39am On Nov 07, 2021
I like the part where the writer said one should make sure the kids of other families' members are uplifted. That's one of my philosophies. It's very important.
Health / Re: How Do I Get Rid Of My Keloids? by Obalola4: 4:10pm On Sep 12, 2021
A brother treated his own by taking steroid injection in the affected area. It will disappear fast
Health / Re: What Do You Do With The Placenta After Baby Delivery? by Obalola4: 4:59pm On Sep 10, 2021
Hospitals in USA break it into pieces and flushed it away. This is what I have experienced on two ocassions for my kids since I can't be bringing same to 9ja.

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Politics / Re: Compendium Of Pmb's Ongoing & Completed Projects & Policy Successes In S/E by Obalola4: 6:18pm On Sep 07, 2021
You're greatful but not grateful!!!
Foreign Affairs / Re: China Flies 19 Nuke Bombers and Fighter Jets Into Taiwan Air Space (Pix) by Obalola4: 6:48pm On Sep 06, 2021
I don't think USA under Biden is weak or will be. I'm sure his administration intentionally and hastily withdrawn from places like Afghanistan in a bid to focus more by strengthening the country and stop wastages of their arsenals, military apparatus and financial resources. They are very calculative and getting stronger quitely without making noise.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Heavy Gunfire At Guinea Presidential Palace. Military Coup Ongoing (Video) by Obalola4: 8:01pm On Sep 05, 2021
Eeeeya, this coup made me remember this novel...Camara Laye...African Child
Family / Re: Deji Adeyanju: Churches Should Make DNA Test Mandatory For Child Dedication by Obalola4: 3:08pm On Sep 05, 2021
If it is made a national policy, then the price will surely come down. This will help in a long way to safe many souls. Women cheat much more than men and many bastards are being nutured on daily basis.

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Celebrities / Re: Annie Idibia Drags 2Face Idibia On Instagram Over One Of His Baby Mamas by Obalola4: 1:24am On Sep 03, 2021
I'm sure same woman will be having affairs with other men. Trust nobody!!! I'm telling you! Everyone is a thief!

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Family / Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Obalola4: 9:40am On Jul 29, 2021
This is the real fact. It is not only a lady raised by a single parent, but a lady whose mother is the one controlling their home. It's important one does his research so deeply. Find out why she wants to marry you!

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Religion / Re: The Sack Letter Of Pastors In Winners Chapel Over 'Poor Church Growth' (Photo) by Obalola4: 8:31am On Jul 19, 2021
Over to Daddy Freeze!!!

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Romance / Re: Heartbreak: Lady Weeps As She Asks Guys What They Want From Relationships by Obalola4: 3:19pm On Jul 04, 2021
Iwa Lewa....Good Character and respect. Simple as ABC!!!
Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Obalola4: 11:14pm On Jun 30, 2021
grin
flyca:

Okay so I read this part and decided to add more.
Wait o, you have been supporting him financially and he still had guts to cheat? How can a broke man who has being failing in this basic family responsibility still have ere.ction? undecided

I need you to think: How can you protect your kids? Where are your relatives? Parents? Can you hand over your kids to some trusted adult in the meantime?

If yes, take them away and get ready for drama.
Do you have any crush? Maybe from secondary school or university? If yes.... good!

Stop sobbing or crying, he is not responding to it. Start a chat with someone from your past, start with a neutral chat. School life, lectures, school uniform, teachers, life after school, church, religion, politics etc. Allow him to occupy you in the meantime. Laugh, have fun. Ignore oga and reconnect with your past. Be cheerful at home, keep up with your wife duties, call your kids and stay connected with them. Ignore oga totally. If you have been dropping money for him, STOP! Pamper yourself. If you have extra cash, buy a luxury product for yourself! And excuse me, you may be needing your precious car more often than usual undecided Stop flying bikes, it's not sexy! And you since you will be wearing high heel shoes, it's not convinent, not anymore! wink

Now, how he reacts will direct you, your next moves, and most importantly, will direct how deep the connection goes. If he is still unconcerned, increase tempo, move to gear 2. Fix a date. Again, still keep it as neutral as possible. Meet him at Mr Biggs or Tantalizers. Go with one of your kids (the one that will tell Daddy that “Uncle Sam” bought him ice cream tongue)! Lol.

Lemme know when you get to gear 4 cheesy

Whatever you do, do not leave your matrimonial home for any baskard slay queen! Na him go run commot. Keep that recording very safe too. We die dia!

Hey, it's just an advice. You must not follow it!

This is the husband. All of you are Mumu. Because she didn't tell you what she did. Because of you people's advices, the home is broken �
Crime / Re: Delta Herbalist Arrested With Two Human Skulls (Pictures) by Obalola4: 1:35pm On Jun 30, 2021
I hope the skull in his left hand isn't his son's skull...the skull looks so much like the man.
Education / Re: UNILAG Tests It's Zero Emission Car Around The Campus (Photos) by Obalola4: 9:50am On Jun 28, 2021
They want to quickly put out something on social media to correct the bad impression caused by Chindinma. Issokay!

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Politics / Re: Judicial Workers Call Off Strike by Obalola4: 7:22pm On Jun 09, 2021
Ok. Lets go revisit Baba Ijesha saga.
Crime / Re: Police Arrest ATM Cards Fraudster In Katsina (Photo) by Obalola4: 2:53pm On Jun 02, 2021
Are you trying to exaggerate on the amount stolen by the bastard so far or it's an oversight? Amount in words is different from that of figure.
Family / Re: Cutting The Connection Between My Wife And Her Male Besty by Obalola4: 11:48pm On May 25, 2021
Oga, be very instructive and tell her to cut the relationship with her male friend. They have had intimate relationship before. Warned her seriously. No time!

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Family / Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Obalola4: 5:02pm On Apr 19, 2021
I came across this confession today on my counseling table so I thought I should share.

DIVORCED SINGLE MOM WROTE;

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my
marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than me.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are always teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE.

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