₦airaland Forum

Mindlog:
Freedom to do what?

Freedom to be rascals

tsdarkside:
whites are freakin evil....go find out yourself....
wait a minute....why am i even defendin myself here....??

i dont even care....!!

Says a person who hasn’t left the shores of Nigeria, and gets all his information from the internet.

tsdarkside:
kiki....funny part is they dont stay long toghether....
i was arguein with a igbo guy yesterday i told him that relationships between blacks and whites doesnt work,he called me foolish man....
kiki....after whites show you their real face you will run away yourself....
today he is with a black woman toghether with over 4 kids....

Because Nigerian wives are if not the most mistreated wives in the world. They can endure and take shit to stay in their marriage but white women no go tolerate such.
Again, Most Naija men get excessive ego wey be say na only Naija women fit tolerate them.
But from observation, I don’t think the whites are evil. If you want find love wey be say, woman go love you for who you are and not money, and stay loyal, you go easily find am among oyinbo women.
Again, women no dey think things logically like men, so if you wan marry, remember say, na only one eye them dey take marry. If you want any marriage to last. Meaning you go overlook so many things

greatopec:
Good day Nairalanders
I will be 40 on Oct 19 this year and I am scared the kind of life I have always desired may not be
achievable. Let me list these things that worries me so that you can probably advise me or assist me in achieving any of them.
1) By 40 I had wished I will be living in my house with cars in my garage
Current situation- I am a salary earner who eagerly waits for the salary to drop before my family can eat conveniently every month.
2)I love cars and driving. Was thinking of getting a good car for Uber business.
Current situation- I have not been able to gather enough money to buy a car for Uber or personal use.
3)Seeking greener pasture abroad.
Current situation- I have not been able to have enough disposable income to even get a passport to start with in the first place.
4)Self development. I had interest in programming so I decided to learn coding and all that. I started with free code camp and also this thread by iyenimofe on nairaland has been so helpful https://www.nairaland.com/1383359/learn-web-design-live-nairaland/6#17571611
The issue I have progressing is that of enough data subscription to watch more tutorials.
5)Acquisition of at least Masters.
I have a passion for learning and self development but I struggled to have my HND with distinction. Gathering enough funds to start my masters program has been an uphill task.

Little about my background
I am an HND graduate
I have a sister who am responsible for also.
I have a wife and two kids.
I work 8-5weekdays

Sorry Mr man. The greatest undoing for young Nigerians is going to the university to waste their precious time and come out to be paid peanut as salary.
Now, the way out is to learn a very lucrative skills and quit that stupid thing you call a job, once you are settled in your new skills.
I wish many young Nigerians will stop wasting their time going to school and start learning skills early.
Unless you go for medical doctor, I see no reason going to the university in Nigeria.
Sorry, be focused don’t give up

Matrix137:
Dear Nairalanders, so I was born in Nigeria and have lived all my life in this country till this moment ( I'm 22 now). However, my aunt based in United States has offered to bring me to the country. Processing my documents already.

However I'm scared I may put me or her family in trouble when I get there cos America is a civilized country and I'm used to the crude ways and behaviors here which is already part of me and will likely replicate them in America which will surely put me in trouble with the law.

Behaviors like urination on the streets, throwing garbage on the road and many uncivilized behaviors too numerous to mention. So please how do I Behave myself over there. Thanks for reading.

Don’t be afraid village man, you will be fine. 100% of Nigeria, both educated and illiterate who have only lived their lives in Nigeria will be just like you village man when they move to developed countries because Nigeria is a village forest. Just observe people over time you will start behaving well.
But, you must behave well here when you come, if you urinate for street, na jail straight 😂

TemplarLandry:
Nigeria is making progress. Skrrr.

Bunch of clowns 🤡. I hope say them get 24 hours electricity and charging stations.

Oga Nigeria is not making any progress. They are retrogressing.

BOLATINUBU01:
Abeg leave this guy, make he dey go jare, he must have learnt his lesson

Don’t mind that stupid Buhari. Very stupid man whose only strength lies in wickedness.
Nigeria has tons of problems, never was he stern and serious in solving one, rather he chose to put all his energy on hating a particular tribe and making life miserable for Nigerians.

If he had taken out this seriousness and energy he puts towards Kanu to at least fixing just light in that damn country, things would have been different.

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

First, strong word need to be used on dumb men like you whose dick always decide for them.

You would have put that little angel first by making sure you dated and see if a woman you wanted to marry love your kid.
Now, know this. That little angel needs love and affection to grow into a better woman. It’s your responsibility to love and protect her.
You have made the mistake, now, sometimes some women need a strong action to put them on check.
You need a strong action to put her on check, it might be difficult, but it’s a reality.
Your daughter is your 🩸 blood and your sole responsibility, but your wife is not your blood.

iLoveYouToo:
It’s you that needs help. The OP asked for deliverance that’s why MFM was suggested.

If I ask for where to buy comdoms would you direct me to a garri seller?

So if person want commit suicide and ask for rope. U go give am naa, since na rope him ask for?

Naija which way.

IyaebeTheGreat:
What an Iyaebe sees while sleeping, you can't see it if you climb the highest mountain

That’s the point. Anyways wetin concern me. Make una continue with una spiritual brouhaha. While the rest of the world moves on and leave una behind.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Hmm this is deep. Go to MFM

😂 MFM na hospital abi na therapist??

Nigeria still dey 1 billion years backward.

Person get problem wey need medical solution u dey advise am make him go church dey pray. Come on, even Apostle Peter Advised Timothy to take alcohol occasionally for him stomach problem.
And Bible talk say “faith without work is dead.”
All those things una dey see as spiritual problem, na problems wey suppose need medical attention not prayers

jumper524:
Property worth 139million naira, is that too much for a man like keyamo to afford?

Yes. It is. Even here in America, most people don’t buy big properties like house, land, cars, upfront because you have many other bills to pay. Ask yourself, how many SANS who are not politicians have houses in America. Just a few legit businessmen in Nigeria afford that. It’s only politicians who have stolen the country dry that buy houses in the US or Europe like say na pure water them dey buy.
Sometimes I wish you guys will take out Ethnicity and Religion aside and start thinking logically and making decisions based on logics.
Now digest this, these politicians you always defend and support, have all their kids abroad, go to hospitals abroad, spend holidays abroad, buys houses abroad and probably retire abroad, even buhari said he might retire in Niger 🇳🇪 republic. And they will make you guys believe that they are performing so well for Nigeria.
They don’t believe in Nigeria and know deep down they are messing the country up, hence abroad is preferred by them.
Look at you defending this one now.
No wonder they treat you guys like animals and get away with everything, yet una go still come dey support them.
It’s pathetic. Very pathetic.

Mrwhite09:
I am living like i dont have a working immune system, i fall sick regularly like every week. last week i was on malaria drugs and antibiotic, i havent finished it then again yesterday i fall sick again nd they inject me with another malaria drug and give me another antibiotic.

i am tired of taking these poisons i feel like they hv started affecting my liver, i am very vulnerable to viruses and bacterias whenever a person cough to my face the following day i will fall sick.

i dont have hiv as i did the test several times all negative, but i suspect i have cancer cux of the presence of a swollen lymph node on my neck. guys im truly tired and depressed i cant hustle normally because of my condition please if you know anything that can boost my immunity tell me. because of my condition i know a lots of antibiotics like cipro,amoxyl,doxycline,clarithromycin,azithromycin e.t.c i dont know why these doctors never get tired of prescribing these drugs to me. i live constanly with a stomach discomfort, fever, flu, colds nd catarh there is no any known ulcer meds that i hvnt take in my life but i am still thesame. its depressing me nd making me suicidal. i dont need money from anyone i just need help from people that went through thesame situation or people that know of a solution.

There was a time someone cough on me i spent complete 2weeks sick.

Nigeria healthcare system is crap. The doctors are becoming dumb. Antibiotics kills your immune systems and all the healthy bacteria in your gut and stomach thereby making you vulnerable to bacterial and infections. Stop taking antibiotic for everything.
Most times people just suffer from common virus like cold etc, which the body should be allowed to fight on its own, and you be free in two weeks. But Naija doctors and hospital will tell you it’s malaria or typhoid. And pump your system with antibiotic thereby killing your immune system the more.
Avoid antibiotic as much as you can
As for your swollen lymph, it could be a virus, infection but check with a doctor maybe ENT.
Probiotic at least 10 billion whatever they call it can help your gut and replace the damage done by antibiotic

DRPAIT123:
You got the dog's breed wrong, it's actually Boerboel not boa bull.
It's a serious case, to some of us who happen to be passionate animal lovers, dogs are not just mere creatures that can be discarded at will. There is a high tendency for some people to have a strong bond with their furbabies and it's completely normal.
Tell your man that you should start feeding the dog (with his supervision of course). Dogs tend to get close to whoever is giving them good care and attention. It won't take too long before the dog stops getting territorial around you.

Forget about feeding. Everything for. Naija dey vex, humans, animals, dogs, mosquitos. 😂

In the US no matter how big and scary a dog is, when you as a stranger walks into the house, just call the dog by their name, then go begin happy come they lick you.

But for Naija, for where. Everything and everybody is frustrated. 😂

JohnBullMySon:
Feels weird but It's actually nice to be prepared beforehand. Whenever you feel you're getting consumed in life, take a trip there and reflect.

Meanwhile, what of Tinubu's own? 😏 Asking for a friend.

Stupid politician. And you will think, they will have sense and do the right thing by making a good name for themselves and use the resources to better the lives of people since they won’t be here forever. No they won’t. They keep stealing and grabbing power like say, tomorrow no dey.
Honestly African politicians are very stupid on another level.

descarado:
He is anxious cos he always fail.
His hormone is low naturally.
Some men are like that. In Hindu religion, they become monks cos they can stay years without sex.
And our culture frown at a man that want to stay single.

That’s why I said, let him stay with the girl for at least a week, let’s see if f that will happen throughout the week.

balo777:
First off, the sucide was a joke. I would never do such. But I really need help What is a man without his dick?

I'll start from the beginning.

As a child, I used to be very anxious, it's even worse now that I'm a grown man. My anxiety can be so bad that my heart will be beating super fast like I want to die. This even happens when I'm with a woman, or when my woman tell me she's coming on so-so-so date. I've tried breathing technique but it doesn't work.

When I wake up in the morning, I get normal erection, say thirty minutes, after urinating. But when I'm with a woman, I can't perform. The only time I get effortless erection is in the morning. Every other period it's not so easy, and especially before sex.

I used to rely on drugs to help me. But one day, even Viagra failed me. Although, the anxiety was through the roof on that day and I had weak erection that can't penetrate. But when she left, after some hours, my anxiety level went down again. This happens with every girl. I usually don't have sex drive, in fact, it's only when I wake up I do.

I've failed my girlfriend. Although she's been understanding and told me she'll stay if I can find a solution to this.

From test to medicine, what can I do?

Just get a girl, explain or pretend to be sick and stay with her for days or weeks and see if the anxiety will stop one day the more you get comfortable around her.

Divoc19:
Tinubu is not Buhari.

So what’s the difference?

😂

Him don disappear for almost a month now for medicals. A president-elect. And who is going to be running his government when he disappears like this, when he becomes president?
Your guess is correct, vulture and scavengers will be running the show anytime he disappears from Aso Rock

Nigeria will surely miss Buhari

Divoc19:
Let them bring it on. We are ready for anything . Am optimistic about this new government though

Na only Nigerians go wan fly airplane, then come dey go motor park to wait for him flight: and when him flight no show, him go begin pray to God to bring him plane come motor park.

Keep being optimistic about Tinibu, it’s good.

You only expect a different result when you do things differently.

Patented:
when i see roads like this and those that are worse my heart breaks. there is wickedness in the hearts of our leaders cos many have passed and ignored the road. from councilors to LGA Chairmen, to State house of assembly members, to House of rep members, to Senators, to Governors, all the way up to presido. between all these people no one deemed it fit to fix the road. same plays out in many communities, there are communities without power or some that have not seen power in years adn they have all these leaders coming from or responsible for them.

walahi we are a wicked bunch.

You have said it all. That’s just the difference between whites and blacks. Wickedness is in born in blacks .

EriMma1:
Money go, woman go. When I was warning you guys in my post that a woman needs to be taken care of if you want your marriage to last, some empty skull said I too like men matter. Now see.

This skill is what you ought to have learnt first, then build your financial security before talking about marriage but You men like putting the cart before the horse.

Number 2, marriage is not for children. Forget the general opinion that it's better to marry a younger girl. mature ladies are still far better in terms of managing hard times and handling tough situations unlike your 23 yr old who has not been through lifes hurdles or surmounted challenges on her own. Prolly she just moved in with you from her parents house where everything is being done for her.

As long as you're still broke and can't meet her needs yet, no amount of begging will make her come back cos that was why she left in the first place.

Focus and complete your skill training. Make sure you learn it very well and start sourcing for jobs.. Also keep looking for a regular job to sustain in the meantime. Forget about her but try to send upkeep for your child

If you hammer tomorrow, look for a mature lady and marry.

All this 20s ladies without tangible source of income rushing into marriage with average Nigeria guys, I pity all of you. You people think marriage is childs play. Make una dey play.

But Bill Gate wife leave am. Jeff Bezos wife leave am, na lack of money make them leave too?
These are amongst the 4 Richest men in the world.
What you said is called, fallacy of generalization.
There are still many good women who are not all about money, same as good men who are not all about sex.

doyin01:
Some Of you must think everyone lives in a dead village like you...

Which America are you talking about ?? The same America among the highest bitcoin users and apple-pay users ??

I will still remind you. Wetin elder sit down see, small pikin even when he climbed the tallest tree in the world, him no go see am

trappatoni:
Chai....I really pity you...buh you know what...it's not late to learn new skills for survival....for how long will you do that while young ones in their 20s are making it...you're not here by chance...open your mind and eyes...if you know the number of projects coming up in the industry...especially AI's ...still SMH for you sha

I will still remind you. Wetin elder sit down see, small pikin even when he climbed the tallest tree in the world, him no go see am

trappatoni:
Lol...It's your level of information bro...we're living in the connected revolution now.......open your mind..

I will still remind you. Wetin elder sit down see, small pikin even when he climbed the tallest tree in the world, him no go see am.

G00DHardDick:
Is everything ok with you son? Because I don't understand what you're saying.
If the woman was so rich why then was she demanding for 50% of hakimi's properties? Awon olosho gold digger. Hakimi was way smarter than the gold digger. E pain you abi?

Now her so-called money is going to be divided and shared between the both of them. What more could be painful than that? Men are wiser now. We're the prize to be won.

Lol. We don see where una wisdom carry una dey go.
We go see how it turns out.

Because she has his two sons, and it’s his responsibility to pay the bills of his sons.
African men dey always shout them wise, yet they are the most backward set of human and country in the world.
Where una wisdom dey?

G00DHardDick:
Is everything ok with you son? Because I don't understand what you're saying.
If the woman was so rich why then was she demanding for 50% of hakimi's properties? Awon olosho gold digger. Hakimi was way smarter than the gold digger. E pain you abi?

Now her so-called money is going to be divided and shared between the both of them. What more could be painful than that? Men are wiser now. We're the prize to be won.

Lol. We don see where una wisdom carry una dey go.
We go see how it turns out.

G00DHardDick:
It is far better to be a boy and preserve your wealth than to be a man and lose your destiny just like Eboue. I'll rather remain a boy 100%

My guy forget. Google is your friend, that woman be amongst richest Spanish actress. She was the rich one when they met, Hakimi was the gold digger. He has nothing when she met him. Besides she is not asking about all his wealth, just asking a compensation from him, because she knew what she contributed in his life to see him where he is now. Hakimi is 24, still has more 10 years in his career, so no way he go suffer.
The other time I said something about Africa and wickedness and everyday, you guys keep proving me right. Everything about them is “I go suffer you”
European rich men dey divorce all the time and them they always give their wife a chunk of their wealth, so as to take care of their kids, because them hate to see people suffer.
But for Africans, Lai lai, “them want suffer you”
That’s why African region is a mess, everybody wants everybody to suffer. 😂

G00DHardDick:
Damn!

Premium times should also write to USA govt to give more details on Tinubu's drug case in Chicago, that is a more serious case!

Meanwhile, I must salute comrade Hakimi for educating over 4billion men worldwide on willing their properties to their mothers. This is wisdom personified. Hakimi's status should be built across territories and a public holiday must be declared to celebrate this great comrade. News has it that hakimi's wife properties will now be shared between the both of them. Damn! Hakimi my real niggar!

Oga forget that, Hakimi no follow educate me joor.
Hakimi, na simpleton, and I think because of his moms over control towards a grown man that the wife can’t withstand anymore.
This woman is a rich actress and met Hakimi in 2018 when he was nobody and his salary was nothing. She stayed with him and bore him two beautiful sons.
If you no trust her, don’t marry her because your life dey in her hands. She fit poison him.
Any man wey become successful after marriage, that person marry better woman. Walahi, bad woman go mess your life and your career, ask Mauro Icardi.
Bill gate and Bezos wey divorce and give their wives chunk of their wealth no dey complain and them still dey among richest.

Ireportlive:



Peter and Paul both share a brain, and it seem Paul took the bigger share of the brain during pregnancy . he has been mis yarning since Obi campaign

Am starting to believe the rumors surrounding their Parents death


.

Oga forget that, e be like say na Peter get brain pass. Look at him, him still dey happily married to the woman who loved and bore him kids and gat his back when him be nobody. Look at Paul, person wey scatter him family, come leave very beautiful woman wey bore you 3 beautiful kids and had your back when you had nothing come dey follow one ugly lanky girl when no know how una take start life. Any man wey fit keep him family together, be the real man oo. Ask Yul Edochie what’s up.
Hakimi, na simpleton, and I think because of his moms over control towards a grown man that the wife can’t withstand anymore.
This woman is a rich actress and met Hakimi in 2018 when he was nobody and his salary was nothing. She stayed with him and bore him two beautiful sons.
If you no trust her, don’t marry her because your life dey in her hands. She fit poison him.
Any man wey become successful after marriage, that person marry better woman. Walahi, bad woman go mess your life and your career, ask Mauro Icardi.
Bill Gate and Bezos divorced and gave their wives a chunk of their wealth, still dey among richest men in the world.

lhordspy:
Lol. I will understand Nigeria more by leaving Nigeria to foreign country?

Sometimes i wonder how you people think. Some of you dont even reason before talking or typing. Does that make sense to you?

Imagine saying Nigerians are angry because some set of frustrated citizen who left the country when needed the most, ended up not making it where they japa-ed to. These people do not even vote nor contribute anything to the country. Why should i care about their anger on the country.

That’s the point there. Small thing una go begin anger, curse and get mad. That’s signs of frustrations and depression. Everything they make Nigerians mad. 😂

Oga make una leave with una frustrations, don come vex for me okay.

Nigeria s think it’s normal way of living.

JDistribute:
Say obidients, not Nigerian youths...Obidients are less than 3% of Nigerians. Only 6million voted for Obi, that is less than 2% of our population of 250million. Nigerian youths are not fanatics like Almajiris, Nigerian youths are smart, and won't carry politicians for head like obidients.

Nigerians are so so frustrated. Angry, mean, depressed.

You will only understand the difference when you travel out.
This frustration is building up and it will explode soon.

lhordspy:
'Igbo people' not Nigerian youth. Stop justifying rascality and fascism by generalising it into 'Nigerians'

8m+ people voted Tinubu. The highest of any other presidential candidate at this election.

You will understand Nigerians are so frustrated when you leave Nigeria to Western countries. Nigerians are the angriest, meanest, frustrated, wickedest fellows in the world. Walahi.
Everybody is frustrated. People on the street are boiling with frustration