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@Amconfused. Your situation suit well with human nature. People, especially women, generally tend to misbehave once they notice that they are loved most.

In a relationship, the one that's loved the most, holds the key. I bet if u loved him more, u won't be here typing this. I'm telling u because I know and understand the feeling u are having. The girls I have dated I have felt the same for them too, cause I always make sure I love less.

Listen good to my advice, I have seen a lot in my lifetime. U better hold that guy, experience has personally thought me that good people are actually hard to come by.

The solution to this is, if I knew the guy, i will counsel him to break up with u, inorder to confirm ur love, and give u some serious space. If u come back, then u guys would have a better MUTUAL bond and love, that way, no one could have a monopoly of breakup, then u both will mutually appreciate yourselves.

For me, he's inability to do this yet, is what is giving u this mixed feeling and i fear it might turn out badly for him.

Glad to be here, starting this process this month. I'm doing this for my children to come.

God help me

Nice piece Ubanja, lovely to c u back again.

Looking forward to seeing more!!

Wow. Thanks so much Boss13 for ur logical responds.

We learn everyday, and I'm truly humbled/ marveled at ur wisdom.

You are a logical and realistic person. Truly people like u succeed simple because u let no emotional stuff weigh u down.

Nigerian's capitalist economy doesn't give room for anything other than logic, and in my case, I must use logic in making this very important decision.

Can't tell u enough how much I appreciate ur factual and emotional devoid response.

Thanks once again...

I have a little questions to ask the gurus here though. It has been bothering me for a while now, and I have been pondering on the thoughts...

I have a gf, 4 years relationship, she's an average girl from an average background. The same with me.

My girl is a very good person. Over the years, she has known me so much, and I the same.

Honestly, apart from this financial issue, I honestly have no problem with her. She's a complete wife material.

But I have learnt from my experiences that love truly can only be sustained with money. Many things could have gone sour/wrong in our relationship if I never intervened with MONEY.

The thing is, she's a fresh graduate. Still struggling and looking for a job, but at this time, I have been the one virtually financing this relationship for all these years now.

The only issue right now is that I'm still trying to find a perfect footing for myself. And all these is having a financial implication for me, my savings dwindling.

I really want to marry this girl, once I'm ready, but I fear she might not be financial stable too by then.

I have personally seen my two uncles and a friend go down financially because of the marital choices they made. They are all regretting, but it's already too late. I don't want to make that mistake they made .


If u wia in my shoe, what would u do? Will u give the relationship more time, or break up with her. Cause honestly, the last thing I want to do is to make her waste her time waiting for me...

I really do not need any girl's money, otherwise I won't even be in this relationship for years now. All I want is a financially independent woman. I want the future of my kids to be secured.


Please no emotional answer, just logical and realistic responses.

Thanks.

To be very frank here, I have also noticed this issue too.

I take my mouth hygiene so extremely serious, and take caution to making sure it's always fresh.

Whenever I notice an offensive mouth odor from anyone, I get instantly irritated, it literally shuts down my brain.

In fact, I can't count of how many friends I intentionally distanced myself from, just because of this.

Mine is so extreme, to the extent that I always hoard my breath whenever anyone comes close to me to say anything, especially guys.

Fact is, bad breath is not gender based, but for a truth, for some strange reason, I have personally experienced that it's more rampant with guys, than girls.

This is a wake up call to guys, we must continue to take hygiene extremely seriously, especially mouth hygiene.

Nigerians are too docile. What's keeping you nurses from heading to the nursing council office in Abuja in protest of this very extreme exploitive hike. Or even protesting to the various concerned Government agencies...

You guys will just complain over the internet, but in reality, crawl back to your homes and then pay in the money.

Rubbish!!

Commendable. Such a legend and senior citizen should and must be taken care of for his contribution to humanity through his legendary songs.

As much as I don't want to believe this, but the evidence are really hard to ignore. What's really going on? Well only time shall tell...

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Drop it like is hot

I understand you clearly but unless you not a business woman as you claim, then you can try that.

I have seen a lot go wrong quickly when it comes to money, firstly, this guy is not married to you yet, and there's no sure guarantee that that money (700k) when given to him will yield the desired plan. Do not assume anything as assumption is the mother of disappointments.

I foresee your relationship ending because of this issue, cause he ll likely feel betrayed, and the relationship might turn sour.

In this instant, I suggest u lend 200k or less and remove your mind from the money cause I assure u, he ll likely not pay it back ever again.

Take it as a risk and a sacrifice you are making not just to c weda u can preserve the relationship, but also to pay him back exactly what he did for you when you had issues too.

Never, I repeat repeat, never lend any money you aren't willing to loose, that is total financial recklessness and must backfire!!

Who has FRSC past question. Please kindly send to mikymane6gmail.com

I wonder how much they pay these people that keep pushing up this man's fake projects.

Enugu town is a mess ever since he assumed office. All he's good at is fixing ONLY his hometown (Nsukka), forcefully taking peoples land and licking soup!

I'm sure everyone has come to notice the propaganda...

I have never felt a thing for this country, but tears rolled down my eyes. This guy has shown that's possible a person to ignite a change. He has done what I am unable to do.

He's a hero and history will never forget him for at least trying to remind apc zombies that sanity is still possible and that they can still have a change of heart and cease their senseless support for the lifeless one.

As expected. At least he's younger, democratic, wiser and smarter. Let's watch as situation unfolds. One thing for sure, anything but the lifeless one is approved.

When is the 2017 applicants suppose to start receiving their devices. My profile portal says "device not selected" even when I did select a device during my application.
Please when exactly are we suppose to expect it and what's my fate, since my portal says device not selected?

What a great and wonderful idea. Such an intelligent and articulate ideas.

People, I am voting for Atiku for the singular reason that he's a successful business man and he's the highest job creator after the Federal Government. He's a very successful business man.

He's also the only candidate that talks about restructuring.

He can divide votes in the North and get votes down south.

He's very liberal and has acceptance and popularity down South.

He also has the money to match the FG and isn't necessary going there for the monetary gains but for making Nigeria great and for making a name for himself and proving his critics wrong.

He's the only candidate that OBJ doesn't support, and ll be a fool again to vote for someone that OBJ supports.

Let us give me this man benefit of the doubt. Forget about what APC agents are saying. Make a research about Atiku and you ll be shocked how successful and accomplished he's.

Buhari coming back to power ll be the end of Nigeria as we know it, because the impunity, nepotism, killings, job losses, greed avarice and suffering ll be unprecedented.

Forget about all these APC paid agents commenting here, they know that this man emergence as PDP candidate ll mean doom for them. Do not be deceived by propaganda!

To save Nigeria for yourself and your children unborn vote for Atiku.

I advocate for a VP position for Southwest, they were the only found voice opposing PMB, the likes Femi and Fayose did a great job. In honesty, apart from Abaribe, we were literally mute.

Here in Enugu, people are willing to vote for anything but Buhari and I believe the whole Igbos are. Fielding a VP position ll surely divide vote in the Southwest.

People like Jimi Agbaje is okay for VP. I think Fayose shouldn't be considered, he's too loud mouthed and has many enemies.

We can have the Senate President slot and some good juicy ministerial position, which the likes of Peter Obi, can fit in for.

FFK deserves whatever accolades he's getting. At a point he was the only one/opposition against the ruling party.

He spoke against Sheriff. He's proven himself worthy. He also has fanatic christian fellowship.

I advocate for a VP position for Southwest, they were the only found voice opposing PMB, the likes Femi and Fayose did a great job. In honesty, apart from Abaribe, we were literally mute.

Here in Enugu, people are willing to vote for anything but Buhari and I believe the whole Igbos are. Fielding a VP position ll surely divide vote in the Southwest.

People like Jimi Agbaje is okay for VP. I think Fayose shouldn't be considered, he's too loud mouthed and has many enemies.

We can have the Senate President slot and some good juicy ministerial position, which the likes of Peter Obi, can fit in for.

Lol Women drama.

Let me enact the male version for you.

Me: Guy you looking dope as fvck
Friend: you know how it is
Roommate: He looks better dressed than you last Sunday, you wore rubbish
Me: guy free me

The end

Anyway you said roommate so am assuming university so you kids are still young.[/quote] this made me crack. Women and palava. This scenerio u illustrated is exactly how I could react.

[quote author=fineboynl post=69563797]lol, a package vagina doesn't smell, I know what I am saying . there are some classic girls that knows how to package their vagina before visiting a guy. you want hear or notice any smell in the room except you put your nose in their vagina or you put your finger inside and small your finger. I'm talking from experience but I don't know how they do it. but its very possible.

@bolded, so some smell so bad that it can be heard. Please tell me more

Anyone successfully logged in? I have not been able to log in for the past 2 days now. What's really going on with the portal? @Npower

ubunja:
taking time out to wish myself a lovely extra sweet happy birthday on this day, 12 june.

same old headstrong gemini. the Winter Babies of Africa.

what a day!!! Trump and Kim also making history alongside me by bringing America and North korea for the first time to talk peace.

shout out to all the geminis:

kanye west, donald trump,angelina jolie, zoe saldana, colin farell, naomi campbell, johnny depp, nicole kidman, natalie portman, etc
we rock!!!

HBD to you dear. Haven't heard from u in ages.

Emotion and Sentiment aside, the man is %80 right in all his posts. No need wailing about it.

Men and women are different mentally, until a man accepts this, he ll keep making mistakes.

The mistake we make is that we think these women are our equals or peers.

They are extremely and entirely different, have our opposite mentality.

The fact is that, a man will have all this money and still be humble and very good to his wife. But the reverse is the case with women. Majority of them are completely unable to handle success, especially the ones who were once poor.

Forget whatever you think you know, the only way to have a complete peace of mind in your home, especially in Nigeria, is to make sure you earn more money than your wife does. That's the only guarantee of your sanity.

The examples above are are to common to be called a coincidence.

This a clear lesson to men and a cruel reminder of how cold, ungrateful, forgetful and unbecoming women are.

Train a woman to be greater than you in any aspect at your own peril!!.

Hello, at N power, a friend succesfull changed his password rightly after optaining his otp. Now he logged out and he's trying to login using the same password he changed. But he simply cannot, it says "failed password" and he's very sure that that he inputted the right password.

what do he do? As there is no option for password reset??

I know this guy, he was my school mate during studies in d university.

His name is Akubueze , former ANSU Student Union President.

Honestly, the guy was a fanatic in political desperation, can do anything to achieve and consolidate his interest, a deadly and corrupt politician.

Heard he looted the Student Union purse dry.

As much as I can tell, he never does anything without an interior motive.

I just hope he has changed shaa, but then, I know people don't change.

Anyways, I wish them the best of luck .

Someone is wants to apply, but his nysc discharge cert is not yet available, because he is in 2016 batch b, stream 2.

They are suppose to be discharged this December (Not yet confirmed though).

Do anyone know here know the deadline for this gtb application?

Thanks.