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IamVera:
Hi, I am currently a student, I have managed to save 12000 from the allowance my parents gives to me.
I want to start a business that would make me independent and quit disturbing my parents to
give me money for every things cause they are not financially well of.
I am a nursing student, I want advice of a business that will not affect my studies much.

Learn a skill in demand

Tailoring
Fashion designer
Hair dressing
Baking
Making Bob's n chin Chim etc

Senseless campaign from someone who does not understand basic economics.

Now do u know that alot of ppl are eating and many businesses are moving bc public school teachers are getting paid?

Do u know that some of the so called private teachers still eat bc they have their public counterparts to borrow money from?

Either campaign for schools to resume or palliatives for private school teachers.

By the way private school teachers should receive sense and engage in other productive things like farming. Having a single source of livelihood is suicide mission.

Nonsense

.uote author=Mvici post=91269091]I Lost Confidence In My Girlfriend The Moment She Asked Me To Marry For My Mother.

I had a girlfriend some few months back before the covid 19 outbreak, that was after we went home from school due to the strike and the pandemic, we both are in the same school which is IBB university lapai, in our final.

So at home this faithful day, I put a call through! We both were talking, laughing on phone, so she ask about my mum, I said she was fine and she now ask abt her loneliness because no one at home, I told her but I'm still here with her, she ask what if school resume and what if we should go for our service next year, she now told me to marry another man for my mum.... lol... telling me who knows" that my mum might like the idea if I should table it with her. Gosh! I actually laughed about it then on phone with her but inside me, it wasn't funny at all.

The next day, what she told me was still bordering me, so many things were just running on my mind...so even if by mistake I wife her in future and the Lord decide to take me when we have a grown up child like me, who is planning on becoming a graduate this year and have even spent 30 years in marriage already....she won't even mourn me for long before accepting another man's proposal or bleeping with another man or probably her one time ex.

I decided to ask my mum with play, mum be sincere to me, you and my dad have been married since far back 1986... U both were in marriage for about 30 yrs before he past away few years ago, may his soul rest in peace..this is 5yrs now are you considering on marrying any one or having any kind of body movement or even can stand the presence of another man in your life?

Guess what her reply was....
Mum said my dad was the only man she know in her life and that's how it going to remain by God grace, period! and I shouldn't ask her such again with cry/smiles on her face because she has me and I will give her groundchil........

Seriously I don't know why I brought this here but pls tell me, any girl that can ask a 52 Year old woman to re_marry even after she has a child, isn't it clear that she can't stay without having sex to anyone as long as her husband is on a peace keeping mission or even travel abroad?

Thanks everyone.[/quote]U sound like a little boy
Marriage is more about companionship than sex get it into your head.
Ur GF is more mature than you, she said nothing wrong, it's only a suggestion n an opinion.

Boy u better grow up

Chelsea should have been a better decision

Goodman247:
How many percentage do they pay, do they pay weekly or monthly

15% monthly but have packed up and moved investors to Mba forex

nikkypearl:
Try and fix whatever is wrong with your money,get a receipt for it ,and deduct it from your next house rent!!
Thank me later...some Landlords are just mad!

Follow this advice

Waiting for responses

Lol

If it is working you won't be begging to teach someone like this. Truth be told it is alot easier to earn teaching ppl than through YouTube channels.

odunayomii:
Yeah

Really so how do I subscribe. can one make up to 20% weekly using ur signals.

I am already a trader and I use binance to trade as a swing trader. I make on average 15 to 20% monthly. Already taken a position on TRX waiting for pump to happen to cash out.

Cashed out on ADA recently

I need tools to help me make 50 to 100% monthly even if they are paid tools

Do you give daily trade signal

Yes have any T-natel investors moved successfully to MBA forex and gotten paid his RoI

Let's hear your experience

I have given all paper works required to move me to MBA forex but yet to get paid my Roi.

I joined T-natel via an MBA offices where I was told they are one in Jan 2020. Got paid my Roi in Feb, March, April but was not paid again since May

MBA forex sent me message that I will be paid on or before 18 June after successful verification but no show up till now.

Reminds me of car talk section around 2012

U don't want to see online fight btw ikenna351 and Siena ( Siena is more knowledgeable than him about cars therefore he is always fighting him lol).

Ikenna is knowledgeable about cars but very arrogant and talks ppl down easily very rude person, it's difficult to interact with ppl like him.

Ikenna351 needs help he is emotionally unbalanced, very little things make him upset n he walks away over little disagreements, very immature to say the least.

Daddy Freeze shebi u know u don't have sense abi

Who told u those international calls he received were real they are all faked to fool an olodo like u

Na ur mouth u need to lockdown

What is this again

Do I blame you, when u collect 500k allowance every day bc of Covid 19, u won't want it to end.

U only have burning desire for sorting and handout money

Passion to harass female students sexually

Better look for your passion and burning desire in sth else lecturing is not for you

Mstick:
Since your parents are still married legally your mum can sue him for bigamy. Talk to a lawyer about it.


This is a prime example of our parents "successful marriage" we keep hearing about.

Bigamy in Nigeria

sirciao:
Hello everyone
Have been pondering on this over the years and I think i need wider view and advice on this.
I'm from a family of 6 my father separated from my mom several years ago and remarried another woman and has several other side babes
now he paid our school fees wen we wer in uni but has neglected every other aspect of fatherhood.
we hardly see him because he stays in a different state
He did a court marriage with only my mom. so please what can we do because its becoming unbearable, i decided to concentrate on my self and hussle but its getting unbearable seeing your father with so much money squander it for another woman,side chicks,church etc and neglecting his very own family.
The last straw is he wants to stop paying rent for my mom claiming he has no money due to covid 19 but i got Intel that he just rented an apartment for another side chick. he will retire very soon and his gratuity should be nothing less than 30 m. He has no property for his children only a huz in the village and several cars he lavishes money on.
What can we do to salvage this situation
should we continue to look on as he waste his money and neglecting my mom that started life with him.
Can my mom file for divorce and will she get any benefit from it.
Can we the children out rightly sue him for neglect?
Mods please help push to front page so i can get wider contribution
please share your experience if you have a similar case like mine and how you tackled it..

How old are you?

Are you not a graduate now

What stops you from hustling like a man

You want to be fed when you are obviously above 21. Better enter street and go and hustle like a man.

As for your mum, is she without a source of income? Why is she still waiting for handout after separation? You her children should support her if she can't hustle too

NEWBIN:
We have known each other for about six months now. I proposed to her in March 2020 and kept telling me she was thinking about it.

Just yesterday, she said yes to my proposal and I was so excited. When I met her yesterday evening, she told me Friday (June 26) is her birthday and that, she expects a lot of gifts and mobile money from me. My bowels became full instantly so left to go ease myself.

I have lost interest. Show me a way to outsmart this fraudster of a lady, thanks.

She is out to show her true color to you. Don't give her anything on her b'day except text message then seat back and allow the scammer show her real self. She is probably expecting gifts from about 5 guys.

70

MPESA:
And you are so sure that he cheated on his wife..... Stop all this nonsense, to avoid issue he still apologized to her probably by trying to.make her understand that he didn't do it.

U sound dumb stop Mentioning me

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To God be the glory 4th ROI though small but am for now cool with it cos that's what i can afford as at Feb.

U were a T-natel investor moved to mba I guess pls what did you take to mba to move your investment to them. What did you do exactly, some of us are still hanging. pls respond

simplexity:
I really appreciate your comments, I feel a lot better emotionally now,
I even actually agreed I cheated, and I have apologized, still she left.
Being a father makes u bear a lot and carry a lot on ur mind for peace to rain, I am not weak am just being understanding.

Thanks anyways

Never apologize for what you didn't do especially when it is infidelity accusation. Stand your ground let them prove their case

simplexity:
Firstly I will like to apologize for any errors made while typing, and I am seriously in need of ur advice and criticism.

My name is Stanley(not real names) married for 4years with two Lovely kids both female with d eldest at age 4. Trust me I cherish and love my family. I am a graduate while my wife dropout from the university cause of some money issues her single mother had while she was sick. After our first child I made sure she got admitted to a polytechnic and thankful she just rounded up her N.D all expenses paid by me, with high hopes of Getting admitted for her HND.

The problem started after our first child, my wife attitude towards sex changed totally, she would never let me touch her or play with her, calling her pet names will usually end in quarrel, I spoke with her her severally, pleaded and beg her most times but her attitude never changed, she made me feel like I met nothing to her, yet she will always fight with me whenever ever she suspects I have a girlfriend, fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats, she even went as far as beating up a lady that needed my help thinking I was dating her.

Fast forward to recently, her mom who is a single mother relocated to stay with us, and during her stay we had some misunderstanding about money issues, (note both me and wifey are gainfully employed in the ratio of 10:4, but 60% of wifey salary goes to her mom while she spends the rest 40% anyhow she likes) during d money issues a frd of hers came and told both of them that she see saw me flirting with a lady. And without hearing my own side of the coin my mother in-law rained curses on me , reported my to all her family members and left my house angrily, two days later my wife took our children and left my house while I was in d office, I called about her where about and she said she won't tell me and she said I will hear from her family soon, her mom called a family friend saying she will sue me.

It's been one week now and I don't know the whereabouts of my kids.

Should I report to the police or what?
Note I have apologized to wife for the crime I didn't commit yet it seems they want a bigger pound of flesh.

Please kindly advise me caused am depressed and confused

First mistake never never marry a girl raised by a single mother. She saw what her mother went through bc of men and u will pay for it. She was raised to hate men. Her mother hates men bc of her failed relationship with them.

Second mistake how can you apologize when u are not guilty. I kw u are guilty Sha.

Since u are guilty and have apologize then u have to go and report to whoever gave her hand in marriage to you may be he can help resolve the matter.

No need for police, your children are with their mother and they are safe. No crime that needs police involvement except u want to waste your money.

Always avoid single mothers and their children when u want a serious relationship

Sharp man repositioning for a better settlement

100m now u will come to deny yourself

The worst letter anyone can read

Jeez

Hell is let loose for a married man

It's a V6 that's why it's too expensive at 700k

If it was I4 it should go for at least 850k

I can only ride v6 if it is suv

Attention seeker

Bunch of useless people

780k

wizboi26:
There is this family I want to marry into, but the Father of the girl did not pay the bride price of the mum, and she bore seven children for the man. The man left the woman and the children to base in another state, without caring about the welfare of the wife and children. Now I want to marry the first daughter in the family, it is becoming complected, because the family of the woman are saying that the children does not belong to the man, because he has not paid for the wife's bride price, that they own the children. And the woman is now saying that even if the Man is ready to come and pay her bride price, that she wouldn't accept it. My question now is that, is it right to go on the do the necessary things in her maternal home ?

Things are already complicated and u still feel comfortable to continue. Better look for a more decent family and marry into