₦airaland Forum

sylvestersamuel:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.

Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...

On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....

Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.

50% is too much to give her even if u earn less than her may be 30% will do. You need to lead her in financial expenditures. But she is too childish to start showing u unnecessary attitude

Jeez

17 years old girl has been in a relationship for 3 years

She started at 14, odi egwu

Most single moms are the easiest lay aka olosho in town. They are sooo easy to nack, why is it so
Easiest meat ever

Back to topic
Most single moms fight the man off when they want to support their kids bc they are bitter u didn't marry them and wants sole ownership of the kid. Don't blame the men most times it's not their fault

Lol

Attention seekers

time is money

looking forward to my first alert on 14, valentine alert

No risk no reward

Lionqueen:
My 30th birthday is in few weeks time. Am scared because I don't have a boyfriend. It's beginning to give me sleepness night. But is marriage the ultimate? Please no body should insult me����

U should be concerned especially if you want to have your own children

Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?

Lol beauty is temporary but character will last very long

Is she presentable at all n very intelligent. U can't have it all when u get the beautiful one u will see she will be cheating, no character n will be unintelligent.

Wife her and get a side chick that is beautiful to play around with 99% of men settle it this way

No one uses this product in nairaland

nwanneni:
34,350naira for 91 days or 11k a month.
Unless of course you meant dollars
Treasury Bills is usually for people with accumulated liquid volume,beginners were meant to be in the active workforce in Nigeria creating value all over the place,hence the low yield.
In other words,hustle ooo

U r wrong

U will still divide 34350÷4 = 8587.5 for 91 days

Is anyone using paymyrent to save

What has been your experience

They have wonderful features that encourages savings and I want to save with them starting in February with automatic debiting of my bank account monthly.

Their interest rate of up to 7% per deposit is good too.

U r just a lazy boy with an oversized ego

30 yrs is not 30 months better go n hustle and earn a living

U r wasting your life

Op

Smoke ur weed Jaree
Na win win
U got a ride n a weed bag to last u for months

fquote author=Wendy006 post=85926311]What I Found In A Fairly Used Car I Bought, Please Let's All Be Careful.

What I am about to share here is 100% true. You never can trust how discreet this pages are, so I had to create a new moniker lol...

I had already concluded plans to get a fairly used Nigerian Lexus. I got a seemingly good deal on jiji so last Friday I traveled to obiaruku to seal the deal.

Everything had gone on as planned, very great guy, I paid, he handed over all relevant documents and I headed straight to bact to Asaba.

At about 7pm, I was doing a final check on the documents so I sent my wife to the car, this lady returned back with a big black envelope directly behind the driver's seat.When we opened it, it was filled with Indian hemp. I mean close to 500grammes, I was in utter shock. I quickly called the seller and cautioned him seriously.

I had gone through over 15 police check posts, how on earth would I have explained that the stuff wasn't mine.

Please folks, we've got to be very careful. Very very careful. May God not allow us to answer questions about someone else's indiscretion.

I have decided not to share the pics here, for personal reasons.[/quote]That car was used for robbery
Get a police clearance immediately
U don't want to be caught with a stolen car that has been used for robbery
Na their u go see pepper

TallPck1:
The presidency have failed to provide security for the people and the state governors have taken a great step and we the people are solidly behind them.

So the FG can go to court if they feel Amotekun is illegal.

Amotekun has come to stay just like Enugu has forest guards

captain247:
I should stop disturbing social media as unto wetin u be? The god of social media abi.
I beg park well make i see front

U are not an MBA investor, so keep crying for nothing we have noticed you, now get lost already

captain247:
Pls I need contact to watsap group of the MBA PH branch to make a complain as I'm presently not within network coverage to place a call nor go to their office for now.
After two weeks of registration, i didn't receive text message for MOU as they told me to come when I receive text from them. Now it's over a month and 9days investment was made but yet no money received nor email from them about MOU I'm just a bit scared. I have sent messages to them on Twitter but still nothing. Any contact to watsap pls i need

Find time to go to their office to lay your complain that's the way it works. Transactions are done via physical offices so also resolution of issues and complaints. There might be some mix up somewhere, they may be even trying to reach your phone line but unavailable.

The man deserves a national award

He died in active service

Lol don't give yourself high BP for nothing

Almost every man flirts n watches indecency codely including your Bishop n pastor (nobody holy pass). Social media has not helped matters with so many random girls available for hook ups n all manner of things

But how come cousins are now lovers incest

Though it's very wrong but u should be more concerned about his love for u and how caring he is in your present condition n thereafter.

Stop checking a man's phone, laptop or tablets if u want to stay married.

pluto09:
The best a genuine forex trader can do is to promise to share profits on trade with investors.
Anyone who promises a fixed returns on investment to investors is probably into something else.......and it is a matter of time.......

Ok whatever they are into the important thing is that they have been paying for over 2 years now n u only need them to pay u for 7 months to break even n start making profit.

For sure it doesn't need to last forever for a smart biz man to make money through it. If they last 18 months from now I will make more than enough from them n dts all that matters. There is no rich man that has never lost money bc they are always taking risk. Very few are rich bc very few can take risks.

Lol haters everywhere

Ppl view this MBA forex with Ponzi mentality it's not the same bc Ponzi is not a business but a pyramid scheme whose success depends on new members fund but forex is a high risk business that has been with us for centuries.


Rumors, lack of new members n panic doesn't affect MBA system bc it is not dependent on getting new members but on successful forex trades.

The only thing that can affect MBA is if they fail to make successful forex trades for a longtime and which will almost not happen bc of the expertise in their fold n the solid risk management strategy they have

It's called packaging, it's a basic principle in selling any product including yourself.

dogtails:
I can teach u the basics first but its not for free,Pm me ur number if u are interested

I Know all the basics already via YouTube
All I need is a profitable trader to practically share the trading secrets via a life account.

Someone that can show practically how to win 20 dollars daily with a 500dollars account. He will trade live n prove himself consistently for 2 weeks while doing the training

All the theories are on YouTube already

A good day trader should win 20 to 40 pips daily

Forget this business except you will be the rider.

To make matters worst u want to do it with used keke

It will end in regrets, talking from experience

This was an attack on the traditional institution of the state

captainking:
Ogawisdom..
you are here,,,welcome...well you joined late,..we that have been doing it for a year...i say....just relax....take some chill beer and watch your money work for you

Ok my bro, do u trade too? I am considering learning forex trading too from any profitable trader as the cost of doing it via mba forex is much ie 150k

Mba forex
No risk no reward

Just jumped into the ship yesterday with some spare cash

I pray for it to last till September n beyond so I can break even n start enjoying my profit.
No risk no reward

Platini7:
Please i created this moniker to seek advise on this issue.

I got married to my wife in 2018 and there's already an issue that is threatening our young marriage.

We dated briefly 10 years ago before she travelled to the US for schooling. She stayed there for a while and then got into a relationship over there with a guy i know (I wasn't close friends with the guy). I had to move on with my life and got into a relationship of my own here in Nigeria.
Back then, i use to have this silly habit of creating anonymous facebook accounts where i would add people i know and comment on their posts and pictures without them ever knowing i was the one. I dropped many comments back then and one such incident happened to be a time i commented on her close friend's picture, telling her (the friend) she was pretty and how i wanted her. This was almost 10 years ago and i swear i never meant any of those words. It was just a silly joke and i had completely forgotten all that.
My wife returned Nigeria in 2016 and somehow we reconnected and got married in 2018.

Just last week, she stumbled on those posts i made in 2010-2011 and got really heartbroken and upset. Right now, even after pleading with her, she says she wants to quit the marriage. She packed a few of her stuff and travelled home to Abia state from our base in Lagos. So far, what she told her family in the east is that she just came back to visit them for a little while because she couldn't come back during xmas.
Now she's threatening that i won't see my 1 year old son anytime soon cos she's already making plans of relocating abroad for good.


Please my question is this; Do you think this issue is enough to cause this kind of disharmony in our home?
What do you advice?
Thank you

Lol
She has someone she wants to run to and is using this as an excuse. Even dummy should know this is her game. How can she use something in your past to break up with you, that is ridiculous