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Diamondvicky:
Hello nairalanders

Am 19 years of age, few months to go before I leave teen age behind.

That brings me to ask for your opinions to follow or path to follow to guarantee you being successful in life. No one wants to be unfortunately in life so its better planning ahead at least to give you hope towards the future.

Please all contribution are accepted thank you.

Learn 3 skills alongside your education

Forget everything about love, dating and girlfriend , it's a waste of time, energy and money

Don't trust or depend on anyone except God

Finally make sure u have enough sense n always use ur sense

They are afraid of buhari bc he will use dss and kill them

Is this something to be proud of

BiggyB242:
It isn't advisable to marry a jobless woman.

Yes for the most part

But the main thing is to avoid an ungodly, insatiable and overly materialistic woman. Bc she will still sleep around for money even when working.

te author=owo8184 post=93547116]I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos. I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family. Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos. Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy. Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage. Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.[/quote]She is probably on many hook up sites with sexy pics to attract men.

Act like u are not noticing anything and find a way to track her down n catch her completely. Suspicion will not stand u need concrete evidence. The rate of cheating among married women now is alarming, they can it women liberation.

boogietrends:
Love can do wonders... They are complete opposites. Good luck to them.

Love kwa

More love money answereth everything

Nonsense u probably compromised your password n shifting blames

I hope this will reverse the pump price increment

This life no balance

Very few people will make 153 million in a life time

Spot on

Going by this majority of women are witches

Kiddo01:
I've been thinking about this and so I decided to bring it here.

A friend of mine has been having issues with his wife for some time now. He said that the Parish Priest has advised both of them but without positive result.

But I keep wondering, is it that both parties do not want to settle their differences or is the reverend father actually giving the needed council? Is the reverend father who has not married before qualified to give advice on marital crisis? What do you think

Marriage has manual for Operation and anyone that understands the manual can give advice.

The manual is the word of God in the Bible

area74:
Dear family,

I have created this topic to get wider opinions from the experienced and especially those who are married because sometimes when take decisions or react to situations they may not be objective but fueled by our personal biases.

What is your take on parents especially mothers calling spouses everyday in marriages? Mother-in-law calling her daughter everyday or mother-in-law calling her son everyday.

Personally, I don't like it or support my mother-in-law calling my wife everyday. Situations like this will make it inevitable for my in-laws to know everything going on in our lives. I believe when people are married, they should be left alone to live their lives.

Please what are your opinions about this topic?

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The only problem is if the daughter or son lacks common sense and welcomes interference

Sweetaura:
With the biting economic hardship we are currently facing, I will deeply appreciate if suggestions can be offered on how to manage feeding allowance of N30000 monthly for a family of 5. Thanks.

Food portion for everyone must be reduced drastically like

3cups of garri should serve the 5 at a go.

6 cups of rice should serve two meals for the family

2 slides of bread should be okay for each member for drinking tea.

Eating small food is even health

Beans is a life saver, buy enough

atigro:
Wisdom must be very expensive even when it's well spelt out in your name. Your critical reasoning is warped and perhaps you are suffering from cerebral palsy. Come what's with folks these days with momentum to chase clouts? I'm not in your league. I top my rank okay. I only brought out something I noticed and there you came for me with that stu-pid response.. Flutterwave Is charging clients of their customer differently for the same service and all you and your insecure co- swine can come up with is I'm trying hard to pull MBA forex down? How?

If you must know common sense is not common. Ardent sycophants rosyisblessed ogawisdom I'm a full blown MBA investor and I top my rank. The records are there for proofs. . Progressive and not a clout chaser like you Lilly livered membranes.



Just look at the effrontery of a buffon to spew the above thrash. You think my statement was a complaint because you're already biased. A guy like me will complain on a meagre 2k while receiving ROI in six figures? It's a pity. Honestly it is.

All these epistle for only one sentence I wrote lol. The best answer to a f**l is dignified silence.

atigro:
I just noticed now that flutterwave charges just #300 naira as processing fee on luno but charges #2000 naira for same on MBA for online investors?

Did you also notice that online was your choice and never forced on you?

Alimzy20:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders i need your strong advices.my parents are forcing me to get married !! I'm just 21.I've tried all possible ways to change their mind. it ended in vain.

I'm not in relationship either. What should i do now? I'm still schooling and unemployed too..

U must be the only son, it's normal if so

SUPERPACK:
https://nairametrics.com/2020/04/01/sec-discovers-12-ponzi-scheme-operators-warns-the-investing-public/

It won't last forever certainly

The rule is to invest what u can afford to lose and pray to break even before it ends and u need only 7 months to break even.

Life is a risk and the biggest risk is not to take risks.

Going through my Mou I found out that

One month is 32 days by MBA forex contract.

So alert should come on or 1 to 3 days after due date.

Sit down and digest the content of ur Mou

Super story Mr dumb nice man continue

As u make ur bed so u will lie on it

I won't say more than this

Super story Mr nice man continue

As u make ur bed so u will lie on it

I won't say more than this

author=Shieldme post=93275718]I'm very sorry. I just created this account because I needed direction and what to do with my life.
I did my NYSC 2010, till today, I don't have a good job, I've tried, all in vain. Then I started a small business. That's what I've been struggling with till date.
Three times I wanted to get married in a serious relationship, but it didn't work. Not for any serious reasons, but some how, it wouldn't just work. We will both walk away.

My life has been a total struggle and I can see that in the lives of all my elder siblings.
Recently, a family relative told me that there's a family gods my late grandfather worshipped and we need to buy some items and go for prayers, because my grandfather mentioned all his children children's names under a particular tree, and we need to be set free otherwise, things will not work for us.

My late dad once mentioned something like that before he died, but we told him we are Christian's and don't believe in traditionals.
I have prayed, fasted, i'm beautiful, I'm perfectly okay, I'm a good person, but I keep meeting the wrong people, even when I genuinely love, I got betrayed. I've tried everything, yet it's not working.
For example: you meet me today and you want to help me, just of a sudden, you''ll just loss interest.

I've gone for several interviews, where I got positive report, but I never got the job.

What would you advised? Should I look for money and buy those items, travel for the prayers or what should I do? My siblings don't believe all that even my mother don't.
My elder sister has been married for yrs, no child. My elder brother is over 40yrs, well to do, yet not married and he doesn't even come home. My elderst brother who is married, still struggling, no meaningful job. my other sister had a son for her boyfriend, the guy left just like that.

I'm almost 30yrs, yet my life Don't have direction.
I'm really getting depressed here and I need solution.[/quote].

Family deliverance is needed go for it. But don't forget that things are generally tough n this year is the worst due to Covid 19 n lockdown

White wedding was a waste I should have avoided and done only traditional marriage

The curriculum is outdated and needs to be reviewed to be responsive to 21 century needs.

That is the only good point in that needless epistle u wrote

PSG 1 Bayern 5 full time

Ladies will never marry down not even their equal

A man generally don't go for women above him bc he wants a submissive woman.

It's difficult to get any respect if u marry a woman above you esp in financial status.

But generally a man should have taste and standard if u have msc let her have Bsc/Hnd minimum or if u have Bsc let her have Bsc or Hnd minimum. If u earn 100k let her earn 30k minimum n so on.

If u are earn 50k and she is earning 300k then u don turn houseboy be dt

When u have PhD and marry a primary 6 holder n call it love lol it's lack of taste n standard in life.

Marry who can complement you not who will drag u deep down

Not feasible with rising cases

walebills:
Wrong advice, keep calling the customer care (at least from my experience). try using different phone numbers. All the best!

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U are a learner

So calling is better than visiting the office and talking in person.

Instead of ur wife to contribute in solving the problem, she is becoming part of the problem smh.

Anyway keep hustling and praying for God's Grace.

This ur present condition is the only time to see the woman u married, hard times reveal character.