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Xj2020:
If you are good you are good, and if you are bad you are bad. You might hide your bad side for a while. However, it is only a matter of time before everything would come out to the open.

My story is that of a young chap that fell in love and got married to the women of his supposedly dream with kids. From day one till date, my beloved wife has been anything but a good housewife. She doesn't give me peace of mind. Always looking for ways to provoke me.

My wife isn't submissive. She is abusive and unappreciative of all I have done and have been doing for her and the children. This is in spite the fact that the financial burden of the house has been mine 100% from the beginning till date. This is a woman that does not want to do any kind of work if it is not government job. I have provided her with everything she asked for and even those things she didn't ask for. This woman has never lacked anything in my house till date.

My beloved wife insults me in the presence of our kids. Mind you, I don't smoke, drink and womanize. Neither have I laid my hands on her or intend on laying my hands on her. This is a woman I help with house chores like sweeping, washing the bathroom and toilets and mobbing the house at my leisure time.

This woman has taken sides against in the time past when I had misunderstanding with some persons outside. This woman isn't scared to insult my parents every time we have a misunderstanding. My mother-in-law isn't helping matter as she has continued to instigate her daughter against me.

I have finally made the decision to move out of the house for the now and see how things plays out. If things doesn't improve, then I would have no choice than to seek for divorce. Notwithstanding, the children would continue to be my responsibility.

Any matured advice would be highly appreciated from the house.

U want to move out haba what kind of a chicken hearted coward does that. Stay put and fight her to submission, she should be the one moving out not you.

A woman can only respect a strong man not some weakling that runs at the slightest provocation.

Ur biggest weapon for the fight is to deprive her of her needs, starve her of fund and be cold on her. Stop eating at home. Sometimes unfortunately the only route to peace is war. Don't go physical though except she goes physical on you

U earn respect most times even that of a wife it's not just given, u make her to submit to you.

DNT just walk away like some chicken

eni4real:
So a woman will submit to a man that disrespect her in Public just because he provide the money??

Others things being equal

Submission and money


A man sees submission as love

A woman sees money as love

Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

Are you man enough

Are you financially bouyant

Can you foot the bill for the burial

How old are you

U need to think thoroughly before acting

Ur uncles still see you as a little boy

I suspect you are in a fixed deposit account and funds can't be released until the tenure ends. Look at the high interest the money has earned which is a pointer to my submission

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Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Move this trash to the dustbin

cynosuree:
Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.


I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.

But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.


He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.


I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?

The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .


I'd like to know what you think

Intelligence is native, he may be brilliant but not intelligent. People rarely come as a complete package. They will always fall short in one area. If u get a super intelligent man now he may be uncaring or unfaithful

SavageResponse:
I have noticed that virtually all the self-acclaimed experts of crypto and forex trading who claim to be making so much money are always trying to do one training or the other or getting people to do copy trading so as to share profits with them.

This implies that it's not possible to survive only on the income from crypto or forex trading alone.

This is my challenge to all crypto and forex traders - Prove me wrong if you get by based only on your earnings from trading crypto and forex!

The truth is that it is far easier to make money through training others than via trading.

blackwood:
I just bought Everstart now for N23k, they collected my old battery and gave me a discount of N1,000. so I ended paying N22k.

Good one

Na the battery be dt

I sold my old battery 2k to them

Nonsense if u like build dt forever

airsaylongcom:
U are so fickle. A simpleton. A phool

The best answer to a complete idio.t like u is complete silence. U can go and hug a wet transformer, monster

airsaylongcom:
U were saying something about audio payment....

Wow Good news on the card

MBA plans to acquire T-natel investors



We are boarding the same train soon bro
We entered one chance bus but we are moving to the right one now.

Up MBA

airsaylongcom:
Stop peddling lies! It doesn't pay. Tnatel is NOT a subdivision of MBA. You have been peddling this misinformation long enough

When you were running amok promoting Tnatel and Investments below 360k what did I say?

You went about talking about Minimum and Standard blah blah blah....

You even had the temerity to call me a "fake" employee. I hope your investment in Tnatel is paying you well

The thing is that they use MBA offices to carry out transactions. Anyway wish u guys the best. MBA will crash sooner than later sorry to say that but it's the truth.

T-natel (a subdivision of MBA forex) has crashed, they have released a time table to pay back investors which stretched up to Dec 2020 which is probably audio repayment

Highly profitable investments don't last long, u will lose more than u gained because of greed.

sheu01:
Thank u, Everstart is a good battery.

I use 75AH, 12v thought I should add that info

Best wishes

sheu01:
Pls how much did u buy ever start and where did u buy it? I think everstart is not China non Korea. Pls confirm to me

Everstart is top Korean battery I bought it 24k @ Enugu. Though I have just used it for a month which is too early to recommend it

Poor husband still treeking when ur wife can afford to give a car gift to the mother.

The man should double his hustle rather than acting like a baby.

U married a wife richer than u and u will have alot coming ur way in the future if u don't up your financial game

It is very hard for a rich woman to respect her poor husband, that is why she threw that massive disrespect at you knowing u cant do shi.t

Finally, 95% of men/women love their mother more than their spouses it's just normal esp for marriages below 15 yrs

Modesthy:
I had a good uncle who passed away three years ago. His wife morned him for one year. I lived with that my uncle until I got married and parked to my own house.

I use to visit the house sometimes. After the mourning, his wife called me and told me that I should give her more children. She has only one male child. I refused. But She said I should do it for her because she doesn't want children outside the family because she loved my uncle and our family and that she can't continue to stay with only one child.

I'm completely confused. First I'm married doing that is infidelity, sencondly, the uncle was like a father to me before his death. And I see it as a big sin.

Please somebody should help me, what do I do here? How do I handle this issue? Thanks for your candid advice.

It's not all about sleeping with her, you will also be responsible for training the child. It's more like getting a second wife

Jeez

A jobless broke husband is in hell fire already

Woman go feed you and ur dick go still rise to f.uck am lol remove sex from the list. Sex is suspended till further notice

delkuf:
Guy, God has blessed me. sincerely am living a good life. I have most of the things I need. am taking good care of her. what I can't stand about her is this, if I give you 200k for example and I need just 1000 from you, and even though you don't have, there is a way you go about it, but she will just bluntly refuse. I hate such behavior. this is just an example

Lol most women are like children, u will buy a child suya and he/she will not give u. U will open super market for a woman and when you are broke she won't give u money from it.

Women are naturally selfish. She will use her money for investment while depending on yours. Be careful with type of woman

If u buy cheap cars u don buy family problem be that better shine yours eyes.

Someone bought a car 450k n its engine parked up in 2 months n he needed about 300k which he didn't have for repairs. Till today the car is still waiting for repairs n scrap ppl dey come price am 100k

Buying a naija used car is a gamble u may be lucky or unlucky.

It's a against the law of basic economics to borrow to fund liabilities.

My advice - Invest that money into something profitable n delay gratification. Ur wife can be taking Keke or bus when the sun is harsh or get a househelp to help run errands n go market.

Secure their future if u love them

The owner decides who gets his properties n wealth through a will upon death.

Only a maga will buy this above 1m

Except he doesn't have a stable source of income (even if na 40k monthly) a man in his 40s must have marriage as a top priority.

But if he has no stable source of income at 40 then he should focus on having one first before considering marriage.

What's the big deal here

You served someone food without drinking water and water for washing hands.

If you don't wanna serve him why not ask him to go dish food from the pot after cooking

airsaylongcom:
Where do you get your information from?!

T-natel is NOT a subsidiary of MBA. Not now. Not ever!

They have a business relationship BUT they aren't a subsidiary.

Lol they operate via MBA offices, it's now Clearer that MBA and T-natel are not one.

T- natel has placed one month suspension on roi from 11th May to 11th June like I stated earlier.

Why are people quoting me up and down talking nonsense. Anyway I understand that investment comes with huge emotions. Learn to manage your emotions.

T-natel a subsidiary of MBA forex has placed a one month suspension on payment of roi

My diamond battery did 2.5 yrs but now using everstart

Whoelse got the SMS on one month suspension of Roi starting from 11th may due to total lockdown in pH

ProfDview1:
There is this lady I like so much, even my friends know that I like her so much and will love to spend the rest of my life with her.

One day, I saw her with my friend and I later asked her why she is so close to my friend. She said they are dating each other, that she cannot marry me simply because I am tailor.

My friend is a yahoo boy, he doesn't have any work. The only way he eats is via internet scam. To be honest I was so pained, moreover she is not the only lady to have done this to me. Have met several ladies that told me that they can't marry a tailor and they end up dating yahoo Boys for my street.

They always tell me to leave my tailoring job and go hustle like my frnds to make cool money.

Guys, I am tired.. Should I leave the tailoring job and join my friends to do the yahoo stuff?

Girls keep rejecting me up and down and I am fed up.

Pls advise me

Tailor is an old school name, package it small and call yourself fashion designer.