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Hmmm

Honestly one plus one is equal to one

The only thing wrong is that he said in his name instead of our names, rent payment also could be in a joint account not in his private account.

I am particularly surprised he is in a hurry about it he should have waited for some time after marriage to come up with this.

Whatever decision reached must be mutually agreed on

bigpriik:
I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..

But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. ,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.

Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..

Elders please i need your help..
I need

Can u maintain her luxurious life? If not she will definitely continue the runs after marriage. Better respect ur peace of mind now. Sexx her to ur satisfaction n look for love elsewhere

She is twerking for Jesus

Baddest olosho in church to thank God for better market season

Good character
Common sense
Peace of mind

These are priceless

We can buy good food n sex

150k wedding gown is still too much

That is why common sense is very impt in a woman

150k wedding gown is still too much

Since it's manual it's 800k max

This car is becoming a goldmine, let me be maintaining my own ooo as the market price keeps shooting up

RealMarv:
Most guys I know don't like it when a lady is taller than them especially if they are developing feelings for her. They prefer a lady who is short or of average height. The surprising thing is that even the majority of tall guys prefer going for short ladies.

This begs the question, are tall ladies not attractive? Why are guys intimidated when they are with tall ladies?

Most of them don't have sense that is the problem. Average n short girls na pack of common sense

Spark2:
Hello NL.
I'm going to keep this brief.

It started three weeks ago. my mum, who was walking normal with no problem suddenly could not walk. Her left leg began paining her severely that day. My mum was all in tears... She was rushed to the hospital where it was discovered that her sugar level was on the high side. The hospital gave drugs which stabilised it, at that point my mum was very weak, couldn't eat, each time she eat she throws up and also had some pain in the leg still. After a week in the hospital, we were then referred to a teaching hospital after a test showed that creatinine in her kidney was high.

The teaching hospital tried their best and I can say my mum is now okay. Except for the left leg. She can't still walk on it, the leg feels cold to touch with a little discolouration above the foot.

Doppler test showed that blood isn't really flowing through the leg. And they said they will need to amputate the leg to prevent the infection from growing to the other parts of the body.

Please I want to know if you know anyone who had similar condition and amputation was recommended but was later healed without need for amputation.

Please share your recommendations. I need my mum now more than before in my life. We are confused on whether to allow them to go on with the amputation or seek other alternatives.

Thank you very much.

Pls note that as at now, her sugar level, creatinine and other things are normal.

Everything is possible if u are loaded with cash. Fly her abroad immediately esp US if u get cash otherwise calm down and follow her doctors advice here

HornyTave:
What if he's jobless

� ur guess is good as mine

PrimadonnaO:
200k monthly child support?

Will he also be paying the child's fees and other specific expenses separately?

That amount seems too small to raise a child.

It depends on the financial muscle of the husband bc the court will use dt to judge the case n amt he is to provide. If he earns salary the court will even ask for his pay slip to decide the amt he will contribute as child support.

If he earns 150k monthly may be as civil servant then 200k is excessive n court may not grant more than 70k monthly.

But if he is a Davido with 30billion in his account then court can grant 7million monthly

5yearsOldtechki:
Yes there's a child
Only landed properties

And yes he lied in the paper that he's has been supporting me financially, so I want to contest it and make him start paying that.

Ok engage the service of a lawyer to file a cross petition immediately

Ask for custody of the child
Depending on his financial strength ask for 200k monthly child support (that is assuming his nature of work can afford it)

Also 15m general damage etc
A smart lawyer is all u need

5yearsOldtechki:
Do you know how much this might cost me co's I'm not financially bouyant

It depends on the lawyer involved from 100k to 500k. Never the less u can pay stage by stage.

You have read his petition for divorce thoroughly, is there anything u want to contend? Are you okay with everything in there? If so then u may not need to spend bc the divorce will be granted in court with or without ur cross petition.

You only need to file a cross petition when u have some things to contend in his petition.

Is there any child?
Properties to share?
Etc

5yearsOldtechki:
My ex husband recently filed for divorce after 3years of separation.

The clerk brought the court summons to me yesterday and I'm absolutely clueless on what to do.

Please someone should put me through.

U need to get a lawyer to file a cross petition. Just have enough money for the case

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

You are a kid

Everyone's wife was once other men sex mates, except for those that married as virgin.

These days most ladies date for money n have several sex mates dt fu ck n pay them, now it doesn't matter if she lives with her parents or not.

They will easily hook up with a man online n go n bang him for cash.

This is one fact every man has to deal with as long as she is not a virgin.

Take a trip to our tertiary institution n u will see most ladies living with men for 4 - 7 years doing all wifey duties.

People do change over time, provided she can still have kids just deal with it

Myzubby:
well my candid advice is this
if you are not certain of what you are going there to do better stay in your own country
some are making it right there in Germany while others are not . So it will all begin with the purpose for travelling . Are you travelling with just a hope of making it or do you have a concrete reason for travelling?

.

Almost every one travels for greener pastures, that much is known

LordReed:
According to the Bible the god's love is conditional or else why would he need to forgive you your sins.

U only need to accept Jesus n he loves u unconditionally

duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

A fool at 40 is likely a fool forever, just continue until 65 then u will learn the hard way

Hathor5:
Do you agree?

I am watching a series and in one of the episodes a couple goes to see a marriage counselor. She tells them that marriage is not about unconditional love but an agreement to show up the best we can. It is meant to challenge each spouse to bring out the best in them.

How useful is this kind of advice?

Only God can love unconditionally

proclinician:
Mine shows p0430 and p0420. I use 11litres for 85 km highway. It's lexus es300. My cats are present and I don't know if o2 sensors are the culprit.

3.0l V6 engine

ur ride is okay

Kelvin30286063:
I have a problem with my car and I need the help of experts in the room but I'm going to start by explaining how it all started.
Last week, my car oil life reached 5% as indicated on my info screen and I decided to service it before it reaches 0.
I decided to take the car to a mechanic that I know is very good cuz I also wanted to fix an overheating issue I had. I haven't used him before but I've heard so much about him.
I called Gazzuzz to supply the oil as usual but he told me the price has changed. The oil is now 30k plus 4k transportation fee.
I decided to check the mobil at my location and they also told me the price is 30k. I thought to myself, since the price is the same, why not just buy it here and save yourself the stress of Lagos drivers and the 4k transport fare.
I bought the Mobil 1 oil,
Long story short, after my mechanic serviced my car, he told me the oil did not gauge. It was then I check the keg and noticed that they sold 4 litre to me for 30k instead of the 5litres I usually buy from Gazzuzz.
I wanted to go back there and rake for them but of what use. They are just going to say that that's their price. So I let it go and told my mechanic to wait and let me find out if I can get 1 litre of the oil and send it over to him.
I called Gazzuzz again and he said he doesn't have the 1 litre and he doesn't know if there is 1 litre of premium mobil 1 oil.
I said okay, I guess I'll just buy another 5 litres, he told me he's at Benin and can deliver it on his way back the next morning but I have to wake up early to cross him at Ore.
I decided to do that, but I woke up late that morning, infact his call woke me up. He told me he was on his way and I knew immediately that I won't meet up.
So I called my mechanic who is also at Ore, told him to help me send one of his boys to receive the oil from Gazzuzz but I received the shocker of my life.
HE SAID I SHOULD NOT WORRY, THAT THEY HAVE SEEN THE 1 LITRE AND THEY BOUGHT IT AND TOPPED THE OIL, IT'S OKAY NOW.
I was like, are you sure it's the same full synthetic mobil 1 oil. He said it's the same.
Okay oo, that means my problem is solved.
But when I got there and started my car, immediately I got the error: CHECK OIL LEVEL on my car screen. I told the mechanic and he said maybe I should clear it. I cleared the error and it stopped.
But as I was driving back, any time I speed above 100km, the error pops up and starts flashing.
Till now, no solution. I check the oil level and it gauged but I'm beginning to suspect that they didn't use the same FULL SYNTHETIC OIL I bought to top it.

I'm even scared to use the car now cuz the engine is 800k and I can't risk losing my engine because of small error.
Please gurus, what should I do now. Should I drain the oil and reservice the car or what.
Im even confused cus all my search online said my oil pressure sensor is bad but from the story above, I don't think that's the case.

Exactly the problem I solved on my Corolla

Ur engine is dirty with alot of particles that has blocked the oil pump n filter.

Get a mechanic to wash ur bottem plate, oil pump and change oil filter. Drain the oil and filter it using a sieve n put back or buy another if u are bouyant. Ur problem will be solved.

lanrexdo:
Needed

check on jumia

Dozieson:
is it the same cel you reported the last time? P0171?

Yes it's back

Dozieson:
Bro, your oil is dirty. have your mechanic remove the bottom plate to empty all oil? if no do so ASAP. again, what about the screen protecting the oil pump? it should be clean and washed with fuel too. which oil are you using for servicing?

total quartz 5000 20w50

DMechyy:
Tell your mechanic to remove and clean yours first, or change like he advised, pointless if he's buying used. You can do a resistance test on your own.

If after installing, you still have the oil light blinking, then you might have a bigger problem to deal with

ok
Do you know any modern mechanic in Enugu dt performs full car diagnosis. i have CEL on too

My oil pressure light comes on and off frequently on my journey of about 150miles.

My mechanic has serviced the oil pump.

Note no engine sound change n oil level remain full no change or shortage.

What could be the problem

2004 Corolla, my mechanic is saying we need to change oil switch n maintains I can be driving it like that in the mean time that there is enough oil in the engine

Dozieson:
I mean Engine is getting old

About 168k miles. It runs quite okay

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Mmgboji:
Clean your plugs with iron brush, clean your MAF sensor with MAF cleaner. Clean injector nozzles. Clean Fuel filter. Erase code. Your car should be running fine again. I have had this codes on my camry and this were the remedy.

i have replaced all spark plugs and car is running fine but shorting oil periodically, i suspect valve cover gasket.

see changed plugs

amedualiyu:
P0171 for Corolla is pure leakage. Manifold gasket is the major culprit. Am 99.9% sure. Remove the manifold gasket and apply some gum, that should fix it. That was what fixed my 07 Corolla(P0171) after changing fuel pump and mass airflow without solution.

I am thinking you are right bc the mechanic that replaced my plugs commented about some oil leak from the top bc of valve cover gasket leak