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Hmmm so it's about keeping a woman

It's a two way thing, we should be talking about what makes marriage work.

Needless project for now, not when owerri airport is less than 30km from Aba n less than 45km from umuahia.

Very clean but na fuel shark, best for a wealthy man 8 cylinders

Coketols:
But why do Nigerians wish for something to fail of which they have no stake in, why can't we just simply mind our business if we aren't interested.

Well, either ways you have a right of opinion, keep your reservations to yourself while I take the risk- if any exists, after all it is mine not yours, remember, my money too.

My 8th month with MBA, and I'm glad I did give it a try.

They are jealous we are making money in MBA, as if u are stopping them ignore the weaklings

freecreo:
[mine too, but I haven't seen any yet.
quote author=ogawisdom post=87431775]It's my pay day today

Waiting patiently for the alert

A credit alert can cure any sickness even Corona virus

Gbagan babe mine has dropped

That feeling that alert brings

Singing Jerusalem by master KG

This alert has made my boring Saturday exciting going out by 7pm to chill joor.

Sth is telling me to top up with better money but the risk is much let me just keep my investment portfolio diversified for safety sha

Kudos MBa forex

It's my pay day today

Waiting patiently for the alert

A credit alert can cure any sickness even Corona virus

Lol na small matter, I will first sell my house before announcing the divorce

Digital looter

Mariangeles:
A woman said to her husband "I'm not with you because I need you, I'm with you because I love you"
I thought that was a strong statement, and I wondered as a man, how those words would make one feel...
If as a man, those words were said to you by your wife or someone you're in a relationship with, how would that make you feel?

P.s: She's got her own business which is thriving

Guys, help me out here

She doesn't need to say that nonsense
Talk is cheap, action speaks louder than words all I need to see in action to be impressed is her loyalty and total submission.

She is just throwing her Independence at your face and guess what independent ladies are rarely loyal n submissive.

Op it's all possible but alot depends on the woman u settle down with and if u are financially stable

Family budget depends all alot of factors

Income
Location
Size of family and ages of members
Family standard

Every family should just live within their means that's the summary

airsaylongcom:
LOL...if u want to insult me, mention me. So I work for MBA not Tnatel. Tnatel is not MBA so why would I push any of Tnatel product? That Tnatel has representatives in some of our branches and not my branch doesn't mean I'm now "claiming to be" an employee of MBA. I AM an employee not claiming to be one.

When u invest with Tnatel you do so as your own choice. An investment with Tnatel is not an investment with MBA

Lol I never mentioned you it's all claims without evidence which anyone with internet access can do. Anyway best regards

what is most important is that forex is a high risk investment

The secret of investing below 360k with MBA is Tnatel, I am surprised the man claiming to be an employee without evidence doesn't know this but it's okay. Anybody can claim anything online.

The most important thing is that forex investment is a high risk one and everyone interested must be ready to lose whatever they have invested n not drink rat poison.

Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time talready. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.

Try and give your self some sense before it's too late, love is just a decision not just a feeling

You are making someone a priority who is only making you an option. He will only marry you if he doesn't get a better girl and he will surely get one. Open up your options

airsaylongcom:
Are you an employee?

It's hard to believe you are either an investor or an employee since u DNT know basic information about mba forex.

Minimum investment is 100k, minimum top up is 100k

Standard investment is 360k standard top up is 200k

airsaylongcom:
Your source is incorrect. The minimum investment WITH MBA is 360k

You are wrong minimum investment is 100k and minimum top up is 100k.

360k n 200k is their standard not minimum

Cc jahlove4jah

Man up

Call them to a meeting and talk to both of them and use the Bible as the authority to derive the wisdom to counsel them. I hope u understand the role of man and woman in a Christian marriage.

If this didn't work use a man of God to talk to them n pray for them too

uote author=Babatunde40 post=86793566]This issue is tearing my family apart. I need urgent assistance from Nairalanders.

I have this step brother who came back from Libya. He started staying with me in December 2018. Initially, he said he would stay a month and sort himself to move to another country. 1 month has turned to 1 year and 3 months.

My wife wants him to leave immediately. She has being hammering it because we have 3 daughters. The eldest is 12. My wife is scared that one day the guy might molest the girls. The house is not big. It is a 2 bedroom bungalow. This guy has being sleeping in the sitting room all this while. We are very uncomfortable with this.

How can we send him away as soon as possible? The thing here is that this guy travellered to Libya in 2009 with the intention to cross to Europe. But he could not. He stayed backed in Libya and started working. He is an electrician. As he was working and making money, he called me and said he just wants to build a small house to show for his efforts in Libya. He sent money and I bought a small land. Over a space of 4 years, in 2015, we completed a 2 bedroom bungalow. He then asked me to move there with my family. I was previously staying in a room and parlor self contain. He said he has no intention of coming back to Nigeria. So I moved in with my family and we have being living here since.

In December 2018, Arabs attacked him in Libya and robbed him. He had to run back to Nigeria. He said he will stay a month and move to another Africa country. Now he has stayed over a year. He is inconveniencing my family and he is a threat to my daughters' safety. Please how do I send him away?[/quote]If anything u guys should be the ones leaving the apartment not the landlord

Rapecase:
She complaining about the money is not my problem. My problem is the sort of names she called me and how she made it look like I don't fend for my family.

We have two daughters 4 in April and 1 one year old baby, herself and our maid yet I spend over 200k monthly maintaining the house and this is despite the fact that we are building. I still manage to reach out to her parents as well.

She doesn't have respect for u and that is a big issue to me. U are a wealthy man ooo given the way u give her money. Anything that is easily obtained is never appreciated. Why all the disrespect? Is she fed up? Probe deeper

There is no real issue here

U get sex 3 x weekly which is enough

She must not be the one to prepare your food

Which one is wedding anniversary? Abeg get serious

There is no woman that won't react if u give someone 100k just like ( women are selfish like dt)

Women are not command to love men, they are to submit to men, it men that are commanded to love women.

Once your wife respects u and submits to you it's enough

LadyBeee:
please was it both your capital and interest that was returned?

ROI return on investment

My capital will stay with them for 6 months before I can get it

Treat as high risk investment and put only money u can afford to lose starting from 100k

ThemanS:
Hello Nairalanders, I will be traveling to the Southern part of the Country for the first time in my life. I was born and raised in the North Central, Plateau state to be precise.

I will be traveling to Aba to buy some goods for a Client, initially I was planning to move to Port-Harcourt, then from there enter Aba and Onitsha after I'm done with shopping I will move back to Port-Harcourt and take a Bus back home.

Now the issue here is I have never travelled to the South, a lot of people here are telling me that there's no security, even lodging is not safe because EFCC might raid the lodge anytime. And the Streets are also not safe.

Pls Nairalanders in port and Aba should recommend a good and safe area for me. I was told keke and bus drivers don't usually speak English na so so language dem dey speak.

Help a brother pls.

Lol

Pls DNT Dm anybody for security reasons
Aba is relatively safe esp from 6am to 9pm depending on your area. There is no night life n keke will close by 9pm. Once keke closes bad boys will start operating in the name of taxi.

Almost every one even an idio.t can speak pigin English in Aba n will understand English even with oyibo accent

Be very careful inside ariria market, u must be very very street smart otherwise u will buy fake at the price of original guymen full market there is what is called oso ahia ie boys that sell everything even when they don't have any shop.

There are decent hotel all over Aba starting from 5k

U will have a pleasant experience, but ur 6th sense must be working always.

LadyBeee:
please where is their office in Lagos?

Check their website for that

cutegentility:
I had this friend and we are both coders. She is into back end technology while I'm into front end development. We happened to meet at the same group but we are of different country. She is based in the UK while I'm a Nigerian. We have been having conversations for close to 5 months but there is a kind of disagreement in the group which made me to accuse her because I felt she was wrong.
I exited the group - but she still come to me, trying to explain things to me but my excessive anger made me to loose my sanity.

In short, we stop communication. At the end of the day; she was innocent but the deeds are done. She blocked me because I never listened to her explanations and she really felt hurt.

I try to reconcile but all to no avail. I called her line, it seems she added my number to voice mail. I mail and text her some apology letter but no response from her.

What should I do? Should I keep apologizing or I should move on with life?

Please advise a brother!!!!!

Take your village elders along with you to go and beg her make sure u go with a cow.

0ubenji:
anyone who needs to be told this, is not matured enough to operate a bank acct.

I disagree, stop spreading negative energy. If your indices for measuring maturity is this then u have given yourself away

0ubenji:
that's got nothing to with them but your bank.. once money reach your area... the rest is upto your bank to notify you.

Yeah got your point
But
The main thing is for members to check their account balance on pay day if they don't see alert as from 7 pm

Wow

I have been worried since 4pm as I never see my valentine alert

I just checked my account balance now and saw d thing sitting Gidigba in my account

Up MBA forex 6 digits alert after 30 days

My first ROI

Pls they don't send alert sometimes just check your account balance on your pay days.

Let me go and drink with fresh fish jaree
Happy Val

So the coward didn't come back after all the chest beating online

Cownu na coward

Cownu don dey get sense small small heard he apologized to abia CP lately

writetopoker2:
My target is N2.3m, already am doing N600k

wow i like your faith honestly i wish i can risk more than 1m in mba forex

expecting my first ROI ON FRIDAY

I have my MOU already

my target is to break even in 7 months first

She will do much more if you do nothing about these excesses. She must submit to your authority or at least show u some respect otherwise u are a sissy husband.

When she comes back play some cold war for some time after which you call her and tell her with a Stern face that this is the last time she will disrespect you in this manner else she will go back to her father. She may raise voice on u just ignore until it happens again then take the drastic action.

Women only respect action men

etiumo:
MBA has just paid my first ROI. Kudos. I pray the investment last for at least the next 5 years

Congratulations mine will drop on Valentine's day

It will surely last for the next 5 years

The worst that can happen is drop in interest rate

By and Large all everyone needs to break even n start making profit is 7 months

adexpa:
I have seen quite a lot of interesting topics here on nairaland this fresh year that we just spent 48 days out of 365 days. I can confess that they are all quite interesting and educative.

I will love to share little light on the issue of responsibilities in family or relationship as regards NIGERIA . Please, let your understanding of the message have a NIGERIA scope, because I understand that a lot of us are wise now and we are already moving away from traditions and cultures.

When it comes to responsibilities between couples, intending couples and other relationships that involves man and woman, the man must understand that every financial part of it is for him. There is no where in Nigeria culture or tradition where woman takes care of the financial part no matter how buoyant she is at the time of the need.
Every man must have this understanding before they involve in any relationship in order to save them of heartbreak or disappointment from their partners because without such understanding, a man will be disappointed and get paralysed when he discovered millions in his partner account or purse when they are in need of just 100k and the woman did not bring out the money.
Men needs to understand that our women are not wired to spend from their own income, but they can buy heaven with someone else money (I am not criticising women here, I was only saying fact)

HOW TO HANDLE FINANCE WITH WOMAN
Firstly, you have to agree with the above fact.
There are practical ways to cheat woman without fight or argument and it is not making her feel like it is her responsibility. Never show her that you feel that it is her responsibility to partake in whatever you guys intend to finance. The best way is to tell her that you do not have or you are not capable of doing it alone at the moment and you will need her assistance. Let her feel that she is assisting you and not that it is her responsibility. The two of you will need to evaluate the need and agree on the sharing ratio; how much you expect from her as per support (not her duty).
You must make it clear as early as possible because it will take sometimes for her to adjust her believe system to the new reality(e.g wedding plans, you need to start discussing that immediately you agreed to marry each other n not when it is almost few weeks).

Men, we do not have to criticise our women in this regards, it is how they are been wired, either by upbringing or environmental factors. We only need to ask for wisdom to handle the reality.

Secondly, our men should not be seeing themselves as CEO who sits and watch their staffs doing all. We have to start assisting in domestic activities and also allow their opinions in all affairs ( not a must to apply opinion)

Women!!!!! Please, let us start reducing the believes and start seeing the responsibilities as a joint task.

Happy homes and relationships

Nonsense write up
The Bible is the reference point
Man is the provider but women the helper so it could be 70 : 30

Times have changed we are not living in 1905

This is 2020 any woman who does not have a source of income which she will use to contribute in supporting her home should not think of marriage. The man will only lead in shouldering responsibilities. Women are just naturally selfish that's why most of them see their money as theirs and the man's money as ours. Rubbish. If we both work and earn then home expenses is our joint responsibility I will only handle more as the man chikena