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quote author=destiny4luv post=75302002]I am having some pressure from family to settle down. I will be 34 soon. But sincerely speaking the only thing that is standing as a barrier now is finance. This I have explained to my family, but they keep insisting I must settle down this year no matter what.

I am the only son in the family and the last born. I have three elder sisters, and the pressure of late is just unbearable.I work with a construction company a contract job off and on and for about five months now I have been jobless still searching for a better job, but my family don't just want to see reasons with me. I have a serious girlfriend whom I intend settling with, but I can't do that without a steady source of income and my family just can't see things from my perspective.

Please is it advisable to solicit for funds to settle down while I keep searching for a better job or wait till I get a better job? A friend advice me that I should settle down and expect the best and made a scriptural reference that "he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord" meaning when I settle down different doors will just start opening that his elder brother did same thing and things are working out fine for him now. Please dear Nairalanders is this step advisable.[/quote]Only son and you are 34 and unmarred jeez

Only sons don't get pass 25 yrs unmarried though majority were married with someone else as sponsor.

Try and explain things to them that u will be willing to accept help if any

kawasng:
The land itself is N500k. Other exp u have to make to formalise it wl take extra close to N250K. This is normal u know. The location is abt two miles away from Umuojima but locatd along a tarred road. People are rushing that area now and prices surely wl go up. Dont be surprised prices jumping to a million before June this yr. Call me. 08142074243

2 miles from umuojimma hmmm

Ok it's around umuojimma axis, the associated costs is much ooo may be 100k should be max including ogbonna eche agu costs making everything 600k. How can I pay 250k to buy a land of 500k it doesn't make sense biko

kawasng:
We have a location in Osisioma area that you can get at N800,000, inclusive of all other associated expenses. How many plots do you wish to buy? I dont have established link for properties in Umuahia. Call me.

Which area of osisioma is this plot? I don't have up to that amount now. I am looking for something not more than 500k

Kadaria is a very rude idiot, look at the way she shouts on the audience where Senate president is seated even threatening to put of the microphone as if they were primary school children

Welcomme:
Sir, you mean civil defence, immigration, prison service and fire service earn more than custom? Why is everybody rushing to custom and customs seems to be the most difficult to get?

Even without salary u will live like a king in custom

Na the headquarter of bribe be DT I mean better bribe ooo on top of that they auction all sized items from food to cars to themselves. U can buy a bag of rice 3k and a range Rover sports 500k

U don't need salary in custom, in two yrs u will complete a duplex

Gold digger

Anu offia

U are well now abi

Ok

Hope they will also help some states to pay it

A state of emergency should be created in kogi state

88 gini

Abia doctors will never resign even if u owe then 10yrs, they will only go on strike n farm

5nairai:
Hi there, pls this is coming from a bleeding heart help me out if you can

I grew up with two senior sisters and am the only boy, right from when I was small, I tend to associate more with girls though am not gay.
Even when i hang out with guys, they tend to ride me. I have always had a tiny voice or let me just say a girl's voice.
I believed that when I grow up, all this would change.

Am almost 27 years old, girls don't take me serious, children don't respect me because of my skinny body and female voice.
The only thing that makes people know am a guy is that I don't have boobs and I have beards.

I want to settle down but I can't keep a relationship as girls easily disrepect me.

Please help me as my self esteem has damaged alot and i now have inferiority complex.

Dude stop crying already

Do you have a job that pays over 150k monthly
Do you have a car and your apartment
Do u dress well

No woman will take u serious until u sort out these areas

Her Toto has paid off finally

kawasng:
I wl get back to you. Drop ur number here.

When u have some answers just mention me

Get connection and get an instant job

Or create a job and save yourself the stress

stEmmy96:
Some people will still be at the rally no matter what order they give.



for cheap and quality bags, check my signature

Just pay 5k each and there will be stampede at the stadium

kawasng:
If you are interested in buying land in Aba to develop it now or in future, contact us to help you source it. We can assist in getting land for development for any purpose: residential, hotel, secondary and higher institutions, etc. Contact: Kapital Projects Consulting Associates, Aba. 08142074243

Which locations can one get a plot for 300 to 500k
Preferably around osisioma or a place not waterlogged

What about umuahia? U know of any low cost plots there

helinues:
That's why Pdp can never get reasonable votes in SW.

President - North East
Vice : South East
Senate president: North Central
Speaker: Possibly North East ( Dogara)

Nothing for South West bah...

Dem don already shared the post within themselves..

Dreams are good but when you over exaggerate, the outcomes are always fruitless

Now that u are VP whst different has it made to the lives of ppl of sw. Get sense Biko. What is important is for Nigeria to work

te author=youngwifeinneed post=75193836]He has become emotionally blank towards me, so I no longer feel loved. This is unlike before. To his credit, he has been a good husband and and father to me and our kid so far. Both of us work, he takes care of almost everything in the house and buys every property in our name as a family, while I support when I want to and I earn more than him.

He does not cheat on me, so also I do not cheat on him. However, I have one property I bought in my name, I told him my decision before making payment for it. He did not object my idea, and to be honest if he had objected my idea of buying the property in my name, I would have still gone ahead to buy it anyway, because I believe we are partners in the marriage and I have right to do whatever I want to do with my money. This emotional absence from him started after I bought the property in my name. Did I do anything wrong? What do I do to win him back? I am young, sexy and beautiful woman.

I buy the property in my name alone because I do not want to have regret in the future, maybe if my husband dies or marries another woman. I do not want my children to suffer.

I have been a guest of this forum for many years, and I always read and admire comments from popular people like pocohantas, funmisticqueen, cococandy, elder0001, lilian789, acidosis01, jakandeola, victorian, carammel, Eberechi24, NwanyiAwkaetiti, XhosaNostra. Also, I usually live my life according to your opinions because I do consider them brilliant. Help me people.


... LESSON LEARNED:


I have realized that truly, most people say things the way it suits them at any given time regardless of how bad it may be, whereas they do good and live in peace with their households when they log off. I will stop living on other people's opinions from now onward and start doing whatever I know is good. And never again will I mistrust anyone who has never betrayed my confidence on him or her.

My husband must see this, because I have decided to change from now onward, and I must also show my brother this thread, so that he can live in peace with his wife. Now I know that almost everyone like fairness.

Thank you all.[/quote]Your money belongs to you
You earn more than him
He takes care of everything in the house
You help when and if u like
He bought things using both your names

Finally u bought a property solely in your name in preparation for the divorce.

Madam you are a witch and not a wife, the mugu u call your husband is getting his senses back.

You have not bonded with your child

U come home once in a while and expect her to connect with u.

It happens when a child grows without the father, u only come in once in a while so she doesn't know u well.

Start bonding with her and stop forcing her to greet u, treat her nice n spend alot of time with her, buy her different things whenever u are back let her be excited to see u even if she associates u with a gift

If u do this she will practically kill u with love and follow u everywhere u go.

Viergeachar:
The CJN doesn't deliver judgment alone!

At worst, all the justices will vote!!

If u have sense u will see that the word "headed" suggests same.

He can easily influence votes with federal might, so get lost already

lekonso:
You are the greatest block head, is Tanko the only Justice in supreme court?

He will influence things with federal might do u see why u are a complete idiot, now get lost already

Neatly used Carina e with auto gear, sound engine

450k only, serious buyers only

ogawisdom:
Still available

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The same supreme Court headed by tanko

Block heads

Impeach the fat coward already

Minister for rigging is from Ekiti too so what are u saying, do ur research well

Nonsense ndi fake life

Corruption fighting back

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What are u coming back to do after spending fortune to study abroad and na scholarship