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Oh my gosh, crying seriously and thinking, what if I'm no more tomorrow and some one does dis to any of my kids? My prayer for every one is to have long life with good health and wealth

OP, I'm curious to know if that's how he handles others or just u? If u feel is the inability to have something doing that's making him treat u like a baby, call him one day and politely ask him to stop.
Nawao, funny enough, in future he would be wondering and be comparing the way u treat him and d way u treat ur mom special, considering how he toiled day and night to sponsored your education.

Lawsaite:
Lolz, I was in op shoe. Just last year. I was 21, my case is my step mom. She still flogs me like a criminal, worse still in front of her own children. I couldn't take it and and I did what you said, tho twas while defending myself.
That was my last day in that house. Only God knows what she told my father to make him ask me out to literally nowhere the following day.
Life has been hectic, but God has been Good

eyya, God will c u tru. Your dad no just try, he didn't hear from you and sent you out, who does dat?

light099:
Seems your dad is a perpetual ass whooper and since you're not yet making him feel proud to be a father, by travelling down home in a sleek car, perhaps on some weekends and dropping fat envelope in his hands, the only other way he feels like a father is by whooping your ass.

Like people say, age is just a number, your parents start to regard you as an adult, the moment you're able to survive on your own and they can live off on you.
If you're 50 years old still living under your parents and also living off them, then you're still a kid to them anytime any day, and your sorry ass can be whooped real bad, if situation warrants it. You don't amount to shiit to them, and they can fvck you up big time, if you trespass.
Since, you're yet to clock the criteria of an adult, the only choice left is to continue enjoying the ass whooping, while you work hard in order to gather enough escape velocity to break away from all the gravity of joblessness, grounding your ass in your parents' house.

lol, this your advice is on point but full of humour

SmartProf:
Even the Bible acknowledges that the poor will always be amongst us. That picture though looks like some parts of Asia like Bangladesh or Indonesia but that's not to say there aren't poor neighborhoods in Europe or America. The question is what's the percentage of people who are living in poverty there unlike in Africa. Look from my personal observation, a lot of these poor guys in sane countries are provided with incentives and social welfare schemes including weekly payments by govt, especially legal residents but some choose to beg in the street with their dogs or pets or sleep by the entrace to malls and bus stations. So let's not look that way but rather demand of our govt a better society and not justify our failed society with what it is like in Europe, America or other climes.

your comment is on point

Not surprised

Pa3cia:
The pain nor be here o, try using herbs, it works.

thank you

DenreleDave:
I pray u wunt be in a situation whereby u just av to do it....

I pray so... She left there but things weren't better still, so she had to go back

there's is a friend of mine who was mistreated so much by her guy, I couldn't stand it and I told her to call it quit, she was telling me the guy is their helper and I said ok. Dis guy humiliated her in general hospital bcuz she was chewing gum, and d guy slapped her in public saying she chews like harlot. I told d girl dis man can't marry u and I became her enemy, we stopped talking and I also didn't pity her anymore no matter how d guy abuse her. last last she left d idiot, and she and her family didn't die. D lady is married now with kids.
Ha I don't pity my fellow ladies who feels is good when guys takes them as slave thereby abuse dem, except d guy was a pretender all along.

DenreleDave:
U r even a lady...

Let me tell u, I am a guy but whenever my fellow guy is maltreating a lady, I will never keep quiet....


How can u talk like this, ain't u a lady at all

hmmm u don't get it, for that lady to become an ex simply means either she called it quits or d guy himself quit bcuz of what ever happened between dem dat couldn't be resolved, there's no any other place she could have managed for what ever reason she's there in d first place, even if she has to suffer and tolerate some nonsense for the time being instead of the idiot place. Abeg I can't pity who ever refuses to pity herself.
Only God knows what she might have passed through in d hand of d ex bcuz, according to her she was in desperate situation.

DenreleDave:
Customer dede ni

Nairaland pls permit me to post this


Attention pls

Ladies and guys around lekki ajah... Incase you have police or military men that can help... I am far from the said location.. Even the lady and her frnd don't know what to do again

How can you help a lady ooo? Her Ex wunt let her rest and she wants to leave his house, firstly he locked her inside the room this morning and went to work... What if sumtin like fire lights up in the house, that is how he will lock up somone daughter against her will inside room.

Later He came back and collect her phone again... The guy is her ex but she just stayed there bcox she doesn't have accommodation.... But the guy keep beating her and accusing her of sleeping with other guys...

Imagine, this guy wudnt let her leave.. She wants to leave but this guy is seized her phone again...
I called him but he disconnected after telling him to give her the phone na....

I am very far from her.. Her parents are not in Lagos..

If there anyone that can help, I can give address... The issue is not much, let him just give her her phone, let her go...

His name is Williams... Williams shud let her go..

This is his phone number 0803 943 9205..
The lady has succeeded in snatching Williams phone and left for d place to put her loads.. Help us call Williams to release the lady phone and take his phone back

I don't know if u Sud upload Williams picture here

shame no even catch u and u post dis, she's staying with her ex, who does dat? Which kind lack of accommodation are you taking about?
Shame on u and d lady, what ever she find go dere, she must c am

Op sorry, I came here to learn probably find solution to mine with comments, hmmm, I have tried almost every thing people have listed here but, it always result to temperally relief.
Every night brush with any toothpaste made of herbal plus medicine, if u can find guava leave, please chew it but don't swallow, take pain relief. Mind u, when you feel relieved, don't ever use dat side to chew food. Mine started February, and I have been battling with it, But when ever I feel I'm ok and use dat side wahala go start again, so I have made up my mind not to use dat side again and also pray d other side doesn't trouble me later later.
Op sorry. D pain no be here

Sokoto own never teach dem lesson.

Me wey no get d garri for house now nko. Abeg enjoy una garri, and d garri even dey rich

If u can use your official car with the driver attached to it, to take ur kids to school then I see no difference to what he did.
What's the essence of big position when ur family can't enjoy the benefits it brings? No b everything we attack and criticize

Hmmm, wetin kukuma concern me for d matter, one thing I know for sure is that, one of dem must surely regret their statement.

10mobile:
We pray the meeting yields positive results. Let them not accept brown envelopes though and come back and begin to double-talk.

no need to pray against what u already know wl happen, abracadabra will happen before u know it, and dey go call am off

It's ok.

MrsRighteousness:
you are free to insult me, someone needs this prayer. this message is for someone. don't judge or concur easily

confirmed, u ain't what u claimed to be, u are supposed to ignore every negative comments and pass after all u have passed the message.

julybaba:
Rada Rada

don't mind her, wether na d msg vex me or transformers, I no even know

MrsRighteousness:
Serious healing measage
I want to pray for someone here in nairalander, your dad is seriously sick at the point of death and it looks the is no way to go, but here is the good news, the message is for you, get a jug and fill it up with water and read psalm91 inside give it to your dad to drink and bath with it, do this for two days morning and night, in two days your dad health will be transformers for the best..

what's the nonsense? Ur own even worse. Rada rada prophetess

This question get as e b o. It depends on ur standard. A man earning 100k might be feeling on top and still be able to enjoy those things u mentioned, a man earning like 800k might be indebted to different financial institution bcuz of his taste.
For example, I cook local rice garnished with locust bean and sapele fish and feel satisfied, d other one cooked fried rice with salad and still not satisfied because he used bama as d cream instead of heinz salad cream.
Na taste apart from family wahala. No money is too big or just enough for me.

Sultty:
no brains spotted. How does that translate to sin

it is, he was warned by his brothers but disobeyed dem. Disobedience is a sin too

Igbochief001:
Supporting buhari in 2015 ....even when my Igbo brothers warned me ...I was such a fool

sorry, u are not a fool, he deceived him self with his empty promises

adolfHitler1934:
What difference has it made since the closure other than untold hardship here in Nigeria and humiliation by Ghana and other tiny West African countries.

This government does not have any economic policy as they didn't prepare before grabbing power which was their major target.

no be say dem no prepare, he came to deal with us for rejecting him so many times.

Good news at least

Ehuatamuigunisi:
The thread is achieving its purpose. Concentrate on Anambra issue while your backyard is seriously bleeding.

bleeding ke, it will never b
But call a spade what it is, cuz dis is d problem we are facing right now, our president refuses to acknowledge what people really are, and he called dem a mere scavengers looking for what to eat. People with sophisticated weapons compared to the ones our officers are using are mere scavengers?
Bauchi and Anambra are really competing with crime dis days, acknowledge that too. I'm not tribalistic o abeg

SilverNorGold:
They're bandits. BH has been rendered powerless already.

But I trust in the leadership of President Buhari. The bandits too will be decimated.

if not for dis kind news, I for laf at ur comment, let dem keep deceiving demselves, I just pity our soldiers dat have to go to wherever they are being posted to. May God protect us

Ah, honestly I think Anambra is now synonymous to evil

Karleb:
Serve the food.

Get a very good cane.

Keep a straight face.

Order them to eat.

If they don't, give the eldest a correct stroke.

The others will cooperate.

Let them eat with tears in their eyes.


I don't know why Africans are shouting "don't beat them" "don't beat them".

Spanking here is legal, so far you are not abusing them.

lol

MartinCorridon:
You guys watch too much CSI and start forming detectives.

Do you know what staging a scene would cost you? Precious time that can make a killer caught.

Nigerian Police doesn't have the forensic means to effectively investigate crimes. No DNA database, no dusting for fingerprints. Why would a killer then waste time to fake a murder ?

The only type of murderer who can be motivated to stage a scene is a spouse or family member..and it would be in the house to throw off suspicion.

but how did he tied d rope to what ever it was tied to? May b d place has been tampered with