onyekachee:
some girls can be so shameless,just imagine her saying I still didn't misbehave despite the fact that you are married
Arrant nonsense
in my own words she married the wrong man sorry to say,and she has to deal with his infidelity now and always
But best option will be to leave the marriage because that man can never change

Op, unfortunately am going to be a bit hard on you, so bear with me... Huummmm

Please learn not to talk when there is need for quietness.

Forgiveness is fundamental in marriage.

When did marriage turn to a place of in & out? .

Are ur parent still living together? .

If they are together take time to ask ur mother about ur father, then you will get to know more about marriage, may be he must have done worse things than the one on this platform.

Mind you, am not justifying this young man actions, but learn for future purpose and stop promoting broken home...

Take care and God bless.

Huummmm, great delicate decision.....
I pray that God will help you to find ur true love.


But going through the words of my father, he said when you leave your wife because she didn't know how to cook, you may end up having a great cook for her replacement but sure the next one will have another question u can't answer.
Hence, u try another one to another one until you will later find out that the one u left is an angel.

Please if any of us find our self in such situation please forgiveness is the answer, God bless our home /family

Time without number I tell people from my place to stay low, don't go home and poss with your nysc uniform... Huummmm. If not for God this pple are ready to kill us all.
R. I. P

Merlissa:



GIRLFRIEND

Unfortunately I can't do it for just a wife, she must be the mother of my child /children, hence girl friend is a NO NO for me

Not sure of what you mean... Huummmm Are you talking about a GIRL FRIEND or WIFE?

Am presently in Bonny, but never have access to such information except now on Nairaland, though I stayed in RA, but it's so close.

I have spent some time going thru comments... Huummmm

One thing is sure, she will later find the need to be with this young man, because she will surely missed him @ most critical moment of her marriage, knowing fully well the she has lost a value that she never tot of now and there is nothing any body can do, such moment will come... Hence regret is not far from such attitude either male /female folks.

What make a man or woman long after his or her EX, is because of related issues like this.

If a relationship is going to end both parties must be involve, I don't want to dwell much on this, but check around u... Huummmm, even married pple who seems to be tired of each other and get divorced will one day miss that very minute thing in each others life.


HENCE, her decision is a season film that will continue to play till only God know, God will spare our life and keep this forum active for us to learn more lessons from her life.

Op, keep on the watch out and give us update on this platform.

Vinshu:
Not true. Broke niggas date the first but can't keep it up Nd marry the second. #Fact

not true in all cases, i left a doctor to marry a teacher

ireneony:
Kingtom this could be us but you are....

I must confess, your from view is Interesting

Good to see this...huuuummmm, when we would be telling them to stop Ass F**king they will not listing, this is one of the outcome of Ass F**cking

nma24:
So because she's married, she doesn't have any right again to say no to intercourse when she feels she doesn't want it? The guy is just an animal. Such men needs to b screwed to the point they start begging for mercy.

No my dear, sure it bad to raise ur hand against ur wife... Huuummm
But mind u, I have been married for Some years now and think I can relate to Some of this attitude our wife put up when they are not happy with their Hubby.

Sex was just mentioned, but that's not the reason so many things are involved, check a scenario when both of u are in good term, nothing seem to offend u, but when there is an un-resolved issues pressure get up and un neccessary things turns big...huuummm.

I pray God will help us manage our home at hour of crisis

halfricanadian:
I can why not if he loves me than d world does

please i can postrate so far im his priority too

Bt if not

Express ti take over leave road for LAMATA

How are u halfricanadian?

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totally in agreement with you, very much applicable to me...

What did I hear u say? "u love him", close ur mouth young woman, u didn't love him, this are the things u love.
1. U love his present Status.
2. U love his bright future (human arithmetic).
3. U love to Associate with success.
4. U love to eat where u did not labour
5. So many more... Huuummm, is that not what u want.
Pple like u are many and this has always be their lot, young woman enjoy it. Ok