₦airaland Forum

6ixVille:
My one month salary for rent can't get me a decent place

safarifarms:
What do you think of the following Google search results?

SoNature:
The truth is that this life is more complicated than most of us think. Blessings and curses are of the Lord. The Maker of the universe will decide whether to honour those words or not.

Jeon:
So funny.
We still have traditional ladies good for modern guys.


I won't lie, those in marriage are regretting. This is what I always heard whenever I turned around.

Epinigirls:
I'm almost 30
From time to time, I engage in hookups for money
I also have a small shop
I'm a graduate, and I look decent

I'd love to raise a mixed race family

Now, I get into relationships with Nigerian guys every now and then, sometimes I keep what I do for money a secret from them, sometimes I open up to the ones I feel are more mature and understanding

But I've noticed that none of these relationships ever last beyond 8 months, never!
I can get offended and just turn my back on any guy

Most recently, I was chatting with a new lover, after less than 2 months of meeting, discussing something very trivial, I was trying to make a point and hit a nerve for him, he started cussing, I called him immediately to be sure he was joking, his first statement was "what do you want?"

In less than 60 seconds, i ended the call, blocked all his lines and
blocked him on all social media platforms.

New relationship gone!

Sometimes, I console myself that they weren't high quality individuals, sometimes I chastise myself for giving up too early on them.

Is it because I don't see a solid future with these guys bearing in mind I want to have a mixed family?

Or am I supposed to get that feeling that I'm going to have a future with a guy during the relationship

I'm confused honestly

Ijelenwanyioma:
You are the only one getting my point. Maybe he plan marrying someone else in the future which I won't be part of his properties again

whizzler:
U guys won't make ur comments without resulting to insults. If machines are not there it's the new government's duty to get them , same goes for water and electricity. My grouse is her statements on the structure. Pls don't mention me if u can't criticize my comments without insults

Hydriss:
R.I.P to the dead. But then, UI doesn't offer any course called Business Administration. Probably DLC🤷

greatiyk4u:
First class graduate of University of Ibadan, Opuofoni Freeborn Ebimotimi has been beaten to death in Bayelsa for stealing bread.



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Merry100:
Olodo be calming down nah, relationship is not a do and die affair, Pele o broda if I don't have you, nobody can have you.

Alajenboko:
Edakun oo

manny4u:
North Central.
Lafia is terrible for a capital city.
Minna is not that good too.
Forget lokoja the aura and atmosphere alone oozes of nonsense.

North west
Gusau the name suggest its gutter.
Sokoto that one is just there.

North East
Except for maiduguri and gombe the rest are rubbish.

South South
Yenagoa is over rated.
Benin too many old buildings.

South East.
Umuahia is rubbish.
Abakaliki is picking up compared to the last time I was there.
Awka could still do better.
Owerri is not that bad.

I have been to all the states in Nigeria so I am talking from experience.

Samantha124:
Exactly, it's as if virginity is a character.

Shortyyy:
Honestly, the worst person to date is a quiet person. Slow poison dangerous in action fear them oo. E better make my man be jovial and outspoken. So I'll know when he's happy, when he's angry and when he's sad.

Not these ones that don't talk, won't share emotion and won't express themselves. Never again.

You'll be dating yourself and be thinking you're dating someone.

Bar1941:
Thesame Anambra community that celebrates the fraudster called Bitter Obi that sent their children home due to high tuition fee and embezzlement.

If Obi made education affordable and invested the loot he used to invest in France with the name of his daughter in Anambra, maybe the kidnapper would have been a better person than who he was!

FatherBona:
Good Character, who virginity epp


Frankly speaking, I prefer a partner who ain't a novice in d oda room.

Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

seunmsg:
Yahaya Bello must be joking. He’s either insane or deliberately planning for APC’s defeat. Another Ebira man cannot succeed him; power should move to Kogi east or west.

Wealthier:
Hmm. Thanks I appreciate. I've can talk

ChybuzzDD:
You seem to be giving excuses for this evidently weak husband.

How's it possible for your family members to send your wife out, and ''you will just be confused'' Nawaoo

If the guy had stood up like a man from the beginning when every family member was testing his/her 'superpower' status on his wife, things wouldn't have reached this ugly stage.

The guy didn't protect his wife/nuclear family enough and i must say that.

Kingwadada85:
before you act think deeply about others that doesn't have what you have...my dear I have been looking onto God for good nine years now. You removed the special baby God gave you easily.

Sorry... but am very sad right now 😞😞😞

EriMma1:
Why does this sound fake?

Anyways if it true then I don't think terminating the pregnancy is what is really bothering you but the fear that the quack nurse didn't do a good job which might pose a risk to your life resulting in complications and exposing your evil deed to the whole world. That's the feeling you having and not really one of remorse.

Keep sleeping around unprotected and doing abortions at will. Later you'll start jumping from one church to another looking for the fruit of the womb.

What girls nowadays do with their youth ehn? Chai! No moral values left in the youth of this generation. Your senior partners in crime will soon flood here to call me holier than thou judgemental fellow,. I agree and I won't stop until every girl stops this indecent wayward lifestyle that is fast decaying the society. Tufia!

sisisioge:
You're surely going through hormonal blues. Pele. I hope this doesn't become a huge scar in your life. Biko go see a doctor for proper assessment of your pregnancy or non pregnancy. It will be crazier if you end up with an infection, incompetent uterus or congenital baby.

It is insane to have done it without a reason in the first place....meaning, you also need your mental state checked. Something is causing you to act unnaturally. It is really well fa.

Coolestguy2023:
Chimamanda is an illitrate bigot that shouldn't be taken serious but her madness have been adequately addressed.
You can be learnered and still be stupid just like her

Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it not better to be single and have peace of mind?

immanuelsize:
it might sound stupid to you but i that created the thread have some questions that need answers.

Olachase:
I Base here in lagos

Olachase:
I went to a technical college 3 years (Mechanical Engineering) within 3 years I have worked with 5 manufacturing companies as Mechanical Technician, I'm currently taking home 100+ salary, by next year I will enrolled for OND then HND, my boss told me I will be needing those certificates in future time for promotions and salary bargain, I'm not ashamed I want to start my OND at the age of 27
Pls nairaland guard me Dos and Dont in polytechnic