Wealthier:


Hmm. Thanks I appreciate. I've can talk

Please don't add more to your issues by giving this people your details, even if you end up connecting and possibly marriage, this moment will come back to hunt you...

Remain anonymous and never disclose your identity, my little penny.

ChybuzzDD:


You seem to be giving excuses for this evidently weak husband.

How's it possible for your family members to send your wife out, and ''you will just be confused'' Nawaoo

If the guy had stood up like a man from the beginning when every family member was testing his/her 'superpower' status on his wife, things wouldn't have reached this ugly stage.

The guy didn't protect his wife/nuclear family enough and i must say that.

Thanks you Sir, I would have been in this kind of mess too, but I put everyone where they belong, you don't wait till the last minute before acting like a wounded lion...

I pity the young lady, it's unfortunate.

Kingwadada85:
before you act think deeply about others that doesn't have what you have...my dear I have been looking onto God for good nine years now. You removed the special baby God gave you easily.

Sorry... but am very sad right now 😞😞😞

Maybe, maybe not, your wife may have put herself through similar situation in the past, hence causing the challenge at hand.
This young girls do alot with their youthful age and when the rewards come they establish inclusiveness, as if you are part of their early actions.

Imagine someone marrying this young woman tomorrow and issue comes up, they will say for better for worse...

Our society has been messed up

EriMma1:
Why does this sound fake?

Anyways if it true then I don't think terminating the pregnancy is what is really bothering you but the fear that the quack nurse didn't do a good job which might pose a risk to your life resulting in complications and exposing your evil deed to the whole world. That's the feeling you having and not really one of remorse.

Keep sleeping around unprotected and doing abortions at will. Later you'll start jumping from one church to another looking for the fruit of the womb.

What girls nowadays do with their youth ehn? Chai! No moral values left in the youth of this generation. Your senior partners in crime will soon flood here to call me holier than thou judgemental fellow,. I agree and I won't stop until every girl stops this indecent wayward lifestyle that is fast decaying the society. Tufia!

My only challenge is why not protect yourself when you know you are not ready for pregnancy and baby issues or possibly use drug after, if it's accidentally happened...

sisisioge:


You're surely going through hormonal blues. Pele. I hope this doesn't become a huge scar in your life. Biko go see a doctor for proper assessment of your pregnancy or non pregnancy. It will be crazier if you end up with an infection, incompetent uterus or congenital baby.

It is insane to have done it without a reason in the first place....meaning, you also need your mental state checked. Something is causing you to act unnaturally. It is really well fa.

Thanks for being sensitive and understanding...

Coolestguy2023:
Chimamanda is an illitrate bigot that shouldn't be taken serious but her madness have been adequately addressed.
You can be learnered and still be stupid just like her

Even when we cry, please let try as much as possible to see, I'm super sure Chimamanda is more learned than you...

Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it not better to be single and have peace of mind?

Just #100k in WHOLE two months, more are coming when kids is/are added...

Wishing you all the best, we are there already, my only consolation is that our father went through worst to raise us, why not keep PUSHING and hand over the barton to the next person better than you received it...

immanuelsize:

it might sound stupid to you but i that created the thread have some questions that need answers.

Ask the person that own the soap or follow her to PH and ask from the source

Olachase:
I Base here in lagos

Assuming you are in East, I would have Link you up to Nekede where you can run a part time program that will not affect your job.
I was once in your shoe, but everything comes easy when I got the Link

Olachase:
I went to a technical college 3 years (Mechanical Engineering) within 3 years I have worked with 5 manufacturing companies as Mechanical Technician, I'm currently taking home 100+ salary, by next year I will enrolled for OND then HND, my boss told me I will be needing those certificates in future time for promotions and salary bargain, I'm not ashamed I want to start my OND at the age of 27
Pls nairaland guard me Dos and Dont in polytechnic

Your location?

Hismercy20:

Okay, Thank you!

Energy drink does not solve problem like this, instead it's worsen the situation... Energy drink is for people who want to last long, not for person that ejaculate before penetration..

Hismercy20:


Thank you! I have seen a doctor and he said it's just anxiety but deep down I know this is not just anxiety

It is, nothing more than that...

oluwaseunamos33:
Chai! How I wish I have money I would have buy him house instead

Please Brother, settle your life first, this guys didn't plan for their future and that's why you see them like this, no investment on property, no investment on children that can take responsibility for their life at Old age... They majorly spend their money in BAR & BRA, neglecting their children, they miss-appropriate fond, buy and do what is not important, I don't pity them I'm sorry for sounding this way

Kingpele:
Tinubu should settle his problem afterall he created lagos and everything in it...but I don't know why some actors end up poor after decades in the industry...I think actors waste money during their prime more than actresses.. actresses spend less and still flex more than actors

I wonder what this men invest on in their youthful age, no investment on property, no investment on children who can take responsibility for them at Old age... Imagine a quite notice and you are crying to Nigerian, I'm sorry to sound like this, just wondering what did they do with their earnings?

Queendera:
It's painful. We get it.

But time they say heals all wounds, well except that of a sickle cell child.

You are not limited to the two ladies you mentioned.

Leave the first girl alone. And if you don't find the second girl desirable for marriage, leave her alone too.

You are a man. A hunter. Go into the forest and get your hands dirty. Find other girls and start again.

What a perfect way to describe man, you sure going to be a good wife...

breakthrough22:


I will accept her if she comes back before February 1st .She can't stay three weeks out of my house if she want to come back .I miss her already .

Brother how old are you, your comments makes me feel you are too young to have a woman, money making alone doesn't makes you ready for marriage...

pocohantas:


People have moved on. If you didn’t mention it, I done forget. Even Chidinma Cucumber, if I see her now, I won’t recognise her. That is not to say one shouldn’t be careful with what they put out there in this social media generation.

When the need arise, all will be remembered.
We need to be careful about what we do with our lives, check all the politician and how they get messed up, it's things they tot was their past...

OboOlora:
Make e nor just be like say dem nor publish am, pple wey go fill the position don get offer letter sef.

If u nor get money and u nor get connections for Naija, e better make u just relocate abroad where the system favours merit and nothing else

That's not true, I work within the facility, please if you have the required qualifications, please apply NLNG is different...

ZIMDRILL:


it depends how you want to deal with it

1 not upsetting your wife

2 dealing with like man

3 not getting involved

4 dont enable her husband to relax

1 not upsetting your wife aka accepting that your wife's sister and wife would happy that you didnt throw out too

2 dealing it like man, you were supposed to consulated before moving in and understand abit of why she left

3 not getting involved, your in-laws are the ones supposed to take her in while they get to know the issue and finding the solution, its not your issue is supposed to go to her parents or other elder relatives

4 enable her husband to relax, him knowing that you accomodated them, he will relax in solving the difference

The woman husband is dead... Read

SmartPolician:
I cannot even stand a girl who cannot read and write. What are we going to be discussing exactly?

With such girls, you will always live in shame whenever you are having discussions with your friends and your wife decides to show her ignorance

The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who can not read and write, but those who can not unlearn to learn

Tmex:


9" 400, 6" 350 sir.

Too much on the high side, I 've something cheaper than that, thanks for your response...

Tmex:


For your building materials such as vibrated blocks, cement, sharp sand granite etc on akobo axis we are at your service.

We also do on-site blocks production for our clients .

Thanks

How much is your stone dust block 9" and 6"

kay29000:


Ojoo

Good, mine is at Akobo side

kay29000:


In the outskirts of Ibadan where I live, plot is 500-700k. I got mine like 3 years ago... About to start work on it soon.

Same here, which part of Ibadan are you?

QuinModah:
with National Housing Scheme, if you have remitted in the last 6 months you have access to 7-15 million max and payable in 30yrs. Kindly consult your HR for detailed information.

Please kindly give details of how we can access this opportunity... Thanks

AsomArchitectNG:
We give all the glory to God almighty for his enablement, grace and might.

It's yet another of our building project in Oron, Akwa ibom State as we've agreed on terms to construct a 3bedroom bungalow with Bq, gate house and generator House for a nairalander... The details of the project are as follows:

Client: Nairalander
Location: Oron,Akwa Ibom State
Duration: 60 days
Contractor: AsomArchitectNG

We duely appreciate all nairaland family for your continued support and encouragment. Cos we wouldn't have gone this far without you guys.

Design Features:
|*Entrance√ |*Ante-Room√ |*Visitor's Wc√ |*Living Room√ |*Dinning√|*Kitchen/Store√ |*2-bedrooms(ensuite)√. | *1-Master's bedroom(ensuite)√ | *Laundry√ | *Exit√

Extra
See link below for our architectural designs... We build just according to how it's designed
https://www.nairaland.com/7185284/starting-building-project-checkout-lastest

How much is the design of the building and what's the total estimate for the building? Just the 3bedroom flat

Olojuobinrin:
Will keep following, maybe I should drop my estimations too , though I already completed the house it’s a 3bed will be moving in by December!

Please drop your estimate, I'm starting my 3bedroom immediately the rain stop... Thanks

obiekunie01:
DNA on your other kids and you will be surprised.

Please don't do this, your sanity is important.. ok

Natural2Heal:

Really? I doubt a vice chancellor of a university can be a punter. Sports betting is for the poor and low lifers

Including people staking million, are they also poor?

omoluabi87:
The following genuine and affordable farmlands are available for sale and or lease.

1. 10,000 acres of virgin farmland at Igbo-Ijaiye, Kajola LGA of Oyo state. It is just off the tarred road and roads leading to the town are very motorable. There’s also a river along one side of the land.
Price is N40,000 per acre. Minimum purchase is 1,000 acres.

2. Five hundred acres of virgin farmland available at Eruwa, along abeokuta-Iseyin rd. The land is right along the main road and has a couple of seasonal streams.
Price per acre is N180, 000 and minimum quantity is 5 acres.

3..One thousand acres of farmland is available for sale off Abeokuta-Iseyin rd. It is just afew minutes off the express and has good access roads.
Price is N70, 000 per Acre and minimum quantity is 50 acres

4. Two hundred acres of virgin farmland available for sale along Abeokuta-Iseyin road, around Eruwa, Ibarapa East LGA Of Oyo state.
It is directly along the express road and comes with a registered survey plan.
Price is N150, 000 per Acre.

5. Fifty acres of farmland is available for rent or lease off Abeokuta-Iseyin rd, around Eruwa, Ibarapa East LGA Of Oyo state at N5000 per acre annually.

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Price is ₦2,100,000 for all seven acres while rent/lease is at ₦6,000 acre per acre annually.

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It has direct access to the Osun River. Price is N900, 000 for all three acres.


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Is item 7 still available?

Ketamine9000mg:
Hello nairalanders!
I am curious and ready to learn because I-AM-NOT-UNDERSTANDING.

I earn 300k monthly, working and residing in Lagos state with a wife(not working yet) and two(2) kids. Despite that, I have been able to save only 220k from January to August. I feel I can do more.

If you are independent and a salary earner,
HOW MUCH DO YOU EARN?
HOW MUCH HAVE YOU SAVED?
HOW DID YOU SAVE IT?

Make person learn and see what can be done for the remaining four (4) months.

My take home is #320k, #250k goes for saving every month and we live on what is left, I have a wife and two big boys, you have to learn saving, please decipline your self by saving for your future and that of your children else when the job is no longer there, adjusting will be difficult. I'm currently investing in a business that will take care of family needs where I can put all my salary into savings.

Throwback:


I swear.

His Obidience was not useful eventually.

Same will happen to Peter Obi if he makes it to election day.

I actually give him till December of this year.

I hope you too will be alive to share the story... You talk as if you own your life not to talk of someone else life, the irony of life