djkirkoo2:
hmmmmm. Wonderful. Me I earn 63k as salary and my rent is 210k annually. Below is how I disburse it:

Kitchen stocking - 25k.

Soup for the month (we cook soup 5 times in a month) - 15k.

Baby mama - 5k.

Light bill - 2k.

Purewater - 4k.

Stew, Beans, Moi moi: 5/6k

Gas - 5k.

Fuel: As the Lord leads but I do put on Gen almost everyday as far as there's no light.
Now if you observed you will see that I don't have any money for myself nor my baby, make sure I run other deals to meet up my rent and cater for my son.

Yet my baby mama go out to tarnish my image outside saying that I am treating her as a house girl, saying that she's like a slave, that she's in an abusive relationship this and that all the young ladies around my vicinity are all keeping malice with me because of her stories, they all believed her story.

Even when I try to talk people don't believe me. I got tired of the quarrels and nagging so I had to throw her things out and asked her to leave my house. Neighbors came in and intervened then asked me to consider my son that he's still a baby. I succumbed and left for work only for me to come back home that evening the 22nd of July and found out that she have left with my son that I love so much and yet all her things are still in my house.

Bring my baby sef all to no avail, oya let me be seeing him at least still no way. I've talked to her mom and siblings and all of them are taking her side saying a man is not supposed to throw a woman's things outside (even my family blamed me for throwing her things outside) oya I don agree sef still dey are hiding my baby that will be a year old on the 29th of this August from me.

Honestly her family wants me to settle with their daughter but to me I am no longer interested before I die of BP, so now they are using my son to blackmail me emotionally to accept their daughter back because they know that I love my son. If really I am suffering her and treating her like a slave like she always claim then I wonder why her family would want her to come back to my house to suffer.

Mind you, I don't even beat o, I only have bad mouth to reply her if she pisses me off. Honestly I am confused and don't know what to do because I really miss my son.

wman:
I do not think the dancing Senator has much to offer Osun State.

I hope he proves me wrong.

SteadyGrinding:


Ma'am. All in all. She cheated. Stamp this

Mayemavins:

Definitely I will make a report tomorrow

Lakside1955:
This is not true story

Lakside1955:
This is not true story at all

MistarT:
Hmm deep i am learning something, thank you.

Larryfest:
Good morning all, I have been having sleepless night for a while now and a few days ago confirmed my insomnia would last longer than I thought.

We were comfortable and have been married for 5years now with a daughter but things have been rough for a while due to my business folding up and we have had to manage with the little we see from time to time. Earlier this year I had to sell some of the things in our house including my phone just so we could buy foodstuffs and pay our daughter's school fees, just some weeks ago I even had to shamefully reach out to a popular Nairalander if he has a phone he could spare because the one I'm currently using is a Desktop kind of phone (doesn't work without directly plugging it).

Last month my wife came home with a brand new Samsung phone and when I asked how she got it her response was that she won it from her womanhood help group on Facebook (she is very active there).
Last Sunday while arranging the room I came across a fertility clinic document and the receipt of the phone which the amount written there staggered me a bit because it's way more than our house rent that expired recently which has been the cause of my sleepless nights. When she got back from church I confronted her with my two findings and after plenty talks and argument she confessed a friend from work told her about it and she sold her Eggs at the clinic and it was from it she bought the phone.

My people since Sunday I have been seriously weak and confused, a lot on my mind already but now I have to add this to it Marriage is for the faint hearted abeg!!!

ADDENDUM.....

1. Someone asked how much .... well she said she was paid #150k but the nurse who brought her in collected 15k.

2. Someone also made some points about sex, complications and others and even said it's a made up story to tarnish women or whatever well I don't think they pay for story on Nairaland and even if they do it isn't going to cover what's on my mind right now so you believe whatever you want, it's quite funny to think everyone would exhibit same complications as the third party you heard your gist from...

3. She told me it only took her 3weeks of preparation and she wasn't even going to the more than 3times a week and as for medications and the rest, you think someone who doesn't want you to know what he/she is up to would leave clues flying around the house

4. As for the sex part and her risking getting pregnant, she has been on birth control pills for like 4years now so pregnancy wasn't going to stop her from the procedures....

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Senomii:

47 actually, it seems too risky

rtdCivilservant:
Las Las u no go see work.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Relax..if you don't have a conscience other's do..
A young kid was murdered in cold blood and buried and you are here saying that gibberish up there..

Her matter deserve more audience than ever so as to show the world how wicked and heartless human can be..
Imagine if that was your sister or daughter will you be able to bear it..do you know the mental pain of loosing a close person?

Have you ever lost someone then look through the pictures of the person and reminisce about it?you really don't know what it means to be murdered do you?

Agricmoney:




snailry, poultry, crops like cucumber, maize etc. Hope this have answered it.



Anyway, Agriculture is life.

Agricmoney:




snailry, poultry, crops like cucumber, maize etc. Hope this have answered it.

Yes brother, your location?

Anyway, Agriculture is life.

Agricmoney:



Ok. Thanks for bringing it to my notice.I actually thought it wasn't necessary so didn't want to flood my profile with it, but I would do that right away. Once again, thanks for the advice.



Anyway, Agriculture is life

Agricmoney:



Ok. Thanks for bringing it to my notice.I actually thought it wasn't necessary so didn't want to flood my profile with it, but I would do that right away. Once again, thanks for the advice.



Anyway, Agriculture is life

Agricmoney:




Hi



Anyway, Agriculture is life

I checked through your profile, nothing indicate/ details the aspect of agric you are into, please kindly populate your profile for some of us who are interested in agriculture and let know if we would be needing you for consultation... Thanks

Dicedpineappple:


This topice eh..
Abeg my picture dey my profile...
I no go talk

FahBuLous:
Can u teach me?? I'm tired of my 20k work, it's barely enough for feeding please

LiegeMan:
thanks for the comment
Check out this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6825530/body-count-almost-destroyed-me#107161445

frozen70:


To be honest, you are just fighting yourself and it looks like you finds it difficult to forgive

I was thinking your wife is messing up while married to you, I never knew that you are talking about the life style she lived while in school

You can go ahead and live the knd of life that you want, without any hindrances or permission, after all it's your life

Mercychen:


Yeah you're right. Though a few people had Mobil phone then. I remember those Alhajis and ministers back then who used to come subscribe for their DStv decoder always holding a mobile phone called acatel or mobitel. Can't really remember now. It had a small antenna that they pull up for signal..

Mercychen:
I doubt if anyone here used this device. This is a pager. A historic electronic device used in sending record messages to big boys of yesteryears before the Advent of mobile phones.

I remember back in the day when I was working with a multichoice agency. My boss ( the agent) then was never in the office. So he had a pager which I normally send messages to him, either through a landline or I'll go to their paging office then at Kingsway ikoyi to send him the message using his pager number.

Work then was a lot stressful as this was the only fastest means of communication but then youll have to take the pain to Walk down to the paging office everyday except if you have a landline to call the office and relate your message and details of the receiver to them to send or forget about the message. Most times I don't bother and he'll be like " why didn't you page me yesterday and bla bla"?

Las las, I got tired of the job because of that everday "Waka Waka" and after the people (a neighboring office) I was using their landline started misbehaving and I stopped going there.

Times have really changed. I'm sure no one uses it any longer.

MercyQuinn:


The normal coconuts and tiger nuts blend it together

siofra:
This is not true at all. Except you're short or ugly and jobless.


Fair skin ≠ beauty


I used to date a mulato and according to him, girls on campus were dying for him