obembet:
This is why we want Atiku.

Atiku will make NIgeria a better nation.

Vote Atiku.

Sacarsm right

Maxfrancis:
So guys when she got back from work today and came to my side,I acted cool as if nothing had happened...she cooked ,we ate, watched a movie, then we had sex .. after that she went to bath,at this moment I took her phone and stared screenshoting her chat with the guy..they even gisted about the sex they had yesterday ... after I finished with the screenshot I kept her phone ... Babe came out of the bathroom,rubbed her cream ...we gisted a bit,then boom I droped the bomb ... At first she was denying it but after showing her the screenshots she could not say anything again,she was just so confused,as if her whole world was crumbling on her ...I didn't kick her out of the house tho...
She hasn't said a word to me since,I wonder whats going through her mind...well she's in the sitting room..me I dey my room on top my king Abi Queen sized bed , sipping my chivita juice and eating kilishi while watching all of us are dead,on Netflix ...will notify y'all when she talks

Chaii this is bad.. You have done well bro, hold on tightly she would come to manipulate you and shed crocodile tears.
Anyway it is very simple, accept her apology, continue the relationship and don't give a damm about it. Importantly; just put her on "Bleep Mode".
The Lord Is Your Strength

IkranDragon:
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val, we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games.

Smile their wants never finished.
Please which city did you meet her?

DissTroy:

This is complete gaslighting.

If she were open about her past while dating, maybe he wouldn't have married her.

He's giving hints you are all ignoring. She was a nightcrawler, screwing multiple guys and clubing all over. She probably even aborted.

In school I didn't go wild or did drugs or had wild parties and órgies banging RANDOM women or knock up a woman then got her to get an abortion.
I still haven't done any of these things and I'm probably one of the least religious persons on Nairaland.

Stating that, I'd consider it cheating if I find out my partner was screwing around in her past, probably abusing substances too and/or did abortions.

I've always been upfront with the females in my life over the years about these things. Some think they are smart and can hide their past but when I find out, I call it off. And you'd never know I've called it off until months later.

I'm not expecting she should be a saint but don't go banging random dudes, aborting and abusing substances then think I'd accept you because it's your past. No!

Actions have consequences and I'm not going to spend the rest of my life dealing with the consequences of your juvenile delinquency. Never. I don't care if you have been canonised now.

Let people choose who they want to be with.

Honestly you are the only person that understand Op amidst people commented.

Dear Op, I am sure she hide her past from you, don't feel bad. If her past is worrisome and you can't live with it again, kindly divorce her.
I personally can't settle down with whores that never for once thought about her future.

She has enjoyed her prime right; she should as well enoy consequences that follow.

Interesting.. Darudapo of Ogun state, what are you still doing?

tppzzy01:

In fact, I was just monitoring how the thing will end. At a point, I was about to lost interest, then, something again will come up. like Cali trying to put fire again. lol.
I also lost a dearest friend 3 months ago in person of my wife and I was just alone thinking a lot. So the topic was just giving some kind of free mind. Those two are just something else. Lol
Sorry about the lose. May God grant the person eternal rest

Me I was following with keen interest, I really want to know the end as well before my curious thought proved to be wrong.

The Pocohantas lady has really end the discussion only if Calli was ready to listen and not been emotional, although a woman would always behave like one.

At the bolded, that is where the young man Daf didn't thread carefully and read between lines, I was even expecting a summary of what transpired (even though if he wanted to reply to justify himself) and finally lockup and never show face with his comment again. By so doing he would have won the discussion. For me, mehnn as Cali brought the discussion out here, I have finally taken full control of that relationship.

Please you guys should just work somethings out, and remember times you have shared. Because I know you have feelings for eachother.
Wish you guys the very best...

The thread really carry away my boredom as i was devastated, thanks to them for making me smile today .
Sorry for your loss as well, thanks a bunch. May their Souls continue to rest in peace.

tppzzy01:

It's a gift I have. When my mind tells me something, I should not doubt it. Coming together is what I see. Peace
Thank God you have calm down. I can't imagine how happy he will be for you to pick his call. You are doing well. Lol

You can't believe I followed this topic from page 1 to the end before I make my comment. I have never go this far in a topic b4. Am alone and the topic amused me and kept me busy.���

Honestly I followed as well and was monitoring what transpired between them even when I lost a dearest person that I was full of thought.
Just that I have learned not to put mouth for relationship talk why I didn't bother to reply but always read and pick tangible opinions.

My own advice (even though i don't want to shook mouth) is for both to learn how to keep secrets and sort their differences amicably without bringing it to public if eventually they date and married.

Madam Calli make una reduce your ego oo and Mr Daf learn how to lockup.

Olabode969:
Received. Thanks ���

Please bro, kindly help in forwarding to this address olaife80@yahoo.com thanks.

VickyRotex:


Yes, the account is fake and the pictures are stolen.

LMAO....U no get chill at all see how you burst the guy..

cucumbar:
I don’t know where you guys get this misconception from. I have a Honda Accord that will be 7years in December, and it has been a wonderful experience so far. It was my first car too. I find it difficult letting go off it. Everything boils down to your maintenance culture.

I am also thinking of getting one soon, EOD/DC precisely but the view of my colleagues is hell bent and discouraging and I like this car die.. But the astonished part is I have a senior colleagues using it and enjoying the ride but regular servicing @ 2000miles which he's still enjoying.. I am cut in between it and corolla.

Efewestern:


Marrying from Delta state is the best choice one can ever make in his life, before I start, I would love to remind you that Delta state is Multi ethnic, with different ethnic groups occupying the state, but shares so many similarities, most especially Between the Urhobos/Isokos and their Itsekiri & Ijo brothers.

In Urhobo land, when you marry our daughter, it is believed we aren't selling her out, Our birth price isn't more than #120, so if anything happens to her, you are expected to bring her back home and explain to us when and how she died.

We don't joke with infidelity in our land, once a Woman cheats, There's high probability that either her child or her husband will die, Our ladies are aware of this, so infidelity within our ladies is very very low.

Our women are also very hardworking, hardly do that rely on any man for money, they can work even better than some men, they are the real definition of a Black woman.

She cheat her husband die! Which kind awkward talk is this. So someone will die of her promiscuity? You all should stop all these fables its irritating.. haha..

kennyweeves:
. Sure why not. You in the aviation field also?

POSITIVE.
Good to hear; I hope you are doing great in the Industry? Cheers.

kennyweeves:
I am Kehinde by name, calm and lovable. 29 but to be 30;later this mont. A Yoruba man and will like to meet a Yoruba lady not above 26 years old. I have B.Sc and a M.SC degrees and currently an Air Traffic controller. Any other information needed, feel free to ask

Hi bro, would like to meet you as an Aviator. Kindly mail me on olaife80@yahoo.com if you are in LOS.
Regards.

mrbanji:


2001 Lexus Es 300:- 390k
2001 Toyota Camry:- 390k
2002 Honda Accord:- 390k
2003 Lexus RX 300:- 470k

Appreciate!

Good morning. Pls what is the cost of clearing these cars?
2001 Lexus ES 300

2001 Toyota Camry

2002 Honda Accord

2003 Lexus RX 300

tecnolad:


This is the only phone I feel is worth the list OP created. Those mentioning Tecno and Infinix probably didn't understand the topic of this thread.

Sent From my Huawei P20 Pro

How much is this Huawei P20 Pro?

TechCapon:
aliexpress and gearbest, prices differ a little

what's the price range?

Ehen.. i was thinking of this before, let me kuku be Watching and Monitoring maybe nah op no sha prapra

ranmoor:

what if he lose his job few months after wedding?

Do you need to ask her this kind of question again? The idiot will divorce him..

This is among reasons I never thought of marriage.... Good luck to guys that are into it.

Make-up

Nose piercing

Lady that bleaches

Fallen heroes

Bad odour

Stretch marks

Lousy

Flat ass big boobs(consider anyway)

Immediately I have physical contact with ladies with all these I listed, Aja 4 mi gbera. No going back.
No matter how beautiful and reach you are, you can never gain my heart.

teewhydope:
I'm highly disappointed in you for not completing this interesting experience

Bro its a tale I don't like talking about but I will share it in short..

After this man told me about the goods he brought, he saw how I showed feelings on it and thought of his mind in one stupid language that I am doomed.
Following our conversation right from start this mad Samaritan hasn't been speaking English but Yoruba convincing me hardly he can't speak English language, then drama now start freshly after all the Mr nice guy I have done to him.
You start to wonder how someone can live Lagos for over twenty years and doesn't understand broken English. Anyway I continued to be calm and watchful.

Man; (Talking and stammering for the first time, now I started the full study on them) I see you are a good and responsible somebody unlike your friend that doesn't understand my language, the way he looks even scared me and he doesn't trust him that was why he called me forward. I hope he's a good man also sha? Hey, see see, I mean see the guy, you too see how hes looking like a stupid somebody, I hope you are not the type?said by the beast. I replied the guy is a good man he needed not be scared.

>>>>>>Mind you, I have asked the Oloriburuku Samaritan his biography after the beast gave us the money to share just for me to know how I will handle him and the money.
When we had conversation together he talked in Yoruba but with little broken english but how fool he was for him not to noticed I knew he understand English.
Believe me the money is original dollar note because I can spot the difference between it and fake. So I tried to convince him for me to get the dollar, the oloshi man didn't leave it..<<<<<

We started talking walked along from Allen Avenue to Mobolaji Bank Anthony way, he said so far he hope I didn't ask the Samaritan any question... Hahahaha buahahah..I said No, he said am I sure I said no that I will like to stop here and move forward to my Journey.
He said the goods he brought are only for me not for Samaritan that he would also give something's add up to it.
Can you please make it fast please? he said we should walked close down to olowu str, I obliged. Mind you I don't have interest at first but I really want to know their ways to fullest whereas also my time is going.

Before getting to Olowu Str he said we should sit somewhere under a tree. The man left to a den place which I knew part and cronies of there after so much years I spent in computer village.

I asked the Samaritan that is there any hotel along the place the beast went to, he said yes. I lol in my mind and frown face then he asked me why did I asked I said nothing that the hotel must be a stars one,the mumu said yes.
He started telling me that he has no idea of what is going on again that I didn't relate what the man said, I calm him down that nothing special so far that I will be going now if he continue disturbing me. Lol....this idiot start to beg me that to collect the goods from the man is main important to him.

The man arrived, >>>before he left he has talkled about the chemical money making and how Obasanjo, Tinubu and the rest billionaires are tripping to Togo for it, that he is privileged as a son of the ex president seeing how Nigerians are suffering whereas his father and our politicians have clue together in using this chemical for money making that was the main reason he came to Nigeria to expose them<<<.

I started to ask myself questions?
Chemical for money making?
How can a president son brought goods to sell?
You came to Nigeria to expose your dad and his crooks. How is that possible?

And how can someone live in Lagos for 20 yrs + and doesn't understand pigin even agberos and area boys can speak to some extent.

I hope I didn't ask the Samaritan any further questions, I should stay away from him? I replied in my mind, am I stupid, You gave the oloshi called Samaritan the dollar, the man you said he isn't a trustworthy man now telling me I should stay away hes a bad person. OK oo

Omg, this is beautiful, showing excitement to their stupidity.. Thank God I will have money in life, I have put my enemies into shame. I must make it..
The dunce thought in their stupid mind I am a beautiful maga whereas I don come down from their bus so tey..

Chemical money making drama started!
If you want to get rich fast, go as well and asked your well wishers to dig your grave fast.

While sitting I saw two rogue guys walked along going back to Allen, few minutes came back again. I smiled and talked to myself I have just few minutes to spend or else it will be another story.

419: sorry it took me so long, I was scared of coming out because I saw some weird people. Brought out the chemical and showed me( it was a white grease wrapped with white nylon, said as I am seeing it, it will produce millions of naira).

Me: start to produce the money nah, I can't wait.

419; how much do I have with me that he will multiply the money now.

Me: I am cashless this 200 naira left with me is tp fare.(whereas left with me was #700)
>>>likewise also, I just sold the new phone I bought worth 60+ few days ago to my colleagues in office same day when my sister called me she is in need of money. I choose of selling my phone and not giving her the one in my account. Thought I can't afford sending such a money and still be using a big phone. I would get broke.<<<

Werey Samaritan: #200 ke? That's too small. Iyen kere fun iru eyan bitie now.

Me: Haha oloshi, I said to myself did he just speak this English " That's too small". Can you kindly give him some money to multiply it because I don't have much.

Werey Samaritan: mi o ni owo lowo, o de dunmi.(i dont have money and its paininh me).

Me: kilowade toni #200 ti mofun kere abi chemical kole multiply ni? Afterall o ma multiply (why now saying #200 is small after all the chemical will multiply it or it cant')

419: okay bring it.

Me: I looked at him I gave him and hold on to my folder firmly.

419: (Magic moment with jazz), he took out of the grease and gave me, asked me to rubbed it with my #200 and with the handkerchief, I did. He collected my #200 back, brought a plain sized paper just like the one removed from a sticker, gave me to rubbed with handkerchief for 10 seconds, behold it turned to #200. Fast and sharply he collected the converted money..
ohoh.. what the hell? but still looking like mumu whereas I should have talked to my leg.

Me: let me see my own #200. He showed me with the converted one. Okay you guys are good with this chemical, I just have to leave now am running late, I will see you tomorrow. Can I now have my #200 naira? He said they will use it for me tomorrow, after I have #500 left.

I was astonished, he then placed his hand on my shoulder,immediately I lost my sense but not fully. He said I should give him the #500 which I did and said that tomorrow the #500 would have ready in multiple or do I have my ATM card with me to try and get cash and start doing it all night I will just come for it tomorrow morning.

I told him I don't have, he collected my folder, and said I am lying that I wanted to bridge the trust he has, then I told him the one with me has expired that I don't have money in it, he said am I sure. I said yes, he collected my folder searched and found it.

Mind you my second ATM was inside my id card holder whereby anytime I leave office I will put it under my cloth.

followed; the beast asked me of my phone in English ooo, the werey Samaritan that claimed of not understanding English replied in yoruba" Omo ode de lowa lowoe"( with him is a Nokia touch light phone)


Now set to leave, it was already 11:15pm. As I wanted to leave I regained back my sense. Now two men were standing few metres away from us, I couldn't see any passerby again after all its late.
The man said I can see the chemical works fine I said yes with smile, meanwhile I was using style putting my hand into pocket I noticed my #700 is no more there.

How do i get home? I told the beast that there isn't a way I can get home and bring the rest of the money tomorrow that he should give me #500 for tfare and expect me by 6am tomorrow morning. He obliged but gave me #200. I didn't argue with him.

Don't tell anybody oo or you die said by beast. I replied you mean mo ma Ku.. the beast said yes.
I said to myself haaaa werey alalubosa, and he was speaking ancient and confused language before.

$100, the oloshi Samaritan handed the money to the beast to convince him we are surely coming tomorrow.

Werey Samaritan: You know what Sir,take this money to convince you we are coming tomorrow.I am happy we meet you.. Oloriburuku somebody.
I didn't even say a word, I quietly leave.

Werey Samaritan: duro now, shebi ajowa ni( wait now after all we came here together).
I was just going, he ran close and said hes going to airport that where am I going, I frown replied him Ojota. He left.. I head towards the overhead bridge at the glass house to board a bus going to berger I just sensed someone ran back where we were coming from. I stopped , I quickly run follow to have a glimpse of who ran fast as the person resemble this Samaritan. Omg behold he was the one.

Let me stopped here but sha I was the one that brought up the drama to myself which out of my foolishness I went so length ..

since then I cultivate the habit of putting headset into my ears without playing music when walking along the road or inside the bus.

They make use of charm, I am telling. don't just fall victim of any.

Mine was at computer village. I was working along opposite the glass house on one faithful night to board a vehicle to express when a man walked towards me and told me he's from Togo and asked me for direction to a hotel, which I kindly did.
He came back again to ask how true the direction I gave to him was when another man behaving like a Samaritan also walked down close, he asked samaritan and he said the guy(I) has given the correct place. Immediately this man brought out $100 to share between me and the Samaritan guy (the crazy dude handed it over to the idiotic samaritan man).

Immediately the man left after telling us (me and samaritan man)to share the money. What next? I asked the man, abeg I am on my way home we need to cut this money into two asap. The man said do I have money with me to give him and go ahead with the dollar, I said no.
Fast forward he said bro this man is so cheerful oo it will be better for us to relate with him, help him to where he's going so as not to fall on wrong hand..I obliged ..

We started searching for this man, I didn't see his whereabout but nah the Samaritan showed me where he passed after few minutes of my curious searching, told me we should follow one kind path we should be able to get him.

Behold as we were moving closer to this man, he kept running, now the Samaritan started saying to me that "Bro, eyah o ma se oo, this man thinks we want to kidnapped him or collect his money whereas we want to help him".

Anyway he later stopped and started talking as if he's feverish " pls pls pls I don't know why you are following me, is it because am a foreigner" . The Samaritan man now said no we want to help you that you are kind and a good person, you have helped us we must also help you.

I didn't still notice they are scammers but my own intention was to even scam my way out with the dollar with werey Samaritan.

Behold it was already 9:45pm and my journey is still far as I was heading to Magboro before I met these demons in human flesh. I still have no iota of how it will end.. Though am not a kinda fast forward or curious person, I am someone that study and thread softly before doing things maybe that was faired for me on this hectic friday.

Hmmmmm, this bastard said he doesn't know any place in Lagos that he was then asking for hotel he lodged into, that he has so many things he brought but the fair to mix with people so as not to take advantage of him as a foreigner that's why he hasn't disposed it.
Mind you the talk about sharing the dollar is not forthcoming again because no where to change it or me giving out naira but my mind still with it.

This man then called me closer that he would share something's with me and I shouldn't let the Samaritan knows because the way he saw me I am a gentle young guy and trustworthy, that I should vow.. Now I said wow, that's good if you have trust in me but refused to make useless vow.
He said he has a lot of goods he brought and ready to sell, that he will give me the goods and give him 50% and i hold with 50%.
ooohh good that's a great business.. laughing out loud.. mean while I forgotten sharing $100 with the Samaritan..

What next? Did I scape through? How did I go about it? Mind you on that day I have with me my two ATM card, one with 60k and second with none but expired card..

Mehn it is a long comic story. The first method op mentioned was the one used on me anyway.

nowpresence:
you are a good bf. this is what I have been looking for.

And what will he get in return, no be heart break. Smh!

The guy sev fall my hand. If am to be the one I will put her on Bleep Mode pending time she receive sense.

nnokwa042:
to marry a yoruba man is not a problem but dont angry when you will start bearing senior wife cus surely more wives are coming if i lie ask sunny Ade or KWAM 1

I don't just know why you people sit on throne of lies. As a Yoruba guy, you dare not marry two wives in my family unless you want your brain examined; you get to tell where you came across yours. Its high time you stop all these fallacious statements, you all continue blabbing on Yoruba guys marrying more than one wife as if your tribe is exempted.
If you know you cant find joy in dating Yoruba guy stay away stop the mention. Iranu!

TonyeBarcanista:
I never knew how much I had missed my single life until I ended my last relationship. Jesus, being single is a key to man's happiness I must confess. I wish I can live this way... No worries, no troubles, no nagging, no wahala, nothing... Just me, myself and my family!!!

That doesn't mean being celibate though

Like seriously being single is just the best of all. No worries, only you, your life.

Honestly its dam confusing.

If you know the important and benefit of being single you won't put yourself into trouble.. You have the time to enjoy your life and work on your career.
And if insist my candid advice is just be yourself work hard and have MONEY, then always dress smart, I bet you girls will just be searching for you as a lost fund.
I have been in your shoes, behold I work hard and have this money even intend to buy a car but stopped it and channel my money into another project because of these curious ladies. Believe me you have no probl money is just what is lacking.

alexialin:






Have beginning to start using my head .

A guy was wooing me today , he has been on my tail for like one week, I said guy! Right now? Am not in the right state of mine to date u . I like u as a person, but what u are seeking for ? My mind and heart is not ready to accept it .
If u push too much. I wil say yes but for me ? U mean virtually nothing to me and the relationship means nothing , cos my heart is not ready to start loving .
The best deal I can give to u , is to be my friend . If I see how sincere u are with friendship , then possibly my heart will succumb and start loving u, but for now? I can't deal with dating again.
So , Is that what u want? I asked him with an angry look!

He sighed and said ok he wil be my friend and won't pressure anymore and its not like he wants sexxx and all but he's ready to be patient . And to be friends ,its better than , me shutting him off !
I said ok , thank you!

Mehn, relationship arrggh! Can't deal.

Hey gurl don't use some guys attitude to contemplate the rest, I can assure you there are good guys out there looking for good girl like u. What really baffles me about you ladies is that you ignore and send off honest, trustworthy and lovely guys. The good guys speak the truth which you people detest for lying guys. Therefore this has changed the motive of good guys which i am also a victim but really being difficult to keep the good attitude and showcase the bad ones to ladies.

miraclea:
The northerners are the ones who don't believe in Nigeria they are only here to milk other regions dry Islam is not by force they have history of killing other tribes you can check this out yourself
Odumakin have really spoken my mind any yoruba who want to support the almajiris to fight igbos is a bastard in fact I have already remove his name from the clan of Oduduwa and any yoruba that will quote me is first class DINDINRIN

Honestly any Yoruba that support North is a real Omo Ale. This time we are not of North nor East, when it start we will thread along, declare our Nation and defend our territory.
We are patiently waiting let them bring it on.

habby51:




Silly but the truth.
Apply fresh health SPERM, dats the secret 2 my smoothly face.

Please does it works? A friend told me about it but need to confirm. How did you go about it?

Culin:
Heheheh

Hey dear you look beautiful. Can you just share part of your beauty with OP?