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Communication
Communication is key. It is one of the most important qualities a healthy relationship. However, not everyone knows how to communicate properly... or even communicate at all. Happy and healthy couples have this game down. They vocalize their love for one another, saying “I love you” often and offering compliments. They also discuss the bad instead of sweeping issues under the rug.
In order to move forward and grow, you two need to be able to truly talk about your feelings. No matter how awkward or uncomfortable it feels, it will make for a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship.
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Quality Time, Not Quantity
It’s all about quality over quantity. It doesn’t matter how much time you and your partner spend together. The most important part is about the quality of this time. There’s a huge difference between having dinner at a table while talking about your day at work, versus having dinner while sitting on a couch watching the latest episode of Project Fame. It’s fine to zone out together and enjoy distractions, but it’s crucial to make sure you two are still engaging and spending quality time together to maintain a deep connection.
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Appreciation
Often, we forget to let other people in our lives know that we appreciate them. We think it, but we don't remember to show it. This occurs in our romantic relationships as well. Show your special someone that you love him or her. This could be done with words, cards, flowers, acts of kindness, or more. Okay, maybe not every day, but you get the point.Appreciation Often, we forget to let other people in our lives know that we appreciate them. We think it, but we don't remember to show it. This occurs in our romantic relationships as well. Show your special someone that you love him or her.

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No Comparisons
The grass always seem to be greener on the other side. Or even if it is, it might not be the kind of grass you would like. We often compare our lives to those of others — what jobs people have, their homes, their clothes. And with the help of social media, we tend to compare our relationships as well. But the happiest of couples don’t look to see what the grass looks like on the other side. They are happy with the view out their own front door...

Those points OP mentioned above are really not wrong in Nigeria, what makes them wrong is saying it the WRONG way trying to cook something out of them and it is mostly common with URHOBO Women... Them go course you indirectly sotey you go sob and ask ''Oghene, what have I done...?''

If there are other staff there, you can draw the attention of one of them to inform the Victim.
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Ifyou two are the only ones present there, You can inform her politely. Just do it responsibly because as humans we can say the RIGHT thin the WRONG way.
#Say it the Right thing the Right way.

It sounds simple, but true.

I think these are part of the things that makes them Unique.

Travel to Owerri, sit her down and discuss these with her:
Ask her plainly what she want
Ask her again if she will marry you
Ask her why she keep saying she needs time
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The solution are in her response to the questions above.

Somethings might look like dissapointment on the surface, but are actually blessing in disguise.
This is an interesting piece we all need to learn from.
#I expect the first lady to be in this year's SHILOH 2016, so that she can get her Double Portion..

She suddenly becomes unusually shy
This sign is a common physical reaction when a woman is in love. Suddenly, she will become more timid when it comes to interacting with you. Note also, her cheeks flushed when you happen to make eye contact with her. To ensure this sign, talk to her in a face-to-face conversation. If she looks more nervous than usual, it is likely that she is in love with you. Playful shy woman hiding face laughing This attitude on some women usually followed by attitude to tend to avoid you in the early period of falling in love. If suddenly there is a woman who kept his distance with you, when you are not doing anything wrong to her, there is also the possibility that she has some special feelings toward you.
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Exhibiting childish behavior in front of you
In some cases, there are some women who actually act childish when they are in love. They will not hesitate to raise their tune of their voice, scream, jump around, or giggle loudly to draw your attention. Note also their speaking style, which at first glance would sound warmer just like a small child. If she shows this spoiled, childish attitude, the woman actually expects a proper response from you. Approached her, and take the role as her brother *wink*... and show that you are ready to protect her.
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Gifts
Giving a gift shows that a woman considers you as someone special. In any of her gifts to you, - whether it is birthday gifts, Valentine gifts, or simply a souvenir no matter how little it is, there is affection and intimacy from her. But make no mistake, not all gifts that are given by a woman signifies that she is in love with you. Try to think, whether the gifts that you received are special, or just same gifts that she gave to her other friends. Note also her attitude when she gives that gift to you. If there is a personal letter given along with the gift, there is likely a probability that she has some feelings toward you.
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She asks a lot of questions about your life
If a woman is attracted to you, then she would likely ask a lot of questions. Those questions ranging from small things such as your hobbies and favorite activities, to bigger matters such as your future plan. She would also demand further explanation if she feels that your answers do not satisfy her curiosity. When you realize that a woman is attracted to you and starts to ask a lot of questions, try to give an answer that could impress her. However, it is important to keep in your mind that you should always be honest with your answers. Don’t lie just to impress her, as it has bad impact in the long run.
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She takes the initiative to start a conversation.
Usually under a normal conditions, men is the one who takes the initiative in a conversation. They do it by asking numerous polite questions and raised a particular topic as the theme of conversation. If you suddenly feel that she is more “aggressive” than usual in a conversation, it is possible that she develops an interest towards you. A woman who is in love would continue to spend a lot of time talking to you. They want to be in the conversation as long as possible. Therefore, when the conversation stops, she will try to find a new topic so that both of you can continue talking.
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She shows some interest toward you hobby and favorite activities
You might encounter a situation when suddenly a woman starts to listen to the songs that you like or ask a lot of questions about your hobbies (matured girls though that read men). She also asks you to be involved in your favorite activities and happily shows enthusiasm towards them. Be cautious boys, this might be a sign that she is in love with you. The Crossing If a woman suddenly shows interest in the what you do or activity that you usually do, it is likely that she wants to spend some time with you. It also a sign that she wants to be involved in your life and want to know you more personally by doing those activities.
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She tries to impress you physically by dressing better
Note also the style of her dress and hair. If you realize that a woman tries hard to impress you with their dresses, hairstyle, accessories, and her physical attractions, it is likely she wants to get your attention. Not just dresses, you can also observe on the use of make-up as well as the length of time she needs to prepare herself before meeting you.
If you are aware of this fact, do not miss the opportunity to compliment her looks. Give compliment to her dresses, her make- up, or her new hair style. Make her feels that her effort to impress you is paid-off. This kind of behavior also makes her realize that you give special attention toward her.
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She looks happy when she is with you
A woman would show a bright facial expression when she is with her loved ones. Just try to observe her eyes, smile, and her gestures. If she looks more cheerful and her eyes shine brighter it is likely a sign that she enjoys to be at your side. Note also if she talks and laughs a lot, it can be a significant sign that she loves you. When she is sad or depressed, try to approach and cheer her. If you notice that her expression suddenly becomes brighter, it is likely that you are the man who is expected by her.
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Notice the intensity of her eye contact
Women who are in love will try to steal a glance at your eyes. In some cases for a shy woman, her face will turn red and abruptly turned away when you realize that she was watching over your face. Try also to look at her straight in the eyes when conversing. If you feel there is some kinds of electricity that goes behind your back while looking into her eyes, it is most likely that the chemistry between two of you has been established. It’s just a matter of time to confess your feeling toward her at the right moment.
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She gives you attention just like a mother toward her child
It is natural that every woman has motherly affection. Therefore, when she falls in love, this kind of maternal behavior will arise unconsciously. Do not be surprised if she suddenly becomes very concerned, even nags you with a lot of small things. She may suddenly feel uneasy to see the stains on your clothes, or feel worried when you are eating too much junk food. Try to respond heir attention with gratitude. Do things that she suggests to show that you take her advice seriously. Give her little compliment and by saying, “Wow, you could be a good mother.” or such. Observe her reaction, and be ready to confess your feelings if you see that she looks happy because of your compliment.
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Meanwhile, these are the TOP 10 Signs that shows a girl has Fallen-in-Love with you:
1. Subtle speech
2. Take initiative to strike up a conversation
3. Often ask about your well-being
4. Making something out of nothing
5. Trance-like expression
6. Attentively ask you questions
7. Winking
8. A shy, red face
9. Giving gifts
10. “Sa jiao” [behaving like a spoiled child] in front of you

Flamezreal:
A female friend suggested I give her (my girlfriend) a ring

If you are sure, convinced and certain she's the lady you want to spend the rest of you life with, do the needful as the lady advised.
If you are willing and obedient, you shall eat the good of the LAND

Hell Fire candidates everywhere...

Okokobioko Aluta Continua...

Boy: I Love You..?
Girl: Hahahahaha
Boy: I Won't Live Without You..!
Girl: Hahahahahahaha...
Boy: I Will Die For You..?
Girl: Hahahahahahahaha
Boy: I Will Gift You A Gold Ring With Diamond..?
Girl: Awwwww.. Promise ?

What of guys... Guys do it alot too.

Unilag of course... Because their (IGG) Initial Gra Gra is flooding everywhere on Nairaland, and they are so pervacious...

If she is my kind of woman and she is older than me, i will marry her sharp, sharp.
In the institution of marriage, according to the Bible, God did not mention that a man must or must not marry an older lady, it is the society that is creating those ideology
It still depend on the reason(s) one have before marrying. Sometimes, people marry older women for their selfish motives like Adesuwa's brother Osaro... Osaro got married to a 43 years old Canadian woman, while he was 28. Even the wedding shake ground for Benin. The woman was a very wealthy woman though... #Trust Beninites!

She can be a faithful wife 100%, but not all Girls though. Some might just derive a selfless pleaseure being unfaithful, trying to catch fun while it last, while some, it is a nature they chose and endorsed for themselves.
For a girl to be Unfaithful before marriage. Her unfaithfulness may be as a result of some of the below reasons or other reasons peculiar to her:
1. Not being loved as she wanted
2. Not be treated nicely
3. Lack of her needs being met
4. Lack of show of affection by her Boyfried.
5. Her boyfriend/fiance not be Romantic (as some will say).
6. Selfish nature of their boyfriend
7. Joblessness by the girl or her boyfriend
8. Not being satisfied physically, sexually, emotionally, materially etc.
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Above all, i personally believe unfaithfulness is a thing of Personal Choice by the individual. Anyone can decide to be faithful or not in a relationship, it is a thing of choice. But we must remember that the negative choices and individual make affect him/her negatively and can still affect all those around her world. That is why the is never a better way to do WRONG.
Take a minute and imagine if God has not been FAITHFUL in HIS love towards you...

Our Amiable, Important and Necessary NAIRA is getting there. If you call it a dream, Yes. The dream being fulfilled.

Mswift:
Pls bro, is it unlimited and hope the speed isn't throttled.

Yes. It is unlimited for your time period.
The speed is very fast, awesome and smooth provided you have the coverage in your area.

distilledwalex:
Whats the code for the day sub

Simply dial the code *439# and then reply with the number that corresponds with any of the 4 plans that best suits you, after which you will be asked to reply with 1 to activate the plan.
Remember that the new Airtel time based plan has a one day (24hours) validity period, meaning that any unused time left will expire exactly 24hours time duration.

Please,
1. What is the conversion rate between the Naira and Senegalese currency.
2. What is the estimated Bride Price payable before marrying a Senegalese Cecelia.
Thanks as I await your prompt response...

TheSociopath:
That's for during-the-day plan. The one he said is for midnight

Ok.
Thanks. I never knew they had Hourly Plans for Night. Thanks for the correction.

ugonwanneokoye:
Tried airtel midnight plan of 1 hr for 100. The speed was great.

I do not think it is 100, it is thus:
30 minutes = 90
60 minutes = 180

They can't just judge with that survey conducted, because that survey was the percentage gathered from USA alone and not in other countries of the world.
Even in Nigeria and some other countries, Facebook and other platform lead the race as most widely use platform by Teens.
Nigeria teen prefare Whatsapp, Facebook, Twitter and 2go. Though, some do not like Twitter an 2go that much...
I stand to be corrected though because no one is an highland.