₦airaland Forum

FinanceFitness:
@olokings- all I can say is oga o.

Frequent visits and traveling light always looks suspicious though.

nefertitiram:
When village people follow someone from the okija to NY This is serious!!!

woaini:
Nna ehn who logged me off? So much has happened o. Congratulations to d new mamas and papas, visa approvals and successful poe stories.
Nerf darling God bless you and miss adorable real good, our God is awesome *big tight hug without hurting u sha* lol.

Plenty things happening on the thread, see rapture mehn , den away match players, Choi! Keeping up with d thread is so much work as post come in so quickly
Read some doctors don't show up during deliveries that's just not good (if I pay for ob/gyn one must be present! Even if it's not the main doc).
Someone asked about using birthcentre for visa and poe if I remember correctly was it dtush abi who sef used a birth center and got her visa approved *scratching my brain* though I understand the point phema is making but ........

One love *reading continues*
Hailings to my new fav 'poeples' on this thread firsttymum and olokings

Tobermom:
I just googled how to respond to this. Lol. It would have been too embarrassing if that was my ONE question. . Im staying with family. They live like 20mins away from the hospital

likky1:
Gud day 2 every1. I feel I shuld share dis. Perhaps som1 might 1 or 2 advice 2 help me. I went, I saw but didn't conquer! Was at d USA embassy in VI, Lagos. After STANDING PAINFULLY 4 2hrs culd spoke 2 a VO. Dis is wat transpired
Me: gud morning
VO: hello
VO: Where re u going in d US
Me: Phoenix, Arizona
VO: wat re u going 2 do
Me: child birth
VO: are u married
Me: yes
VO: do u ave children
Me: 1 child
VO: do u ave relatives in d US
Me: yes
VO: so u wuld be staying wit dem
Me: no, I intend staying in an hotel. N I ave book d hotel 2geda wit my medical package it's bin handle by Imprevia International
VO: so u want 2 stay in an hotel 4 3months(opens her eyes wider) Cont 2 type on her system. Den she passed me a blue paper saying unfortunately u ave not bin able 2 meet d Visa requirements. Tank u. Where did I go wrong?

Beryl15:
Totally agree. And offer to pay for gas for their car once in a while too.

nefertitiram:
Am expecting triplets oooo! Do these hosps have package?!

Meeracle:
Thanks @dere5 @Noge@favoredgal...they are fine all thanks to God..the nurse be came my friend and was visiting us and saw us to the airport when we where leaving..she said there was another triplets mom dat had complications and was sent to the medical center at downtown...and be for I came they kept telling him they where not trained for this and that he should tell us to go to the right hospital in case the babies come on time but he refused..they had to hire equipment because they are not equipped for triplets babies because they come out small that was why she really wanted me to take it up and she will come testify ..dr F feels we are not from there and may not know the law so he can treat us any how and get away with it..he spends just 2 seconds with one person...I was never scaned just my first visit because he has no time.i had B P, to get drugs from Walgreens thru his office was war..because of too many pple...in all I give God thanks for the provision because if I went with a tight budget he would have messed us up.

firsttymum:
See eye opening na... My eye is just shining wide... Hmmmm.

Beryl15:
I used the ATM on sat with my standbic card and got the following response "action selected not available at this time pls retry"
I just noticed my account was debited, $200.
Been to the bank here and was told there's nothing they can do about it that I have to contact my bank in Nigeria.
Which kian wahala be this Na?
Has anyone had a similar experience?
Did you get your money back?

abiscomama:
For those of us planning to go to el Paso for delivery and intend using Dr.martell,I called his office and the person I spoke with told me he no longer take patients from Nigeria.i asked why and was told 1 or 2 patients from Nigeria neglected his advice on doing some tests and all,hence made the whole process provoking.

Why travel all the way from Nigeria to the USA to have better healthcare and wnt have the necessary done(Dr.martell's plight)

So instead of having issues like that,he wnt be taking Nigerians again.he has 2 other doctors he has referred any interested patients to.

I feel so gutted for a doctor to have such feelings toward Nigerians.

Nogen:
Okay. We are doing great dear. Thanks a lot.

customised87:
Hi ma'am, could u pls share the hospital quote of Kings county hospital? Thanks.
I sent u a pm

allen0000:
Olokings: Yes I was in states from July 31st - August 16th and thank you very much, how about her own statement of account. Yes I am the one sponsoring but as it stands now I can't be able to print my statement of account as I am far from Nija and will not be coming back soon, Can she sponsor herself with her own statement of account

allen0000:
Thanks Lady G and any need to carry a copy of my own data page and visa page or just my wife copy only

allen0000:
Question: Please anybody don use rentals.com or apartment guide to rent a house in the US,

100dollarbills:
Taaahhhhh!!!!!

5star Lady G 4 General....My warfi ppl go say " instead make bad tin happen, make rain fall" Nwanne nor be me u bn see 4 ya dream. Me, my wife and my Obama pikin dey New York dey Kule. I go later gist u wetin my son bn take CBP officer hin eye see 4 we own thread . Thank God say hin na fellow citizen

shawlar:
Is this really olokings... Haba, what happened to all the nice pristine english..?? The guy don vex ooh

whatever happened has happened, I don't think its right to take it out on the unborn child.. After all, its not his fault that he is a love child - he didn't ask for it

Beryl15:
Thought I should share this..
Nigerian passport intervention excercise for those in Dallas and environs..
http://nigeria-consulate-atl.org/?p=4894

nefertitiram:
So olokings can speak pidgin like dis? oh boy eee

Abeg, him without sin, cast d first stone. even if we gather beat up ds dude, he has messed up and there's a child in the mix. I'm only sorry for the parties involved. The drama that wants to follow eh! Nairaland fp will catch fire.

@el2015, Brazil, Barbados, st. Kitts or even Gambia will be a good alternative if the whole motive of travelling out is to maintain your sanity if the sht hits the fan. At least all of them give citizenship.
I mean, look at Maje, Toke's husband. The other woman went to UK to deliver At least she and the son were out of harms way when the kasala burst.

jayjay4lyf:
Our POE STORY
Left Lagos yesterday 9/11 with Arik to JFK, flight was on time contrary to peoples expectations . I was using wife's preggy state to harras everybody, fast tracked ourselves to beginning of every line including check in.
Flight wasn't so full so wifey had an empty three seat to stretch out.
Wish every prospective an even more successful POE experience

bigfido:
i am not trying to justify his act, but you should know all humans have a threshold. he cracked. I hope maybe there can be a thread on this issue. i have friends that are in a frustrating marriage because of this issue. it can break a man or a woman! and sometimes divorce might not be a solution especially when you have a child with the wife. be it condom or not, the moment he looked at another woman, he cracked. I don't know what solutions he tried to proffer to the situation, but talking sometimes to your spouse about such issues helps. If both of you are not ready to shift grounds, it is better really to damn the consequences and move on with your lives (that is what i think, there might be better solutions). If he can afford to send the mother of his child to give birth there, I think he should. whether he likes it or not, the child is his and making future plans for the child is also a priority.

nefertitiram:
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Of course she can. Its to book doc or hosp and accomodation. Put.the $30k in her account. I hope she.works or is into biz as ties to d nigeria. No harm in trying. You just may be forrtunate.
Just read the thread and try your luck. deed has been done. You have a lot of explaining to do to wifey. [b]But 4mths without intimacy!!! [/b]You guys needed a counsellor and not a bed warmer.

And try to get dna test done. I dont trust girls out there. I mean with $30k to blow...you are a big fish

nefertitiram:
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Of course she can. Its to book doc or hosp and accomodation. Put.the $30k in her account. I hope she.works or is into biz as ties to d nigeria. No harm in trying. You just may be forrtunate.
Just read the thread and try your luck. deed has been done. You have a lot of explaining to do to wifey. But 4mths without intimacy!!! You guys needed a counsellor and not a bed warmer.

And try to get dna test done. I dont trust girls out there. I mean with $30k to blow...you are a big fish

el2015:
I played away match because wiffy's libido was dead and wasn,t ready to get help. She hate any word with "s" let alone s.......x

I'm at fault. Please Blame me, but I'm not a bad father and terrible as you all think.

Phema:
*coughs*

Will be right back.

nefertitiram:
I swear if they even read the thread they will know better than to be asking for enfamil nursette bottles.

*adjusts baby's neck on my back, reties oja*

angels [/b]and [b]rangers [/b]oooh
recall that only a [b]true

lollyberry:
Thanks olokings
But you know some mama on this forum feels it's right to insult

It's not really good for the forum
Thanks to the likes of matured mind like you, Tvegas phema on some others who always take their time to help out

I don't really want to derail this thread
So I have decided to stay away

Thanks all

lollyberry:
@bachangel
Madam ITK
if u don't have any good answer to my question
Then I beg of you to say out of my biz

It's not compulsory u reply all post

E se ma

allen0000:
This section or thread is not that helpful like USA Visit thread. You ask question here and the response " refer u to page this and that. That's why I like Lady G for General, she will answer every question without referring you to either page this or that.