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Every family lives according to their size.

I was talking to a girl yesterday how I hustle in Lagos and cannot be on WhatsApp with her all the time(she's all those emotional girls who confuse friendship for love). After several anger for not chatting her up, she said she cannot marry a man like me, a husband that will not have her time 70% of the day like she can't cope without seeing him daily. The person I'm talking about does not have a job o. She lives with her aunt on Lekki and is 32+. No man too but she keeps saying she believes God will do it. I always laff whenever I remember her. Well she be rich pikin, if to say my job give me time, I for cajole her chop kpekus small but I don't have that time.

SanctifiedSista:
Unless the man is a strict accountant, it will be hard to give u a figure .maybe an estimated one. For example if he earns 200,000 per month plus side hustle, gives wife 50,000..pays tithe fuel and repairs 50,000. That means his total expenses in a month is 100,000

The words in italics I know. The one in bold, the use or significance I've not seen

God forbid bad thing

When I read worth millions and saw Lexus RX300, I was confused. But its good to have a sister who loves and believes in you as well as in family bond. What we hear often are brothers giving sisters but here is a norm breaker. The likes of destiny etiko etc, we even rarely hear about them philanthropicing to the masses let alone their blood brother or sister.. all they think life is about is to get famous and live large over things obtained almost cheaply.

So in summary, you dissolved your marriage based on what your pastor said

You must have seen the signals before you married her but pusssy, beauty and what people will say if you don't marry a fine wife pushed you to the wrong marital decision

selfmadeOLX:
Nobody asked you. Totally unnecessary

As far as that price you named is concerned, it is absolutely necessary. You're not advertising to novices.

enjoli5:
African men are very cheap! Uncouth and unpleasant creatures, that is what our men are.

And your daddy too jare

Good. But I prefer a Highlander for that price

armyofone:
She basically break it down for your understanding - must you cast aspersions?

You just showed even you a man has incomplete understanding about this issue

Oizee:
the most important thing is that, we find the post very helpful, I personally read it with concentration..


there's nothing to add so y must we comment?
nice one @OP

You just did.

This is a very expository piece of information and I'm surprised nobody has made any comment on it despite 75 views because money and nudes aren't involved. Right?

Those ones with big features(most of them) don't even bother to task their brain let alone working towards intelligence cus their features pave way for them. The ones without features have no choice, they have to compensate for it via intelligence to prove their value.

No borrow money do wedding o

Both of you are mumu. Better chop wetin you go chop from her now cus it doesn't look like it will work

Why did they not abort you or put you inside nylon bag and throw you inside canal when you were born?

maureensylvia:
After sending her 10k for transport fare, paying for the treat and hotel.
And when it's time to begin match at night, she off her clothes and you see this.


What will you do??

There's nothing to do than to give her tfare back home immediately. Look for some girl around the hotel and ease the arousal...they're always around. It breeds no quarrel at all. But for a guy like me I would have teased her to confide in me beforehand during our chats. The funny thing is I know a girl like that, hers isn't stretch marks, but slackened vagina but then she was very helpful financially, very understanding but I always avoided sex with her cus it wasn't fun at all. This one in ur pic must have used the wrong cream

Lillysbee:
I hope of the tables are turned you will still answer like this.

OP if your peace is threatened please leave. You will be alone for a while buy someone of your kind will definitely find you.
Your fiance has never lost anything valuable that's why he still chests. Be the first to call his bluff

I did not advice her to stay neither. After reading through my explanation, the choice to stay or leave is hers. Every woman can't be like you. Women are of different natures. Funny enough, she may not even leave

Mindlog:
One does not have to be a divorcee dynamics changes after a divorce and what becomes paramount is how to better co-parent.

Lol

Mindlog:
If there are children between them in the marriage, divorce can not diminish the fact that the former spouse is the father/mother of the children and milestones/situations in their children lives will likely bring them together even when they have moved on with another relationship.

Lol.

That's all I can say to your comment. Have you experienced divorce before? See you talking about it as if it's like rejecting biscuits for cake

lifenija:
i guess the thread is making u feel quilty

Lol. God help NL

Every African especially Nigerians are very conscious of two entities: God up there(even a babalawo believes God exists) and witchcraft (juju)

Mindlog:
Is your spouse, be it husband or wife not your family?

Great!

So what happens after divorce?

Righteousness2:
They are both Family!
My wife is my Family
My Parents and Siblings are my Family

As long as my wife is my wife indeed and has done no evil, I will stand with her.

You're not taking any stand bro. Would you ostracize yourself from your family as he did or you won't?

I think Seun shd create another NL forum where you can register with your NIN to ensure you're 30+. This forum has lost its value by influx of very childish topics

awa:
You can advise for Africa

Lol. I wan stop am sef

Righteousness2:
Your wife is your Family!
What is Most Important Is to stand for the right and Honest Course!

Good day Bros. As much as I don't like to quote you cus I like to keep to my lane. Without regards to likes and shares, I stand to oppose you on this. Wife is family I agree. But a family forged you to become what a wife or a husband finds attractive. Though not all family members are Godly but it's still very clearly unwise to disregard your family for wife or husband, the height of the right thing you both stand for notwithstanding, family is very key and even God honors that fact. Most time he begins deliverance for the family the vessel he's using comes out from according to the Bible.

I believe in God through Christ but I've had experiences that has proven that even a good wife can disregard you if you don't have good terms with the family you come from. It's just a matter of time.

For the subject matter, the prince and he's wife who was once a divorcee, the second divorce will clear the Prince's eyes. However I think he's seperation from his family goes beyond the love for his wife, he seem to be tired of the royalty dos and don'ts but he didn't get to do it at the right time. The reasons overlapped.

awulio:
And u should think before u type rubbish. It goes both ways

Lol mumu

Kriss216:
This Harry is just a SIMP. le guy!


How can you abandon royalty and your family for an over used kpekus that left her 4 year marriage?

The love of a woman taste as wine but last only for a while, but, the love of a family last forever!

Maybe when they divorce, queen will look into the much power confound in women in d uk