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IamD18:
Not until you started fvcking around.

ITbomb:
Instead of prayers why don't we try this for a change

Do Message before the dancing and praise

Dancing is a body demanding exercise which leaves the body weaker.
Or are we afraid that people won't stay for offering after the message?

Which is more important, message or offering?

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Hell NOO!!! that's a weak man

God forbid. unless my husband allows me cheat. sex is suppose to be enjoy by me also.

can't keep my vaginity for all these years only to hook up with indomie man

he must be hung like a horse and sex for at least 2 hours straight

harkandey:

continue lie Muhammed first born

Easybela:
maybe she was too young or scared to go on with u in the first place, some girls due to home upbringing, avoids love affairs till they are matured enough. 4get the past,focus more on who she has become presently.

PrimadonnaO:
Just imagine the kind of nonsense you want to discuss.

friendl:
Something not right about this write up ,why will a married woman want to have sex with two guys?is she a freak?

"JUST BECAUSE IT IS A TRADITION DOES NOT MAKE IT RIGHT".

Kingosytex:
date her friend? OP i think you are really digging your own grave. for the fact that she allows you kiss her means that she has some feelings for you so i suggest you still continue on your attempt to woo her. dating her friend might be suicidal, you know ladies can be unduly jealous

delugajackson:
A tale of two societal misfits. One is a bitter and frustrated mentally-deranged divorcee who still hasn't found the need to move on with her misreable life, while the other is an attention-seeking beast of no gender, an illiterate, gender-confused baboon with no real talent, no moral standards, no bearing, and no life.

They remind me of the popular T.V show on Nat Geo Wild, "unlikely animal friends." These two are tireless clowns who spare no effort in polluting the media space with their nauseating, irresponsible and puerile behaviour.

delugajackson:
A tale of two societal misfits. One is a bitter and frustrated mentally-deranged divorcee who still hasn't found the need to move on with her misreable life, while the other is an attention-seeking beast of no gender, an illiterate, gender-confused baboon with no real talent, no moral standards, no bearing, and no life.

They remind me of the popular T.V show on Nat Geo Wild, "unlikely animal friends." These two are tireless clowns who spare no effort in polluting the media space with their nauseating, irresponsible and puerile behaviour.

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.