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I was gisting over a group platform with colleagues... Some mentioned they download an app called Tinder to ease out...gist and chat online people this lockdown season...Abuja's Lockdown was increased by 2 more week.
'' Nnne try the App'' but set your profile to match ur audience''
So I created a profile 2 day ago... I picked a random sim. Added a phone no. Set location to 2km/1 mile...so I could met one or 2 decent friends around my hood for Evening Jogging around my estate.

So I meet one guy...who after reading my profile... The following conservative took place.
I promised him, am gonna send screenshots on Abuja Twitter...so next time he doesn't insult a lady for no Reason...I have meet very friendly people on tinder...but this one poured his bile of bitterness on me...pls people help me judge...kindly DONT QUOTE... so I might be kind to take down.
Screenshot shortly. I



Here was my Description on my Tinder profile

'' God fearing Pals... I don't believe in premarital Sex!
5''7 ...Love Basketball
Chelsea Fan Best season with 'Antonio Conte' Political View- Republican /Pro- Trump.
No Party grinders pls. ''

The Screenshot are our Conversation
'' uncensored''


Why will a Guy be this Bitter in Life?... Why the Venom? Is it the Lockdown? Economy issues? or underlying issues bikonu...why will a Guy be so bitter like this Uncle?

That dude has lacked pussy for a very long time, he just needed one.

Kingarthur21:
have you called him out for being a single father and having unprotected sex?if it were a lady will you not reduce and belittle her for having a kid after marriage? Why have you not blamed op for being the cause of his problem?

I did not blame him cause later he married her and he wanted to have a family. There 1 in every five guys who gets their girlfriend pregnant and would own up to the pregnancy. I say this girl got lucky and somehow those guys get matched up with girls who ruin them. I didn't blame him cause he took responsibility of his misdoing and tried to make it right and not making himself look like the victim here.


I don't have anything against SM in fact I don't hate them as you reiterated in the other threads, and also I don't like them, I'm just indifferent with them. Why am I indifferent with them, cause the mistake they made which is very avoidable could repeat itself because of how they view themselves. Another reason is, they're never parted with their baby daddy. And the last point is, one who is not capable of making the right life changing decisions could ruin your life.

yahaya2014:
She is 24, but her quest for worldly things is unimaginable. She drinks acohol, love the gud things of life and all.

Still you have to move on. You don't want such bad energy around your son.

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL, GIVE OR NOT, THERE'S AN UNENDING QUEUE OF MALE FOLKS WHO WILL GIVE MORE THAN THAT AMOUNT FOR NOTHING.
SEE, MEN PAY WOMEN FOR ACTUAL SEX. THE DUMBER ONES PAY WOMEN TO FINGER THEMSELVES ON CAMERA. THE MOST USELESS OF THEM ALL PAY WOMEN TO EXCHANGE EXPLICIT LANGUAGES ON CHAT.
EITHER WAY, WOMEN ARE ALWAYS WINNING. IF A GIRL IS TOO LAZY TO WORK FOR HER MONEY, TRUST ME, SHE JUST HAS TO WEAR SKIMPY THINGS AND EXPOSE HER BODY QUIET OFTEN, AND SHE'LL NEVER LACK MONEY BECAUSE MANY MEN ARE FOOLS. SOME WILL EVEN SEND HER MONEY JUST TO REPLY A CHAT OR GIVE THEM HER NUMBER.

Damn!

yahaya2014:
Nairalander
Here is my story..I meet this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we meet and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent present in my house. She virtually spend nights in my place.
Two month after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.
After three months, the bank terminate the job. I came back home. remember during this period, My family never liked her.
But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.
During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering.
They was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work(the bank job).
We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitate her..
To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.
One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.
The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her wat to do.
The day I gave her my fone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she want to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her I keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.
She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.
I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.
She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.
Hope my decision is not wrong?

First, she didn't run, she wanted to leave and you asked her to leave. Second, your decision is not wrong. In fact you did the right thing for you and your son. Third, that girl is not matured anyway, and she matures, she will come back to you, please move on and don't accept her back.

ProfDview1:
U must be joking bro.. Keep painting men as evil... So for every single baby mama, the guy is at fault.


Omar09 see ur brother oo

Lol don't mind the douche

CAPSLOCKED:

C'mon! You'd love it.

Descorts:
We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON

What will you gain after toying with the emotions of others and break them.

Let's say you succeed in becoming that monster as I see you falling in love in no distance time, you have become what you hate. Just so you know.

BTW I'm about to watch YouTube on how to fry an egg and do the complete opposite, who's with me?

Collins300:
Please i need an answer to this question

Joe!

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU'RE MAKING SMALL SMALL POINTS, BUT AS THE ERROR HAS OCCURRED... DO WE CURSE AND BLAME THEM FOREVER LIKE YOU'RE DOING? OR ENCOURAGE THEM TO BE BETTER PEOPLE?

You sick psycho!

We shouldn't. But we should warn the youngsters against it. Well I ain't cursing them, all I'm saying is they're not the man in a cape who flies. Just saying.

ProfDview1:
Ur sis sef get fault... Omar09 is right... Her sense didn't tell her dt she shud use condom..

Why was she so quick to open her pant? She suffered the consequences of her stupid actions bcox the stupid man dt fvck her wasn't ready for a baby


The same blame the guy deserves, so does ur sister Also...

Oh no they're quick to portray them as heroes just wipe off their mistakes. If Lamanii22 your sister was a hero as you say she is, why didn't you go her way?

Sîlly beings.

Lamanii22:
Nope my sister never failed... She's not a failure...


If this should happen to your future daughter send her out from your house lol....

I will loud it in my house and make it perfectly clear that if any of my daughters got pregnant without getting married would live with the man, and not my house and yes I will be stone hearted to do it.

Kingarthur21:
We both follow ourselves,have you not seen my posts always encouraging girls to close their legs? I never advocated for sleeping around (my posts are a confirmation to this) but you cant keep harassing SM day in day out and calling them names or bullying them. It is past,you still label them derogatory names . The attack on them and brute bullying is way much...

This thread was created for those who made the mistake to encourage them to still further their education and move on and not just stop their lives...that is the entire goal of this thread and not to cheer them up for having sex. You missed the point of this thread because hatred for them has had control over you....


Some after childbirth quit all their dreams,stick only to training the child and not improving their lives but the OP sister continued education and graduated with 2:1,we are encoueaging them to be chaste and encouraging those who have fallen already that it is not the end of the world-thats the message,but you guys will still show up to remind them of their past and bully and trouble them.


Why dont you harass single dads the way you harass SM? I have never seen much contempt and bullying of SM in my entire life as i have witnessed on this forum..

Why not loud being chaste. And of course I'm talking about you. I'm talking about women, the sisterhood. I think having sex is good, I mean all the women decides to be chaste, how will we have sex, but all I'm advocating for is safe sex. And I also preach to men I know about safe sex for their own good. But one thing is to preach, you can never enforce it.

pansophist:
I know you're not female lol, no be you again?

Lol

Kingarthur21:
and single dads?they are success?

Sorry bro,having this mentality of yours is failure itself. Stay away from this women,leave them alone,stop trolling their threads and bullying them.i understand you are kind of resentful towards them,hate will take you no where,get rid of all this negative energy,your attacks are way too much and bullying,leave this women alone..

You derailed this thread,just leave

Hey I don't hate them, what really irks me about them, and I mean those who could have avoided the stigma is the come out as HEROES when in fact, they were utter stupid and just bearing the consequences.

Kingarthur21:
Dude what is problem?are you mentally stable?are you aware you derailed this thread?kindly read before commenting.

Hey bro,why does the mention of SM gets you triggered?do they haunt you?
Will heaven fall if you don't stay clear off this thread? The title is to share success story,no one is talking about marrying them or if they are good,the point of this thread is to encourage them to still pursue their education and don't quit their dreams. Your input was not necessary,you are derailing this thread. Like you promised Capslocked,open a thread talking of the demerits of SM or start a say no to single mothers movement but don't come spoil this thread . This has become trolling.
This is so petty,you missed the entire point of this story because you have a passion for pulling those ladies down and heaping blame. My joy is that both mum and baby are safe and that she made a second class honours,you had to pour your negative vibes.

The thread is for women strictly,have some dignity please.
Please don't bother replying Martinez,I have classified you as someone who is "disturbed".,you are very brilliant,but you are investing your brains in gender bigotry.

Not matter how you hide your misogyny it is crystal clear you are one,I know you sugarcoat it with seemingly "speaking the truth" or "saying things as it is" but I wonder how one will invest his time and effort and data into all this gender stuffs,the negative one for that manner,seek help before whatever malady/absurd passion that is bothering you destroy you,you have a bright future indeed,all this distractions are doing you no good,even though you believe so.


You are still young,so I guess all this will end soon.

With all due respect sir, I wish to point out where you failed, and where we failed as humans. This thread shouldn't be one where we are subtly encouraging young women to have unprotected sex all in the name of love that won't yield anything. We should teach our females or rather feminism should teach our younger women to always insist on using condoms it's not costly. It's for their own safety. What if she died in the process, what would it called, life, luck, for those who don't believe in God, and what for those who believe in God?

Call a spade a spade bro. They wanna have sex, I don't mind but they should do it with a condom and save themselves the pity and victim playing.

How could a girl in a university have a relationship with one who is in a university who has no plans yet and gets pregnant for him, what was she expecting, a pat on the back with note of weldone?

Boys out there, have a plan, get comfortable and to the point where you can take care of two or three people around you comfortably before thinking of going into a relationship and that way you will have a purpose as to why you are in that relationship and be ready to take care of anything that comes out of it. It's that simple!

Lamanii22:
This is not war/blame against gender .... It's just the struggle of being a single mom... And my point is pregnancy shouldn't stop a girl from furthering her education... Lots of parents have disown their girl child cause of this....

Let's be honest here, if your sister had shut her pants or at least used protection, there wouldn't be any baby. But hey we tend to overlook one mistake because it was committed by one gender. So lady, your point should be to teach other younger women who are in school to focus on their education and not humping on dick to the other. And if decided to do so, one should bear the consequences, cause your sister knew if she got pregnant, it will be just her to go through the pregnancy phase whether or not the guy was with her. BTW have you stopped to ask yourself, “what if my sister had died?” all for what, love that couldn't see her through the pregnancy? Love that denied her? And here she is hero of the stůpid women who got children out of wedlock that a simple condom of N100 would have spares them the misery. Tell your sister that I omar09 said she failed as a woman!


This thread should be dedicated to women who got married had kids and got abandoned by their husband and father and not some stůpid kids experimenting.

Nansense!

Kingarthur21:
most ladies talk of non mutual/consexual sex when their goals arent met. It is when he dumps them,marry someone else,when they realise he was a player then they will contemplate saying rape. But if it turns out good,they will not talk

Very very cumbersome. One has to be sure that whoever girl is with him is actually with him for reals tho.

pansophist:
I do not expect logic and common sense from many female here. Next, please.

Oh no sire! I am no female. I'm just quoting them females here.

pansophist:
is sex not mutual again? I'm not understanding o. Didn't they both smash each other?

According to the females here, sex is not mutual when things are not going their way.

Please, justwise and anyone here, biko I want to know how I can go about registering for IELTS exam, where it is cheap, how to prepare for the exam.

Please mention me when you reply, thanks.

Martinez39s:
You are a weak man just like many men of this generation. A lady is in your house, she is draining you in your house, and she is also dragging the remote from you and changing TV channels against your will in your house. What exactly is stopping you or making it hard to send her away? You are too weak jare.

Edit: bluepill simps should notice how ladies are confidently proclaiming that op has fuçked his gf even though the op never mentioned such. It takes a fùckboy or olõsho to make sure assumptions confidently. All females are hões.

Gbam. Bro I'm tired of correcting this people, I've decided to tell them what they wanna hear. How far this extension, e reach your side?

emmaodet:
Pls what is it bro

Protein Shake!

emmaodet:
Capslocked, sometimes i don't want to believe the kind of new i see on nairaland.
It's weird, i mean crazy.
A lady sleeping in the room of allllllll her neighbors(guys ooooooo), saying you people are not married, so she can do anything with her body.
Challenging you, that why did you come to her house without informing her.
Told you to excuse her while she goes out with her bedmate and later come home, not to her apartment but to the bangmate apartment.

Oohhhhhhhhhh Looooorrrrrrdddddds!!!!!!!!!!
How did we get here as men??
Who did this to us??
The op is suffering from Low self esteem. He doesn't believe in himself and thinks the lady is the best option for him.
Op i have a question for you -
Pls, for the years you have been dating this girl, can you tell me what you have benefited from her?
Money?
Gift?
Getting you contracts with her connections?
Green card?
Job?
Pls just what is the benefit of that slut? Pls
Are you broke or struggling financially? Because this is a major reason a lot of guys take shits, especially low self esteem guys.
Are you ugly?

I will tell you what he's benefited from her, protein shake. Don't ask me how.

stephenonyx:
GOod morning all.
Please I will like to be as snappy as I can so not to bore you guys with a long story.

I met this girl last year April, she was so nice to me and and I decided to go out with her and before u could say jack, we've started dating and boom, she don carry Belle for me.
I really wanted to keep the baby but she said No that we ain't ready yet so she terminated the pregnancy.
So it hasn't been easy for me since den plus I lost almost a million in a 419 business I was introduced to then by a friend so it looked like I went back to square one because all that cash was what I gathered from my salary.
I was so frustrated because things went really bad and all the loving was gone in a twinkle of an eye.
Then I noticed she has started seeing a guy that stays in the same compound with her. Though before we started dating, she has made mention of sleeping in her male neighbors room. She has slept in almost all the guys room and she claimed none has touched her and she is comfortable with them even though some has asked her out before we met.
The last one that got me really mad was going to her house to visit her without letting her know. She was with that same guy in her room and when I knocked and she opened the door, she looked straight to my eye and said " why did I come that she wasn't expecting me. Before I could say jack. She told me to leave that she wants to go out with the guy to buy sharwama. I agreed to stay down but after waiting for over two hours for them to come back, she went straight to the guys room and was watching movie without even coming to my side. Wen I confronted her, she said " she wants to sleep in the guys room and she is not ready to see me this night and also we ain't married yet so she has the right to do everything she wants with her body.
I went home that night heartbroken and decided to loose her number and everything I feel for her.
Now she wants to come back but won't even apologise for anything.

She has started hunting me with some good memories we had in the past and also blaming me for the abortion she had for me.
Please guys I still feel something for this girl but I don't know if it's possible for a girl to treat u in that manner and still feel it's normal/ and is it possible for you to sleep with someone who is not ur bf/relation but just a neighbor and not have sex with them.
Please sorry for my long epistle and lack of punctuation but I really need a concrete advice on how to handle things with her.

Thanks

CAPSLOCKED, what do you think about this?

As for me, he should accept her back, I think she's changed you know, after fůcking around with playboys, in fact she's coming back with more benefits health benefits. She's will come with protein, you know after sucking some douche bag dick with the cum on her lips, you'd kiss her and share in that protein shake.


I'm just saying. Plus you gonna join the 10% with STDS.

hahn:
We can use this thread in a future argument about how some people are just born naturally to be stupid. It's in them like peak milk

Ah swear die!

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL, I'M ALWAYS ON DRUGS.

Oh my!

CAPSLOCKED:
I SAW ONE USER ON TWITTER THE OTHER DAY LOOKING FOR FUNDS LIKE "IT" WAS ABOUT TO DIE.
NOW, THIS PERSON WORKS FOR THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT AND EARNS A DECENT SUM, AND "IT" HAS BEEN ON EVERY GIVEAWAY THREAD SINCE THE CREATION OF GIVEAWAYS BECAUSE... BEGGING IS WHAT? FUN.

WHILE THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO JUST NEED 1K TO FEED FOR THE NEXT 2 WEEKS, SOME PEOPLE, INCLUDING THIS PERSON ARE TRYING TO GATHER AS MUCH AS THEY CAN - 5K, 20K, ALL FROM GIVEAWAYS, SO THAT AT THE END OF THIS EPISODE THEY WILL CHANGE THEIR CARS OR, ADD TO THEIR SAVINGS TO BUY AN IPHONE OR A PLAYSTATION 5.

THESE MISCHIEVOUS, SELFISH FOOLS DON'T KNOW THAT WHILE GOING ON WITH THIS ACTIVITY, THEY MAY BE DENYING THOSE WHO REALLY, REALLY NEED THIS ASSISTANCE.


I ENCOURAGE OFFLINE GIVEAWAYS BECAUSE OF SUCH GREEDY PEOPLE.

What brand of alcohol do you take? Make I ship am straight to your domot.

Martinez39s:
Pocohantãs generously gave away 100k, and all of a sudden, a lot of nairaland females childishly rode of poco's generosity to presume the following (they may deny these, but actions speak louder than words):
1) all nairaland girls are rich, while all redpill men are broke. Such erroneous notion was borne out of their utter disdain for redpill men on nairaland. They cunningly left out the fact that some females were also gracious beneficiaries of pocohantas's generosity, and that major redpill men (Martinez39s, Ubunja, Omar09, AstroG, JONNYSPUTE, emmaodet, etc) did not beg. Such utter disdain was so intense that funmisticqueen2 had to mention me and declare that the redpill is all nonsense because a female did a giveaway. It wouldn't surprise me that some of the females bashing Davash222 are broke as a fallen China vase.
2) that pocohantãs's generosity is somehow some sort of victory for the females over the males (particularly the redpill folks). In an unsurprising childish fashion, some bimbos (sexylasśie2, Mzrappér, etc) tried turning pocohantãs's giveaway into a competition challenging redpill to "respond" with a giveaway and prove we are rich... as if we have anything to prove to them. Could I forget how Mzràpper, who has never met me, told me I am a freebasics user until I shut her up with evidence of my data usage?

My advice to davash222 is to ignore these ladies, and keep being himself; it's not unusual when little children come out to play. All these nonsense and non sequiturs are what we expect from children.

In addendum to what you wrote up there, whether or not we are rich or broke shouldn't be anyone's problem. We are not beta orbiters who will respond with a giveaway just to seek validation and gain false attention from them. For all I know, this is a shît test, and the best way to pass this particular one is to ignore their call.

CAPSLOCKED:
Caps.

I like the new name, looks unique but familiar. Also I like the game you are playing here, and I must say, I'm a Noob and I'm intrigued!

Howdie BTW?

Martinez39s:
••• Can someone show me where davash222 insulted pocohantãs and called her an evening newspaper?
••• Can someone provide proof that davash222 is a woman bashers? (I say this because the terms "woman basher", "misogynist", etc. are used carelessly these days by many to refer to those who merely say things they don't like).

If indeed Davash222 had insulted pocohantãs, and is yet to apologise, even though he had begged and collected 5k from pocohantãs, he has done wrong.

Howdie big bro?