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Kennedyiheme02:
also while married to the beta.. she misses the thrill and excitement she got from the Bleep boy.. then she starts Cheating..

Obviously. This is the untold story people are afraid of hearing. They wanna hear about Disney fairytale, love at first sight, LOML, and a prince(ss) falling in love with a nobody. It's just movies, and you shouldn't try to reenact it in real life.

NwaAmaikpe:

Got my eyes ready for em funny comment.

So one has to go through all these just to please a girl?

chatinent:
Responded.

Responded.

So many people don't really understand the word "Alpha" and "Beta". Here's a perfect example.

In the movie sex education. Around Season 1, Otis liked a girl called Merv who was fvcking a black dude who could swim. Now Merv got pregnant and went to a clinic to abort the baby and Otis accompanied her without even knowing why she went to the clinic in the first place.

Now who is the alpha in this little story I told? The black athlete who got Merv pregnant and Otis it the Beta F00lish male who accompanied the girl of his dreams to abort a baby that isn't his. And he had no knowledge of the abortion in the first place.

Moral lesson: don't be like Otis.

chatinent:
I said mail the email on my sig., please.

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ubunja:
and the funny thing is that the Alphas, when they marry, they usually marry Virgins.

Talk about having your cake and eating it.

This is beautiful.

ubunja:
the only upside to being a Beta is that you get to marry your fantasy dream girl - although later on when she has lowered in value. (when she has a kid or two and when she has lost some of her looks and when her body is no longer as firm as before).
Like this guy here:

So if you're chasing the Fantasy then Betahood is the way.


But if you're chasing Power and Control and having a girl worship you, then Alphahood is the way. Alphas rarely marry their dream girl. Because that would have them marry for love. Which in itself is weakening and gives the loved woman all the Power and Control.

After all I read from you, seen on this platform and witnessed first hand, I'd never make that mistake of marrying someone I love. She has to be the one to love me and then I reciprocate.

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RisenPhoenix:
I am sorry bro, but I'm going to give it to you without beating about the bush. This your story shows you have more than a hint of immaturity.

1. You let your wife's behaviour control you, by your own admission. When you take life changing decisions; in this case to cheat; primarily for someone else's sake, you concede that the person has irresistible power over you.
2. Your objective for cheating is not even clear. Having cheated and deliberately left signs for her, the obvious conclusion is that you no longer want to stay in the marriage and are taking a childish way out (like an employee who deliberately messes up his workspace before resigning). Yet you are still stating that you hope that things will get back to normal between you. What's normal to you? Did you really think that someone who shows such signs of jealousy will just accept the fact and still feel loyal to you, or want to raise children with you? If you do, you must be a very poor judge of character.
3. Your need for females around you further shows a certain lack of maturity and self confidence. So your progress lies in the hands of your female friends? You do not really need advice concerning your marriage; that one is over; you need advice concerning how to build up your self esteem and behave less childishly.

word!

Just an "F" and I already know what the content is and I can say it will be worth reading.

Honestly I've had my fair share of being both. I've been a beta and then an Alpha and I can say being an Alpha is the best one can ever discover in route to self discovery.

You just have to put yourself first, and yes it's called being selfish and it's OK.

Martinez39s:
She was just beating about the bush. That's why you don't seek relationship advice or redpill from women, you would end up terribly misled.

@emboldened
True, if men became women, most men will do the same thing women are doing and settle for the best financial deal available at all times. Besides, the redpill is not the bashing of women or the instigation of hatred against women even though it has been misconstrued as such. Red pill just tell it as it is about women. We don't hate Tigers for being vicious predators that could kill a human given a chance instead we accept the tiger's nature and take precautions. The same applies to women.

CRP used this analogy but this time it was a “bee” he used. He said, we all know that the bee stings, but when stung do we curse the “bee”, No! This is good!

JentuPrinz:
That's not love den...WONMADO

Of course!

Martinez39s:
Just go straight to the point. Most young men don't have the kind of cash Ned Nwoko has. I agree with you that Ned Nwoko made a sound choice in picking the mother over the daughter, who would pick an evening newspaper when they can get a fresh one?

That guy's comment reeks of sentiment and shit. Beating about the bush I tell you. This is the reason we preach about not making any lady a center of happiness, they will fail you. Shay this Regina was dating Somto abi na wetin be en name. Another man with bigger money came and the said boyfriend became a best over night and now has lost relevance around her. Before I used to hate Regina for her move but now I sat down and thought, I'd do the same. Over and over again.

#MGTOW

ubunja:
that time when you correct someone's English but make mistakes of your own. Lmfao!!

Shit happens. Lol

I laugh in grams. What she isn't asking you, she's getting somewhere, and what she isn't giving you, she's giving another.

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CokeBar:
I will try to be as fair as possible as I would want to receive honest feedback from you. This might be a bit long but please ride with me.

Background:

We met at our previous workplace early 2018, we instantly clicked and became friends. I was well-known at work, he was the opposite (he liked being by himself), we however always had time to talk. After few months he asked me out but because I knew how office romance wasn’t healthy, I declined, although I always had him understand that I really liked him. During this period, we always had one issue or the other probably because we were getting to know each other. We got into one of the usual fight and I told him not to call me anymore, he respected that and we stopped talking… after couple of months, we had an office party and he wasn’t there so I texted him inquiring why he was absent and we resumed talking again.

I finally let my emotions flow and I agreed we could start a relationship as I was super happy we had started talking again… this happened late 2018.

A little about him:

He is very respectful (this is an attribute I love about him). He is also willing to learn and adjust to make me happy. He is super romantic, he goes extra mile to make sure I am comfortable whenever I visit, oh! And he also cooks. For example, he lives at point B and I live at point E, if we were to go to point A which is obviously closer to his house, he would rather come pick me from point E, no uber… he prefers to do it. I just want to explain how kind, romantic and caring he is. A downside would be that he has complex issues, why? Because he was the least performing child in his family so that kinda messed him up.

Back to our relationship:

He is in his late 20’s and he works, I am in my mid 20’s and I work… we earn pretty well and usually buy stuff for each other; money has never been an issue. Mid-2019, we went to Dubai on vacation, though we initially agreed to share cost 60% – 40%, with him contributing 60%, we eventually shared it 50 – 50 (I understood because we had exhausted the money we went with and I usually take extra funds with me). He talks to my mum (calls) and they are pretty cool, however, I have never spoken to his. Few times, he wanted me to talk to her but either I was too shy, or something came up. One day, I was at his and she called… she asked if he was with someone and he said no, I was unhappy about that but he told him me that since it was late he didn’t want his mum to have a wrong perception of me. I was quite satisfied with that explanation.

We both work from home (IT) so we are usually in each other’s company as we could work from anywhere.

The problem:

I am from Edo state, Benin precisely and he is Igbo… least I forget, before we started the relationship, I asked him if his family would be okay if he married outside Igbo considering that his married brothers all got hinged to Igbo chicks. In his words, “Yes, everything depends on how I present you to them”, I was satisfied with the response.

As at mid 2019, he told his Dad about me and he requested that I go see his elder brother (I think his Dad though I was Igbo) but I couldn’t go as I was reacting to a drug I was taking and my skin looked really bad. My BF understood and after few months I went to see his other elder brother as the first one was out of the country. It was a dinner and it went well. At a point, I noticed his mother was cajoling him to meet her friend’s daughter (I think his parents had found out I wasn’t Igbo), but my BF didn’t oblige. I confronted him with the tribal issue, and he told me everything was still as he said and I shouldn’t bother. Late 2019, he called and said his Dad wasn’t taking any of it and had told him he wanted all his kids to be married to Igbos. I respected this decision although it was hurtful. At that time, I was in a different state with people around so it would have been easier to heal but he still insisted that the was talking to them and I shouldn’t give up on him as his mum wanted to meet me, I obliged.

Early 2020, he made me return to his state and everything was going on well, then on a fateful day, his mum called and she started talking about marriage and he said “you people should please let me marry my girlfriend” and his mum replied “who’s that?”, I was shocked cause I felt this was the lady who said she wanted to meet me. He explained himself out of that and even though I wasn’t buying it, I needed my peace of mind.

Another day, his dad called and asked about marriage, my boyfriend wanted to quickly change the topic because I was there but his dad asked if he had broken up with me (the Bini girl) and my boyfriend replied “I am on the fence.” That answer immediately gave me stomach pain. I told him it was over, and I couldn’t trust him with our relationship if he could give such response.
He tried to plead but I was having none of it. Now, I am hurt! Sad! (Couple with the fact that I am still in his city and I am usually in the room where I work) Very sad but I just want to know if I made the right decision. I can’t deny the fact that I love him and maybe that’s why my senses aren't working properly.

Martinez39s, ubunja, Many other notable MGTOW members and I don't give out the red pill for just knowing how to deal with women. We give it out for men to know how to deal with life. Your boyfriend is a weakling. And he is a simp. You don't want such person in your life. You don't want someone whom will always agree to your biddings without at least having his own way. It's not romantic at all. But hey we are called names for standing for something.

You should break up asap, you don't want such man in your life, plus you won't enjoy that marriage once entered. Ciao

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How can i belive u re not a scamer?

You just have to try. Plus I didn't build my moniker for three years here, spend almost a month online when accumulated to steal little money. I believe in integrity. Hit me up on WhatsApp let's talk.

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Michellekabod2:
enjoy the falsehood now,its your time,fiddling with ideologies,movements et Al is bound to happen. Later on ,yourself,Martinez and others that cling onto gibberish ideas called "truth" will have reality dawn on you guys...


In five years time you will reread your posts on NL and feel ashamed of yourselves.

Reality dawns on us all,men and women alike,just that you all believe time has redemption on you and your mistakes are redeemable while a lady's mistake can't be corrected. That suppose edge you believe you have has deceived you men a lot.

Wish you and your ilks the best in life!

You too.

NwaAmaikpe:



Aside being a Lifetime Grand Patron of the Vaseline Crew, I am with her only on the subject of masturbation because it is the truth.

Sit back and imagine the number of unwanted pregnancies,
the number of STIs,
the number of infidelity cases,
the number of sex-related crimes,
the number of heartbreaks,
the number of sex scandals that would have not existed if only people used the hands God gave them to masturbate.

Think again.

Do you know that God in his infinite wisdom created man's hands to be long enough to touch the groin JUST for the aim of masturbation.
He gave us the sufficiency to make ourselves happy. It is so sad that some people solely depend on others for their happiness.

Live smart and save people who love you the agony.
It is more pleasing to the ear that it is said that you died while masturbating than that you died on top of a slut.

There is no shame in making yourself happy.

He has come again oh .

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Blu03:
it's not 100% safe.

If not gonorrhea, syphilis etc would be a thing of the past

Those who use condom have never complained of such diseases. Check well, those who complain don't use it or the use it to start and then go raw.

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Michellekabod2:
truth? You call bigotry truth?lol

That's the hard truth amigo.

Michellekabod2:
. I don't understand the wailing of ladies when they see guys marrying younger girls.

They wail because instead them being picked, the younger ones are. And this goes to make them believe in a hard way that they (women) are depreciating. And that they age like milk.

It's a hard pill no woman ever wants to swallow. But nature has a way shoving it down their throat.

But one's choice shouldn't make the other fidget, or worried. At least every woman born in this world has gotten suitors in her young age.

Blu03:
okay. Screw around all you want. Conquer and dominate.
I'm a woman telling you that a man who is content with living with stds is nothing but a walking corpse.
Again, nothing masculine in lechery.

I despise the word 'marriage'. So i ain't typing in my interest

And I keep wondering what condom was produced for. .

Dizzyrascal:
ubunja the legend! I hail ooo....pls help us talk to this guy before it gets too late....one love

OP is in love, love is blind and love is also deafening. Yeah they didn't tell you that too. It also paralyzes.

Nothing will make him hear word till he's crushed.

Kennedyiheme02:
you will regret getting married.. not a bad wish, just reality.. all your family cares about is just kids.. give them just that... you're too enlightend to play foolish..

I'm not hopping for the best. Yes I'm very enlightened, but I will take my time, I'm not in a hurry and never will I be in a hurry.

Froshloaded:

Not all ladies are hoes

So we keep telling ourselves.