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I will seek out who gave phone privileges to little kids, and I will kill that person.

Now to the topic at hand.

Marriage is never a blessing and neither is it a privilege to men. It's like housing a big baby and she gets to do whatever she wants with manipulation. To me I don't ever want to get married, but I am the first son and a lot is expected of me.

Riele:
Please. Kindly carry your already decayed brain out of my mention .
I don't argue with broke ass who live off sugar mummies .

You see what I have never understood is how you will be the first to mention someone and then turn to call the person brainless and that such shouldn't mention you again. Honestly, you haven't showed any maturity and tbh I hate mentioning you. But I had to. You don't see a hen with its kids and then you steal one and not expect it to come after you, it's absurd. You think you smart, but you are not. You are in fact the dumbest person I've never met (in person). You ever wonder why guys here term you with those derogatory words? It's cause of your stupi.dity. I had to call you out on your double standard, don't mention me.

CAPSLOCKED:
DONSTAN THE KIND TRASH YOU DE VOMIT ON A STEADY.. YOUR STOMACH MUST BE ONE BIG REFUSE DUMP.

I think he is related to NwaAmaikpe

Michellekabod2:
where did I say a man should provide for the family?

Where was it said a man should wash his partner's pants?

Michellekabod2:
why not use the tag "most-women" instead.

So you'd feel “okay”. What will be my gain for you to feel “okay” and I don't get say things as is?

Michellekabod2:
No offence but are you educated?

You find washing pants of a lady as enslavement which should be eschewed but you don't have issues with a woman cooking,and cleaning for a man?

Excuse me too, why should a man, a fully grown man wash his wife's pants when nothing is wrong with her, even if she's sick?

This is how it starts, wash my pants, wash my pants and next thing the man starts washing all her clothes, what next, he loses his values. There are a million ways to express love to one's wife if which all does not devalue one as a man and washing of clothes is not one of them. Y'all women would not like roles to swapped like y'all get to provide for the family, yet y'all wants to be served and still provided and cared for. That's very low, but then I don't expect y'all to understand because principles and loyalty is very foreign towards your reasoning.

Brazenbabe:
If a man washes his wife's panties, is is bad? No be him dey chop wetin pant dey cover?

So because a man “chops” what the pants cover means he should be slaves around it bah? If he washes her panties, what will she bee doing? They way you guys analyzes things cringes me to the core.

It is men like you that look after their wives after childbirth, cook for them, clean them up , hold the baby while she sleeps, they dont have two heads

Actually they don't have two heads. Do you also realize that there are women who cooks for the family, take care of her husband, give him a nice Bleep and still is happy being a woman.[/quote]

yet some of you are pushing an outdated narrative that makes you so useless to your partner that you cant boil water
That why why your wives make useless shakara and refuse to cook when they are angry cos they know you are uselessly useless in the kitchen.
Keep making yourselves irrelevant, Women are replacing you in the boardrooms, dildos are replacing you in the bedrooms
Dont reinvent your selves please. Dont be a "simp". Mtcheeew

There's always eatery and delivery services so why be egoistic at what you supposed to do as a wife?

frozen70:
Am glad he voiced it out, if you don't handle him in a domestic way, he may grow up seeing girls are the ones to do house work not boys

But relax, is too early for you to panic

Once he clocks 4yrs, whenever he comes back from school, he must wash his undies pand and singlet or every Wednesday ne must was his pants and singlets for him and his brother

Then on Saturdays he will repeat same

He has to do it, he should start sweeping his own room, no matter how he sweeps it, let him pack it with packer and cone and show you

Then you go and inspect the room and show him corners he didn't sweep well then let him sweep it again

As you are starting this, get a cane and let him know you won't tolerate laziness from any of them

Meanwhile anytime you are washing, let him watch the way you rub your hands on clothe, even you can allow him to wash your boxer's as you wash but you will do the real washing

When he starts he would have been OK for gin to handle his own

But don't remind him of what he said he will understand that as being a punishment for him

Just engage him into washing stylishly

All these cause a 4yo truly understood his roles as boy child in life and recognizes the role of the females?

Say it was a little of 4yrs who saw her mom paying their school fees, and she says to her mom it's the man's job to pay and not her and then went ahead to say she will never pay her school fees, will you punish her this same way?

Michellekabod2:
why did I deny it? All I said is that it is not only non-virgins and feminists that are responsible for every shaming of other women

Feminist and non-virgins are the majority in women.

Michellekabod2:
Lol...why is it that all you touts do is call feminism or being non-virgin as the cause for bad behavior? I am both and I am against the bullying or shaming anyone for their choices....

When will you grow up and dump this silly assumptions of yours?

Why try to hide from the real fact which says that it's ladies who troll their fellow ladies and men too when things don't go their way or they see another having it differently and good. You women are your problem.

I will tell you why folks aren't approaching her.

1. She's lost her feminism, she handles gun and can bring you down with a single blow easily.
2. With the way women are rude, and can embarrass men who tries to toast them whom they don't like and how simps come to their rescue by either warding such or beating such men, tell me how it's gonna look like when she's with her colleagues?

Tomorrow this one will follow awon feminist crew.

jeff1607:
when you meet the person you would know the issue is, if you would take the person seriously or transfer such a person to friend zone

Learned never to take women seriously.

jeff1607:
it doesn't really apply to everyone though


Some people actually plan better when in a meaningful relationship

helps saves more money and gives purpose for actually spending the money especially if it isn't one sided

you don't get entangled with many spirits as testing the waters or experimenting with different partners


reduces the chances of contacting any STI

gives a sense of direction when you are in a relationship , especially on career

you eat well

you dress well

peace of mind

you get a close friend, brother, sister, playmate, trouble maker, gossip partner and a partner in crime

someone always has your back in times of difficulty

plus all kids would definitely come from one person

plus you can't be easily framed by the opposite sex ; when one comes to your dm if it's not business you don't allow it get any further ,like in the case of someone who a girl brought all negative stuffs about him here, if he had a serious relationship the girl wouldn't have a chance in knowing anything about him ,that's if he was faithful

and many more

All these can only be gotten in a meaningful relationship
where one partner isn't doing all the collecting

Too bad we can only get all these from one nation.













ImagiNATION

NoChill:
Does it mean that money should be absent from a relationship?

It shouldn't but it's not supposed to be the fore runner.

travelland:
You're not helping anybody on this forum. Your posts promote evil doctrines, your choice of words are vulgar, I pity the unfortunate mother that gave birth to you. She didn't do her work well, what manner of failed child upbringing is this?

And you had to involve his mother? You lack respect, and for that you shouldn't be seen as woman or even a human. Animal!

CAPSLOCKED:
THIS IS A JOKE.

No this is a joke:

°Roses are red
°Life is unfair
°A woman thanks her husband
°For marrying her

czarr:
Just search for it....i just downloaded the Walmart greeter

Aight I will search it right away.

czarr:
I also like that he teaches about life in general.... have you watched the one he talked about ALWAYS DE-ESCALATE?

Point me to the video, I'd like to watch it.

Stephenmoka4:
If having relations with her is the aim of flexing her, there are some girls you can find for this position, if a girl wants to wait till marriage does that means you can't love her and flex her...

I will wait till marriage to flex her....

czarr:
I've watched over 66 of CRP video and I've learnt a lot, he is older and has real experiences. every one should watch that guy

He will never know he has adopted a son in me.

He's bomb. And he doesn't always teach about relationships, he teaches about life. Like the video I'm currently watching is about the WALMART greeters. Men I have think about the 70yo me first.

Jarvis22:
Truely, she loved me very much o, and also made a lot of sacrifices for me.

Yes might have loved you, but she didn't respect you.

BlueAngel444:
You can't build the kingdom of God with people who love money, it won't work.

This is true.

Belafonte:
I’m not sure I know what a real man is o. But I’m sure nairaland women can give you the perfect definition

I didn't ask them, did I?

Martinez39s:
Never invest in a woman. If you are going to spend on her, she must give you something that's worth more or the same as the money you are going to give her and I am not talking about sex.

Ubunja, Omar09, emmaodet

Many boys and quite a shame men on NL. And also the world thinks it's money that keeps a woman. While it's quite different. I started watching CRP on YouTube three days ago, and to be honest, from what he's been teaching, it's RESPECT from a woman to man that keeps a woman. In other words, it is the level of respect the man commands that will keep her. The33secret also said the same thing. Greg Adam's mentioned respect too. Well they will never listen.

CAPSLOCKED:
NEVER YOU UNDERESTIMATE THE FOOLISHNESS OF MANY MEN BRO.

What about women? Jk.

Arthur21:
I thought your bigotry is remote to only romance/family section. Even in religious section you are yet dumb!

Sadly a low life will send you a PM. Don't guys learn?

Anyway its just a faceless forum,offline you may not be this dumb.

I guess I have to adopt capslocked style of ignoring you females,I insult myself whenever I quote or reply your lots

A long time I took to CAPSLOCKED style. Occasionally I reply them. Most times I reply CAPSLOCKED instead as I am going to do now. Lol

Belafonte:
Lol. I saw your poser. Got a good chuckle out of me. But I suspect you’re just a misogynist. Everybody knows real men always please their women

Yup. I suspected that line. Have you actually seen a real man, and if you have, what is your qualification of a real man?

Akinsoladwayne:
Could she be cheating on me ? Cuz she's someone I wanna plan my future with even though we haven't met in person but the way we converse one would think we'd known each other for long.
Pls I need ur advice

Are serious @ the bolded?

The hypocrite in men will not let them see. BlueAngel444 quit seeing things where it doesn't exist. Money is an evidence of what you have at home. During the old days, when people practiced buying and selling, it used to be: A man who has excess yam but wants tomatoes, he carries his yam and exchanges it with one who has excess tomatoes. When properties that could not be carried are being used for trade, it became difficult. Hence the invention of money. Money is the physical possession of wealth.

BlueAngel444:
Today I was going through scriptures when I read 2 Chronicles 9:13:
The weight of the gold that Solomon received yearly was 666 talents.

I immediately recalled the mark mentioned in the book of Revelation.

And he causeth all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and bond, to receive a mark in their right hand, or in their foreheads: And that no man might buy or sell, save he that had the mark, or the name of the beast, or the number of his name. Here is wisdom. Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast: for it is the number of a man; and his number is Six hundred threescore and six. 666
Revelation 13:16-18

It's interesting that no one can buy or sell without Money, now of course I thought it was a mere coincidence so I decided to check the book of kings because if the author mentions it as well it means there's something significant about it.

So I found 1 Kings 10:14: The weight of the gold that Solomon received yearly was 666 talents.

It's simple to see that many men have come to completely depend upon money.

Jesus has always separated money from his ministry to God, so much so that he says

And he saith unto them, Whose is this image and superscription?
They say unto him, Caesar's. Then saith He unto them, Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar's; and unto God the things that are God's.
Matthew 22:20-21

It's even more interesting when you note that the kingdoms of men work with money, but not so the Kingdom of God.

Jesus even said at one time

And Jesus looked round about, and saith unto his disciples, How hardly shall they that have riches enter into the kingdom of God!
Mark 10:23

Remember

For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.
Romans 14:17

And that Solomon received such amount of money in golds has got what to do with the mark of the beast?

If you read the verses before Matthew 22:20-21, like from verse 15, you will understand that the Pharisees wanted to try Jesus and in quote from verse “Tell us then, what do You think? Is it permissible [according to Jewish law and tradition] to pay a poll-tax to Caesar, or not?
Matthew 22:17 AMP
https://bible.com/bible/1588/mat.22.17.AMP” and Jesus answered them But Jesus, aware of their malice, asked, “Why are you testing Me, you hypocrites? Show me the coin used for the poll-tax.” And they brought Him a denarius [a day’s wage]. And Jesus said to them, “Whose likeness and inscription is this?” They said, “[ The Emperor Tiberius] Caesar’s.” Then He said to them, “Then pay to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s; and to God the things that are God’s.”
Matthew 22:18‭-‬21 AMP
https://bible.com/bible/1588/mat.22.18-21.AMP

That answer shows that you being a child of God you should flaunt law and orders. He Jesus went ahead to show us that paying our tax is not a sin and should be abided by all and sundry.

So please don't quote a verse in the Bible to justify your silly idea. And you should desist from this act putting fears in gullible people.

NwaAmaikpe:



Okay I'd share a bit.

An Igbira lady I always shagged would wear a waist bead just before I insert my dogo in her so that she won't get pregnant.
She said it was a traditional contraceptive that ties up the mouth of the womb.
She never got pregnant for me despite overflooding her cervix with my cum.

There was this Etsako woman who was cheating on her husband with me. After shagging her, she'd look for a goat to jump over.
She said it broke whatever ill luck her cheating will cause her husband and her kids.
This man became far more successful after I started sleeping with his wife.

There was this married muslim Bini woman who got pregnant for me when her husband was away from town.
She said she will stop shagging me from her 2nd trimester and only shag her husband.
She said constantly shagging her husband will make the unborn baby look like him.
Guess what, the baby was a replica of him.

I once had an affair with Asaba woman who lived close to the market.
Each time I visited carrying goodies in both hands. She won't welcome me unless I drop them or carry both on one hand.

Finally
There was this Catholic nun who was a Mother Superior I was shagging.
She will insist I do the sign of the cross before taking off her undies.
To this day I'd never understand why.

But the greatest of them all is my own superstition.
Each time I have unprotected sex with a lady whom I wouldn't want to get pregnant for me, I simply tie up the blade of a grass and it works better than Postinor for me.

Also, after shagging a married woman. I always recite Galatians 3:13 that says that "Christ has redeemed me from the curse of the law".

I don't know about you, but superstitions work because "onye kwe, Chi ya e kwe".

This wasn't a bit, it's more than!