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very bad decision! ur brother is ur brother no matter what u do. how old are u? dont u think its time u stop fighting and grow up?! for u to fight to the extent of being thrown into a police cell shows there's a lot of work u need to do on urself. pls start being responsible, think of what u want out of life - school, work or something. get busy and u'll discover u have less time to think of fighting. plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssss be good. and make up with ur brother too.

stillwater:
My actions would definitely tell him how I feel, he must die one way or the other.

ROFLMFAO
ur reply made me laugh so much that i cant even remember what i was going to reply

i can see. . . . . . . . . a girl. . . . .and. . . . a white face. . . . .

such a luvly baby. . .
congratulations!!!

fortunes05:
Is this a family issue or something that has to do with career?

i guess its family career

since the interlligent poster has suffered so much, i've decided to reserve my comments. 
i wouldn't want to add salt to his INJURIES

he he he he he that was a narrow escape i must say!

we thank God for safe delivery.

its so good to know that ur birth date is on the calender this year! i wish you all a happy and prosperous new year of ur life. my next birthday greetings for u will come in 4 yrs time

happy celebration.

Jesus is Lord!

na wa!

i will marry for love and not for money. the fact that there may not be money at the moment doesnt mean it will always be like that. with hard word, planning and God's favor, the money will eventually come. but no amout of hard work can make u love someone u dont love and God will not force u to do that either. marriage is supposed to be enjoyed and not endured. money is needed yes, but it can never replace love. . . .

this is really sad! this kind of a man is not good for any lady to take as a husband. not becos he begs, no, but becos it will be a marriage founded on deceit. no matter how painful it will be for the lady concerned, i strongly dont think this wedding should hold. if it can be avoided then it should be avoided. this wedding should not be allowed to hold pls

banni:
But often its not the guy's or girl's choice on how they wants the wedding which is sad.

very correct!
at times it really has to do with the parents and family members. some parents just want to show off to their club and meeting members that what others can do, they can do even better. how sad. low thinking indeed!

well it really depends on the parties involved. if they want a big wedding and they can afford it, good for them.
but personally i prefer a small or moderate wedding.infact my traditional marriage is going to be an indoor thing and strictly by invitation too. to me, the state of the marriage union after the wedding day is what should be uppermost in our minds. besides, i don't like big ceremonies. _{whats the point of feeding all the people in my city anyway}   we should have enough money to live life after the wedding, so our resources should be geared towards that, not some show of wealth. after the wedding ceremony, all the invitees u wanted to show off to _{even if u succeed in doing that}, go to their respective homes and waits for the next wedding they are to attend. u guys will be on your own oh  

i admire Mike Bamiloye a lot. he has so many films and they all have a message. his films are good. u must learn something from each and everyone of them and his productions are really really good.

i watched it and its sooooooooooooo it is well.

omg! so so sad and scary too.

choicehome:
Will you marry a physically disabled person you are in love with, even when your parent rejects him/her.

the most important thing is - do i love him? if i am already in love with him, then yes i can marry him. as for my parents, they have promised to accept whoever i want, so they have to keep their promise which i believe they will if they see that i truelly love this person.

love has tot me the following:

1. that i don't know what i have till i loose it to someone else

2. if i want to have mr. right then i must try and be mrs. right

3. love covers a multitude of sins and opens up a multitude of blessings

4. love cannot be forced, it grows

5. love not communicated cannot be appreciated or reciprocated

I woke up with the following songs in my heart and I’ve been singing since I got up this morning. I’d like to share them with you if you don’t mind. Even if you do not know the songs, the words might minister grace and healing to your heart. . .

GODS NOT THRU WITH BLESSING ME
God's not through with blessing me
The trials that I face today is not the end
Cos Christ Jesus is working behind the scene
When he’s through I’ll be what He wants me to be. . .
God’s not through with blessing me

There were times when I thought that God had forgotten me
There were times when I felt like His love for me has failed
But when I looked into His word, I hear Him say. . .
“My child I still love u, I’m not through with blessing you no no no no no no
God is not through with blessing me.

I NEED YOU LORD
Take my hand, lead me Lord
To the place where grace will drown my fears
Teach me Lord to trust in You
When I’m weak, You are strong
When I stumble and I fall You pick me up
Help me to know You’re always near

I need You Lord, yes I do
I need You Lord Jesus
You’re the air I breathe
You’re the life I live
I’m lost without You
I need You Lord, yes I do
I need You Lord Jesus
Abba Father draw me nearer
And hold me close to You
I need You, I need You Lord. . .

Thru the raging storms, when trouble comes
Lord I need You. . . oh yes I do
I need You. . . .
Yes I need You, You Lord Jesus

Take my hand, lead me lord
Without You how cld I make it on my own
I cannot live one more day alone. . .

I need You Lord, yes I do
I need You Lord Jesus
You’re the air I breathe
You’re the life I live
I’m lost without You
I need You . . .
I need You . . . Jesus
Abba Father draw me nearer
And hold me close to You
I need You.

@weebee and Olowotee and all who upheld me in prayer, i want to thank u so much for u love, prayers and encouragement. im happy to announce that im doing great now. i thank God for His love ang mercies. i know God loves me so much and will always lead me into the best. thank u so much and keep up the good work. i love u.

God has helped  me to live with the reality of not having my mum around anymore. but this moment in time, i just wish she were here with me rite now. i've come to realize that people may reject u and say u are not good, even your closest friend/lover may find u intolerable but my mum never rejected me. no matter how stupid i was at times, my mum just didnt reject me. at times when i was going through so much difficulty and didnt have anyone to share my heart with, she was rite there. even when i felt i cldnt discuss what was bothering me with her, she always knew something was wrong. and never forced me when i cldnt discuss it with her. but one thing she always did was to pray for me and let me know that she cared. i remember vividly those nights when i wake up in the middle of the night and just find her standing over my bed and praying for me!

i miss her so much i wish she was here with me rite now that im hurting so much. _{i type this with tears in my eyes.}

i am not a regular contributor to this tread. but i just want anyone here who cares to pray that the Lord will strenghten me. i am going thru a very tough time right now, there are issues on my mind and there is noone to share them with. i am very depressed and weak with funny tots going thru my head. i need God's comfort like never before but im even finding it hard to pray. i will greatly appreciate anyone who can spare just a minute to say a prayer for me. thank u.

romeo:
Are you a brother or Boyfriend? i am confused

lol 

na wa oh! such a confusing post! at least i had a good laugh 

pin4eva:
It does exist. for example the one i am feeling for u right now is what i call , true love

so what do u call the one u will be feeling by this time tomorrow?

thats a man for u!

does it really exist?

i can do so for my family but for a friend no. i wld have even done that for my boyfriend but why shd i? they tell u today they love u but the next minute they make u feel u're on ur own. forget it!

i wld say that the chief causes of marital unhappiness is
1) lack of effective communication
2) not appreciated ur partner

my dear, communication is very important in any relationship. without it, love can begin to turn into hatred. try and be urself and discuss anything discussable with ur man. but really the most important thing is to have a man who appreciates ur effort by reciprocating ur gestures. cos if he doesnt, u may just find that u are the only one communicating, while he's busy with his life! it can be very annoying, frustrating and discouraging and u'll end up feeling like a fool and wanting to pack up and leave. but if u'r lucky to have someone who appreciates ur effort, u will surely have a blissful r/s or marriage. goodluck.

guys are so so funny, before they get u, they make u feel on top of the world. after u are theirs, u become shit. they make u cry and beg for attention. they will never appreciate what they have until they loose it to someone else.

@poster, my advice is to save your tears for better things. the guy is not worth it. they're the same everywhere. come out of the r/s since its obvious he's not ready to make it work. put yourself together and move on. the Lord is your strength.