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Age plays a key role in admission in foreign school ,except those ones looking for money.even some embassy will find it difficult that one really wants to go for bachelor at 36. It's possible any way, it's one thing to study abroad, it's another thing to get good job, at a particular age . If your motive is to leave naija, don't invest that money in education, u may think of short courses in I.T in some small European countries and then migrate later to bigger countries for job.all better still , learn I.T in naija and apply for jobs abroad IbrahimSkiba: |
You need permission to organize a protest in Germany ,you have to inform the authorities t and they have to approve it before you get police support.if it will cause uprising, it will never be approved ,am not talking of America. You think , unknown people go just gather in Germany without any approval or identification by the authorities ,I day laff BadBradley: |
Are you sure police lack the power ,in some countries like Germany .you can't just protest without permission from the police .same in some developed European countries .You can't block road during protest, it's illegal and a crime .That is a civilised country.we have the right to protest but we must do it according the laws of the land . BadBradley: |
I have a question for those asking the tollgate to be shot,assuming something really bad happen at computer village where business is being run ,assuming masses die, will it be closed for ever.I stay in europe and it's illegal for people to obstruct public road.right to protest does not mean blocking road. I know they will start to curse now quote author=ThatFairGuy1 post=98869905]All these so called indefinite activist who has hidden agenda of destroying Lagos and Yorubaland at Large should be treated with NO MERCY. Go to your State and protest[/quote] |
If yoruba combine with ibos , Nigeria don finish be that quote author=darocha1 post=98412231]I am with kankanfo on this. South West leaders need to be careful in handling the issues on ground. If it degenerate into a war, even if yoruba overpower the fulani, we will still be the looses. The hazard created in Lagos during #EndSars will be a child's play when projected with likely end game . A little hot... A little cold is (majamasa) where you know akinkanju. Our silly politicians need to put party and future aspirations aside and condemn this act with one roaring voice. It is only an existing state you can rule. I hope our obas & those in seat of power know this[/quote] |
I understand your plight, I stay abroad and understand how difficult to take care of kids without help.I am a man and have a child too.I think you need to make your marriage work, understand your man.possibly he feels you are trying to bring your mum over so that she can take over your duties as a mother. Most Nigeria women are after money , am not saying you.they will choose career over home ,so if he does not agree for your mum to come ; and you can't sacrifice your work.let the child remain in kindergarten.no marriage is perfect, you may think your man is bad, there are worse men out there. Just my opinion, reach an agreement among yourself. quote author=Vevejoy post=98230388]Plesse forget the errors and focus on the content. So here's my issue. I've been married for 6yrs and it's been a blissful journey- of course with minor issues here and there but nothing to worry about until May 5th 2020 when I'd say things turned upside down. We live abroad and struggled to have kids but God finally blessed us with a beautiful daughter in Sept 2019. Child care being super expensive here, we wanted one of our moms to come help us with the baby when I return to work after my maternity leave. So on the eve of our wedding anniversary which was the 4th of May last year, I asked my husband for the say 10th time about beginning the procedure of bringing a mom over to help since I'll be returning to work. He asked which mom and I said in my exact words; "of course my mom" because I know that when a woman gives birth, her mom usually go to help her. Did that change our story? My God, marriage has been one hell of a thing since that day. My husband said I am selfish, disrespectful, and want to dominate him. He said things will never be the same again and since then, my marriage has been a stress zone. My husband is numb to my feelings. He's been ignoring me, I've been a nag I'll admit since tue incident last year. I now talk alot and mostly complain about everything whenever we are together. It's sad and I've actually had conversations with myself to ignore him and stop nagging but I continue to do it, I need help on how to shut up and observe. I can cry from now to die kingdom come and this man wouldn't be moved. He cannot shift his stance because of me at all. He does whatever he likes and disregard everything I say. E.g before this crisis, we had an appointment to see our Dr to start trying for baby number two because the Dr's advised that since we just had a baby, it's best to try for another soonest given that we had challenges conceiving the first one. This man cancelled the appointment with our Dr and has blatantly refused to start trying for a baby right now. He says when the time comes he'll let me know. Up till now the time has not come despite the fact that delaying may impact our chance of conceiving again. What a life!� � �. Also, he has decided that no parent will come and I'm back to work already. My poor baby who use to sleep till 9am now suffer in this winter getting up at 6am to be dropped off at daycare all because her father is angry and want to make sure he doesn't do anything that will make his wife smile. He'll rather spend thorns of money paying for daycare even after I've told him that I don't mind his mom coming. Mind u, I have a very good relationship with my inlaws, especially my mom inlaw so it's not an inlaw fight. The worst of them all is that despite living abroad for 17yrs, this man believes so much in native doctors to the extend that I can't even explain. Infact it's something that I've always fought him about and talked against. I've even complained about it to his family. And guess what, when I talk against, he tells his native drs who of course has ignited the fire in our home. Can you believe that in this chaos this man took me on a vacation in August last year that he wanted to clear his mind so we can start a new chapter and be happy again only to tell me that I have been trying to use a charm on him in the past months thats why things got rough. He said the 3 women I am using appeared to him but he is stronger ����. I am laughing because I felt pity and ashamed for him. How can a grown man be this vulnerable to suitsayers? I have never in my entire life visited a native doctor for myself not to talk of going to take a charmI didn'tvisit the native drs when I was strugglingto have a baby and this man thinks I'llvisit one now to charm him. Wondering y he will even believe such a thing. Infact I don't even know any native doctor. So when he said that, I told him that if I had known that his change of attitude is because of this stupid reason, I would not have fought for my marriage like I did. Of course I got so mad and told him a piece of my mind. I am even ashamed of telling people that despite this man's exposure he consults native Dr's in Africa more than even the people in Africa. Infact if they say yes that's what he listens to. He has even paid a flight from here to Africa because a native Dr told him that his dad who raised him to be the man he is today is trying to kill him and he should come for protection. I decided to tell his mom about the accusation. His mom told me she scolded at him and warned him never to say such nonsense. Well I just pity him and I'm praying for him. But truth is I regret my marriage to him because of these his believes. I just don't believe in divorce and don't even have the heart to move out I would have done so. Mind u, I am 100% independent so it's not an issue of being scared of surviving alone. Well one Sunday night as usual I talked to him like crazy and he said "all he wants is for our relationship to work and he will put in his best effort with support from me. I said I want same and will put in my best effort with support from him too*. This happened around september and things have been like normal on and off since then. I have a few worries which I'd like you to advise me on the way forward. - My husband is heartless. No matter how I lament, cry, beg, approach him nicely. Infact no matter the manner in which I bring up an issue to him, he doesn't get moved at all. He stays on his stance and doesn't care. How am I suppose to live with a man like this. He goes mute when I try having a conversation with him. - I have a weakness of talking alot which I acknowledge and I'm doing my best to work on it though I'm yet to change completely. But I can say there's a huge improvement. Infact I'm able to walk away now. Can a marriage really work out out without a compromise from both parties? I feel like I am compromising alot but this man is doing whatever he likes. In all of these he doesn't cheat but has abused me physically 4times in our 6yrs of marriage which I'm still pained about. The worst abuse right now is emotional abuse and I've told him so several times. We use to be an exemplary and happy couple up till this may 2020. What will you do in a situation like mine With? With a man like my husband who I'd say lacks empathy and a concience how do I deal with him? His mom said she talked to him but I don't see any difference. I feel miserable right now in my marriage. Since I got married this is our hardest hit and unfortunately it got prolonged probably bc of his native Dr's who told him I am using a charm on him which he believed. Help me out please[/quote] |
Living abroad and living in naija are two different things. Both have pros and cons. I will say life abroad is not really what people thinks .IT depends on individual, to somebody earning 20k in naija,it's paradise to clean shops abroad.if you can get a good job abroad, life may be a little ok.but the stress is much, lots of people are depressed abroad ,you have got lots of things to worry about.worry about paying bills monthly, worry about trying to keep your job etc .But most of this countries prefer their own citizens than foreigners and we don't expect them to make foreigners rule them in their companies. So it's really hard for foreigners to get some position, it's possible anyway.so if you come abroad illegally , that is when you will know naija has advantages too lol macrodata: |
Marriage is more than look ,feelings . Alot of things need to be checked before going into any relationship, things like attitude matters. If he is handsome and has very bad attitude or hot tempered, then it's not worth it. Sometimes , you need to get to know the family, is there a particular trait or illness in the family. Most young people just fall in love based on feelings , they don't have time to do thorough research on the person . If he loves you and you disappoint him once by not coming to visit him as you said and this makes him stop picking ur call , he has failed the first test of love LucyB24: |
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These are questions Nigerians shud ask,some houses abroad are run on solar, you can't only depend on hydro electric power .to produse the necessary grid,if private people provide high power solar panel,they can register thru government to supply every house who can pay.The question now is,is it 4k per house hold or per building .instead of people to rubbish any proposal by government, they shud ask meaningfull question.some people don't ever wish anything good for this country, they are always condemning everything. quote author=bilag17 post=96580225]The technical specifications of various capacities should be displayed so that Nigerians will know what they are paying for, and not be shortchanged with a low quality solar package / system for such huge amount of money.[/quote] |
I think our journalist are not doing their job well, you are reporting a case on a page of newspaper and can't simply find out what the lagos state law states about cars that are seized .it's then,one can know if they were right or not , and then lawyer can challenge the matter .what I think is that cars are not to be auctioned for offences but there is a Grace period for owners to pay fines.if after this period, they can't pay , then the car is auctioned .it is the duty of lawyers to find out these information before presenting information to public, it is afterwards duty of lawyers to take up the case .we have so many lazy journalist and bloggers up and down , peddling unverified news .quote author=seguno2 post=96485375] The only way to sanction it is to get the courts involved, up to the Supreme Court if necessary.[/quote] |
I don't blame you , typical of a rude nigerian who have not stepped out, for your info.I use trains round the whole day, to move from my house to work. I use train , to move from one Street to another ,it is train I use. Am not a stupid nigerian who talk without facts,trains do develop technical faults and passengers are transfered to another one in next station.stations are close to one another, u are a typical nigerian who think every thing is magic,if you dare insult me again, may it go back to you in 100 fold because I never insulted you .I wonder why some Nigerians are not cultured, always insulting people who are of contrary opinion AFONJACOW: |
You are right , in developed countries .governemt. don't manage anything. It is run by private people ,that is why things work.theyou shud allow private people buy trains and run transport . I think the private transport company shud make a proposal to the minister .You will see the kind train that an ibo man will bring , that is when you will see competition with latest and fastest train .lol pharmagba: |
There are lots of secret behind most things you see in developed countries , at least we shud try to appreciate the little we have .for your information , most of this trains are not owned by governemt.They are owned by people through shares , they are owned by private people, private companies ,Rail lines are sponsored by European union .They do it so that there can be free movement of goods , logistics is one of the fastest and largest growing business in europe. So it's not a one man thing , there is no government in Nigeria or African who can provide such trains on it, we need to learn how things work before we condemn.PDP or apc can never buy such, it's only group of private people who can do such Josywhyte: |
Trains do develop technical fault also abroad and passengers have to alight to take another train. The only problem with that of Nigeria is that there are no options when there is a break down.Abroad , the driver of the train manage to take the train to the nearest train station and another train is provided for the passengers to continue . I think nigeria shud allow private individual to run rail transport .In europe , most of the trains are owned by private people through shares ,private people should be allowed to have trains , run transport business with their trains .it will create jobs for the people .also most of the rail lines in europe are sponsored by Europe union to facilitate movement of goods., I wonder why Africans and African union can not be United. We don't need to be critiscising government all the time ,europe is working because most of the things are in private hand ,the government only provide a favourable ground for private people to invest . We can't be burning buildings during protest and expect investors to come to our country . quote author=Sonnobax15 post=96456933] . Not surprised.....Even the oyinbo wey create machine talk am say machine is not 100% efficient......... So long it's mechanical,you ought to always be prepared to face uncertainties like these.....just that the spot where it broke down has a higher odd which favours kidnappers [/quote] |
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Bros,no be only safari,some come to Africa to collect Sun.when you stay in a very cold region,you will appreciate the sun in Africa. Some come to cool tension,take away stress ,see new things , understand way of life and culture .you seem nice though lol Raydos: |
This is sign of inferiority ,when you have a bad impression about your self ,your country and your race, nothing can be beautiful to you .Learn to appreciate what you have, do you expect people to value you when you say black people are worthless. I don't stay in naija but I have seen white folks who love Africa and love to go on vacation in Africa. I am proud to be African and in no way worthless .in Nigeria, you can afford to build a luxurious house , do you know how much it cost to own a house abroad and how many years of mortgage. Aconomist: |
I think lots of factors are involved aside money.the terrain is different, weather ,lifestyle and culture have a role .the drainage and piping system in europe is underground, you can't see any gutter .In Nigeria, there is no planing , people build houses anyhow and as they like without regards to the town planing, some even cut out of the road to join their land. No standard and no enforcement of town planing laws,the weather in naija is another issue, rain so much ,no good drainage and then the road is spoilt due to flood .much pressure on the road since we don't have intercity rail .Most of the rail project in Eunopened are funded by EU to facilitate movement of goods.corruption is another factor ,bad leaders who don't have ideas of what to do with tax payers money ,corrupt contractors who execute bad jobs and not to forget some few bad Nigerians who don't wish anything good for the country and also comparing Europe with Nigeria, forgetting that the people abroad have a different mentality about money .there is nothing free abroad, no free water ,u have got to pay for everything, you pay heavy tax, you get the facilities. Not to forget,some developed country want Africa to continue to be underdeveloped and foolish youth to continue seeing their country as shit holes,leaving their countries to develop other people's country quote author=PhiliptheArab post=96293455]We don't have these kind of streets in nigeria because we are not ready to pay the kind of taxes that would fund and maintain those kind of streets. In the UK, if you are living in the city, you pay council tax which ranges from 60000 to 100000 naira monthly depending on the city. That money goes into making the cities look nice That's why uk cities have great streets. If we charged that kind of tax in Nigeria, Nigerians would scream. So we pay scanty taxes and get scanty and bad roads The bad roads we have in Nigeria are what we can afford. The sad thing is that looting still happens on top[/quote] |
I have gone through your link and it is reasonable, the issue is that everybody has a right to believe anything he or she wishes.I think the truth is that the soldiers fired , as a civilian, how are you meant to know if it is a life ammunition or not.The Governor said he went to the hospital searching for victims,did he get to the hospital at Lekki where some of the people where claimed to be treated .This are some questions people ought to ask.Both sides need to be grilled, it is evident that one of the party is lying .it is also evident that both parties lied in one way or the other .We shud not let hatred blind our eyes, I know we hate the governemt.it is still this same old people that Nigerians wI'll still vote into power in 2023.I think what the youth shud do now is to put all their energy into shopping for a suitable presidential candidate in 2023.we shud not be bent in destroying our country. For those thinking they will destroy the country and run out , no matter how bad your country , it is still our home, no place like home [quote author=Friend22 post=96244805][/quote] |
Accountability demands that people should be precise and accurate to some extent .to stand on a neutral ground means both parties need to provide an accurate evidence , cnn said people died , what is the number ? on the other hand , lie Mohammed gave a detailed account of the number of those who died and facilities destroyed.i think it's up to a month now since the event happened,I expect the organisers to be able to present their own acount with a precise number . I expect them to be able to inform people whon lost their relatives to notify them on a particular number or to get a lawyer who can secretly hear their matter if they are afraid of the governemt.I think cnn relied on videos given them by people , but the organizers should also be able to give a precise acount of the people that died .if they continue to hide their names , who will compensate their families .Are the organisers able to compensate them, how long do they want to hide the names and details of those they claim died .if you are in a leadership position, u are to be accountable , so let them submit a report with names and details of those involved.It is unwise for them to hide names ba7man: |
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You shud at least for once appreciate goodo things , even thou you hate do government, you ought to understand that even 20 naira mean something to some people Khayceeofficial: |
I agree with u, It's always good to hear two sides of a matter , Nigerians simply jump into conclusion without investigating what really happened. I am sure some of them did not even watch the video,they never even found out if theyou were served noticed.Not everything we see or hear is true.I believe most Nigerians are easily deceived, lots of fake news in the air and it is always good to be able to find out the truth . Handsomecole: |
I don't think there is anything that can come out of that panel that people can believe .Even if it is true. I have to understand that when you hate somebody , no matter what the person say or does , you can't be pleased.Majority of Nigerians hate this government , so nothing the government can say or do that will please them.It is a mindset, to get the truth , you need to stand at a neutral point .people ought to ask questions,I stand at a neutral point, I have seen all videos online,but I am yet to see somebody who is there to give his own account ,apart from DJ switch. Is there nobody on nairaland there who can give an eye witness acount. I believe nairaland is a faceless group of over 1000 people , I believe somebody should be able to give an eye witness account .I am not saying that people did not die and I am not in support of the government but assuming the government is to compensate the dead victims , won't this people come out , I believe also the organisers should be able to bring out a listwith names of those who died,in know some who come for my head lol jaytii: |
When you tell them the truth, they start raining curse on you , they simply want you to accept everything they say.Even the white people don't just accept everything, they ask questions.Even stupid questions brings out the truth , when you ask my people questions they curse you for asking.you know the white have a way of knowing the truth when they question you, from your reactions to certain questionsituations, they can detect the truth . So I believe she is telling the truth lol but she should make herself available for questioning. Surprisingly, the international world know the truth of what happened, that is why they kept quiet. NGpatriot: |
If them like , make they open eyes and let them burn lagos ..... seunmsg: |
Some of these guys have businesses abroad and they get money in their account daily, somebody is a doctor in uk and collecting pay monthly and supporting people to go on protest,somebody is in Lagos, he has a shop ,expecting his goods ,he joins the protest, the Hoodlums join the protest at day and loot his shop at night..who loses?.I am yet to see where the organisers donate money to those whose shops were looted,the government must pay this people .the government is begging now that there shud be no protest, we want protest ,we also want the government to compensate us if our shops are looted.YES WE HAVE A RIGHT TO PROTEST softset: |
Migrated to US at the age of 19, (1993), went to prison 25 years (1999),out of prison at age of 45 years (possibly he might wished he remained in naija) gurunlocker: |
Most countries expecially in europe requires a permit to protest or gather. When the authorities approves your protest, you can do the protest . It is illegal for people to stage a protest without approval from government even though there is freedom of speech and you have residence permit , you still have to follow the laws of the land you live .if the government approves it, the Police will escort you during the protest , if not approved, you can't gather for any protest Mickey23: |
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Many people don't know what you just said.Nigeria need to produce more electricity to have constant electricity. A small population (country) would not need to consume much and thus have enough for 24 hrs .So this small countries can have constant electricity because they are small and pay Nigeria to get it. quote author=Kyase post=95421459]paid Their consumption rate is way below Nigeria, 500MW will be enough for their entire population[/quote] |
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Oyimbo dey test run their trains before it start it normal daily routines... Ewu
. Not surprised.....