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RomanceRe: What Should A Single Woman Do When There Is No Suitor Coming? by Onchedu(m): 11:51am On Apr 23, 2015
Attract a man to yourself. Every woman is a star with the natural potential to attract the universe to herself. know your target. draw it to you. you have it in you.
RomanceRe: Marrying A Woman Who Can't Cook by Onchedu(m): 4:28pm On Jun 05, 2012
Mehn!!! some of U boys and girls on here are boarderline hopeless. Those of U criticising Africa in condenming criticisms and painting EVERYTHING about African cultures/traditions "devil black," Una no dey try. Thank God Nairaland is here and Ur records will remain accessible for U to see how lost and ignorant U were, after (if ever) U see the truth bout the rest of the world.
RomanceRe: Marrying A Woman Who Can't Cook by Onchedu(m): 8:26am On Jun 04, 2012
What we do not yet know how to do, we can learn to do.
RomanceRe: Guys Does Stretch Makes Turn U On? by Onchedu(m): 6:55pm On Jun 02, 2012
Are strecth marks ''purposed'' to turn anyone on? Some men find them appealing, others find them unappealing and others yet are indifferent to them.

I wouldn't stop liking a girl I already like cos she has stretchmarks, especially not when they're on her bum.
RomanceRe: Guys Does Lingerie Turn U On? Girls Do U Buy Underwear Regularly? by Onchedu(m):
Ok, since it's accepting posts now, lemme make another attempt.

A lingerie biz in Nigeria could be a tricky one. Reason being not many women would agree on the affordability of the exotic, tasteful and classy high end variety the designers of these accesories/ornaments provide.
On the low end, designer exotic panties can go for like N3,500 a piece. With a matching bra at about N6,500 where included, that brings the cost of just a set to N10,000. That's what many people consider as expensive probably because they would rather spend that on what everyone can see and compliment then on than on what primarily just two people (self and lover) should see.

The key point to consider then would be Value. What value do typical Nigerian women attach to sexy lingerie?

It's easier to get a girl Ur toasting to appreciate sexy lingerie than it is to get a gf or wife to. The former thinks ''wow! This is cool. Looks so good on me... He's so nutty. i like!''
while the other two will tend to think along the lines of ''thanks, but wasn't it too expensive?'' I don't know any man who appreciates having his gifts criticised as being too expensive.

Give them the money to buy it, show them where to buy it and most would rather go get some cheap stuff or something entirely different assuming a guy can't tell. I've met one out of 20 Nigerian girls who would allow herself spend on exotic lingerie. The rest just go for the stuff ranging from N150-N1200. If Urs will be more expensive than that then U need to include re-educating the public on the value of quality lingerie.

Anyway, fact is not many Nigerian girls tend to pay attention to their collection of underwear especially from the school of thought of seduction and/or personal ego boost with respect to appreciation of body form. In their minds they probably assume men are too in a hurry to get to the main thing we don't notice. If only they knew better.

Start there.
RomanceRe: Guys Does Lingerie Turn U On? Girls Do U Buy Underwear Regularly? by Onchedu(m): 6:01pm On Jun 02, 2012
I typed out my detailed opinion in response to Ur question but the site was speaking computer language and wouldn't post it. Anyway I'll summarise what I said:

No, lingerie biz isn't easy in Naija.
Reason: more women think it's a waste of money.
RomanceRe: What Should A Single Woman Do When There Is No Suitor Coming? by Onchedu(m): 7:20am On Apr 19, 2012
suzzisweet: The bible says that a woman shall leave her parent house and cliff to a man and they shall become husband and wife. Also, a woman should marry so as to abstain from fornication. So what should a single woman do without a hubby in this case, must she continue to stay and die of emotions?
U misquoted the bible. The mean leaves father and mother and cleaves to his wife.
Secondly, what emotions exactly are U talking about?

The woman can do an assessement of her life and check herself. 7 out of 10 times the reason she's single lies within her.
RomanceRe: If Ur Wife Told U On The Wedding Nite That She Just Started Her Period..... by Onchedu(m): 7:11am On Apr 19, 2012
Occielicious.....O.C:
If ur wife told u on the wedding nite that she just started her period.....Will u still beep her?
Will she be on her period forever? Na by force to do on wedding nyt?
RomanceRe: Why Don't Guys Want To Date A Virgin, Yet Wants To Marry One? by Onchedu(m): 1:15pm On Jul 01, 2011
hmmm, This most certianly doesn't apply to all men.
FamilyRe: Is It True That Females From Broken Homes Are No Good For Wife Material? by Onchedu(m): 12:26pm On Jul 01, 2011
That would be a stereotype, not truth.
RomanceRe: Skin Colour by Onchedu(m): 3:44pm On Jun 22, 2011
Can't get over the provocative coco. Light skin is attractive and can be captivating but that mocha is enchanting!!!
RomanceRe: Relationship Without Bar by Onchedu(m): 3:13pm On Jun 22, 2011
IF U no get money no think am.
RomanceRe: 4 Different Types Of Men by Onchedu(m): 11:27am On May 26, 2011
MRbrownJA, that's a very interesting cartegorization. It plays out accuratelyin reality too espcially the Sugar Daddy.
Good job

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