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Firm, not strict. Don't go with the flow, just be a man. Don't agree with her always but disagree sometimes agreeably.

Better when it's subconsciously or unconsciously. Consciously more often than not is superficial.

In any case it's best to be discrete. PDA's show more than they are. Sometimes insecurities other times it's just simply indirect advertising (flirting).

ocee87:
A Friend Told me a funny story of how his girlfriend of 4 years told him that her mother says that they cant get married until he has a Bachelors degree. House Advise,

The mum just want's to be sure her child is "secure."

Nope. Marry me and we can do the trainning otherwise Ur on Ur own. I've seen girls default on that agreement of trust.

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Inked_Nerd:
Its unrealistic to want to marry a virgin. Is it possible, yes. But it's unrealistic. We are sexual beings. It is in our nature to want to have s.ex. Its quite disturbing and ridiculous  that a man will sit there and tell a woman that she needs to be a virgin in order for him to marry her, meanwhile he's slept with many women. If I need to be a virgin when I marry you then you should do the same for me. Its a very selfish practice that for whatever reason we've bought into. Being a virgin doesn't determine whether or not a woman/man is going to be a "good" husband or wife.

U really should listen to urself.

chiozor:
if you think it is easy then remain a virgin until you marry. all these women whinning here, nobody forced you to loose your virginity, so a woman who after all men temptation maintain her virginity is not only a pride of the society but to the husband.
when on earth will women learn, you want to mess like men, then will chose to marry a virgin man it is an adage of rat and lizard that went outing under the rain,

Guy U too tap.

Tough one. Is she the "typical" Edo girl tied to the things U have listed? What do Ur spiritual teachings say concerning such a situation?

See question abeg. Dude, were U hanging out with people smoking weed abi did U smoke it urself before asking this?

Abeg gimme list of the profiles with fine butt let me go and investigate.

U have no friends? Hmmm, That's a BIG yellow flag o. Why don't U have friends?

Too many guy friends? That's a definite RED flag, unless of course this isn't any serious relationship.

Mr Cork:
Which do you regret more, the things you’ve done or [b]the things you have not? [/b]

As per prophet?

@The Congo, Urs is a success story worth telling. Stay strong.

Interesting story. Happens to some of us. Funny thing is it plays out very similarly, and I guess to those who dare to believe it can't happen to them cos the have faith. I guess faith gets tested sometimes and like Bishop Jakes says, it's best to know when to say goodbye and move on. Times, seasons and people come and God. God is the only constant worth holding on to.

So u have put Urself in a spot cos U were silly and now U want help? Ur smart so u should know what to do.

Revelation from God shey? Just marry her already and stop wondering if it would be bad to reap where U have sown.

Idleness. I even thot U had something important to say like how most girls walk funny and get away with it unnoticed cos guys are busy looking at specifics instead of the whole.

Ignore her and keep Ur distance. Assume deaf and dumb stance.

If no be beef U dey find sef wetin wan carry u hang out with friend ex?

This is WICKED!!! Damn.

Asset in what?

Bless and do not curse. Which partner are U talking about?

Tink_sh:
Hehehe!! Very strange story! No way a woman could accomadate a mans leg, he would have to go feet first! Ouchy!!

U'd be surprised. If a baby can come out of it foot can go into it. That's like labour in reverse sha, Not appealing to the regular mind but there are crazy people in this world.

Naija_Sisi:
watch some guys come and post on here their 12 inch manliness

LWKM, Ur right, Na 17inchs sef some go talk.

I think it's possible when it just happens against when U actually "advertise" for it. It's possible to make friends here and grow that friendship into love. It could be tricky sha and probably is more of the exception than it is the rule so all those looking for love here should proceed with caution.

Nothing wrng with spending 15mins on the phone or otherwise with the person u are involved with everyday. Perhaps the guys U've dated are uncomfortable with emotional intimacy?

Mr Cork:
bro u didnt mention a,n,n.a,l. African women dont do it

U've been around Africa huh?

Why can't she have kids? Is it cos of some health challenge or cos she's had one too many abortions and has had to have her womb damaged/removed?

I'd marry a woman with a 10% chance of having kids and a 90% chance of not having kids, but a woman that can't have kids needs to come up straight as to why she cant before I decide o.

Well it does look like she was smart cos she had both of U and still got married to the guy that wanted her. A successful play of eating ur cake and having it. Now lets see how the end turns out.