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Not sure bout the wanting to pop the cherry part but I like when a girl is a virgin cos she definitely isn't sleeping around as long as she remains so.

I know some conscience pricked person is going to want to ask something like ''so do U mean all girls that aren't virgins sleep around?''
That one no concern me. Wetin dem ask I don answer.

There are no good girls or bad girls , there are just girls.

This na olden days talk. Wetin U mean now be say women no dey look at men with lust? Some of una lust pass sef.

erm, I think U are supposed to be found not do the finding.

Listen to God and let him lead u to the well like he led Rebecca cos it's possible Ur in the wrong place at the wrong time that's why wrong people are the one's seeing U?

Yeah, I don't know how I forgot bout them. Ghanian girls have it good. Nicely moulded & smooth.

Pls where are the yoruba girls that have big back sides cos me I don't see them. What I see is yoruba women with big (mostly shapeless) bascksides that are not appealing, or just big yoruba women.

If U want to see correct backside go Edo state. I think questions on Edo girls backsides will be more interesting to answer.

Or we could go to SA girls or Sirrea Leonean girls backsides.

Yep! Lots of guys are cheap. They'll screw any girl that opens her legs. Now that's just Cheap!!!

If what is weak, submits to the weaker then who is really the weaker.

Any guy that won't say no to pleasures is selling out cheap.

Me thinks:

Attractive draws attention generally, not necessarily in any provocative manner.

Sexy draws attention 'specifically.'
Sexy is sexually suggestive &/or provocative. See also: Lascivious.

I have no fears. In every situation I look onto God and look out for greater purpose.
If I loose my partner to anything(one), go richer or poorer, have personal issues, name it: I look out for greater purpose in those circumstances.

Omolola1:
what do u do?
u call at least once in 2 days,but your partner hardly calls

U don't call, I won't call. It's that simple. Regard for a person is shown by response or action. Where there is neither, one needs to step back to see the bigger picture.

Within any age group in adulthood, our marketability is a measure of how well we lived in the preceeding age group, men or women.

Anyone(thing) can be ''sold.'' U just have to find the right buyer (the one who associates it with the greater value) & agree with him/her on the cost & returns.

Most peoples 'market value' depreciates with age tho. It usually shows they were carried away with the moment and did not apply wisdom to living right.

Me thinks: This is one hell of a girlie thread.

I don't have any stories to tell. Once Ur gone Ur gone. Those ''bump into'' senarios are the things that lead to feelings one lives to regret later.
It's safer for me & my new girl if I'm not indulging my nostalgic feelings about someone I'm not with anymore.

Sure we'l wonder bout this person & that person as they will wonder bout us too but there really is no need meditating on the longings.

I know a 17 year old girl that to me is the most mature female to converse with. She's interesting, intelligent, very imaginative, fun & has a grip on her emotions.

I also know a 26 year old of similar qualities & a 29 year old of same.

Now I also know lots of 18, 22, 25 27 29 year old girls wey just no make sense at all. Empty heads with one track minds, surprisingly they think they are smart or wise or smthn.

Anyway, me thinks dating isn't subject to some age formular & every one has what they find appealing across the age groups.

Mr. Good Husband, dem say make U go find U dey dey wait. Shey na by waiting?

Who dey promise who marriage? Mehn that's crap. Anyway, we no dey America so nothing spoil. Make girls wise up dey sharpen ears.

Anything that shows & makes me feel like my girl took time out to think of me in a practical way.

Any practical gift out of the blues,
Being supportive & offering advice in my goals,
An evening stroll around the neighbourhood,
A love note or full letter,
A phone cal or sms just to check on me or to tell me sweet things or encouraging words,
Ironing a shirt for me just cos she wants me to look good,
Picking out what to wear for me,
Surprise visits just to tidy my place for me,
Kisses that don't lead to more than just kisses,
Touch that isn't necessarily sexual,
Fixing us a nice cheap meal with like fruit salad or a milk shake,
Dishing our food in the same plate,
A personal pedicure/manicure
Dressing up to look good for me, staying clean and healthy,
e.t.c

Osama don answer with correct question. Take break go where?

Na only girl go ask if love fit take break. Shey U don dey give another person chance small small?

Juo, I wonder where U heard me claiming to be a saint. Don't assume U know me, whether saint or sinner. That's the silly record people play these days, consciously living in iniquity and justifying themselves by talking no saints, only sinners.

U seem to have a direction U want this thread to take & a response U want to hear & I'm not on your track. If U didn't want personal answers why did U bother asking?

As for the man & 3months pregnancy, Why kill the woman when U can leave her to die of the burden of guilt or the arrogance of unrepentance?

Insisting on anything doesn't work with some of us.
If she insists tell her she should shelve the church wedding if she wants the court. That way U can do traditional & court. If she agrees to that then maybe U shouldn't trust her.

JUO, I don't care if she has a local government area of kids for me, if she sleeps with any other man she's gone.

As for the poor hygiene, I'll gladly avoid her like a plague. Sue me.

U marry wife U no go enjoy am?

I hope this American born Nigerian man has stayed in Nigeria for at least 10years at a stretch otherwise he's no more than an American of Nigerian origin.

Make dem no chase now. Who go carry last. If una no know na those babes wey know left from right with the man they want are those that get married.

Infidelity; and poor hygiene.

A woman can't sit her ass down in one place, Relationship ended with immediate effect.

A woman can't take care of herself & her immediate environment & keep things clean and orderly, She's a goner.

sandraa:
Somebody asked me this question and i simply siad the guy should say it first, , omo see argument i kon tire!!!

so nairalanders who should say [b]I LOVE YOU [/b]first in a relationship?

How old are U and the somebody that asked U this question?

Dude, U and who are we? and what the hell would I want a woman with sexual experience? No one told U it's the willingness to please that makes a woman sexy and not what she learnt from heaven knows who?

Older women value Ur time cos their own time don pass and no one else but silly U has their time.

Yeah they are less drama prone cos it's not like they have options.

If they had more relationship experience that was applicable to me they would have been happily married to some guy that should be older than me.


Older women are nice cos they have an agenda and know how to work U into it. For younger girls U can become "the agenda."

Better be the agenda than a pon.

Semira22:
Why is it delicate? please explain.

Don't worry, time will eventually explain.

Ok so U are beautiful but I still think U chose a delicate method of seeking out a guy.

So are U the woman in the picture abi na indian film U dey play for all men?

Me thinks before this thread expires U would have met different kinds of Naija boys most claiming to be the guy U want.

U should have just picked ur choice from the available without drawing attention to Ur intentions. Dem go worry U now no be small.