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lajjy, Thatbs sooooo true.

Yeah Pringles I like U already too. Hope U are not a modern woman o.

Rokiatu, it surely does.

So what would U have said if I used words like strongly opinionated, self deceptive, wanton, greedy, strng headed, misguided, lacking sound counsel, lacking in the ability to hold onto a good man, dissatisfied, scheming, self stressing, loveless, but still indulged by scavengers?

Would U feel any better?

kulyie, U asked my opinion of how I would describe a mordern day woman out of the many groups of women we have. I gave it and U turned around to lay sexual allegations on me. Is it fair?

NL, U seriously need to consult a good dictionary or the thesaurus for better synonyms than most of those U use to replace words U find offensive. The words U find offensice sef make U look hypocritical. If I said tities now instead of n.ipp.les would U still use "unmentionables" to replace it as the word most similar in meaning? Did U people even do biology in secondary school? As long as we are using the biological terms I donbt see why we should have U slam us with Ur hypocritical censorship cos it really does make U look pervy.

Now onto lighter stuff, Bumps. U don't like bumps and U don't like beards. What is with some of U girls sef ehn? Oh! I forgot, U are jusy being self centered so much so U assume the word 'sensitive' can only be used in a female context.
Wake up, some guys have sensitive skins especially around the parts "unwanted" hair grows and the bumps U see are from reactions of the skin to the hair removal tool used. Now unless U intend to do a research into how to safely remove the hair off the men, U better chose betwen bumps (occasional or constant) or the beards.

As per height, how shallow can U get. can any of us choose our heights?

Now I'm with U on odours, but I must say some dudes are just simply ignorant on the odour thing, whether mouth or body. The good thing is men pay attention to women a whole lot more than women know (that's why we have so many men sleeping around, cos women say they want experienced men & men heard and became caught up in seeking out experience). Anyway, U can help by subtly making him become aware of the problem and if he cares for Ur pleasure enuf he will pay attention to his personal hygien and U will have Urself a nice smelling man.

Ask for hairy chests, think of how that would feel brushing against Ur nipples on nights when U just want to be teased. Besides it can be grommed.

What I'm trying to say to the girls is, don't write a guy off cos U see in him a couple of physical things U find unattractive/unappealing. It's what lies under that is harder to influence to Ur taste.

One man has a Ferrari and drives it like it were a limousine. Another man has a Peugeot 504 GL & knows how to drive it like its a Ferrari, so much so, every time he gives his girl a ride in it & show's her how well he knows it, she comes out looking and feeling like absolutely nothing could be better than how well his driving makes her feel right now.

So what is a big rod and what's a tiny one? What's the reference scale they are using to measure? Are all sex holes of the same dimensions?

If size were the major determining factor to lasting sexual pleasure, God in His infinite wisdom would have made rods a one size fits all thing so every woman would get it all with no effort.
The greatest tool for sexual pleasure has always been the minds. your's and his.

Still on that size thing, it also depends on what use U want to put it to and when.
See the way I see it when it comes to stuff like fellaito, the guy with the smaller tool has it made esp if the girl and him are well bonded on other fronts besides the sexual, cos when she see's it, she'd loose some hope of getting pleasure from it (and we all know that how memorable the pleasure is and the impact of it is more lasting when it is gotten from where we did not ecpect it initially shey?).
Now if he doesn't let her reaction affect his ego & continues to swet talk her or/and she's as interested in his pleasure as she is in hers (now that's unlikely, she is afterall a girl), then she'l toy with it while they make out, and then it'l grow in her hands/mouth much to her delight & appreciation of her ability to make even an "eel" hard, then the realiation that she's that skillful will excite her, then she'l play with it more till she finds she's turned on like mad by this eel and she can't explain how come. then she'l want the eel in her nest, then she'l have it, and the culmination of all these events would lead to a memorable sexual experience which would strenghten their bond & endearing him to her and her to him and there by their relationship.
(Guy's with small ones, word of advice, have lots of money too or be the best at something else; ok?)

Now the guy with the average sized one? Blessed are U for U can have it anywhere in her depending on how convincing U are & how into U she is. U have the best of both words,  or is it the six worlds sef (depending on how kinky U are)? Plus frequency of getting pleasure is usually in direct correlation with frequency of giving pleasure.

Finally those with monster rods? Sorry but in reality U are more of a fantasy; An occasional desire or craving. Women love comfort. they wont compromise on it for pleasure often enough to want U the way U want to be wanted. Your chances of having a regular blissful sex life with one woman are slim. Heck women would give up on sex and sek other pleasures if it ALWAYS feels like your going to tear them open. Either that or the dissatisfaction from having "normal sex lives" with a "regular guy" would lead the not so righteous one's to cheat.

The funny thing is it seems a woman's perception of size, her internal measuring abilities, seems to get distorted atimes. I say so cos the same rod that was "just there" some days ago myt get a "waoh! what did U do to it? your so huge, " tomorrow
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One last thing, if U are into exploring various positions, U should know that your liberty to explore & frequency of exploration are inversely proportional to the size of your rod. The bigger it is, the fewer options U are stuck with. The smaller it is, the broader your options and frequency of exploration.
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Anyhow sha, One man's meat is another man's poison.

Pay more attention to what they do and to how they feel than to what they say.
Focus on your strong points and as much as U can; know how to get them comfortable around U and excited about U or something U have and U will eventually become like that very handsome man they fantasize about, or better than that, that very good looking stud that makes them feel weak in the knees & gives them the feeling of buterflies in their stomachs will become U.

Stay objective with women and don't let your emotions get in the way. That feels like work, but then again it does work better than leaving things to chance.

Who cares what girls say they like or don't like. talk is cheap. Na today?
Which guy here hasn't heard all this "I like this" & "I dislike that," only to see her passionately gravitate towards what she said she dislikes making U think "come o, is this thing true that girls don't have brains?"

Half the time or more, when a girl comits a crime with a guy, he's most likely not showing enuf of the features she said "she likes" to give a logical backing to the act. That goes to prove that women are more vulnerable when they don't see U coming.

A typical woman see's something she likes and the first thing she does is put up a wall of defence (except when she's at that point in her cycle where the she's very very receptive). She see's something she doesn't think she could like and her defences are down so much she feels it couldn't have her because she doesn't like/want it.

It's easier to get a woman to get recklessly comfortable with things she doesn't like or find attractive than it is with things she finds appealing.
When there's appeal and an approach is made, she starts trying to be perfect and seek perfection the whole process is left to the object of her desire to prove why she's safe liking and indulging him/it.

Anyway, short guys, don't let the girls talking bad about U affect your ego. U have better chances sleeping with them than the rest of us cos they don't see U coming. Babes and their arrogance,  if it were up to them, they would be liked and sougnt after by guys they like and seek after them.

The kain things wey girls dey yarn for this NL dey discourage person from to marry. Walai if every Naija babe was on NL guys go just move motion to scrap mariage cos na dotti full most of una mouth.

See as una just dey provoke over quetion wey the boy ask.

What U don't know is everyman asks sometime, and It's best he puts the question to U than he forever assumes a swers in his mind, Even those who say they won't will. I guess U'all have to keep lying.

Ink Nerd, sort morality is archaic is it? Immorality is more fashionable shey?

Besides exclusive "access," respect for Ur selves and us, distrcation from reality, appreciation, and support in our quests? I think rest would be good.

back to Ur topic, men like skill but we usually fail to mention It's the word we think U understand better than expressiveness, and we usually fail to mention the "with us" part.

@Mutter, U were being lobbied. that will always happen. Promiscuity isnt external, it is internal.

Queeneve, It's guys faults shey? How more of an irresponsible reply could a girl have given?

Ink Nerd, point of correction, It's not one guy sleeping with 20 girls. It's 20 girls sleeping with 1 guy. U have closed the discussion by giving this accurate analogy by the way.

*What U have to do, do it quick. Delay is dangerous.*
That's my advice, considering that U are engrossed in "thinking of breaking up" more than in "thinking of how to make it work"

Anyhow sha, I have understood from what U have said, that U aren't so much of a mature guy. U want something rosy just cos Ur relationship is waking up to reality? Every intimate relationship wakes up sometime just like children grow up. It can't be naturally dreamy dreamy all the time if it wil have substance.
Getting another girl won't "solve Ur problem" with this one. Call it off if U must but don't go adding list of gf's to Ur CV. Those things affect a man later. girls don't go away. ex or incumbent.

In summary, a woman want's anything U have to offer as long as U are sensitive to her feelings with respect to time and place (purpose is not as important) enough to present it to her as her desire than Ur offering.
Being sensitive to her feelings does not mean U have to appear sensitive. If U appeared insensitive and she still finds herself feeling strongly attracted to U with emotions she doesn't want to ignore, she'd still be happier finding what she wants with U.

Anyway, asking them won't help U. When U ask a woman a logical question, she acceses the logical part of her consciousness and gives U logical answers which will more likely be cooked up from her perception of what she feels would be the right answers U would find impressive than "the truth," which is what she really would reveal if U rather warmed up to her emotional self to cause her to reveal her true longings to U when she doesn't even realise she's doing it.

U have successfully asked what I consider the only question even they cannot answer. That doesn't mean U can't answer it for the important woman in your life sha cos if U are smart enough U will.

The truth is naturally, a woman can't say for sure just like that, but U the man can show it to her; U can help her realise what it is and give her that "Oh yes! that's exactly what I want, " feeling, by direct & indirect exposure to what U have.

Women want it all. The good, the bad and the ugly. if U gave one or two, leaving one or two of the three out U'd mis out on helping them discover what it is they want.

Women want what makes them feel good and what they feel good about, and bad about without enough of to make them want to feel good about even some more.

Don't concentrate on what they want as much as on what U have to offer. When U've found what U have to offer, package it properly then present it, then withdraw it, then wait to se that they crave it, the proceed to be smart enough to just keep her satisfied enough to want more until she realises U are behind her satisfaction. That way, It,s U she'l end up wanting. Remeber: It's the man that controls demand and supply and keeps it in a mutually beneficial balance that runs the "market."

Women want the good things of life but without a taste of the bad and ugly they will feel empty like they were missing out on the world. Women believe their feelings more than truth. U should remember that.

Trend chaser, confused, haughty, easy to get but not worth keeping, rebellious, competitive, self centered, self-seeking, immoral, ignorant of reality, has wrongly prioritised personal priorities, manipulative, insecure, defiant and too manly to be as appealing to the typical man, like her predecesors were,

That's the typical summary of a modern woman in my opinion.

Ms.Potato, I find Ur listing offensive. why do black girls come last and why, in the parenthesis following, do Americans come before Africans? Are American first black before Africans?

Anyway, I'm not as globally experienced in girl/love issues to give any accurate reponse to Ur research, but I must say cultural practices will play a major role in determining opinions.

From what little knowledge I have, I feel I'd more easily gravitate in the way of love and be happy with the African girl, Asian, European then American girl, in that order.

This looks to me like more of a case of contempt of office than contempt of court. The jugbe, in my opinion, might just be looking for an oportunity to fast track his career. Of all the people in the police chain of command, It's the Inspector General he is summoning to court on account of a , what's the guys rank sef

Was it the IG that presided over the case of the kidnaper? If he was really interested in justice and not just seeking attention he would have at least started from the policemans direct boss as at the time he was perpetuating these acts.

fryoobest:
Pls Nlanders, what do u hv to say about this, my babe keeps exchanging phone no with every toaster that comes her way. And they keep her phone busy 24/7 with calls and text. Each time i confront her, she tells me there is nothing going on. This is worrisome as i don't intend loosing her cos i hv invested so much on d rltship.

Ur girl is out of control. She'd probably choose her phone being busy over U too. Not sure bout U but I'd let this type go without giving much thot to it. Not all investments turn out fruitful.

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Oh well, I guess if the Fadake character showed remorse and was repentant this would have been a different story? Sadly dating married men seems to be the in thing for girls these days more than before. Will they listen? I doubt.

Even if U could, U shouldn't.

Inked_Nerd:
And what's wrong with what I wrote? Let me guess, you're one of those men who wants to marry a virgin meanwhile he's sleeping with the whole town?

If U can't see what's wrong with what U've written then I really shouldn't say any more.

Gbemyte:
I lyk public afectn. Dats y i cnt mary som1 i cnt flunt. I lyk efizy.

What U advertise well will gain desirability.

Anyway na Ur life. I been wan talk pass but make I leave am like that.

funkybaby:
I've also seen men default on that agreement of trust

Who send woman spend money on top man? U should know the way most of us reason with our "punnie" minds.

ebeeere:
@Poster, I think the word you should have used is FIRM and not People who are not firm in their decisions are considered fickle. When you show that you do whatever is demanded of you regardless of how you feel, people don't trust you. Instead of being seen as always willing to please, you'll be seen as a liar cos believe it or not, we can always sense when we are asking for too much.
Bottom-line, let your no be no. Do not say yes when u mean to say no.

Exactly! U said it good.