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There are non-intrusive ways of revealing secrets. Be ur brothers keeper; Tell, Better if she's present and U aren't attacking anyone.

At least he left U with Oyinbo pikin. Wetin U been dey expect? Marriage?

Confirmed U no be Naija woman or U don too live for Oyinbo land.

Which kain yarns be this?

Consult a dermatologist. Spots might be as a result of a peculiar ailment.

God wey give U ability to shine teeth also give U ability to bone face plus brain to know when to do which one.

Just don't indulge them if u don't want them hanging around. Keep men hanging around, smart as U may be, and U will have more loses to mourn than gains to celebrate (unless of course U have deep issues U've made peace with and accepted as natural).

Not many people realize this but a woman can manipulate a man into becoming anything she wants more easily with her tongue and the server on Venus than she can with sex and a man can guard himself and his loved ones better from the wiles of women when he has tamed his sexuality and belly.

Give a dog a bad name and if it doesn't come groveling to U, kill it.

Career path is the least of things I look at when going into a relationship. If it's working hours your doing your research on, idealistically, when people know how to align their priorities right in a mutually beneficial way, that is easily taken care of.

Hopefully, I sha will NEVER marry a banker. It CANNOT happen.

People think about anything else when having sex? Hmmm, Is this one of those "girls only" threads?

Ohi y'ole oi jeyin

Beauty at home is not appreciated. To all the girls that think Nigerian men are should be written off as unromantic, U can migrate and pls don't come back.

A good number of girls don't understand we can. They think it's weird if we don't ask for something in return for goodwill assistance. To appear "normal" some of us just go with the flow.

To wear or not to wear.

First of all I wouldn't be calling my girl 25 times at a go and just like that. If she didn't pick the 2nd time and I've committed no crime, then all is well. I don't need her any more than she needs me.
Anyway, assuming I did and she didn't answer and everything played out as u have described, I would ask her to tell me what's up, then I would listen carefully to her more than I would to what she's saying. The truth is never far behind lies before it overtakes them.

Dude, welcome to the real world. It's fuller with s.h.*.t than the goodies U were expecting,  but there are goodies too.

Don't let down on your standards, dem skelles your hanging around gat issues.

As much as that could be devastating, U have to admit, it's far better she got confused before I said ''I do,'' that it would be if she waited till after I had done that.

Just tell Ur family and hers to go invincible then tell Ur best man to invite Ur guests to a reception if they are up for some food and entertainment cos the weddings off.

Then grab the most interesting of Ur ex gf's and invite her for a getaway, and get away.

I really wonder where some of U grew up & where u got your social condtionings from.

Men want women for sex and women want men for sex and money? Heaven help the children U will mentor directly or indirectly.

He's got game. U said it Urself, it's the eyes for guys & the ears for girls,

Just take it that they all are. That way, it won't hurt when Urs is showing herself to be one; and U'll feel lucky when Urs deviates from the 'norm'

I think U should give him some credit for saying it out openly before all present. He got it off his chest thereby rescuing himself from meditating on it when alone.
Admitted his choice of words might have come off as offensive to his woman but at least his unguarded words reveal to her what stirrs him.

The guy was being real. If I was in his shoes, however, I would rather whisper my thoughts to my woman instead, not even to another man. My actions might pinch her but if she understands the kind of person I am she'l come to agree it was better I took that approach.

I could say something like, ''this chic looks like nutty sex in a public place, ''
to which, if she's a good mood, she might respond with something along the lines of
''Is that what nutty sex in a public place looks like to U?''
and we can strike our own private conversation in a public place that might lead to both of us learning more about the other person thinks and bla bla bla.

It's wise to learn to put our emotions aside &look for the benefits out of everything that could arise in our relationships. At the end of the day, this woman in question could have learned a thing or two more about what her guy finds sexually provocative in women & would be better positioned to keep his focus instead of feeling scorned or disrespected.

Knowledge is power.

Respect all the way. Wetin I wan carry woman love do? Na as e no dey hard dem love e no dey hard dem 'unlove.'

My methods in this are rather unconventional. They might not work for U; matter of fact, they are likely to backfire on U.

Best do the more conventional apologies and sweet talking or just let her be till she's more welcoming to Ur approach when it's anger. If she's being mean, ignore her or scold her. or the latter then the former. That's all just generally speaking.
U've got to study the individual and know what works best for him/her with respect to Ur relationship with him/her and then approach the situation with Ur understanding of what could work.

''Can'' and ''Can't'' are such strong words.
I can, but it is very very very very unlikely that I ever will. I have no desire to & I am not allowed to.
I am at peace with this.

1. Advice myself.
2. Ask her what she's looking for.
3. Advice myself (Part II)
4. Depends. Not all grounds are fertile.
5. Exit the club & find something productive to distract myself with. Chances are it's over, tho the 'overness' might not manifest itself till later.
6. 1 count charge. It's over with immediate manifestation, especially if they weren't deserving of her being mean. I'm not mean to my parents. I certainly would rather she let me be mean to them on her behalf if need be.
7. Advice myself (part III)
8. Confront her & Advice myself (Chronicles of Advice myself, Season I)
9. Wetin carry me enter abortion clinic sef? Anyway, Advice myself Very Very well.
10. Game Over. (To God be the glory)

In my opinion, most times, the love of a woman is fleeting. It takes a lot of maturity and a deep understanding of Love for it to have value otherwise her feelings command it withersoever it wills, therefore making it to weak to go by.

What's more important than her love is her passion. Her passion isn't always fueled by love. It is fueled by desire. What does she want? Or in Ur case, who does she want?

If she has made a habit of putting in efforts to making Ur relationship with her work, she wants U. That's just one way of knowing. There are other ways. The summary of the matter however is if she wants U & it show, then Ur good to go.

Idleness, boredom, curiosity, lust, stupidity, greed, wantoness, rebeliion, foolishness, ignorance, e.t.c

Choose Ur pick. If it's not on the list U have an idea in which direction to look.

Character will take us farther than desire. Love may stir the desire to be faithful, but our character, dreived from the habits we form over time, determines the actions we take.

Love never stopped anyone from cheating. Discipline in choice, with grace from above would.

Why bother about the ex. The best thing U can do is get over them so well Ur indifferent to things that concern them, like they never existed. Do this without being beter or habouring resentment.

Dude, stop trying to impress the girls. Make Ur life impressive by acheiving personal goals and objectives; beautify Ur world and they will find that they are impressed by Ur focus and what U make of it.

U wan't love? Don't use money to get it. Use friendship. When U have love, that is born out of friendship, U can use the money to nurture the friendship and that, in turn, will nurture the love.

Girls are not as apt to appreciate anything about adversity or endure it as long as guys can. They respond to comfort.
It is better to have and choose not to give than not have and long giving.

The women that end up feeling sad and used fail to understand that wen it comes to sex, the woman is in charge and there are fewer among men who don't mind being called rapists than there are that do.

U hold the aces, U provide the opportunities for it to happen, if una no gree, we go go watch ball or do something else.

The only person U have no right to deny sex is Ur husband. The rest of us myt leave U feeling more than just sad and unhappy.

It's difficult to be romantic when its obvious the one with whom U should be romantic is indulging romantic advances from other people and sees nothing wrong with that.

Anyway, romance has a general description of what it should be and an individualistic description. Perhaps this camerounian babe in question didn't find her definition and appreciation of romance in the Nigerian men she surveyed.

Effective communication nurtures romance and romance that comes from effective communication nurtures the former.