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verse 22 and 25 which comes first?i am guessing that should answer your question

yemstok:
A man says

"I don't love my wife because she is not. submissive perhaps, if she were submissive i would have loved her"

A woman says

"I am not submissive to my husband because he doesn't love me, if he had shown love to me, I would have been submissive"

The bible made mention of these things but didn't tell which should come first.

Ephesians 5:22

"Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church,his body, of which he is the Savior"



Ephesians 5:25

"Husbands, love your wives,just as Christ lovedthe church and gave himself up for her"






Now, my question is, Which should come first? "Love" or "Submission"

first thing first the white didn't bring us civilization, we gave them civilization, go and read your history but if you don't have time, you can Google where the oldest university in the world is ,and if it was built by whites

adesegun121:
Source say this was a classroom in Nigeria in 1950; 10 years before independence. We need to admit that the white man really helped us...they brought us civilization but now we don dey wise pass them. Lol!


See more pics @ : http://gist4kids..com.ng/2016/01/see-picture-of-classroom-in-nigeria-in.html

bro you got to be kidding me. I probably think you know nothing about slavery, infact the op is right to an extent the British did all kinds of evil, infact the ISIS guys are learning compared to what the British did

resty4:
Isis r islamic jahadists monsters wh british r civilized conquerors dat stopped slave trade.
Rmba William Wilberforce,Thomas Clerkson etc n british parliamentary laws dat prohibits slavery?

hahahahahah, he has an imam as minister and a pastor as vice President. he doesn't need more .you think this is GEJ government where you people use religion to enrich yourself with Nigerians money. please Sir think again the days of religious organizations are gone. infact I advice the President to immediately stop funding of the so called travel to holy land and band government from getting involved anybody who want to go should do so from his or her pocket

tonyadex:
Cardinal John Onaiyekan, the Catholic Bishop of Abuja Arch Diocese, has said that President Muhammadu should ask religious leaders for help if he wants to receive success.
Onaiyekan noted this on January 23, during the priestly ordination of nine priests in the diocese.
The famous cleric state that the change mantra of the All Progressives Congress government can only become a success if the administration gives a forum for the active cooperation of religious organisations in the current war against corruption.
He said: “There should be such arrangement whereby government officials and religious people can sit down and see how we can all contribute to the fight against corruption.
“For the moment I don’t think we have gotten the forum for that kind of cooperation.
“If we you want people’s heart to change you have to reach out to us, we are the experts in that,” the Cardinal said.
Meanwhile, Onaiyekan stated that religious leaders have a moral responsibility to assist in the fight against corruption.
“Although we don’t have to wait for them to tell us, but my own believe is that if there is a conscious effort to work together, the impact will be more serious,” the cleric said.
“Nine ordinations in one cathedral at once is a big news, even in the big churches of the world.
“We are among the front liners in the league of nations of the world, in terms of faith,” Oniayekan noted.
He advised the newly appointed priests to stand out, in a world slowly floating towards materialism.
“Even if the world is standing for materialism, the priest must stand out, so that other people can see them and emulate, and so that homily can preach louder,” the bishop said.
Cardinal John Olorunfemi Onaiyekan recently stated that Nigerian president remains a dictator.
During Buhari’s military regime, almost 500 people were jailed for corruption and wasting taxpayers’ money. However, the president many times restated that he had turned to democracy.

you make me laugh, or rather you are exposing what madam Harvard your sister did to Nigeria. please go and learn to be patriotic

PPAngel:
The concluded WEF held in Abuja in May, 2014 saw China unveil a $42bn investment over the next 10yrs in the African continent with Nigeria expected to gulp the highest share of over $30bn in direct infrastructural investment, energy sector and manufacturing.


With the emergence of the newly appointed Colonial Governor of the Royal Niger Company aka Nigeria, expect to see Buhari cancel outrightly all Chinnese direct investments in preference to western loans from the IMF, World Bank and Paris Club.

Off course, all the newly borrowed money will be diverted with nothing on ground to show for it but debt for the next 40years.

Change Change Change!

hear yourself please go and educate yourself in less than 20years we have turned out more black billionaires than anywhere in the world put together .my friend celebrate your country .be proud of who you are than running to be slave in one white mans country.

Osahon7:
my friend go and sleep! Lazy and greedy man!! Y havnt you bcome a billionaire here in ur 9ja?

that is the only one,just as i mentioned ,please call another name

MicKaro:
Oprah Winfrey...

slave mentality,guess what i know more than 1000 nigerians who make far more than that in a month,infact by my year two in university i was already employing more than that,so save me you slave talk,in fact it is far easy to make money in Nigeria than america,quote me anywhere.am quit sure you never go yet,when you reach you would know that story and reality are two different things.
then case number two you may earn more in figure,please ask how much is house rent,how much is mortgage,how much for the car,you phone plan,your credit card bill,in reality my friend you probably have less than $200 dollar for yourself and guess what all those thing you are paying for you own none,because once you are out of a job for three months you loss them all.useless slave would not agree to do menial jobs in nigeria,they would say am a degree holder,abeg go america you would see them,gatemen,house cleaner ,bartenders ,mopping floor,mcdonald and they would do two or three jobs at once.then you come and talk rubbish.if you work as hard as you work there in NIGERIA you must be rich.

Osahon7:
Chai! You see your black African mentality?? Damn! No wonder trump want ppl like you out of the states!! I know of a Nigerian(a Relative) that left Nigeria to the States, he has his business there, has employed close of 11 Americans who are running the business for him and he makes nothing less the $20k in a Month! Yes Month! ? If he was in Nigeria he won't even dream of making such and having such a succeful business! That's one in Many hundreds Thousands fo Nigerians in the state! so dis Mr.A in Usa earning $20k per month isn't living a good life compared to his counterparts in Nigeria?? Who's talking anout being a Billionaire? If u want to be one, weda u black or white! Billions nor dey select race

if i may ask which airline those better,because to my record american airline you have to buy your food on board,you heard me well,they give you nothing,if you want something pay for it and guess what you would pay more than 22,000 for a one hours flight,Nigerian never see anything good in themself,slave mentality

marvelck:
Imagine what a passenger was given as food/snack while travelling with Aero Airline from Lagos-Port Harcourt after paying about N22k as flight ticket. Imagine serving each passenger one small pack of happy hour juice, 50 naira biscuit, two small pieces of cookies worth 100 naira and 10 naira flash sweet. When it comes to treating passengers well, Nigeria still has a long way to go...

Save me this self saving stories,let us reason together because common sense is rear,please list how many black billionaires have ever been in the history of the united states that includes african americans tooam waiting, because if my record serves me right just two one just sneaking in and drop leaving one,clearly showing you that africans by design are not suppose to succeed there so save me your stories but if you know of other please list them.

Osahon7:
you say that's the people you have seen! You can't just use ur parochial view to judge the lives of all d people livin there! I personally know of Nigerians who have their Personal private properties there too! I know of Nigerians who nothing less then 20 Americans are under their employment! When I mean Employment I mean full time! Without them these workers can't eat!

slave mentality unlike you my friend i have traveled the world,and guess what i have first hand knowledge of the life of a black man in those part of the world.wake up fast that place is not heaven .if you like sell all your belongings to go,when you get there you would quickly discover that they own nothing there cars are on loan,there houses are on loan even there cloths is paid by credit card which is borrowed money,so in return you work like a slave.as for civilized if not because you are a slave you would know that word is a myth when you get there the police would teach you what civilazation is when you are black.as for jobs guess what when people get tired of looking for jobs then they would start there own business and start creating jobs.

Osahon7:
you just open your mouth and be talking nonsense! Probably its becos u have neva had the opportunity of ld leaving the shores of this country! If you live abroad with a good job, you won't be saying this!! So they all should come to Nigeria abi? To do what? So that your government will kill their potentials with their corrupt policies? Some ppl abroad aint there because of greener pastures, they are there because dey wished to be in a normal,civilized community! It might interest you to know that wit your Nigerian Bsc degree, if they all come to develop Nigeria, your job is not safe, because a typical nigerian employer will hire foreign degree folks to Locally trained

are you on whatsup

Correction the mother not the father, if the mother decided to use her children as bargaining chips to achieve her greedy intentions who's fault is itgo back in history Alexander the Greats son lost his empire because of the conduct of his mother.

Number two we all know according to most African tradition any child who is born outside of marriage belongs to the mother and her people, in my place if a man doesn't say this is my child then it can not be referred to as my child

woodboi:
And you think this reason is enough for a father to deprive his children of what it means to grow with one?

first like you said we are Africans and as an Africans we are not stupid neither is there anything wrong in been married and having a side chick or wife's for that matter, as you can see his wife stands strongly behind him because she is a true African wife, so stop playing two rule books at once. secondly I think you have no idea how evil some women can be especially the white verities as long as his name is not on there birth certificate and he has not accepted responsibility for the kids, the white woman has no say and she knows it. lastly what exactly is ideye sin here aside people hating on him, let see if it is because he has kids outside that is his personal choice and if anybody should be angry it should be his wife not a side chick who though she could impeach his wife and failed in her plot. so who is the evil person here, is it not the one who new he was married and thought or well I can get him to love me and leave his wife??Africans stand with your own

woodboi:
I love your response, but I want you to understand one thing, we are Africans and they also have their own tradition. If we are talking about a kid here, we can pretend under assumption of a mistake from both part since no human is perfect in life, but this dude keeps going back to the lady probably spend days with her. My dear for every action their is a reaction which consequence happens to be the by product, the things you are claiming now Ideye have a vest knowledge about it, but he choose to forge ahead with the lady to this point called "black mailing" according to you. So if Ideye knows better, he deserves whatever the outcome he is getting from it, stop saying the woman is a bad person, she wasn't the one that made the law's of the land or climb on herself to produce 2 kids, she may as well just be a regular girl at a bar before having those kids, think about the load of taking care of those kids without the support of a father.

People always ask me, who do you want to win the elections, I always tell them Donald trump, they ask why and I laugh.

well simple Donald is a messiah, even he himself doesn't know it but when he is done with America all those Africans that thief our money and send there family there would run back either empty handed or with our money. all those people the government sent on scholarship there and refuse to return back to help build Africa, would return by force, all those tech guys and brilliant people that have been potched would be back soon.in all Africa is about to develop at an even faster rate.
so my fellow black people go out and support Donald for President please vote for him

noeloge82:
BREAKING: DONALD TRUMP WARNS NIGERIANS : “IF I WIN, YOU LEAVE”. NEWS | BY FNN |




American Billionaire and Republican Presidential Front-runner, Donald Trump, has shot a subtle warning to the Nigerian Community in the United States, after he said all Nigerians would be made to leave the country “when he becomes President”.

He made the “threat” during a rally at Wichita, Kansas. According to Donald Trump, Nigerians ad Mexicans have taken all the jobs meant for honest hard working Americans.

“To Make America great again, we need to get rid of the Muslims, Mexicans and the Africans, especially the Nigerians. They take all our jobs, jobs meant for honest hard working Americans, and when we don’t give them the jobs, the Muslims blow us up”, Trump said.

http://m.?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.%2Fposts%2F91538%2F&h=vAQEizYnF&s=1

what is the next page? there are two ways to your answer but in this case we stick to one of the two ways, which is legally by that I mean paper work and the answer is NO he is not the father, his name is not on the kids birth certificate, so the woman is trying to black mail him into making it legal. if she ever wanted him to be there father without greedy intentions then his name would have been on there birth certificate indicating that he was assuming responsibility

woodboi:
But the question still popping up is simple... Is he the father of the kids? Just a simple Yes or No that's all it takes to proceed to the next page.

some people need enlightenment, first of all I can assure you all even if I don't know ideye, that he has not abandon his kids. the laws in Europe are quit different. the mother of those kids sees ideye as pay day, as she didn't get to be wife she wants a share of his fortunes as vengeance and rubbishing his reputation why she is at it and get him fired from his club. the second he acknowledges them as his kids, she would file for child support you can see she already has lawyers on stand by, and when I say child support we are not talking of child support but rather a back door into his bank account. this is the plain facts any nijia man who stays in Europe knows this. first question people should ask where were the kids every since, why didn't she invite ideye when the children were been born, was ideye even aware that he had kids, why is it now all of a sudden that she appears with the kids?ask yourself this questions

FlirtyKaren:
Nigerians were shocked when a white woman named Alex who lives in Ukraine posted pictures on her Instagram page saying Nigerian Super Eagles player, Ideye Brown fathered a son and a daughter with her. And that he has abandoned them and refused to do a DNA.

Ideye is married to wife Damka Ideye and together they have two sons. A lot of people have however said Alex's kids bear a striking resemblance with Ideye Brown. Things got so heated that Damka, Ideye's wife issued a statement saying Alex's claims weren't legitimate.

Well, see where the drama has gotten up to now. Ideye Brown is proudly on the cover of an Ukrainian newspaper over the allegations. See photo below.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/01/ideye-brown-makes-ukrainian-newspaper.html

call for pics? how those calling show me picture, I advice you be serious

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how much

having toured the Caribbean, I can tell you this Nigerians have no problem with the Caribbean but rather they try to help the Caribbean in anyway they can but the Caribbean especially the blacks seem to have a problem with Nigerians. first they think a black man is stupid or wants to scam them but they willingly worship the whites and they whites feed on them, control them manipulate them in fact the list is endless, I have never seen that kind before, second they have deep slave mentality to the extent they go around fabricating stories on how Africans don't like them when they are the once who have no knowledge of Africa, they don't want to travel.but they seem to be masters at what they watched on CNN a point in note I can remember going to an African association in one of the countries and they were playing Yoruba music lead by a professor of African studies who studied in the united states but has never been to Africa, yet he actually lead them to believe that the music is from Ghana because for some reason which I haven't figured out they all want to claim they came from Ghana or Ethiopia or Angola, when the truth is that most of them came from west Africa especially what is today called Nigeria, mostly ijaw, urobo and Yoruba. the Caribbean's especially the blacks are slow retrogress thinkers, they like to steal ideas when they have no idea how to implement it and lastly the people in the Caribbean actually think Nigeria is one poor country, when most countries in the Caribbean cant out do states like Kogi not to talk of comparing it with more advance states. that is my humble opinion
take my advice forget what your mother has been feeding you like you said you have never been to Nigeria, so what you should do is take a flight to Nigeria, please note: Nigeria is probably the smartest black nation in the world so come with your thinking cap or else

queeniecreole:
I just want an honest opinion of what Nigerians think of Caribbean people. I am half West Indian, half Nigerian- However I was brought up on my Caribbean side and know the culture and have grown up with it.

I don't really know anything much about my Nigerian side, However on my Nigerian Side - They like to make fun of Caribbean people all the time! My dad is Nigerian , he already has 4 children with West Indian women, but makes fun of West Indians all the time. It's annoying and hurtful and I always feel like I don't fit on that side of the family.

My Caribbean family are welcoming however, they don't really like Africans that much and sometimes makes fun of them, and it makes me feel upset. It's like my Caribbean family think they are better because they are Lighter and Mixed. And my Nigerian family think they are better because they are full blooded 100% Naija - whereas I am not.

When I was younger I was made to feel that being African or associated with Africa as something shameful - It's so sad. I just want to be accepted by both sides of my family!!!!

So what is your opinion on African / Caribbean relations?

God bless you

darkid1:
Honestly if someone broke your windscreen and ran you would wish he was even locked in your bunnet...so ya all saying abuse of power should just shut up.

About the guy saying he ran because he was afraid bla bla is a lie,he is a little rascal. If you do something bad by accident, be a man and approach them responsibly, they are also humans...he acted like an animal they treated him like one...sorry case sha, i pity the airforce guy...you cant fight luck, the boy was just a lucky chap

you are bothered because of slave mentality,rather you should be more worried of why,a Nigerian can not speak any Nigerian language but rather English. do the English speak your language?

habeeblai244:
This has been bordering me since I was in secondary school. I am now in Higher Institution. Yet I still can't figure this out. Why will a higher institution student for that matter who has been Studying English Language for the past 10years at least can't speak English but will prefer Pidgin?

My friends speaks pidgin, when I try to correct them, they will give lame excuse that not that they can't speak English but they prefer pidgin. Pidgin is for those who didn't go to school at all but need to communicate with those who understand English. Higher institution students, why do you prefer pidgin to English?

were do some foolish people get the idea that 60% of Nigerian leave below poverty, really slave mentality, so let me guess African are not suppose to be able to afford expensive stuff

yusaze:
A social media user has shared a shocking discovery of the ostentatious and luxurious lifestyle of Nigerians in the UK.
Dr. Ayoade Alakija, an activist for social justice and change, shared her mind boggling, overwhelming, startling discovery on Twitter.
According to her, she visited Selfridges in the UK where she spotted a bottle of Champagne that goes for 94,000 pounds which amounts to N27.8 million Naira in Nigerian currency and she was shocked to know Nigerians were the major buyers of the champagne despite over 60 percent of the population being stricken by poverty.
See screenshots from her Twitter account:

http://www.9janewsarena.com/2015/12/see-n278million-bottle-of-champagne-nigerians-buy-in-uk.html

Your royal highness, you are new to the thrown and you should be careful what you say, you no longer belong to your self but the people and the people in particular are the traditional people of Yoruba land, not any church. please please please let it not repeat itself, if the pastor or father of that church agree to come to the shrine to pray to the Gods only then can you go to a church to kneel down. I wonder why the king maker and chief priest are keeping quite, they should educate the oba quickly before he makes a mess of the thrown

DickDastardly:
The Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, has said he owed nobody any apology for kneeling to worship the almighty God during the thanksgiving service held in his honour at the Paul’s Anglican Church, Ife, after his coronation.
The Ooni, said this in statement made available to our correspondent in Osogbo on Thursday by the Director of Communication and Public Affairs, Ooni’s Palace, Ile Ife, Mr. Moses Olafare.
The monarch spoke in reaction to criticisims against him by an online medium Newspunch (Not The Punch) that he knelt down to worship God during the church service.
Ogunwusi said it was wrong to equate any king no matter his status with the almighty God who created the heavens and the earth, saying the comment was an attempt to embarrass the throne.
Ogunwusi said since the almighty God is not Ooni or any king’s mate he would not stop to worship and revere him because it was God who enthroned him.
The statement read, ” It is an unacceptable sacrilege to equate Ooni’risa or other king to the almighty God. God Is the creator of mankind and it is God that made it possible for the enthronment of any king.
“The attention of Ile Oodua has been drawn to a publication released Wednesday 16th 2015 by an online medium known as NEWSPUNCH in which His Imperial Majesty, Ooni’risa & Arole Oodua Oba Adeyeye Enitan Ogunwusi(OjajaII) was crtisised for bowing to God.
“God remains the highest, the king of kings who has kept all kings alive and has made it possible for me to be crowned as the king of the source of Yoruba civilisation.
“I have no regrets whatsoever for kneeling down to exalt the almighty God who did not only create me, but also kept me alive, saw me through all the storms in my, life-journey and eventually crowned me as the custodian of Oodua race.
“This act of equating me to God of gods of king of kings and the sole owner of the universe is a wicked sacrilege planned to embarrass the throne. My emergence as Oba has been made possible only by the almighty Olodumare to whom I remain eternally grateful.”

Source: http://www.punchng.com/ive-no-apology-kneeling-to-worship-god-ooni/

I am the greatest advocate of that, infact I think any traditional leader who declares to be of another religion should be dethroned right away, i have never heard of a bishop claiming to be a traditionalist .that amounts' to conflict of interest and total disrespect to our tradition

isalegan2:
Thank you! Is his lineage from that of Abraham or Moses? Is it not enough to be a living embodiment of Oduduwa and the bloodline of great kings and their ancestors? Some things are so clearly not as they should be but we continue to bite our tongue and keep our own counsel. For how long? Lemme just say, I have concerns. This nonsense is too prevalent amongst African kings. In the very near future. I hope an inability or unwillingness to swear to and uphold our culture and the tradition of his forebears would disqualify potential candidates. . .

Whatever happens, the throne is greater than any one Kabiyesi.

are you drunk, it clearly states 3 cars o be replaced every 4years and you say nowhere states so

TheImp:
http://www.placng.org/new/laws_of_nigeria3.php?sn=478


Nowhere is provision made for the NSA to provide armoured vehicles and make payments like Buhari received as compensation after the Kaduna attack

I still can't understand why the army went to attack this people,i am seriously confussed here,nobody has linked them with a crime.so what is going on,this people are Nigerians before been shites.am i to believe that truely some people in government circles are working for forgien interest against Nigerians or somebody is trying to raise another boko haram?

darmys:
According to the twitter user who shared the photos




https://twitter.com/abasinfo/status/676749875221037056

And let me guess, you are sensible? as long as i am not in your category ,i am alright

oyindare:
U are a part one fool sir

Christianity has varieties, so also those Islam

JingoOAU:
Tho you have a point

Be that as it may, even the same traditional religion you mentioned, they have varieties

Which of the traditional religion would u want him to follow?

Is it sango?
Amadioha?
Soponna?
Oluweri-oya?
Obatala?
Ogun?
Etc