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betcindy:
i trade and supply rice in large quantity to restaurants , retailers and consumers.

What is the rice specie?

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Curse from who suleman,please that guy has lost all respect in my eyes,if there is anybody who should be afraid of a curse it should be him .he is a nobody in my book,just a loud mouthed,arrogant man,who has lost God glory because there is no man who God uses that can speak such a thing.money has consumed him.i repeat he is less than a nobody just a sad man and his bags of money

Owiii:
Onoja,why are you bringing a curse on yourself. Anything you don't understand, just keep quiet.

it is quite a disappointment because i use to respect this man,but just like everything power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely. he has become so arrogant that he compares himself with a man appointed by the people,this is no longer Christianity .i have an advice for suleman tell him.who God wishes to punish he first makes blind and deaf,warn him those who call death for others may first go to prepare the ground

ignorance is when you refer to china as the west

Onenaira1:
Yes and it's funny to watch.

The most comical one is some of them actually believe the West cares about the modern day slavery and destruction of their economy that the dullard just put them on.

i have been saying this for years now

musicwriter:
That's exactly what western education creates!. The original goal of the British colonial model of education we inherited was to create educated fools that'll rebel against African ideals, culture, point of view, e.t.c. The ultimate goal of western education was to create African elites without African mindset, who'll then be easily remote controlled from Europe without rebellion.

This's why we need to re-invent education in Africa, else we will remain under western control for life.

which fight are you speaking of,you mean the fight to take us into satanism like the west.is rape not a crime in Nigerian law?i think you are confused,from your statement it is clear that you haven't read the bill,you are equally relying on the title,i pray i get it to put it up but i expected it to be all over the media but conveniently no media outlet has put it up because they all know what is in it .i must look for it

kraftykc:
That God you quote so well is watching you in IMAX 3D. Which bill did you read and where did you read it? Give us concrete details contained inside and shame the devil or remain exposed as a liar.

This is a fight to bring Nigeria into the light, but people like you seem to love the darkness we are in where girls as young as 4 are habitually raped and abused, where we are yet to see females physicists in laboratories because men are having a field day with it.

Don't quote God, he isn't with you in this one.

first he has a right to concur,second what makes you think he doesn't know what he is talking about,lastly have you read the bill the woman presented,you are relying on the title.after reading that bill i new right away that woman didn't prepare that bill,it was given to her,the bill is out to bring in lesbianism though the back door,no story about it. but like most things the white do thinking we are stupid, they thought our women would line up on the street and start a riot if the bill wasn't passed.But God has always made sure that they never succeed,please look for the bill and read it.if i find it on my system i would put it up

amokeme:
do you even understand what you are concurring to Anyways, it's not your fault. Is the lawmakers who don't know the difference. Because going by what you are "concurring" to, equal access to education, strengthening of the laws on violence against Women, ending abduction of girls, sustenance and promotion of entrepreneurship opportunities, gender mainstreaming will turn women into prostitutes please, lock your daughters in your house and don't send them to sch, amd teach them how to depend on a man for every they need including breathe if possible. send just the male and if your daughter is raped (God for bid) or physically abused, go to the man and thank him because she is a girl and she deserves it

This story ,is quite interesting,CNN apparently knows where the girls are,or who the girls are with.CNN those marketing services for boko haram .so my question is who is CNN working for??it is only God that would save us

i can assure you i do not need your help ,with your manners i doubt you been able to maintain a relation for more than a month,please wise woman do have a lovely day .

dare2differ:
Stop quoting me

I find the way you argue nauseating

If you cannot understand a simple analogy. I can't help your case.

let me repeat in case you missed it the first time,do not come on here to insult me,i would implore you to respect yourself.if you do not understand wisdom require that you request for explanation.as sacrifice that simply tell you the white did more sacrificing and are still sacrificing humans till date to serve there purpose,so you there not point finger at your ancestors for sacrificing a few hundreds .

As for Polygamy,this are the facts several researches conducted by the UK have proven that indeed our ancestors where right as far as the relationship of man and woman is concerned,this are the facts there is no society in the world right now where men out number women in fact in some countries is the Caribbean women out number men 3 to 1,meaning on an average women would double the figure of men even tho people like UN try to keep it out of public domain for political reasons.equally it is recorded that men are 70% higher to die before women due to life style choices meaning there would constantly be more women battling over a man.so if there where to use the Africa methodology of polygamy most probably the issue of cheating would not arise.(men are not programmed to be stuck on one woman even if they try to be the women demand there own men and there for would try to get one in a world where women out number men).so i think you should understand but in case you do not be polite and request explanation rather than insult,insult does not help you in anyway in fact to be host for some reason i haven't lost my temper yet

dare2differ:
Can't you read and comprehend? What am i saying? What aree you saying?

Who is talking about polygamy now?

Don't you understand what I was trying to tell you with the human sacrifice example?

The question I asked was 'do women get attracted to other men?

Actually there is like 0. something man for 1- 1/2/ women in most countries.



Do not quote me again if you cannot comprehend. geez!

men usually found themselves in the lower figures,because they went to wars to protect there women,they hunted and did all the risky jobs,so naturally they died quicker ,so African society always found themselves with women far out numbering the men and thus men had to take more than one wife.the idea of jealousy about it only came with the whites.

dare2differ:
You do not want to be insulted yet you want me to allow you to insult me indirectly

Our ancestors used to do human sacrifice. I swear they had a very good reason. Don't you think as true Africans we ought to continue with it.

Whites do not tell me otherwise. It is common sense. people get attracted to to other people. Why do you find that hard to understand?

Do you seriously think you would be the only guy your wife would be attracted to for the rest of her life? there are lots of women who did especially old women.

If you are Yoruba, go back to your hometown. Ask them about women who were married to more than two husbands, I am not talking about women born in the 80s o. I meant older women. I know at least three women in my family who had nothing less than three husbands. I have friends whose great-grandmothers and grandmothers had the same excperience. It used to happen in those days. It might be rare but it sha happened.

lady you are a feminist,and sorry to say feminist are interest in seen what they want to see and not the facts.you are asking about men behavior yet you do not want to listen to men to tell you about there behavior,you want to assume for men then come back to complain that men are not acting according to your assumptions.
As for your many statement oh yes our ancestors sacrifice humans for a very good reason,but never on the scale of the whites,what was it 180 million black killed for slavery and let me guess some millions killed in the middle east just recently or why you are still pondering,i can assure you the hole of Africa never killed as much as what one AK 47 can do .
as for your last analysis ,i am quite aware that in some tribes women are allowed to marry more than one husband,that simply shows you that polygamy has been a way of life in Africa,and always for good reason.in societies where women out number men by far margins ,men were encourage to take more than one wife,so every woman could have a home and a husband,and in places were men out numbered the women,women were encourage to take more than one husband.it is sad that it is only black people who think there ancestors were stupid.it is really sad

dare2differ:
You do not want to be insulted yet you want me to allow you to insult me indirectly

Our ancestors used to do human sacrifice. I swear they had a very good reason. Don't you think as true Africans we ought to continue with it.

Whites do not tell me otherwise. It is common sense. people get attracted to to other people. Why do you find that hard to understand?

Do you seriously think you would be the only guy your wife would be attracted to for the rest of her life? there are lots of women who did especially old women.

If you are Yoruba, go back to your hometown. Ask them about women who were married to more than two husbands, I am not talking about women born in the 80s o. I meant older women. I know at least three women in my family who had nothing less than three husbands. I have friends whose great-grandmothers and grandmothers had the same excperience. It used to happen in those days. It might be rare but it sha happened.

and secondly watch your tone,if you are here to pick a fight please,go to some else post using BS or/and statement like that are not welcome.if you are a feminist that is fine for you,but doesn't mean anybody is intimidated by you especially me

dare2differ:
I am yet to see how this relates to this issue now.

The question is why do people cheat? Telling me nonsense on how different they are is nothing but BS.
Why do they cheat? Just because you are a man does not make a woman's reasons less genuine. Being a woman has not stopped women that cheat from cheating. In fact, they have succeeded in juggling their secret lives with their marital lives.

What else do you want?

understanding is one thing, reading is another.
The word cheating was crafted by who?if i may ask
Men are polygamous in nature ,Africans new this hence why polygamy is a way of life in Africa.
it is the white who try to tell you other wise but have ended up making there women polygamous too,let us face it a man been married 4 times with kids from 4 different women is polygamy in a stupid way

dare2differ:
I am yet to see how this relates to this issue now.

The question is why do people cheat? Telling me nonsense on how different they are is nothing but BS.
Why do they cheat? Just because you are a man does not make a woman's reasons less genuine. Being a woman has not stopped women that cheat from cheating. In fact, they have succeeded in juggling their secret lives with their marital lives.

What else do you want?

i do not understand anything you have written,in fact nothing you wrote relates to what i wrote,so what are the comparison for ,if you are trying to put a defense for women,then you fall into my second line,men and women are two different beings,they operate differently,they are not in competition,although the whites have fooled you into believing they are,men and women complement each other not compete with each other,so this comparison thing is a waste of time.men are men and would be men no matter how much the women try to turn them to behave like women .
and a simple experiment would show you that women are more problematic than men,put 5 women in one house and put 5 men in another house for 2 weeks,then you can come back here and tell me your findings


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first i do not know the kind of Guys you roll with probably black american men,but Africa men i know do not refer to a lady as a batch except you give him dam good reason.

as for the remaining first understand the concept of male and female are not the same either physically or psychologically.so you shouldn't expect the same behavior ,or does your brothers have breast or are they as touchy as you are when you understand this then all would fit in quite well,just as you claim,let me inform you now that women are grand masters of the game of double standing,it is only a woman who wears fake ass,padded bra,fake nail,fake hair,fake eye lashes even fake complexion yet she tells you i want a real man can anybody be more double standard than that

mimzy:
Growing up as a Nigerian female, you're told to sit, talk, act and respond to situations in certain ways or you'll be branded as "unladylike". Women are conditioned in a certain way and most of us have adhered to these rules.

Notwithstanding, these questions have always been a puzzle to me, other women and, I suspect, even men:


1. Why do men feel they should be forgiven when they cheat on their women but the rules change when these same women cheat on them, even once or just emotionally?

2. Why do contemporary men insist women share the bills but they think it beneath them to help out in domestic chores?

3. Why should a man be hailed by his friends for bragging about his sexual encounters with women but they slut-shame a woman who's honest about her escapades with a man she's into?


4. Why do Nairaland men insult a woman who's liberal in her views but cheer on a guy who says lewd things about women?

5. Why do men generalize all women as "_bitches" and '_hoes" but take offense when allusions are made to their female relatives being the same?

Even on this thread, some men would prove me right but the question is: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARDS?

how those showing me pictures of some white men help by brain.what is wrong with black people,mention the 50 states in the U.S and you are regarded as been brilliant yet you cant mention the 36 states of your country

RobinHez:
Check this thread too.

https://www.nairaland.com/2302013/20-most-influential-images-all

You didnt answer the question.it is a straight forward question?

cionon:
I never said someone adviced me to do magun. I have never even talked about juju things with anybody.

The magun thing which I am quite aware. A woman can't use it. I only said that to even scare him from travelling everytime to meet his mistress. But i later told him i cant do it. That no matter how much i am treated badly that i can never go that route. I were only discussing how to conceive and she was like I should be giving my husband herbs which I told her I can't try it. That was the end of discussion. Which she even said then i am not ready to conceive.

let me ask you,and try to be honest with yourself,what would be your reaction if your husband had jokingly told you just as you said that his friend advised that he put some charm in your food??please be honest

cionon:
Ok I get u. What happens to when a woman is emotionally down? Is her husband not supposed to uplift her by giving word of advice instead of kicking for divorce? Why are then now a couple if one cannot be her strength when she is weak? Should it be the woman duty alone to be the strength I her husband in weakness?

so she married somebody who she is not attracted to,isn't that a fraudand here you are trying to blame it on the man?

Pidggin:
Are you physically attractive?

Correction,history has proven that our ancestors were wiser than the whites when it came to issues of the family.so there for i would want to assure you that nothing was done without a reason.you either are not familiar with your native culture or just didn't care to find out why?

Valeree:
so many things were a taboo for no reason during old days, things has changed now so there's nothing wrong with that. so far the wife still has all the respect for her hubby.

beautiful write up,in fact you hit the nail right on the head

nobaga:
Economic Blackmail By Foreigners And Their Protegees



http://newsrescue.com/economic-blackmail-by-foreigners-and-their-protegees-by-farouk-martins-aresa/#axzz44Esly7jb

as your name implies you are foreign minded,so you actually think that foreign laws or school of thinking apply everywhere in the world,now guess what ,that is what i call ignorance

Toks2008:
It is no longer news that tradition is the opium of the people and no one is contending that.

But when it comes to marriage,while some believe that without paying of bride price,the man can not be said to be married to a lady and some believe that without the white wedding,a marriage can not be said to have received GOD's blessings.

Well i'm not here to discus on that aspect of marriage and i had to drop this quick one as a result of the mentioned i got on a thread relating to this.

[size=13pt]I am not sorry to write this...

Any married lady who never had a legal wedding otherwise called Court or registry wedding is as good as single.Quote me anywhere in the world.[/size]

And this is very true for some reasons but i will mention a few.

1. He can not just wake up one day and say he does not like your face again and send you out of your matrimonial home.
2. He dares not marry another wife except he divorces you
3. He must have a valid reason for divorcing you and must be able to convince the court.
4. You have protection under the law for yourself and your child(ren) in case he dies

I can continue to list several other reasons but let me just stop here.If you like, say you trust your husband,he loves you,he can never treat you bad..O.Y.O lo wa.

If you like let the man spend 1billion on your traditional wedding and do a white,blue,green,indigo wedding with a trillion naira. The fact is that these two ceremonies combined with all the money spent is not as binding and constitutional as a simple court wedding with just 4 people in attendance.

Unfortunately we have seen many people getting away with bad acts despite the fact that they had a legal wedding but the reason is because the affected individual usually lets go without putting up a fight due to high cost of legal battle and no thanks to parents and family members who always preach to them that "what is yours will always stay with you" and that they should let go which i see as stories for the gods.

Ladies be wise..as an endangered specie in the cruel world of men,legal wedding was specifically created to protect more of the lady's marital right so take advantage of it or ignore at your own risk.

I will stop here.

the man who is out to control the world food supply,and my black brothers and sisters are happy6million dollar indeed bill Gate is of the opinion that the world is over populated and you people trust his food,gentle men and ladies you just got some GMO with intent to kill.i wonder why African Governments still allow this guy come around

some people think running to the media makes them right,your wife just started driving in jan,she hit somebody from behind and you are claiming the person hit is at fault,then you hit somebody and the started running and you think that is ok. in your mind you run to the media so you can tarnish the image of the magistrate because you want to show power.let your wife go and face the law and if i am the magistrate i would request that a driving test be conducted on your wife to ascertain how she got her drivers licence then have her ban from driving

Islie:
‘How magistrate remanded my wife after their cars brushed’





http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/03/magistrate-remanded-wife-cars-brushed/

Pic: Yetunde Osijo the woman sent to jail by the magistrate

The workers like suffering and smiling,if the union do not represent you,then kick them out or withdraw from the union after all you make them not them make you,if the minister doesn't represent you block the airport and protest,it is done by all airline workers round the world,then the President must come in .people can only do what you allow them do to you

freeze001:
Shuo! Am I the airline that is sacking workers? See as u quote me dey vex...lol.

I understand though, the major problem is that we have never protected the rights of workers as regards employment by foreign agencies. That is why after all said and done, a few dollars or thousands of naira exchanged will settle the issue always to the detriment of the Nigerian workers.

These foreign investors always come with the bottom line of making profit by all means. Once you have a government like ours as has always been the case where regulatory policies are not firm and easily twisted in favour of the investor, you have things like this and they mostly get away with no sanctions at all. Our Labour laws leave a lot to be desired unfortunately and enforcement of what we have on ground is practically nil.

Rubbish,any airline that sacks its Nigerian workers,we should ban that airline from flying into Nigeria simple.as for the policy of packing all our dollar out in the name of airline.that must stop.if you make the money here then you must spend that larger percentage here simple.

freeze001:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/03/union-kicks-plans-foreign-airlines-sack-2000-workers/

i am tired of seen this rubbish,are the police helping the women into prostitution ,to my understanding soliciting money for sex is prostitution and that is a federal offence because prostitution is not legal

Islie:
Man sent to prison for beating girlfriend




http://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2016/03/16/man-sent-to-prison-for-beating-girlfriend/

Number 3 is quite far from the truth,the united state does not fund universities,universities are self funded and the fees are expensive,the cost of formal education in Nigeria is not realistic and if you try to increase it there would be problems with the union.formal education is not cheap in fact it is a business on its own

Capslock01:
Source: www.edufrisk..com/2016/03/why-nigeria-tertiary-institutions-are.html

The fruits are in Africa and it is the white mans name you are interested in,that speaks about your state of mind

sugarboii:
http://omgvoice.com/lifestyle/4-fruits-nigerians-dont-know-english-names/

see,i am quite sure you didn't read the bill rather you listened to what was said,nowhere in that bill speaks about equality rather it spoke about given women some certain rights,one of such rights is for wife's to automatically inherit there husband properties once he dies,meaning all a woman needs to do is kill her husband and automatically everything he owns belongs to her even the mans own will becomes useless because even he doesn't have a right to state who he wants to will his properties to. do not allow people fool you with title always read what is inside the paper

KlausVestner:
Didn't you posted that someone in the Senate wanted to give females the legal right to kill their husbands?
I was asking does that statement was made in the debate of that equity bill?
What I mean is ....just in case it was said during the equity discussion, .....to give females the same rights like males .....then this would mean that males already would have that right (to kill their wifes) ....did you got it now?
Of course I fully agree with you, that nobody has the right to kill another human.