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you dont see it now but when the season starts, watch them go around thinking they the best but just like the Pistons, reality will cross over them on the court.

a man always has to fell like he is in control. so i guess when they approach a tall sistah they start to feel intimidated. that is why in almost every song the men describe woman like,

She stands five, five
Brown eyes
Cute face
Thick thieghs

hmmm, never had this problem with my parents. never really drink

i cant stay in a car by myself. i get so anxious.

ahhh the celtics had their fun this season but they will probably be like the Detroit Pistons and get all cocky because the beat the Lakers. and end up losing from now on.

oka Hero you make Nigeria sound as if it is the one of the worst countries. i understand your frustration but America aint all that great either. the one thing they got over Nigeria is privacy. if you hear what america really does you would change some of your opinions.

@topic

i hate guys who think that they are God's gift to women. that is so annoying. i mean there is nothing wrong in being self confident but there is a fine line between arrogance and self confidence. but there is always that one idiot who seems to cross it every time.

oh mine was so romantic. well it didnt really start off romantic though. we were in the library studying for our semester exams. and i had a really bad week. i got in trouble with my coach and people were talking behind my back. so the last thing i wanted to do was to study. so i was just sitting in the library just thinking how messed up my life was (i was in high school) and how i was going to pass my AP exams. so my heart rate started speeding up and at that moment i knew i was having another one of my anxiety attacks. i knew i had to go somewhere i could get myself together. Thank God, we were right next to the door. so i got up and i told him i'll be back and ran out the door.i walk as far as i could where no one could see me. i began to break down in tears because i was scared and none of my kin was there. so i tried to do what my doctors told me to do. i got up and put my head behind my back. it wasn't working. so my anxiety got worse. Next someone taps my shoulder, and it was the guy i was studying with. i told him to leave me alone and that i could handle it. i just didnt want any one to see me vunerable. i hate feeling that im not in control of a situation so i didnt want any one to me like dat. Next thing you know, he turns me around and holds me tight. i tried to fight him off but i started to feel dizzy. so i gave in. i began to cry and let every thing. when i finally got it together, i thanked him. he told me that i could always trust him for any thing. then he tilted my chin and KISSED ME!! i was so shocked and happy. then reality hit me that i had no idea what i was doing. but i just took off his lead. it was one of my fondest moments.

@studio

oka, no need to rain down on my parade oka i was born in america so im trying to learn oka. sorry if im not as "advance" as you are

nwa nne nwoke, what are you trying to say?

LordChaser:
ROMANCER OK Girl, havent you heard da news? All Romantic guys are gay, irresponsible, Abusers, Molesters and all the negative things which a devil could own.

That explains why is he Coo Coo in da head.

not necessarily, i know plenty of romantic guys who are nothing of what you just stated about them. may be the men in which you have seen were these things but i really can't agree with such a radical statement.

blacksta:
You guys are a bunch of dreamers if level of corruption in nigeria was not high maybe the power rationing will work. Please don't hype up your expectations only to be dissapointed. What we need in nigeria are leaders with a vision not rationing a broken system

we need more than a nigerian president with a vision. the president of Zimbabwe had a vision and now look at it. they need a president whose veins dont over flow with vengence or greed. who wants to help his people of today and tomorrow. and they need to lighten his power and create an order of Checks and Balances. in which he is not able to lude money to their private bank accounts. just a thought.

@CH3COO

wow i thought you were this romancer and now i hear you are insulting people pic, man i read what you said and i was even offended. i think an apology is in order.

i hope you enjoy your last few days as a bachelor. i pray on to you the best wishes as you open this new chapter in your life. May the good Lord bless you and your future wife and your future as you become one in holy matrimony.

i give about five minutes and then i might hang up and when they call back, i might make an excuse like my phone cut off.

oh thanks, i guess in a sense it sort of describes how i feel about relationships.

TOH:
what ride oyinye? Thought you don't let them ride anything

not a sexually type of ride, but the guy is just in the relationship just for the sake of being in it. he has no intent in really committing.

personally i feel there is nothing wrong in saying i love you. to me it is more on the timing. if you say it too early in the relationship, you are pushing me away than getting any closer. If you dont say it at all, it makes me question the intent of the relationship. i mean is it going any where or are you just in it for the ride?

@drrionelli

i use that saying all the time.

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=147786.msg2458070#msg2458070 date=1215131068]No more flirting anyhow, no more - i'm leaving to threaten him back to his senses, and then he stops catering to you - now you have to cater to the lazy rascal [/quote]yeah there is some truth in that. but i feel that things dont have to get to the point that the man stops catering to you. i mean i know things arent going stay "fresh and new" as when you started but you can make an effort to try and keep the romantic fire between yall still flaming after years of marriage.

StephenP:
LOL!! At the Igbo ones "Where's the isiewu?"

i have tears in my eyes that is sooo funny yes that is so true. yeah i have noticed more that as soon as the reception starts, the men start asking where the goat meat is and toothpick.