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StephenP:
anything wrong with that?

OH GAWD!! goes to show men are so such simple creatures sometimes.

StephenP:
Well the woman didn't do that great either. She let herself be deceived and let her husband also to be deceived. She is the reason why everything went sour in the first place.

that is not the point. if man was so great, he would have resisted temptation but as a Mortal man, he fell into it. dont blame woman for man's mistake.

dreeldee:
Onyinye please what version of the bible do you have, in my own version NIV precisely, Adam replied and i quote "I heard you in the garden, and i was afraid because i was naked; so i hid" please take note and stop quoting what is not

still he didnt have to say he was naked. all he had to say was "im in the garden" simply as that. but what did he do, let that natural male intelligence to talk out of context.

all guys want is someone to cater to their ego. case closed.

StephenP:
What test was that?

God asked Adam after he had eaten from the forbidden tree where he was. what did he say?? and i quote " I'm Naked" what does the state of where you are located have to do with what you are wearing?? man is not as great as you want to believe.

StephenP:
Well yes we all are; after God created us, He saw we were good.

oka, whatever. man would have died off centuries ago if women were not around. if man is so good, why did he fail the first test in history??

StephenP:
I can imagine the pride conflict you and those guys were having seeing that you are high up on the pride scale also.

you are getting self confidence mixed up with pride. alot of african males that i have encountered all walked around as if they were the best thing God put on this earth. please!!! they thought they were a bunch of alpha males.

StephenP:
I'm sorry but I don't see how Ghanaian men are better than Nigerian men.

yeah i was about to say the same thing. cause i use to hang out with all types of africans and the guys personalities tended to be the same. they all had their head so way up high i thought giraffes would be jealous. they are all suffering from pride addiction.

4 Play:
The single men and women should just "find each other" and the problem is solved. There will always be "left-overs" amongst women but they will be relatively few.

Lets say no to staying single! Women should stop resisting advances from single men,

do you even hear your self 4P?? cause what u said was pretty radical. people can't just "find each other", there has to be a connection. or else we will see the same people yelling and screaming on divorce court. Talking about " he is the worst husband ever. i want my child support." also would you advise this to your daughter?? you tell her not to resist the advances single men throw at her??

RedHotChic:
Ballless Nigerian men, wake up Nigerian men and do your job or we may deviate to Ghana, Senegal and Cameroun and leave your single asses "hornying" around!!!!!!!

atleasts all the prostitutes will be happy.

StephenP:
I'm praying for the one time you hit a dude and he beats the shit out of you. Then maybe you'll learn violence really isn't always the answer.

OUCH!!! that was pretty cruel. even for you. sorry if i keep reminding you but you didnt have to go that far. i wouldnt even wish this on my worst enemy.

Hannibal:
According to Census 2000 in the USA!!!!!

you should think about updating your data. because it has been eight years and there has been changes.

@hannibal

have you ever been to the states?? obviously you havent. most cases of plastic surgery comes from the white community and latinos. and you think all those white girls on t.v. that is their hair?? boy please that aint their hair. while we call it weaves they call it "extensions". same thing.

@RHC

this one fella i knew when i went to naija was real aggressive with me. he didnt know that i took kick boxing since i was seven years old. so one day i got so tired of his way i gave him a bloody nose with my foot

Hannibal:
Y'all are missing the most important factor here!!!

According to the 2000 census, black men enter interracial marriages at a higher rate -- 9.7 percent -- than any other racial or gender group except Asian women. That's twice the rate of black women.

It seems Black men in the states prefer women from other races than Black sisters.

well i have talked to alot of brothas in interracial relationships. and alot of them say that they didnt want to deal with the pride that comes with black women.

davidylan:
I have just one question for the black women - why do they use weaves?

isnt this a double standard?? if she wears her hair naturally, men call her nappy. if she wears weaves, there is a problem.

yeah some of them are lil' on the agressive side. but the ones who were agressive with me, werent' that way when i was through with them.

Morenisexy:
Let's not even go to Naija men issue. . their own single problem surpasses AA men

Some even think its becuz of juju they're single. . shior

LMMFAO!!! that is truly hilarious. but i truly dont believe it is witch craft in order. i personally believe it is the men themselves. they the one pushing sistahs away. with their stubborn rantics

well im familar with the stats. of AA women in america. and i also read an article in which there are multiple factors that make up the stats. for one, some women chose to stay single. they feel it better fits their lives. also there is a large amount of black men who incarcerated so that is another factor. plus alot of families that i personally know stay as dating couples and never get married and have kids. but are in a committed relationship.

i always have sketch pad. in case i see something and get inspired that i have to draw it. and a whistle. you never know who is lerking behind you.

there are alot of hypocritical men these days

i rather them to take on some westren influences then just go and get some white man. but yes they do need to limit how much power this so called presidents have. i feel if african countries want to take on westren influence, they should start with checks and balances.

many men fall prey to it too. if im not mistaken.

if obama was the leader of kenya, yeah there might be changes made in that country. but you have to remember that obama is a black man. but i truly feel that color is not in order. if we could just find some african man or woman whose mind is not corrupt with vengence or greed than that will do.

i don't ignore reality. i know it is there and i face it just like you. but i make time for romance. even though i have a lot of things to deal with, i never let it take away from romance. once the flame has died down between us, bills, etc. wont really matter any more.

but will bringing a white man really change things?? i think he we need to focus on the root of the problem that these presidents are like some of the people in america. as soon as they start to get a lil money, they become stupid. forget themselves and their morals.

@ch3coo

you dont think i know what kind of world we live?? i do but chose not to let it faze me. i believe that love and romance are waiting for people to dare to be captivated by it. you might read what i say and think i live in a fantasy world, but i dont. i live in the same world you do, but just have a different perspective on it.

i feel color is not in order here. i know plenty of corrupt white men who are leaders. i feel that africa needs Presidents who have truly suffered. look at Nelson Mandela, now he went through decades in captivity and when released, become one of the best presidents in Africa. because he knew what the people were going through. and not only that, he was educated and had morals.

Mesmerize:
You and your boyfriend worked it out, I see

yeah we did with him i feel i can soar through the sky and never look down or worry what is around us.

RedHotChic:
That means you will not also date an ex-playa because he may go back to his old ways?

if i tried to go out with an ex-playa, there would always be that thought in the back of my head that would have wondering if he has really reformed himself or this is just all a front.

this fella sort of sounds like prince charming to me. that guy who treats his women like she deserves to be. makes her feel exceptional.

Mesmerize:
Keep that spirit o jare. .
Not everyone can be pleased, as long as you are enjoying the ride, wave them goodbye

i'll continue too. love is truly the best emotion to feel.

@RHC

the problem with dating someone who has had a homosexual experience is that thought in the back of your head that makes you think if he could go back to his old ways. i mean really think about it. there are some pasts that are hard to forget no matter how hard you try. but im not saying you should associate with people like that but i just wouldnt take it to the level of dating.

@mesmerize

im already ahead of you. these men are hopeless. let them continue to think the way they do. but they will see point sooner or later.