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Romance › Re: Am I Being Overly-jealous? by onyinye2(f): 3:51pm On Jul 07, 2008
oh wow that is alot to think about. me personally i would tell him to invite these "friends" of his over. and let any of their trifling ideas to subside when they see how much we love each other. im drawing some inspiration from this story, seems like another rendition of "The Confessions of a Love Slave pt.2"
Romance › Re: Is there anything wrong With girlfriends once in a while footing the bill? by onyinye2(f): 3:38pm On Jul 07, 2008
at times you know i take up the bill, but that is just once in a while. im a lady that believes in independence but i was raised on the type of guys who were "southern gentlemen". and a southern gentlemen usually pays for everything. so sometimes when i try and pay, the guy refuses and says he can take care of it. who am i to refuse??
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 3:33pm On Jul 07, 2008
Sisikill:
I'm sorry, I won't change my mind on that.

Can't having him running around the web, his head in the clouds thinking somewhere on the other side of the rainbow, his true love awaits him and when he gets her, they'll gallop away into the sunset.

Tofia! I say let him learn early.
well i believe that there is such a thing called "True Love"
Romance › Re: Am I Wasting My Time With This Guy? by onyinye2(f): 3:30pm On Jul 07, 2008
i would throw his trifling behind away. Girl you are worth way more than what he is giving to you. i mean come on now, he obviously doesnt have the word "faithful and commitment" in his vocabulary. you should try to work things out but if the situation just seems to grow more unbareable pack your things and leave. strangley this reminds me of the poem i posted up. "The Confessions of a Love Slave"
Sports › Re: Nba Playoffs 08-predictions by onyinye2(f): 3:25pm On Jul 07, 2008
@Jesoul

LMAO!!! but hey im just saying the truth. The Detroit Pistons were just like the Celtics. They came to the playoffs hungry and ended up eating the whole buffet. but what happened seasons after, they were lucky to even get a plate.
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 3:23pm On Jul 07, 2008
cold:
That's why i never giv any serious thot to that thing called love,i just bombard the Power House & escape wit my loot.
betta stick with the " Power House" because if you came to my house with that kind of nonsense, the only thing you will be escaping with is an ice pack for your . . . .
Romance › Re: Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them? by onyinye2(f): 3:17pm On Jul 07, 2008
Aratunde:
This sumarises everything, society and nature has condition women over time to be chaste and proper that why they feel repulse whe a guy say he's in love and still cheats. But can any Lady boastfully says she has not really fantasize how it willfeel to be with another person. "forget religion"


yeah when i was single. but when i was in a comitted relationship, i was committed. i didn't see the need to fanasize about any other guy when my prince charming was right there next to me in my harms.
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 3:14pm On Jul 07, 2008
Sisikill:
"Oh Ken? Yeah, that's just a guy I kick it with. . . nothing serious. Just something to tide me over until you get here. Oh man, I can't wait for you to meet him. There is NO doubt in my mind that you two will get along. He reminds me so much of you. Like one time, we were kissing and he did something with his tongue and I swear for a moment there, I thought I was kissing you" [Insert 10 sec Giddy Laugh here & then sigh] You have to SIGH. I can't stress that enough.

If that doesn't do the trick, I'll take him off your hands for free.
Wowzers!! TRULY HILARIOUS!!! cheesy cheesy cheesy

Pataki:
Hahahahahahaha!!!!!

You need love medications!!!!

Who cries the most in broken relationships?
Hope it is not women you have been dating all the while? grin cheesy grin
guys dont cry but they most definatly whine. they refuse to do anything.
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 3:09pm On Jul 07, 2008
The Sly:
I would advise him not to beg you at all. . . . you think you are god or sumn? tongue tongue
me God, no,no,no. Hera. . . maybe. wink
Romance › Re: Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them? by onyinye2(f): 3:00pm On Jul 07, 2008
mellow:
There is a great difference between love and sex. You can comfortably love one

and have sex with the other. Love is caring and sharing and sex is giving and

taking. They are two different processes. One involves the heart while the other

involves the the tools. They can either work together, separately and or concurrently.
they call it Platonic love.

smooooooth:
are u with him at every moment, or do u have a meter connected to his dang, so whenever you seee him u get to read and compare with your last result. abeg, i don't parade the street, i can boldly say that i am one of the shyest and still decent guys you can think of, but there are so many pretty women ready to lay free this days, they even come on you, even rigth to your door step, so u dnt need to be parading the street
anyway i just gave that example to buttress my argument, and that was back in the days u=in sch, but truely i was in love with that girl when i did it, i have never felt that way bout anyone till now.
maybe now i am more matured i can do without cheating, because i don't really get freaky or carried away like i used to, now i dey find true love, and i have been single for awhile and even casuals iritate me, you know how many i don turn down this year alone.
You might as well change your name to Cassanova.
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 2:57pm On Jul 07, 2008
[quote author=chi-baby link=topic=148636.msg2472433#msg2472433 date=1215438900]YH YH ANGELS MA FOOT!!!! YA WISH LOL. MO LYK DEVILS B, TRUST ME. DIFFICULTIES IN A Rship IS ALWAYZ DA GUYZ FAULT OR SHUD I SAY MOST TYMZ SHA. You GUYZ R JUST TROUBLE MAKERS, [/quote]chi girl i like your style!! that is a classic statement right there. that is why most movies and such always show the man begging and pleading for forgiveness. me i would make the man eat gravel before i would take him back.
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 2:54pm On Jul 07, 2008
Sisikill:
Heartbreak? This is what is pushing the men to verge of hysteria. . . that he'll be heartbroken?

Pffffffft. . . Heartbreak, Schmatbreak. It won't be the first and definitely won't be the last.

You men need to stop reading them Mills & Boons. . . it gives you false ideas about love.

This is real life, there is no such thing as Happily Ever After. O. Kay.

*Shaking my head*

The Poor things, this is why I won't let my sons read Cinderella and all the other crapola books touting Happily Ever After.

Oh well since I'm destroying illusions this morning, might as well go for broke. Guys, men, males. . .
1) There is no toothfairy
2) Santa Clause does not exist.
3) The sandman is fiction.

You'll thank me later.
Geez talk about a romance killer. there is some truth in what you said but in life there is such thing as "Happy ever after" may be you havent experienced it but there is. it might not resemble the ones in story books but it is alive and striving. so you are basically destroying your son's innocents. ahhh just let him read the books and let him figure out how the story "really" ends.
Romance › Re: Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them? by onyinye2(f): 2:47pm On Jul 07, 2008
smooooooth:
well women and men don't see cheating from the same angle, so i don't think i can ever win this one, expecially when most of the commentators are women. women, when in love can't touch another man with a 10ft pole, but men can be in love and cheat, doesnt mean they don't love you.
thats just the way nature has made it,anyway lets just appreciate when we are love and learn to forgive when one goes astray due to temptation, because by not forgiving, women sometimes throw away something really special. thats my point sha.
oka my last point, you threw something "away" really special the second you went astray with another women. so dont just put women in to this because you too did the same thing. you are lucky that your GF forgave you because with me you would have been a thing in the past.
Romance › Re: Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them? by onyinye2(f): 2:38pm On Jul 07, 2008
smooooooth:
haba onyinye, na me feel the feeling o, and i know what it was love or like (whatever, it was the main thing sha), i was madly, crazily and[b] stupidly[/b] in love then, anyway because your BF have not loved you enough like i did mine, to confess, shouldnt make you judge ma abeg. one day u go catch am and u go cryyyyyyyyyyyyyy cry cry tire.
Nwoke, who are to say that my BF does not love me?? cause he does, because you don't see him parading around the neighbor like you did the first chance you got. you didnt love that women, you had strong emotional ties to her but love is an under statement here.
Sports › Re: Nba Playoffs 08-predictions by onyinye2(f): 2:32pm On Jul 07, 2008
@Jesoul

the celtics are the best team. . . for now. but next season watch them have the record of the Chicago Bulls.
Sports › Re: Nba Playoffs 08-predictions by onyinye2(f): 2:30pm On Jul 07, 2008
SeanT21:
Watch the CAVS run over yall next season.
The cavs aint nothing. even in the NBA draft they really didnt pick to many players who fit their team.
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 2:27pm On Jul 07, 2008
Pataki:
For women like you, I will rather have a heart of Stone. What is there to show in love to you?


Arrogant ingrates!!!!!!
how would i be ungrateful?? and im not saying to show in a person you have to lavish them with gifts and all that yada yada. you can show love by doing simple things.
Romance › Re: Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them? by onyinye2(f): 2:24pm On Jul 07, 2008
smooooooth:
i have been in love and cheated before, so it doesnt follow that you don't love the person.there was a time my ex- was out of town and i hit it with a girl uptown, but when she come back i confessed and apologised , that shows i liked her, but fell for the temptation, which makes me human. so i don't agree wth una.
do u know that lusting in your heart self is cheating, s[b]o are u all going to tell me u have not fantasized about shagging someone else before,[/b] the fact that some of us(especially the ladies) can control our lust( which is an indirect way to cheat) shouldnt make us judge others
hmmm, now that i think about it . . . NO. you didnt love that girl. cause if you did, you wouldnt betray her trust in you and go and start messing with another woman. and mind you said it "shows i liker her" you didnt say love.
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 2:15pm On Jul 07, 2008
Pataki:
Did you mention LOVE? You do not know what love means at all!!!!!

Why start the love when you cannot finish it? Mind body and Soul me foot!

Giving ones heart to loving you women is a waste of time!!!!! grin grin
it is either that you are bold face lie or you have heart of stone. and umm who are you to tell me what love means??
Romance › Re: Do You Really Love Someone If You Cheat On Them? by onyinye2(f): 2:13pm On Jul 07, 2008
of course you obviously dont love a person if you cheat on them. there might be some strings attached but Love is so out of the question. the moment you act on temptation with another person when you are in a relationship, it shows that you dont love that person. because if you loved that person, you would never betray them, do wrong by them, and deceive them.
Romance › Re: How Can I Pick Up An Endless Fight Wit My Boyfriend by onyinye2(f): 1:58pm On Jul 07, 2008
Pataki:
This is just another thread to show why a guy must never give his heart to anything called LOVE!!!!!!!


It is so appalling to be reading such from a woman!!!!


What do you women want in life? undecided huh
oh whatever Pataki!! what kind of life is there when love does not stream in the source of the heart?? no life at all. amd what women want, THEY WANT TO BE LOVED MIND, SOUL ,AND BODY!!
Romance › Re: How Romantic are Nigerian Men (and Women)? by onyinye2(f): 1:53pm On Jul 07, 2008
even us naija people born i america have a little problem with the romance. because i grew up in a house hold where it was common not to say "I love you". so when i went to school and started developing relationships with people it was hard because i wasn't sure how to act naturally. i watch a lot of american romance movies so i knew what to do but it just didnt seem natural. but as i grew and experienced more with different cultures i did begin to start adapting to their ideas of love and romance.
Romance › Re: Intuitions In Relationships by onyinye2(f): 1:44pm On Jul 07, 2008
well before i enter a relationship, i like to make sure that any doubts are answered. if i have a hunch that you aint the faithful type then yeah im going to look into that. but i personally think there "signs" about a person before the relationship starts.
Poems For Review › Re: The Confessions Of A Love Slave Pt.1 by onyinye2(op): 1:31pm On Jul 07, 2008
@rotimy

My love, I forgive you and except,
All the promises you have set

I walked back to your house apprehensive,
My body was overflowing with multiple senses

When our eyes me, we wept with tears,
We shared a moment and forgot our fears

You serenaded me with kisses all over,
Your honey lips sent me to a daze, I wasn't sure if i was sober

You whisked me away to a place of uncertain,
When I came back, I was a different person

You gave me more than intimacy,
You fulfilled my freakiest fantasy

No longer will my heart burn with pain,
But sustain on lover's flame

I love you so much with all my heart,
I know things will never tear us apart

The trials we have gone through are done,
And I can now be your wife and have your son

I promise to be your gift from heaven,
To give you my body 24/7

My heart has been bruised but has healed,
My heart has been broken but now is sealed

My soul has been wounded but has revived,
My body has been empty but filled to live not subside

But I must ask you where we go from here,
Do we start from where we left off, or start a new year?

I promise we will never fight like the war in Al-Qaeda,
But become a power couple like Will and Jada.
Poems For Review › Re: ~fall Into Me~ by onyinye2(f): 2:58am On Jul 07, 2008
ohh how romantic!! i love it!! man your poem brings major competition to mines wink
Romance › Re: Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ? by onyinye2(f): 2:52am On Jul 07, 2008
Hannibal:
Ignore Doyin. . . . . . .He is high off his liquor tonight.
How can one say he would challenge a gang of daredevil robbers at gun-point because of his wife?? Pure madness!!!
When rape is inevitable, relax and enjoy it!!! cool cool cool

Naija babes are not that inclined to sell stories about how their husbands shagged em and stuffs!!!!
The chics from Naija love their privacy. . . . . .Some of em still feign virginity after having 4 kids in their marriage.
People are still conservative in Africa unlike the AA peops or the trailer park twats you see on Jerry Springer.
1. so you would tell your daughter this??

2. oka where do you get this info. i know a lot of conservative AA
Romance › Re: Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ? by onyinye2(f): 1:49am On Jul 07, 2008
mekaboy:
so a guy who is not rich stands the chance of loosing his love to a rich guy? are u saying a guy should make money first before talking of love ?
let me put it this way for you cause you seem to very curious about this. IF A GIRL TRULY LOVES YOU, MONEY WILL NOT STAND IN THE WAY. but if she is using you then well you better be real good friends with your accountant.

The Sly:
With other things . . . .Yeah i would
But with a scratch on ma skin. . . . . . . .I'm very sorry. . , . . .Life is way too short! cool
so not a true man.
Romance › Re: Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ? by onyinye2(f): 1:40am On Jul 07, 2008
doyin13:
Eeeeeyah nothing. . . . .I take my job as a man seriously cool cool

And I see it as the highest honour when a man puts his life on the line to protect his woman
ahh that is really romantic. don't know many guys who would do that.

@ The Sly

you wouldnt even defend your woman's honor?? not a true man.
Romance › Re: Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ? by onyinye2(f): 1:34am On Jul 07, 2008
mekaboy:
for me i will take the i love u i get from a wealthy girl more serious than the one from a poor girl.
oh i wish you would come to the states. ha ha ha, some of these woman you see as sincere will leave you hand cuffed to a bed, broke and alone cheesy
Romance › Re: Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ? by onyinye2(f): 1:26am On Jul 07, 2008
mekaboy:
if a rich girl tells a a guy she loves him, you can be 90% sure its true, because there is little or no reason to lie, but if s poor girl says she loves you, wait till she has a taste of the other part of life and see if she will still love you .
mayne i wish you would come to the states. it will be a eye opener. you think because a girl is rich she no longer sees men as an opportunity, then you got a lot of experiencing to do. mayne the girls will eat up your ATM card faster than you post your radical responses.
Romance › Re: Can A Poor Girl Love Genuinely ? by onyinye2(f): 1:17am On Jul 07, 2008
mekaboy:
Well love should not be based on what u will get in return, Love should not be based on comfort. you can only see true love in hardship.
there is some truth in that some what of a liable response. hardship those make the love between two stronger. if the love of two people can withstand the sorrows of life then that love is true. but love should also be about comfort. if im in love with the person im with then i there to be some comfort. i dont want to have to suffer the whole time. what kind of relationship is that.

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