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[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=155494.msg2614864#msg2614864 date=1217971894]It is easier said than done.
Cos when the man shows you the 6 packs and rolls eyes at you, you will just melt and be4 u know what is happening, it is the following morning.[/quote]Rhino!!!!!!!! child you is a FREAK!!!!! any how it doesn't matter what he tries to do, i want fall for it. Yes easier said then done, but i would never cheat on someone. NO matter what the temptation was. . .

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=155494.msg2614855#msg2614855 date=1217971570]so let us assume it is the guy that yu have always have a crush for a long time, and he says, if you don't tell, he wont tell.[/quote]Yeah temptation can be a witch but hell naw. I don't care what games he tries to play. I play by my own rules. And that is to stay faithful no matter who it is. Even if sexy gorgeous scrumptious Lloyd(long hair don't care) came to my door step telling me to go with him, i would never choose him over my man.

Oka Rhino but i mean if it happens the first time, i would confront the sender and tell him im a happily married woman. and that there is no future or chance between us. But if it happens again then i would weight it out to see if my husband really needs to know this.

[quote author=$$Rhino link=topic=155494.msg2614814#msg2614814 date=1217970944]how will u feel when u realize that a man has been keeping some from you and such information could lead to u being worried about how u trust him?[/quote]Oka im not saying keep secrets or vital information. Im talking about those little insignificant things. Like let's say you are walking to work and some low timer whistles at you. I mean im not going to go and tell my man what happened. Just shake it off and continue with my business. But to answer question, trust is a very big thing with me. And once you lose it with me, it is very hard to get back. So if my man was keeping secrets from me, well then so help him God when i found out.

First off it is oyinbo.

Oka now to answer your question.

Just assure your hubby that there is nothing to worry. Tell him that he has the master key to your heart not some white boy who doesn't know his boundaries. Tell him that you will confront this white boy and that you are ending his child's play

Second question: Gurlie you are going to have to understand that you can't be telling your husband EVERYTHING that happens to you. Im not saying you should keep secrets but sometimes you have to use that good judgment of yours and base if you should tell him or not.

I grew up abroad my whole life. I had all my education and experiences in the states. I and im greatful that I did. High school in the states is brutal. Im talking mad hard. I went to a very diverse school with pretty much every race was present. I had to go through racist teachers who basically put me through hell because i would always beat my white and asian counterparts in grades and class work. The teachers would discriminate between us. If a white or asian kid wanted to do something, no problem. But us blacks and hispanics were always seen as doing something bad. They constantly asking if we got a pass or whatever. But it didn't faze me cause living in the South, you get use to such people. Then the students. The kids were also pretty brutal. People think that it is only black kids that get into fights, but you are dead wrong. The problem with that is, when a black person was in a fight, the whole school wanted to see so then the problem escalated. But when some two white boys were fighting, no teacher or student would pay mind. But i enjoyed it. Im glad that i was exposed to different cultures and people. Im glad unlike Nigeria where you turn to your left then turn to your right, you still see the same race. I have seen all types of cultures, religions, customs, you name it. And surviving high school was a big accomplishment. Because you are under A LOT of pressure. Teacher pressure, parent pressure, pressure, gov't pressure, media pressure, and self pressure. But i survived. I graduated top 10 of my class. And mind you that most of those kids who graduated on top were of African descent not asian. So i loved growing up aboard. It had its challenges but i would change it for the world. If you can survive FOUR years of highschool, you can survive anything.

So you are from Cameroon i see . . . hmmm.

huxley:
You guys suffer from thinking problems. That explains why you are christians.

Dont' cross that line Huxley. it would be very dangerous and regretful move.

huxley:
how come you no dey answer my own questions, rampant.  I asked your job and you fobbed me off.  That's unfair.

Ha ha i don't know how you didn't notice what was happening. i saw it a mile away

@JeSoul
Gurlie you got him in a tight spot handle your biz.

@Huxley
How can you say that you have no sin?

rampant:

anyways i was just asking because im still wondering how a woman will live wt an atheist in a house?

You took the words right out of my mouth? He says he has no sin so i just wonder how a person can live around that?

MCmugu oka, can i ask you this? what is the purpose of this thread? to turn us Nigerians against each other? Or are you trying to draw up some attention?

@presdio
Actually i did the first two with out that much difficulty, while the last one. . . i had a little help one.

As i said in every thread like this. You have to target the mentality of the citizens. If the PEOPLE don't think they can do better, then nothing will change. When people finally lose the mentality of "You don't do nothing for me, then im not doing anything for you." When we relieve ourselves with this selfish mental state, then Nigeria will have a fighting chance. When people stop waiting for some White Knight to come and rescue them, we can do something. Let say a person sees how horrible the roads are around them. Instead of waiting for some else to do something or the gov't, they raise funds and fix it themselves. We will raise money for hospitals and libraries, lets' put roads and better schools in the equation. But instead we will complain and sit around eating kola nut with our friends then do anything. Look at the civil rights movements. In order for the blacks to see a better life, they first went to their mentality. They let them know that they are better than these white people are treating them. They are better then what these white people are telling them. When the blacks understood that, that is when change came. That is when they started to protest, pressure the gov't seek change. And change happened. And also they understood that it is not up to the leaders but up to the people. It is the people who make changes not the leaders. The leaders guide them in the right direction while the people put in the work. Back to the Civil Rights Movement, with the bus boycott. Martin Luther King GUIDED the people in not riding those racist buses. But it was the PEOPLE who put it in action. Until finally the gov't said it was unlawful to discriminate on the buses. Another example is the army. The Captains give the orders while the TROOPS are the ones who go out and complete those missions. If we Nigeria as a whole don't do something about this county, it shall cease to exist.

Well i still want to thank you though. atleast i can see the sentences in a different way.

Gamine you are so mean !!!!!!

huxley:
Absolutely, You got it. I have got no sin. In my worldview, i have no concept of sin. But that does not mean I am pefect. I have got my own fault which I work at everyday at eliminating. I set myself high moral standards, not based on any "holy" books.

So are you calling yourself a Saint?

ChinenyeN:
That's kind of what I had in mind, except I was going to say. . .

Americans are learning igbo. . . Igbo is good for studying/learning.
We plant cocoyam. . . Cocoyam is good for planting.
We are chasing a woman. . . The woman is good for chasing after. This is the only one I'm unsure of in translation.

Ndi Igbo ana m ekelekwa unu niile. Olee otu unu mere? Ahu o di unu ike?

Oh well, Chinenye I meela for correcting me. but this language is so really frustrating

If you mean touch as in "sex", then i would just catch him when he is not expecting it.

huxley:
what are the question. Sorry I have been dipping in and out and might have missed it.

onyinye2:
You are dodging mayne. Since you call yourself an atheist not a lost soul, instead of making your questions(judgments) on Christians, go and question(judge) the Muslims, the Buddhist, the Hindus,the Jehovah Witnesses, the Mormons, the Jews. Are that not religions too?

These questions.

@Mortiple
LOL. oh well im not sure what happened to Onyinye1 but Onyinye2 is fine

Huxley stop trying to dodge and answer the questions of my previous post.

huxley:
Funnily enough, I had Mormons on my doorstep today and I gave them roasting. In a way I regret giving them a rough time, but they interrupted me in the course of work and I said to myself, "OK give to them".

You are dodging mayne. Since you call yourself an atheist not a lost soul, instead of making your questions(judgments) on Christians, go and question(judge) the Muslims, the Buddhist, the Hindus,the Jehovah Witnesses, the Mormons, the Jews. Are that not religions too?

huxley:
Basically I ask to be educated about how christians can rationalise seeming contradictions. I also post a great deal to criticise what I fine faulty reasoning and downright immoral acts. Is there anything wrong with that?

Why do you only critize only Christians? Why don't you critize the Muslims, the Buddhists, the Mormons, the Jehovah Witnesses, Hindus?

@presdio

Ndi amelika na amu igbo, igbo mara mma omumu
People of america are learning ibgo, igbo is a good thing to learn.

Anyi na ako ede, ede mara mma okuko
We are planting coco yam, coco yam is good for planting

Anyi na acho nwanyi, nwanyi mara mma ochuchu.
We are looking for a woman, woman are good to look for.

I think i got some of it right

personally i as raised where the man was the breadwinner. But i wouldn't mind to you know be the one who at the time is supporting us. But i don't want to be the breadwinner of the family all the time. I guess i rather see the man do it. instead of me

Ahhhh man why you gotta be from houston and spitting this nonsense? well you are from harris county so that explains alot. dude if you like her tell her. dont untill it is too late

All eyes on me-----2pac

HCH3COO:
[I don't know why, it's not like you get a medal.  Just so happened that you were born into it.

Oka so i should be ashamed? I don't carry if i get any recognition for it. I'm glad that i was born into it.

HCH3COO:
that's what happens when you love sponge bob, or mickey mouse is it?

Oka spongebob and mickey mouse are throw so i don't know what you are jiving about.