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LikeAking:
In business the customers are the king, in this case they are the parents of the kids..

Try and understand..

Na ya type they kill biz in Nigeria..

The customer is always right, when u open yours you will understand..



For now enjoy ya attention..

I'm looking forward to a day your comment can ever make a complete sense on this platform. What do u mean by "Na my type go kill people Business" Did u read where I said I won Best Teacher of the year for last session?

Arda1000:
Is your boss gay?

No... Not at all

Good day my beautiful people here. Nairaland is my Family because I don't have a physical/Blood-related family and I believe I'll get the appropriate counsel here.

So, I work as a teacher of Mathematics in a Private School. The school is almost 3years since it's establishment while I'm over 2years working there.

My Employers(Husband & wife) are the Best you can ever have as far as the teaching job is concerned. They pay on time and are easygoing people. However, almost all the staff(42 staff) aren't happy with the fact that they give parents and students more concern at the detriment of the staff. As in, you can't get into a conflict with a learner or parent & ever expect to win the case even when it is obvious you're Right.

They allow the parents to decide what goes on in the school. And this isn't going down well with many of the staff. Parents moan a lot when u give them such chance. At a point I had to tell my boss that I was resigning, but he pleaded with me to stay and I stayed. But I'm really getting fed up.

The other thing is his incessant and unsolicited calls. I've worked in Eight schools in four different states of this country & I hate to be friends with my employers cos I have learnt a lot based on my previous experiences.

Such relationship doesn't end well cos I'm always at the receiving end. Truth is, I love the sch so much. The pay is not even up to 40k but I bless God. Aside doing my job, I also advise him on way forward as regards the sch. I even won the Best teacher's award last session.

I feel really uncomfortable with the way he calls me everyday even on weekends and odd hours. I no longer have my Privacy. He calls for very trivial reasons and it's about what I should do, how parents are complaining about some particular issues.

You hardly get applause for been dedicated to work. He is so quick to criticize, but never gives credit when he should. No matter how perfect you are at your job, once there's one little stain on it, it has dented every other good deeds. It's really so demoralizing and we the staff are not happy. There's no staff there that isn't hardworking, so why not overlook a few mistakes? I understand it's Business but his staff are also humans.

At times, I will have to either put off my two phones or put the phones on DND so as to avoid his calls. He has all my three lines. I had to stylishly ask some other close colleagues of mine if they also received such numerous calls form our Boss, but they said No.

So why is mine different?

IamAsiri:
Pray, so that someone can dash you the 5k.

I pray so Bro. I wish you had so u can help me sir

This country is finished I swear. The choas and uncertainty is just too much

Na Today we dey pray? Wetin don change?

Things are just getting worse by the day.

Abeg Make person help me with 5k make I use buy food cook abeg. I know say Nairalanders are very good people.

seunmsg:
Going on strike before the payment of September salary is ill advised. Where will the workers you claim to be fighting for get the money to stock food at home?

Labour really needs to be strategic and stop behaving like an arm of Peter Obi’s Labour Party. A partisan Labour union led by a partisan ethnic bigot will ultimately not help the cause of the workers.

Engagement is the only way. Sit down with the FG and other representatives of employers of Labour and engage them till a common ground is found. Shutting down the country will hurt the workers more than the government.

Federal workers have been paid September salaries already

So sad

Vision101:
Two options:
1) get her and make an offer to her asking for the breaking of the oath. It binds both of you.

2) The easiest.... accept Jesus as your personal lord and saviour. Be born again and start attending a serious bible believing church. Confess to your pastor and he will lead you through series of scriptural confessions. After that he will pray for you and break the oath. Ensure that you don't scam God by going back to the world.

Can God be scammed? Some of you end up saying nonsense when try to making sense

77star:
Very fine quote

'To make a mistake doesn't indicate that one is foolish'

Thanks brother

msmt:
This is now confirmed

Good evening, I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to share with you the current circumstances of my life. At present, I am facing the daunting challenge of unemployment. This situation, by itself, is already a significant burden, but what makes it even more challenging is that I have a young child who relies on me for care and support. Additionally, my mother lives with us, and I am her primary caregiver as well.

The year has brought with it an overwhelming tragedy for our family. Earlier this year, I lost my beloved husband due to a tragic accident. This devastating loss has not only left an emotional void in our lives but has also placed us in an extremely difficult financial situation. Coping with the emotional aftermath of such a loss is difficult enough, but the added strain of financial insecurity has made this period in our lives truly trying.

In light of these circumstances, I am reaching out with a heartfelt plea. I kindly request any assistance that can be offered, regardless of its size. Even the smallest contributions would be immensely appreciated, as they would go a long way in helping us secure the basic necessities of life, such as food and essential provisions. Your support during this trying time would be a ray of hope that illuminates our path forward.

Through it all, I maintain my faith and trust in the benevolence of the human spirit and the providence of a higher power. I believe that with the kindness of individuals like yourself, we can navigate these challenging times and find our way to a brighter future. May God continue to provide for all of our needs, and may you find fulfillment in your own life's journey.

Thank you for taking the time to read my message and for considering our situation. I wish you a wonderful day ahead, filled with positivity and blessings.

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You Scammer, if u think any Nairalander will send u money, then you must be the greatest fool ever existed on the surface of this earth. You opened this acc about five minutes ago with the sole intent to defraud people of their hard-earned money. May thunder strike you. May u continue to beg all your life

Ewuuu...

HanisahZuwy:
I don't know if I'll ever get a man to marry me. I look so older than my age. I'm in my twenties, but I look like a 53 years old woman. Even men
and women old enough to be my father and mother will be referring to me as ma. Some of them are even people who are older than me with 30-35 years. Most people doubt me when they ask for my age and I tell them. They feel I'm lying about my age. I feel I'm more than the age I tell them. I know some people look older than their age, but I don't think any could be worse than mine. Mine is that bad!


I don't know why this is so. I don't know why I look so older than my age.Why is it like that? Is there any one here in this kind of situation? How does that make you feel? Please, what can I do to remedy this? Is there anyone here like that? Or am I alone? What do you normally do to help yourself in this situation? I would like to hear from you if you're in this.

I expected u to have posted your pictures here so we can advise you appropriately

Oracleee:
You tatsed the honey before the moon, now you're lamenting. Why rush to make promises to a lady you are just meeting all in the name of infatuation and boredom.

That corona period ehnn, most guys made a mistake that will last a lifetime all in lieu of boredom that their brain tragically denoted as love

I swear Bro. I really messed up big time

Stubborn82:
What kind of blood oath did you guys do, is it that you guys cuts yourself and cross lick your blood then promise never to separate.
Or
You guys went to shrine or visit native doctor to do the blood oath for you?
Let me know the type you did so that I can tell you what to do

We cut our thumbs and licked the blood and promised never to leave each other. Not in a shrine or native doctors place

Jozilinn:
Just take a look at this fool from your reply alone it shows just how stupid you sound in reality, still trying to justify your actions right,so just because I said you foolishly did something you got angry and started voicing out trash,men like you are never ready to learn from others always going high over nothing I wouldn't be shocked if the said girl became frustrated,and rude because of your attitude, get and learn how to humble because if you know a lot about foolishness like you said up here,then you would know you ain't make any sense I pray God pulls you out of this one even though... get a church to do the needful because this shit like I said up here is real.

You're more foolish, senseless and stupid than you can ever imagine. So you believe in church, yet so Indecorous, crass, rude, disrespectful, callous and insensitive towards people's plight.
Were you forced to comment on this post? Since u cannot be respectful to people , pls avoid my post. Nonsense!

The hunger in dis country is something else now. Which Nairalander can help me pls? Haven't eaten since yesterday afternoon

davillian:
If you had gone to a native doctor or those white garment churches it would have been potent

Thank God I didn't

Chinjo2:
That is what your party gave us in 8 years.
Thank God you now have the opportunity to clear the mess your party created.
To even think that this is the same ministry Babatunde Raji Fashola presided over still baffles me.

No matter how competent you are, if you work under the dullard Buhari, you will never make a headway. Buhari is a failure. Failure and misfortunes are his Hallmark and these ugly features are contagious and infectious. He overburdened fashola with two ministries merged in one. Power, works and Housing. Fashola is a SAN for crying out loud, what does he know about power?

davillian:
That shit doesn't work when you do it yourself....
Move on with your life nothing will happen

Ok sir

Renewed shege banza....

Truvelisback:
Your cooked up stories just to get to FP.

Who FP help Oga? Are you a dunce or something? Pls Bleep off

Kingcalls:
Is she a festac girl

Ogoja girl in crossriver

Jozilinn:
Why did you foolishly take oath without trying to find out the person, you're just painting yourself good guy you aren't so try to find how you can contact her cos this shit is real.

If u have nothing meaningful to say, then stop being senseless in your comment Pls. I never painted myself as good except you have issues with your comprehension ability. Making mistakes doesn't make anyone look 'foolish' just as u insulted me up there, it is repeating same mistake that makes same person foolish. Mr perfect, I'm sure you haven't made a mistake or two before in your entire existence. You're more foolish than your comment

Truvelisback:
You whine yourself ? You claimed that you have lost the contact of her parents but how did you meet her dad? How did you get to know from her dad that she is an NCE holder? 😏

Kai... I really sympathise with you. I hope you don't ever waste money going school. Your comprehension skill is extremely low

iLoveYouToo:
Grow up man, this isn’t the movies. She lied to you, that alone has broken the oath.

NB: Blood oath, verbal oath, sex oath, all na the same. Just send her a text saying the words… I hereby sever ties with you and break the oath we took due to your insincerity and toxicity, you have nothing over me and I have nothing over you. Adios

I appreciate your input, but it's way beyond that sir. I really messed up going into the oath. God should pls forgive me. I regret it

Dshocker:
Oga blood oaths goes beyond licking each others blood and stuff.

Before blood oath will work, some incantations and ritual goes along with it, anything other than this, it will have no effect on either of you.

Zero your mind from negativity, else they come to fruition.

Wow... Ok sir. Thanks

07kjb:
Same Faith for her.

Bro see what you gonna do I believe she will be home by Christmas?

And she is materialistic right?

Do this:. When ever she is back appear more retched and poor,she will hate you passionately

Then approach her and make her the offer of breaking the oath together,she will accept since she is too materialistic

Ok. Thanks.
Her name is Faith

Blitzking:
sleeping with a girl u are not married to is worse than oath some girls have strong affiliation in the spirit world they would deal with you..but this girl too no pure..don't think she took that oath seriously..is she married now?

She isn't married yet. And I will never marry her in this life even if the opportunity presents itself ever!

ValarDoharis:
Forget about this nonsense about blood oath and move on with you life. Means absolutely nothing

Are you serious?

Goldensword:
Marry her and pay her bride price in full, but don't let her get pregnant for you, after few months ask for a divorce and get your bride price back, that way you will be free because you have fulfilled your promised of marrying her.

Lol... Too much sense will not kill u

udede:
oat is not removed like that, even tatoos are not that easy to get rid of.


But come oo, bros shey you know wetin be blood oat ?
Nobi quiker oat oo

I was just stupid and senseless to do that shit