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justi4jesu: And what might that be if i may ask

I wish i could tell you

justi4jesu: Makes no sense to me

Cos u dnt have the needed resource

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justi4jesu: what plot

100 by 100

Amuga: What do you hate about a tradition that forbids married women to commit adultery. Where i come from, no one needs to put the searchlight on you to be caught, as soon as you try that you either confess or face the repercusion.
Between not only sleeping with a man, it also applies to collecting money from another man (exclusive of families and relatives) without telling your husband.

Pls can u give some details abt the bolded. I think it's just superstitious scare tactics.

I don't like the tradition that confines kingship to a family or some section of the community. Like seriously, wtf would some people be singled out to be the ruling family/house even when it's obvious that they are not near to the best of mortals?. I think it should be democratised

curiouses: As stated in the article, majority of francophone countries are landlocked and lack natural resources which is a major determinant of a nation's development. Simple.

Not only that, they are brain-locked too, that's why they defers to France on every little issue

Tocheagle: THE ANSWER IS SIMPLE: The british govt gave independence to some extent while the french never gave at all but pretended to give . Go to all french speaking african Nations and you'll notice that they're not truely free as colonialism is bitting hard on their skin. Their govts can take a lil decision without contacting their bonjour masters .

Ya right, France Assimilation nd later Association colonial policy has made a slave of the Francos, it's so shameful.

Never liked it, guess it was cos they use to use it to wash ma head when i was little.

Impressive!

The grace of second chance. I was here

rickkid: Nobody is 'giving' you anything. You wouldn't be able to afford it anyway. Wait till somebody has used it like slippers for 5 years, then go and beg them. Then they might 'give' you.

OMG! See finishing.

JadeWilliam: I really need 2knw cos I went 2markt 2day&the price of old yam is annoying higher than new yam so I asked myself,is there anythng special abt old yam?

U are confused. If u dnt know dnt u jst buy d new one without complaining?

Matthewbriggs: Been bossy and having an opinion are two different things. Bossy Simply means controlling and manipulative.

Bossy is 'controling' yes. 'Manipulative' mba, not often. D Seductress is d manipulative

This question is primarily for the guys, but our babes should chip in their opinion too. 'Bossy and seductress' has one aim in common which is total control as far as possible. However, the method and tools employed by the two set are markedly different. Which of the two type of ladies will u choose if you are asked to make a choice?

MadCow1: Naaa.. Whats funny is that you speak so confidently about something you are clueless about.

I dont deal with Whimppy women. Its a turn off.

If you understood what I said about 'controlling her mind', you would realise that your questions are unnecessary.

It takes a Man of a different level of intellect to date|marry a bossy lady. Example are Husbands of women like: Okonjo-Iweala, Diezani, Akunyili Dora (of blessed memory), e.t.c. Those are Boss ladies who deal with peoples and governments bigger than their husbands yet their Husbands still have control over them. You think its by force?! NO! Its by using the 'Jedi Mind tricks'.

Bossy Women are Grown Man stuff, Biitch Niggas can stick to Instagram biitches. .

Tell em menh!

DukeNija: Don't mind that clueless kid. He equates being Bossy to being Confident. Ignorance.

Mr ' clueful' sir can u convince me otherwise?

vislabraye: . Expecting it from me is okay, but must I be bossed into it ? I love intelligent and smart ladies, but they are not necessarily bossy.

Men don't like to feel being bossed, that's why some lady's resorts to seduction.

seunoni34: Probably you don't know what a bossy woman looks like, you think it's all of this? It's probably very very far from it... It's worse than you think it is & no matter how "manly" you think you are gonna be to her to make her see you as the boss her "bossy" attitude still remains the same. And there is a chance that she will keep looking for ways to counter your "strong man" tactics.
So for how long are you gonna continue?
Those guys you tagged "weaklings" are not weak in that sense. They just got no energy to keep up with that sh*t not even when there are other alternatives.
Prevention is always better than cure Bro!!

Sir i have been around a few of em, earned their respect nd admiration so i can tell u that the picture u guys are painting is wrong. Bossy is not necessarily being arognant nd mean spirited. Place ur opinion on d table nd let her come with hers. If ur propsal is better she will follow it unless u. The problem most men have is that they want or expect their woman to accept their every wish.

vislabraye: . Can a bossy wife be submissive ? Can she trust your judgment ? Does she believe in you ? If your babe wants to change 70 percent of who you are, I think she's the one who's insecure.

It's human to want others to submite to u, trust ur judgment nd believes in u. U expect it from her nd she expects that from u. So whose wish or expectation do u think should be granted?.......

xp17: personally,I like bossy women. I like their confidence and they are less likely to cheat because of their egos. unlike one of those eddy Murphy asked to bark like a dog, they could cheat at every slightest woo, even from a weakling.

According to mattewBrigg , every woman has a button and the bossy ones are no excluded. if you really know the right button to push, they ll be like loyal milk to you.


every brave man don't get intimidated by the status quo of a lady.


Oya hit like if you feel me

I feel u bro, all these weaklings here are making it sound as if those class of women are devil himself. Truth is that those tendecies are a manifestation of confidence and can be found among men too. All these weaklings are just looking for someone the feels they are better than so they can form macho nd small little tin gods. #fact is that 'Only weak guy run from confident babes!

daviesmania: Currently in every part of Nigeria, a child belongs to whoever the Mother mention as the father & men can only do very little abt this. The last time i tried to deny my paternity status na police station i see myself..... Funny this men always have something to call very case, i was accused of wat they called 'failure to supply necessaries '.

Lmao! Paternity no be by force na, it can be proved nd otherwise...something is telling me u ar trying to evade responsibility. Joke apart, u are only responsible to provide necessaries in a legal marriage (statutory or traditional). Na scam police scam u so bro. If u believe the child is not urs, u can apply to have a paternity test to be carried out and know whr u stand

atlwireles: You lost me here brother easy and onicha I understood, the rest, I need you to explain. Abi no vex.

Lol! anyi na ndi onicha mmili bu ofu na i mean that "We and Onicha people are one na". The Eze Chima clan in Anioch north Delta state regards Onicha as one of them. So we know "Onicha" as Onicha mmili (mmili is water in Delta igbo) cos of river Niger and to differentiate it from the other "Onichas" (Onicha Ugbo, Onicha Olona and Onicha Ukwu). Hope u understand.

atlwireles: Chino, this your headline does injustice to us in delta. It is not Onitsha second Niger Bridge but second Niger bridge or Onitsha/Asaba second niger bridge.. You have completed eliminated us from the picture. Why is Asaba missing.

Brother easy o! anyi na ndi onicha mmili bu ofu na

Chubhie: I will have to agree with you on that based on Nairaland example. Nothing personal bro.

Nothing do u bro. Best of luck.

tosyne2much: hahahahahaha see how u sef com finish me

I no finish u oo! u still remain gan. All of us must learn one way or the other. I'm sure u dnt dull for that kind tins again na

deols: Who is ur sister?

Idioot dont get personal with me.Most of u are too stuupid to make use of ur common sense when talking issues.

You are really funny u know? You are the one who is taking it personal so chill. As for the rest of ur post, i can't place any meaning to it as per the topic. Gudluck to u

Chubhie: If you as a youth feel handicapped, There are other Better youths more worthy to run stuffs and will seize the moment when the time is right.

Niggure don't make it personal, the evidence abound here in Nairaland.

Chubhie: My guess is that 60% of this piece truly transpired in Aso Villa. I have refrained myself from commenting on political issues cos the current leadership and opposition has succeeded in transporting Us all back into the state of nature thereby defeating and making a mess of the fabrics through which government was formed. As a believer that nothing happens by accident, I have to convince myself that the old is probably enjoying their last ride before the new crop of young refined minds will take over the leadership of this great country and pilot affairs from under developed to a world best. It is doable.

Naive wish, the youths arn't better. Nigeria is fvcked since 1914

tosyne2much: I guess it is rightly wrong to try dat shit on first visit but wit d happenings dis days and d way our ladies claim to be wiser warrant guys to mak move at first visit.... During my OND days, I met a lady and d pace at which we got into each other was faster dan d pace at which Hussain Bolt takes off during 100m race..., I sometimes passed my nyt in her villa though she had a room mate... There was a day her room mate went out and informed her she wldnt return dat day... I go to her place and we slept together as usual but I respected her and felt I shldnt touch her as it was our first time sleepin one-on-one... Fast forward to few months later.... I was talkin to her room mate and jokingly told her I was cold and wished her frnd was ryt beside me to tak off d cold, d next tin she said was, evn if my friend is unclad in ur presence, u don't av d liver to do anytn... Woooooow !!! At dat instance, it was as if d ground shld open and swallow me up

Jehw guy of the 1st order ur own nobi here oh! Pls wait for a thread asking guys to narrate details of the most stwpid act of their jehw guy days..... She invited u to sleep with her nd u 'wanted' to respect her...meanwhile she's burning inside. Guess u were especting her to strip nd beg u bfor u gat her msg. Mitcheww!

Idowuogbo: See below! Ur ancient mentality needs tweaking.

Are we speaking the same language? He said he was advised to seek a legal redress nd i told him he has no legal remedy in law against d baby mama. Don't confuse the legal point of view nd my personal opinoin.