You have a tiny land but want to build 8 structures lapped on one another on it.
Low budget contractors, thin decking, poor architectural structure, and Foundation doesn't look rigid enough. Even someone who knows nothing about building houses could be scared to walk beside it.
MartinsD12: You saw all these red flags when she told you she is just a friend and you couldn't just break up with her , if I have anything with a girl once I notice she is into someone I simply disconnect I will tell her to move on with the guy simple you saw all these things you still went ahead to marry her. You made an avoidable mistake
My Advice to the OP is that before acting find money and do DNA test. The best action would be to do what you should have done a long time ago, walk away, but before doing that too make sure you have exhausted all other options which i think you have. Don't let woman matter kill u o, a cheating spouse is a great danger to their partner.
Guys, Guys this advice goes to y'all. Times are hard, hoes are all but loyal. When you meet that special woman that can't stop giving you red flags, please note these flags, don't overlook them because you are head-over-heels in love. Your eyes will eventually clear after marriage o. To prevent future threads like this one.
BetterHeadline: Hiire Sadiki, who lives in Masjidi Uthuman at Nawanjofu village, Butaleja District, reported from his hospital bed that he converted to Christianity on March 27 after months of dialogue with a Christian pastor. After refusing to observe the Islamic rituals of Ramadan, his wife found that he prayed in the name of Christ.
"She realized that I had converted to Christianity," Sadiki admitted, as per the Christian Headlines . "She questioned me because of the mode of my praying. I told her that I had believed in Issa [Jesus]."
Sadiki explained that his wife had studied the Koran at Bugembe Islamic Institute and was knowledgeable about the verses for punishment for apostasy. Upon finding out her husband had converted to Christianity, she left the room and called Muslim leaders. She later returned and started preparing supper.
"After 30 minutes, a lady who is a neighbor arrived and went to the kitchen, and after a short while, she left," Sadiki recounted. His pastor told Morning Star News that Sadiki experienced convulsions and vomiting after eating. The former sheikh called his pastor, who then came to Sadiki's house to take him to the hospital.
"As we arrived at the hospital, his condition worsened," the pastor recalled. "He started having diarrhea with blood, nausea, vomiting and severe abdominal pain."
Doctors diagnosed Sadiki with food poisoning and went on to treat him with ptomaine poisoning. The former sheikh's wife and children, however, were unaffected by the same food. Sadiki did not immediately respond to medication and his condition worsened. Tests revealed that his food was laden with a toxic substance related to organophosphate insecticides used to kill rats, the pastor reported.
The pastor added that Sadiki "lost some amount of blood." He called the former sheikh's wife to tell her about her husband's situation but she became "so annoyed and started abusing me for converting her husband," the pastor said. He added that the wife "did not want to be identified with him because he had become an infidel, and that she was leaving him and going back to her people, that her husband deserved death for forsaking Islam, and that she didn't want to relate with an infidel."
The pastor then called Sadiki's sister-in-law, who had a similar reaction. According to the pastor, the sister-in-law was also very bitter because their family had "incurred a great loss" after the sheikh left Islam. The pastor warned nurses and doctors not to let anyone approach Sadiki as his family members "might come and further harm him."
Sadiki's wife had left with their three children aged 16, 10, and six.
According to International Christian Concern , Muslims who convert to Christianity in Uganda often face "extreme danger" as they "lose relationships, security, safety, and other worldly comforts."
hmm that's new. Usually it's the man's family that resort to vawulence, too many cases where the man is disowned or endangered by the family. But wife too? She probably had other motives. Stay safe guys.
In movies, when people escape captivity like this, it opens a window for military operatives to follow the same window and infiltrate the abductors on a rescue mission, but it won't be the case here, because they all know where the abductors have been but are unable to wage war on the 1st citizens of Zoogeria.
If you could name yourself AntiMen, then you must be one of these weird Women's World people for reasons best known to you.
The truth is the devil (your flesh) is pushing you gradually, promising it could be sweet but i assure you it can not end well. Put the thought away, think about what you love the most about your husband, his and your vows, how much you [probs] love him, what you think you see in the priest. Try to revive the spark in your relationship.
If possible take a discrete vacation from the church. While you are at it, fast and pray for God's help because the more you entertain that thought the stronger it will be pushing you.
If all these don't work [which I believe it should], then you need to reconsider if you truly love your husband, and.. your moniker should have been FearWomen.
I have nothing to say about the cute man. The ignorance and oloshoism regulaarly displayed by this Nkechi babe online is devastating. I no even sabi say she dey married.
Maybe they have been in an open relationship. If not hw has he bn coping with her. She was wiggling her huge ass seductively online just recently, i just carry face
24brains: Can't someone talk sense into MUSLIMS to stop fighting for their gods? to serve GOD is by choice and not by force!!! that is why he did not make us ROBOTS but given the free will to choose whom to follow.
Nice try trying to unbrainwash the already brainwashed.
007s: Mr man relax, that guy most likely didn't know she was serious with the tweet. Like, who tweet during such an incident especially while fighting for their life?
Stop defending what's not, except you are just like him or worse. Should twitter put a 'serious' icon on serious tweets because people can be childish at times?
How often do you see people falsely claim a gunshot in a homicidal scenario? Nigeria is not safe for anybody so if a Nigerian claims he has been beaten, wounded, or shot, you should show empathy first if at all you would seek evidence next.
GOFRONT: Last time, Bubu called our Super Chickens and spoke with them.........Next thing, Super Chickens lost their match and the whole of the nation said it was because Bubu called them, that was why they failed to win........
Now question is; Did bubu call them again today against Ghana??.....Nop.
That last phone call neva work finish. Once your buubu rubs tough luck on a person or group of people, its hard to shake it off.
And to all of you werey saying the abolore guy 'did not know', 'was asking a question' etc, una no well. Replying 'are you dead now', without giving the benefit of a doubt more than shows he is a heartless person, just like most of our leaders. I know the internet does not forget, even if he locks his twitter now, it will return to haunt him.
What's even more shocking is the level of helplessness expressed by the youth, the whole twitter force descended on this guy and no one is bothered about calling out the vipers who call themselves leaders. It is only a matter of time before another train is targetted, and there may not be an Abolore to pour anger on.
InTheCloudySky: Asking a child questions about pornograhy (#2, #10, #18) is senselessness. The whole curriculum needs to be scrapped if they don't know that's unacceptable.
Errr.. the chances of it being staged is about 0.0002%.
Will laughed at the joke but was pushed to do something because if he hadn't, the woman who wasn't having it, would show him hell when he got home. He showed the world he is a weakling. He lost millions of fans and his reputation as a respectable, calm man took a toll. Denzel would never do that.
There are other ways he could have solved this 1. Mount the stage, collect the mic, and put out a stern warning not to make a joke out of his wife ever again. 2. Meet Chris backstage and break his nose with a heavy punch etc.
Blaming love now, it means he has no Self-Control too.
ayloveit: t Sunday night’s Oscar ceremony, Will Smith shocked the room by approaching the stage and slapping presenter Chris Rock in the face after the comedian made a joke about Smith’s wife, actor Jada Pinkett Smith.
Rock was on the Oscars stage presenting the category for best documentary. He began by making a few jokes about the audience members, including Pinkett Smith, referring to her as “G.I. Jane” due to her closely cropped hair. (Pinkett Smith has spoken in the past about her battle with alopecia.) Shortly after he made the joke, Smith walked to the stage and slapped Rock across the face. He then returned to his seat and shouted, “Keep my wife’s name out of your fucking mouth.”
At first, watching the telecast, it was unclear whether the assault was a planned bit. But the show’s audio immediately cut out after Smith slapped Rock, then stayed muted as Rock said “Will Smith just smacked the shit out of me” while Smith walked away. Smith then returned to his seat and shouted, “Keep my wife’s name out of your fucking mouth!”
“Wow, dude,” replied Rock “It was a G.I. Jane joke.”
Rock went on to present the documentary prize to Summer of Soul director Questlove. Immediately after, Sean “Diddy” Combs came onstage to introduce a clip montage celebrating the 50th anniversary of The Godfather. “I didn’t know that this year was going to be the most exciting Oscars ever!” he said. “Okay, Will, Chris—we’re going to solve that like family. But right now, we’re moving on with love.”
Per Vanity Fair’s Rebecca Ford, Denzel Washington pulled Smith to the side for a conversation after the exchange, kneeling alongside Pinkett Smith when the show returned from the commercial break. Tyler Perry also joined Washington and Smith during the commercial break. The Smiths, per Ford, have been holding hands since the assault occurred.
An Academy librarian also confirmed to VF’s Joy Press that this was likely the first time there had been real violence onstage at the ceremony. However, this was not the first time Rock had made jokes about Pinkett Smith at the Oscars. During the 2016 ceremony, which Rock hosted, he poked fun at Pinkett Smith for famously boycotting that year’s ceremony. “Jada boycotting the Oscars is like me boycotting Rihanna’s panties,” Rock said at the time. “I wasn’t invited.”
Smith is in attendance at this year’s Oscars competing for the best actor prize. He has been considered a front runner for months, thanks to his performance in the biopic King Richard.
Will Smith fvcked up. Used to think he was more than what he displayed. Maybe he could have warned Chris sternly when he later mounted the stage, but violence in that case makes him look weaker than he actually is.
Gamesmart: Yeah, also change the mindset of having savings for tough times in Nigeria because "you are not praying to lose your job".
The foolish things people say and they strongly think they are making sense.
I dont cal it 'saving for tough times', I call it backup funds and it did have its use one time like dat that i had my phone stolen with most of my money carted away with. I stomped on my backup fund, got a new phone and moved on like nothing happened. But it did happen and i did get depressed sometimes.
Bottom line: whether it is called 'tough times savings' or 'back up fund' or 'emergency fund' or just Savings, It can never be underrated.
Finally, it is best to put your finances in God's hands o, times are hard, people are more desperate. May God continue to secure you and yours.
tayepop: I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.
THERE ARE 3 CATEGORIES OF REASONS OP.. - Many people above 30 are ready to get married but marriageable ladies few for this country, awon fvkbabes na dem plenty pass - they just want your money and your surname to pull up to societal standards.
- The other set of people still don't think they are ready yet - Truth be told, Nigeria is a shithole, marrying on a 50k salary is a setup, and now 100k salary earners are getting affected. A chick once told me, our forefathers, her parents etc did not marry rich, they started from somewhere. Na Setup o Most of them can't endure what those women endured back then.
- There are some few people who don't feel marriage is a must and so wanna do it whenever/if-ever they feel like it. - Don't get left behind, some of these people wey dey shout say Marriage na Scam don dey plan engagement for corner.
I no fit blame anybody. Naija economy dey harsh and Women of this generation are something else, so be observant, no allow love blind your eyes, and commit your relationship to God's hands.
It's easy to blame OP now for falling cheaply for scammers. But na condition dey make crayfish bend o. Some situations might make you see a deceitful option and still be hoping somehow that it could be true. May it not be your portion. Amen.
OP you go overcome am for sure. Move closer to God - e get why. Devourers like this successfully stealing from you is a reminder that you can't do it on your own.
If it's any consolation, you are not the only one in your shoes as these scammers keep getting the better of Nigerians. Awwoof dey run Belle o. Make una take heed.