If you ask me, most of the men thought not to be cheating are either poor or yet to be caught.
Women are so wonderfully created, it's easy for them to enter our eyes and if your pocket is full, it's even easier to bed them. So whether it is in our nature or not, most men are cheaters is a fact. And by most we are talking really high numbers if we count the ones wey no get money but wan do maybe 85%/90%.
It's good for a man to be disciplined sha.
If you are the undisciplined type, keep things in moderation. Don't keep side affairs. If you must chop outside, have a good reason, chop and clean your mouth. Don't lose guard like Davido and don't go close to Anita, unless u r tired of your marriage.
Samantha124: Sure, women want an exclusive monogamous relationship, but you'll be shocked to find out that most of those women in long distance relationships or marriages also have side dudes and in most cases, their boyfriends or husbands never get to find out about it.
Most men who are in long distance relationships or marriages keep fathering children that are not biologically theirs...
You have spoken well. I'm sure many men and guys fall into this category. Do DNA on your children to avoid shalaye if you know you are in the above category.
InvertedHammer: / Remember that in this era of wokeism, an insecure man has been redefined as a man who knows his rights, stands his ground and refuses to simp to women.
If your lady says that you are insecure, that means you are doing everything right as a man. Endeavour to wear the "Insecurity" tag as a badge of honour. The last thing you wanna be called is a "nice man".
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True, they also use controlling if you monitor their activity small or give some orders. Once u no all these their woke definitions, they will guide you
Debater: May God punish the lady As for my wife, she was even the one that requested a DNA test when she gave birth to our first child last year, to prove her fidelity.
Most women hate when a man mentions DNA cos it shows he suspects you. They get angry especially when they’ve been faithful.
But as na ur wife say make una go do am, watch ur back o
Reminderz: when it comes to social relationships, most women are smart and not intelligent, while most men are intelligent and not smart...
women are brutally manipulative, cunning and powerful... underrate them at your own risk... a man without the redpill is a dead man walking... it only takes a predatory female to finish him off... dear awoken men, you have responsibilities to carry out on your sons and brothers to avoid them treading the same path of fallen men...
if the story is true which I believe it is due to a even more crazy scenarios I've experienced and seen, then I would say a man who let emotions override his logical ability will pay dearly for its consequences when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex...
the woman said the baby was born prematurely and he believed her... smh... and can anyone tell me? what is that route that she doesn't want to go through again? murder? bro when we warned many men here on the red flags to look out for, some foolish men and women commented that it's nothing to be worried about... well I hope they end up the same way as those fallen men... one lesson in life is to never try to save anyone who doesn't want to be saved.. life will surely deliver a very painful lesson to them, that's if they are lucky to be alive...
dear men, after speaking on some red flags to watch out for some couple of weeks ago and why it shouldn't be taken slightly... this is another set of red flags to look out for which I got from one of my divorced male friend who found out his wife was cheating on him...
1) always note down the last time you slept with your wife...
2) dna test is a must and most especially if you didn't meet her a virgin... try as much to find out and most especially on your first child...
3) her survival comes first and her child second... you're never considered or treated with less importance..
4) a woman will go any desperate lengths to get her secrets covered...
5) women will cheat on you and you may never find out till you die..
6) women will give you the craziest sex style and cook your favourite food, send you the best love letters and still be cheating on you...
7) a man who relies on a woman and believes everything a woman says is a man destined to fail...
8 ) your purpose and mission should come before any woman...
9) women are not going anywhere...
10) you can either love or understand woman, you can't do both... if I'm to choose, I will choose the latter because I've understood that women don't love men...
finally, save yourself man.. no one is coming to save you...
Where is the lie?
I dey normally give boys that #2 condition. Just do am comot mind
- I encourage you to stop masturbation in that period especially if you have never had sex. - Free your mind from worries. Try exercise and lead a healthy life to increase your testosterone. - Take an energy drink less than 6 hrs before ur planned sex, ordinary Fearless sef will do. If your case pass fearless take two stronger ones within two hours of the sex.. - Start the sex without a condom, keep your mind on the pleasure.
You are good to go
If all these no work, see your doctor or a strong pastor or both.
What steps do I need to take to know the size of my fiancée's finger size without letting her get involved (I'm planning a surprise proposal on her birthday).
N/B: she lives in outside my county All contributions are welcome.
Simple, buy rings of different sizes. If one no fit use the next size.
I don’t do surprises anyways na to ask you wetin b ur size ni
vibrant40: Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.
OP you asked an innocent question which you kinda already have an answer to.
That lady is playing you, she definitely feels smarter than you and is convinced she can get away with anything.
I will not fault you for allowing her ride you for this long, you have to end it asap.
It will be more terrible post marriage cos she will bring Seyi, Tunde, Femi, Dami and Ayo home and those ones na dem bad pass.
Breaking up when you are neck deep is not easy, but not when your life and future is at stake.
I will repeat this here, you guys should be wary of ladies that pull the breakup card during argument to handicap you. They are dangerous. Selah.
I download the movie on my Netflix yesterday and watched it
It was a nice movie I must confess The death of yaz pain me Stupid child cast their hidden location give he uncle... Anyway I nor blame the pikin sha..blood is thicker...every son got this loyalty to their ancestors and their fathers family
Webdevpro: I've been dating this girl for about 3yrs. Initially it was sweet and rosy untl she cheated. First time I forgave her then she repeated it again with another guy, still I forgave and yet again she did it with another guy. My attitudes towards her changed and although I loved her, I just started changing my attitude towards her and for the past 1yr we fight and quarrel all the time but cos I love her I'll still go to apologize to her and trying to make things work.
No comment for the OP but that he works on his self confidence as a man.
You hear every time not to take a lady that cheat once cos she is no longer in love with you but for fear of losing her u just dey crawl back to her.
It’s the situation of many young guys today. Don’t make a lady so powerful she feels you have no options besides her. She will always threaten to breakup so you can apologize.
MoDaniel: I can't stay in a relationship after being cheated. How can you love me then still cheat on me...?
If you are a lady, a guy can really love you and still cheat, not sure how it happens. If you are a guy, a lady who cheated on you must be dreaded or she might kill you..
chidiokay: beyond playing the tribal card, Can you point out the what you find insultive about the interview he granted.
I have so many friend thats have Japa in the last 6months, i was doing video call with my Ex in UK, i asked her to introduce me to her friends in class and she said they are all married that naa UK student parole most follow enter, My drive is the part she said even there lecturers knew the schooling thing was a sham, she said they do say it and laugh about it . that was round feb Those attacking the guy on twitter are just transferring aggression Tinubu will be inaugurated May 29 uk & us envoys will be present 🤣🤣
UK has the stats, they know this more than we do and they even follow our japa trends online. They just needed a testimonial bait and this guy fell for it. Expectedly, he is receiving all the attention.
Even he mentioned that they did not use d part where he said something good.
I was even expecting this earlier on cos people too japa with their families last year till now and we saw the dependent stats some months ago.
Data is good but a testimony from one of our own against us is golden.
This guy allowed himself to be used against his people. He generalized that nobody needs the degree they go there for, infact his interview nathrash. Na mumu person
nony43: You see all these Indians, Paki and Bangladesh when they see an open door they will drag their brothers along. Most of them are here in the UK and not through student route. But some Nigerians will shut the door so his brother won’t cross. Instead he prefers to give him stipends and pepper them with pictures from afar.
that guy daft walai. And this is the same thing he is using to hustle o. It's the same route he used.
The media never forgets, he will meet plenty Nigerians in Uk that will remind him of his cowardness and foolishness.
OloyeOfLagos: can 3.5m get him there and what are his chances of securing a good job there
Don't mind that person that mentioned Ireland. They recently even increased their POF minimum amount. Their visa processing takes about 2 months so if u are borrowing POF with interest, you can calculate ur debts.
Requested documents reach hundreds and they scrutinize applications sote any small mistake otilo.
Houses are too damn expensive in Ireland. If you go there on 3.5M (not possible even in ur dreams), you will sleep on the street or/and get deported soon.
Their dependant rules are very strict unlike Uk's.
If you can push for UK, please do. Or some other European countries.
MRAKPORS: I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife And my wife said she misses him too
Please is this proper?
OP you know ur wife more than we do, if you feel she should be suspected, demand transparency from her and put her on red-alert Observation mode.
I think u shd have waited to confront her tho cos 'i miss you' is easy for her to word her way out of and call you 'Insecure'. Nonetheless stay on her matter and after u born pikin dem, DNA test them so ur mind can be at rest.
"That man you want to vote for, may your children have his character in Jesus name..."
A Nigerian pentecostal Bishop has scattered the joy of Nigerians planning to vote extremely wicked and corrupt people in the forth coming election by praying that an awful destiny would befall their children.
It is a must watch for all Nigerians planning to vote so that you will not geopardize your children's future.
Why should anybody say amen. It can be a prayer or a curse or both. No one knows any candidate well enough to make such decrees about their children.
Plus it's Nigerian politicians we are talking here, those guys play a freakkin dirty game