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Family / Re: Why We Cheat On Our Spouses – Abuja Residents by orobs93(m): 3:15am On Jun 11, 2023
NoChill:


I hope Nigeria has gotten better under your daddy. Now a new daddy has entered. Idiot
You useless mofos put this country on cruise for 8 years.


Lol I’m so sorry brother please understand some of us had genuine intentions
Foreign Affairs / Re: Macron Warns Against Inflammatory Words After Biden’s Remark On Putin by orobs93(m): 2:43am On Mar 28, 2022
CoronaVirusPro:
It’s not a time to hide words. How best do you describe a dictator who is intoxicated with power, and causing bloodshed. A leader who does not know the meaning of the simple word “Sovereignty”

That statement is valid and accurate for the time.

Putin cannot continue to be power. It’s glaring he has mental issues and can trigger doom anytime.




Russians will decide their faith in months time, when hardship commences a hard reboot on they economy.


The thing tire me , I thought we all have freedom of speech and wanted truth to be spoken all times



Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 8:58pm On Jan 29, 2022
username12:
Hello,

I'll be arriving Toronto in April with a female friend. Do you have room sharing opportunities for both male and female students in Toronto, Yorkland, precisely?

Na sorry

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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 2:11am On Jan 25, 2022
peruxie:

Are you still up for this?

What’s your intended location ?
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 9:16am On Jan 22, 2022
[quote author=peruxie post=109574439]Hello guys, I am looking for a very nice affordable apartment in Toronto…kindly assist if you have any plug.thanks [/quote
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 5:57am On Jan 20, 2022
[quote author=ndubisik post=109455849]Yes I will send you an email

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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 3:13am On Jan 14, 2022
JORDAN55:
Hey guys,

Who knows any agents in toronto that can help with securing apartments in downtown Toronto?


You considering sharing ?
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 2:31am On Aug 04, 2021
amdman:


PM me
Sent you a pm please add me to the group if you can Orobs9
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 1:42pm On Jul 31, 2021
aranymous:

I'm currently in Windsor, looking to move to Mississauga/Brampton in a month or two at most. I'm also in the Cybersecurity field.
Hey bud I’m considering relocating to Toronto if the right roomie appears towards December though right now I’m in Brampton
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 9:18pm On Jun 22, 2021
ednut1:
join any WhatsApp or telegram group of Nigerians in Canada. People exchange cad for naira easily.

Where can we find this links please I would love to join one?
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 7:23am On Apr 19, 2021
Ellajingi:
Yes.. the ones I called either whats families or vegetarian or Indians.

I am still looking tho

Have you checked on Kijiji and FB Market place ?

If you are still interested I am
Willing to take up a 2bedroom with you I am a male though .. get back to me if interested
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 7:17am On Apr 19, 2021
Ellajingi:
Hi. I am looking for a room in Brampton Ontario. Willing to share kitchen and wash room Nd laundry room.

Please anyone ??�
thank you
Email me....

Can we share male ?
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 9:15pm On Apr 13, 2021
oyibo4real:


Anybody please, am also looking for accommodation around GTA

Will you share I am up for sharing

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Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 7:06pm On Apr 12, 2021
Fabguen:


Chaii...if only I had met you back then. I've left the province entirely.

Why did you leave ?
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 4:48am On Apr 12, 2021
Fabguen:
Any inside knowledge of apartments for rent for a single guy around GTA Ontario or neighbouring areas. Or anyone looking to share.

Blessings. Male/Female all welcome.

Hello are you still looking to share?
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 1:54am On Apr 12, 2021
Roommate needed Mississauga or Brampton
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 1:51am On Apr 12, 2021
NaijaCanadian28:


Lol
Please can you link me up with telegram or WhatsApp group for Toronto Gta axis
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 2:05am On Apr 09, 2021
Please someone should link me up with telegram or WhatsApp group in Gta axis very urgent thanks and anybody looking for roommate?
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 5:44am On Mar 18, 2021
Please some one should add me to gta telegram or whatsapp group
Family / Re: Are Best Friends Worth It? Mine Abandoned Me In The Streets Of A Foreign Country by orobs93(m): 2:17am On May 19, 2020
I have read some comments concerning your post and most people agree with my thoughts ...the best you can do give him hotel money if you feel like do not let him near your home if you don’t have the money or don’t feel like giving him any money tell him straight up you don’t have any money ...don’t feel bad about these decision love your neighbour as yourself not more than yourself ...






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quote author=slyfox35 post=89678595]Best friends or closest friends as some people term it is quite normal in the life of 80% of world population, I had one too.

We grew up as teens together, matured as adults together, he came to our house always and ate all his meals with us. My mom was really nice to him when she was alive. He wore my clothes and never returned them. I did not ask because my parents always provided for me although they were average citizens.

Then the worst thing in my life happened. I lost both my parents within the space of four years.
Things turned downhill for me (orphans do suffer a lot.. Too much suffering for you to believe there is even God in heaven who takes care of the fatherless and motherless).

My friend travelled to an African country. He kept telling me to come over there to work that things are better there. I kept declining but after a year of constant pressure, I decided to man up, packed my bags and travelled to meet him.

Guess what? I did not stay up to 5 days with him!!!

His attitude changed by the second day, he yells at me at every given opportunity, from his best friend, I turned to his boy, the heat he was given me was so bad that when he leaves the house and he comes back, I get scared just by hearing his footsteps. I virtually turned to a nonentity to him. I had no money on me because the little I had left, he collected it when I arrived. I knew no one, I felt so miserable and alone and I started regretting why I left Nigeria.

On the fifth day ,I woke up early in the morning and shook him up. I don’t know what got into me (but I am glad it did), I told him I can’t stay with him anymore and I want to leave. He did not even feel bad about this, he did not think of the fact that I know nothing and nowhere in this country. He let me go.

I packed my bag amid tears and went into the street. Mind you, I had no one to call back in Nigeria... It was tough on me but as a naija guy and as God will have it, I did not spend even a night on the streets. I was shocked that a total stranger took me in, clothed and fed me. He taught me everything he knows. I worked for 6 months and was able to make 2 million Naira. This was like a dream to me (If you get money ehn, to praise God Dey sweet o)

I came back to Nigeria, rented an apartment, furnished it and continued working from here.

This so called best friend of mine saw my posts and pictures on Facebook and video called me to check on me (I guess his eyes did not believe what he was seeing) he asked me if I am in a hotel, I said no, I am in my apartment. He was shocked (me I nor keep any grudge against you) he told me he was coming to Nigeria and that I should please forgive him and forget everything that happened. I told him I can forgive but can’t forget.

What surprised me most are this exact words he said “my guy, if I come, na your house I go relax first abeg”

Now my fellow Nairalanders, I am asking, how should I go about this?

I have forgiven him but should I allow him into my home?[/quote]
Family / Re: What Secret Is My Husband Hiding? by orobs93(m): 7:27pm On May 16, 2020
Tasha7:
Hello, I am a

The women he is chatting with or messaging are not threats to your marriage

black woman born and raised in North America and married to an Igbo man. We have been in a long distance relationship for the majority of our relationship. We got married almost 2 years ago while still long distance and he recently immigrated to Canada in Jan 2020 under the spousal sponsorship. He has a wonderful bond with my mother and sisters. (my father has passed). I have met his family and we get along very well.

Everything was going well until I was looking up something in the search history of the laptop we both share and stumbled across emails he had recently accessed. Please note, I could not read the email itself, I could only see the subject lines in the search history. I will attach pictures if possible. It wasn't a normal email account like yahoo or Gmail. It was from a website called: Roundcube webmail. I had never heard of it before. Anyway, there were a bunch of emails forwarded from a hotel in Istanbul where people were being asked to pay their outstanding hotel bill (unfortunately I didn't take a screenshot of the hotel stuff). In addition to that, there were emails to 2 different women (named Wendy and Elizabeth) with the subjects: re: Thank you for written, re: back from customs baby, re: I am so happy our paths have crossed re: I am writing you with much sadness in my heart etc. I will try to attach the screenshots I took.

Lastly, within the same search history, my husband seemed to have been looking up songs like: 'what songs make a woman feel confident about herself' and 'what if I never get over you', and 'songs that make a woman feel beautiful'.

I confronted my husband that same night. It was 2am. He was already sleeping. I woke him up bc I wanted to catch him off guard. His explanation was that his friend in Cyprus had a bad internet connection and asked him (my husband) to look up something in his friends email account. He insisted that he had no idea what his friend was up to, as it was none of his business. In the process of me confronting him, he grabbed the laptop from me and deleted the search history. I told him that was making him look real guilty and I started packing my things to leave. He pleaded and insisted it had nothing to do with him, it was his friends email account blah blah blah. I wanted to believe him but some things just didn't add up...like why was he looking up those songs if he was just checking his friends email for him? His only saving grace was that the subject lines were written with poor grammar and my husband has excellent English speaking and writing skills.

Fast forward a few weeks later, my husband left the bathroom to put out the garbage and accidentally left his phone in the bathroom playing music. This is significant because he has never parted from his phone from the day he arrived. He sleeps with his phone beside him. He showers and uses the bathroom with his phone beside him. When he cooks, he keeps his phone beside him. The day in question, I went into the bathroom and locked the door shortly after he left the bathroom. Side note: I only lock the door bc sometimes he jokingly sneaks up on me to scare me while I am in the shower, so to avoid being snuck up on, I sometimes lock the door. I digress. I commenced using the bathroom when I noticed that hubby left his phone on the side of the bathtub with Nigerian gospel music blasting. I was shocked! It was the first time he was separated from his phone! I didn't touch his phone and started using the bathroom. Within 15 seconds, my husband started knocking on the door saying he really needed to use the bathroom and wanted me to open the door. He was saying he really needed to pee. I asked him to hold a minute, because I was on the toilet. He said he didn't believe me and then things escalated from there. He started pounding really hard on the bathroom door, demanding that I open the door because he really needed to pee. He was eventually pounding so hard and yelling to the point where he started to lose his voice! I was freaked out! I told him to hold on and I would be done in a minute! But he wouldn't listen and eventually broke open the bathroom door by force...there is literally a large crack down the bathroom door now. I was shocked. Beyond words. Once he broke down the door, he quickly did a scan of the bathroom and saw his cellphone was right where he left it. I didn't touch it. Then he was more calm. He then reiterated that he really needed to pee and went into the shower, pulled the curtain and turned on the water.

I started freaking out. I started yelling telling him that he was a liar and if there was any doubt in my mind he was hiding something, I need not doubt it anymore! He broke down the bathroom door NOT because he really nedded to pee, but because he was so terrified I was going to snoop through his phone! Of course he denied it. He was saying that if that was the case, the first thing he would have done is grab his phone. I responded saying that he's not stupid, if he grabbed his phone first, it would have made him look guilty. After that blow up, we stopped talking to each other for days...

And here I am today. If anyone could provide me insight into what is going on, I would be so appreciative. What is this hotel stuff and what are these msgs to multiple women? I am thinking he may be involved in a 419 scam or his friend is a yahoo boy....but why is he using such poor grammar when he speaks and writes excellent English?

I am so stressed over all of this that it is literally consuming my every thought. My husband only denies everything and gets defensive then ignores me if I keep pushing for answers. Outside of this incident he is incredibly loving and affectionate and treats my mother so well. He cares so much about what she thinks of him.

I have turned to this forum with the hopes that someone would have more insight into what is going on. Thank you so much to anyone who has taken the time to read this very long post and respond. I truly appreciate it. Again, I attached photos, but scratched out names just in case.

Thank you,

Tasha
Foreign Affairs / Re: Saudi Arabia Abolishes Flogging As Punishment by orobs93(m): 4:50pm On Apr 25, 2020
Whyem15:
Good, but when will they abolish monarchy and move to democracy? Or when will they stop sawing people to bits in their embassy, or when will they stop jailing activist, or when will they stop blowing yemeni school bus and starving the yemeni people?
The crown Prince's has been decieving the word with the sham he calls reforms so that he will be accepted and supported by people all around the world. For close to five years now, he has only allowed women to drive, allowed women to enter stadiums and allowed abolished flogging. If he is serious about reforms, he


would have released the thousands of political prisoners he jailed because they dared to criticise him. He would have stopped the war in yemen and he would have renounced monarchy and called for elections. He should stop being an hypocrite.
Laws are changed by Parliaments or popular referendums in the "civilised" countries he is pretending to emulate, not by a de facto leader. We will never know the public opinion of the saudi people but thousands of people who hates other people and see other peoples' cultures will come here to masturbate.


Well if it’s working for them why change
Health / Re: Alopecia Areata: My Head Is Being Filled With Bald Patches, Help! by orobs93(m): 9:14pm On Feb 09, 2020
chipsypop:
Good day all. Sometime last year I just woke up one morning and noticed a bald patch in the middle of my head overnight. When I googled it I found out that it is called ALOPECIA AREATA and that it has no cure. I learnt that it is caused by the body's defence system fighting the hell cells for no reason.

Pls I would like to know if any Nairalander has experienced this before and how he or she handled it.

Mods Pls move to front page, abeg help a brother

From experience when I had my hair loss issues and even some skin defect I was given an ointment and a drug I think the medication contains some amount of steroid , not sure please see a doctor.
Travel / Re: Fantastic: My First Snow Experience In Europe 2020 (photos, Video) by orobs93(m): 7:48pm On Jan 20, 2020
egopersonified:
Abeg sofri disgrace us for there

I Dey tell you

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Celebrities / Re: Omashola Kola Oburoh And His Son, Milan Play Together (Photos) by orobs93(m): 5:34am On Jan 07, 2020
crowniran:
If you are interested in learning web development and you have no clue on where to get good materials or don't have enough cash, then I can give you access to my udemy account for just 3000 naira.. these are courses that go as high as 200$. There are other course you can find interest in too... contact me through my signature


Hey I am interested
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 16 by orobs93(m): 8:21pm On Oct 10, 2019
Please how do I go about getting a Canadian driving license I have my Nigerian license but got expired last month
mcobex:
Since it is one year, you should act as the sponsor (since you paid 20k yourself) , while your sister act as co-sponsor then she needs to transfer the balance of CAD 7k into your personal account (for the balance of your tuition fee + flight or your living expenses).
NB: I saw your PM , but sorry I don't attend to PMs for now. Feel free to ask all questions here and I will try to attend to them if I am chanced, also it gives other people the opportunity to say what they know so we can all learn .
Good luck
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 5:36am On Aug 25, 2019
A roommate or a partner to rent with around Toronto axis
billezzen:
what you looking for
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 7:53pm On Aug 21, 2019
billezzen:
is it still available
Me dey find I never see
Travel / Re: What Do Nigerians Do For A Living When They Travel Abroad? by orobs93(m): 4:19am On Aug 13, 2019
Optional09:
First is care job under the table until they are able to secure a legal status then study and start working as a nurse aid then Nursing, teaching at disabled kids school, some take course in IT like like computer technician, system analyst. cab driver, security job, Uber/lyft, Pharmacist, Doordash Delivery, Mechanics, Doctors, Construction Engineer, in Texas they work at the oil rig. Nigerians work. no sleep


A


*This is American experience Europe may be different


Abeg where I go easily see under the table job for Toronto axis
Travel / Re: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by orobs93(m): 6:01am On Aug 12, 2019
Please who needs a roommate gta or Toronto

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