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So sad.

I saw this coming when I wrote this on a WhatsApp group in April.

sleek214:
I disagree with you. Op is not making fun of her. Op is trying to pass a message. People doing this kind of legit hustle here in Nigeria are looked down on but they go abroad to do worse job especially in the UK where most of them go to wipe old people's bumbum and change pampers for them. People abroad keep praying for our Naira to go bad so when they changed the little dollar they have, it will look big. I'm sure even the op self is doing Ogwaja work in her place of work.

It will shock you that the Op is probably a cleaner but she is shocked.

Infact the OP is not in yankee cos nobody go dey shocked seeing anybody doing any kind of legit work.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I just saw Belinda Effah deliver food for Ubereats to someone that works in my facility here in the USA…

I was so shocked…

This is a Nigerian celebrity, y’all…[/color]

You were so shocked because of the crazy naija mindset.

Even Joseph benjamin is doing uber in yankee...

But guess what, they are living a good life far better than the fake life people live in naija.

So please face front and let people do honest paid jobs.

Aproko

malali:
1-Freedom of Speech


2-Freedom after speech


Nigerian media has more free speech. As long as you do not rely on the government for your income.

You guys don't read.

He actually sent a death threat... That is different from freedom of speech.

But one man can destroy a country with his unguarded utterances.

Believe it or not, that singular word *Subsidy gone* made be Tinubu without due consultation with stake holders is the reason Nigeria is where she is today.

This is not a bad idea.

Meektunz:
Last week Saturday was the day I would never forget in a hurry, it was a Saturday I nearly died. My wife met me in the room while i was relaxing and she said she has something to tell me, so I said okay she should go ahead and the next thing she said was please she is sorry for everything, that she is tired of keeping it for 6 years and that she is ready for the outcome of this. I replied by saying "you're keeping me in too much suspense, please talk". Then she said i'm not the father of our first child, that the father is back for him claiming responsibility. Though I've always had doubt about the child right from birth. She said the father denied being responsible for the pregnancy when she got pregnant that was why she forced it on me. She started apologizing that I should forgive her, that she was young and naive. I couldn't utter a word due to how i was feeling.

She went down to our pastor's office and told him everything and that she wants to go back to her parent's house, then he asked her why and she said it's not as if marriage has been smooth and that I've sent her out of the house severally when we had issues. Etc. For goodness sake is that the issue on ground?

From then till today I've not understood myself uptil today, I was admitted in the hospital for good three days, I was discharged yesterday evening. Till now I haven't said anything yet due to my health condition. She kept begging me everyday day, right from the hospital, uptil today. Guys, I wish death could just take me, this lady has shattered me. I wish you know what I passed through for that child.

I remember when she was in labour for that child, i had to treck all around this city of Abuja from place to place begging people I know for little assistance so I could buy little things for the birth of the child, if I express what I passed through, Oh God... Let me stop here. Please guys what should I do? Right now I just want to get better and send her back to her parent's house. I'm tired of crying for almost 5 days now.

90% of first children do not belong to the man.

Very beautiful lady.

The killers must be punished.

Let us pray for the president asking GOD to grant him the strength and good health to finish his tenure.

I see a funny twist in Aso Rock that will rock the political terrain.

I rest my case.

GOD bless President Bola Tinubu and GOD bless the federal republic of Nigeria.

paxonel:
Let's assume that hellfire is a place everybody will go when they do something wrong. Will a Christian who commits suicide go to hellfire?

Why will anyone think that committing suicide will anul all the born again effort he has been living through out his life until the very day he decided to kill himself?
Is it so written in the bible?

But here is what i saw in the bible.

Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

That means if you commit sin you will die.

In this context, the person who commit sin is the person who refused to believe in Christ.

But the person who believe in Christ you will never die, because eternal life is a gift.

So, why will anyone think that someone who believes in Christ will die simply because he had sinned by commiting suicide?

God does not judge the way man does.

Suicide is as a result of mental disorder.

Before anyone commits suicide he or she first drifts into madness(mental illness). You can't judge a mentally ill person.

So in my opinion, someone can commit suicide and still end up in heaven.

God is the ultimate judge.

Goodlady:
Sapasenator just bombed my heart with a lovely email.
I must say that I appreciate those Sweetwords.
Sweetplum isn't someone you can buy with words or material things but I m a fan of poetry and literature.
Sapa, you are the only boy here with brain & ll probably know how to take care of a woman.
Thanks for your msg.

You must be a piscean.

Only a mad person will see it as a priority considering what the country is facing at the moment.

Skooltynz:
You sure she is alive?

No be today naija don spoil imagine I was 1 year old 1994... now am 30 still it even worse

I was about 19

Bongadu:
they only care about getting off and expect guys to do all the work, mfw you're nothing more than an autonomous meat Love Machine to them

God bless you for this.

Mostof them are so boring in bed.

They think guys are machine and annoyingly, some of them have bodies capable of making a guy lose his erection yet they just think the guy should see their bodies and have erection.

Rubbish n nonsense.

My question is.

Will there be 24hours power supply if the hike is implemented?

TheWinterBird:
Inappropriate is an understatement. Shame on him.

Says a lady who has probably slept with a married man or a lady who has fornicated several times and so on...

Very easy to judge but the truth is that we all are humans.

How come you are not judging the btch who was also involved consentually?

Yes he goofed but please don't be too judgemental

Icezak:
Gaddamit!

Make una dey fear who no fear woman.
She don collect free Boltox, why not not just go her way?

No threat whatsoever, just two adult consenting to adultery, dem protect one n crucify the other.
Why are women like this, plotting this man for morethan a year, exchanging text messages sending pix........only with evil implicative intent.

So as a Dr now you can not admire even the beauty of woman or ask a fine girl out for a date simply because she is your patient, if him go carry olosho na dem go still complain of his Proffesionnal reputation, so who they want make him d nack sef?


Sorry Mr Esho,
i.e if you no do pass as wetin e suppose be for a normal man to ask of attractive kpakus, without taking advantage.

Career don ruin

The thing just dey vex me.

Very evil lady.

You consented, sent him lewd pics and messages just for you to turn around and destroy his source of livelihood.

Same way a guy in the UK took a lady home from the club for casual sx.

After they did the thing the naija guy told the lady in the morning that he needs to go to work but the last suggested that she stays in his apartment until he comes back and the guy refused.

Boom she went to the police to claim that the guy took advantage of her and took her to his house when she was drunk... In other words, the guy raped her... Apparently, she felt she was used just because the guy insisted she leaves his apartment cos he has to go to work.

You all know the rest of the story.

This is why many guys are celibate in the western world cos they will rather be than risk their sanity and life dating these western ladies and this is also one of the reasons many ladies will due single in the western world

advanceDNA:
The doctor be like......Is it ur Botox.....??



See life ...two adult consensually straff each, smile comot for fornication venue......one don lose means of daily bread.....the other dey form victim....Oloshó for that matter ooooo, wey collect botox as payment....


Career don ruin

The thing weak me aswear

Anybody condemning the doctor is a hypocrite.

Just unfortunate that laws are laws but at the end of the day we all are humans.

Sorry Doc... I guess you need to move to another country.

I don't blame her at all.

I blame the stupid simpletons.

MemphitzDgreat1:
Truly, money can't get you anything you want.
Imagine Davido begging and pleading for tohtoh 😒😏

It is all for stunt for his music concert.

Veecruz:
Good. So answer this.

The bible Said "adultery even takes place without having sex", so explain, how can a married man have a second wife where he has already committed adultery just by looking at another woman who is not his wife?

You are a confused fellow biko stop quoting me.

Was that verse referring to a MARRIED Man or men generally.

Veecruz:
Is polygamy not a married person committing adultery on his first wife to the extent of marrying the person he commited adultery with like this man has confessed?

Re: Marrying A Second Wife Good Or Bad I Need Ur Opinion by Blunttruth: 5:27pm On Aug 05, 2022
Trustedapparel:
I am a married man with 2kids but their is one big lady that I met she loves me very much ....since I Bleep that lady I can't get my eyes of her ....I have been thinking about her since after the marathon sex we hard last month .... honestly[b] I want to make her my second wife[/b]....she has agreed that she will b my second....but some of my family' n friends are not in support of it....

And Is adultery not about married people committing a sin called adultery?



Is it not already settled that there is adultery in monogamy? So the focus now is in polygamy, so your response here is off point!

You are just complicating matters for yourself.

Face the subject and stop parambulating.

Leave adultery and fornication out of the equation.

I can be married and see a lady I desire and then marry her before sleeping with her.. In that case, I'm not committing adultery cos I AM MARRIED TO HER.

So you see why I kept insisting that your arguement is baseless.

Its like condemning marriage in its entirety because you feel you can't date a lady without sex b4 you marry her.

StillDtruth:
I'm arguing on you people saying "The bible have not once condemned the idea of having two wives or more" whereas the bible via God's Laws and Ordinances has already killed polygamy especially the sin of Adultery and covenant breaking and bigamy is right in the middle of it?

So, do you think polygamy can be done without breaking A Law?

How can you be putting adultery and polygamy in one equation?

Is monogamy and fornication not in the same boat abi how many people marry their fiancee without having prior carnal knowledge of them?

This was why I said your argument is totally baseless.

StillDtruth:
But the word "thou shalt not commit adultery" and other Laws are there.

So please, how can a person do polygamy without breaking The Law?

Habba!

Are you arguing on the basis of sin or polygamy?

Most people fornicate s biko no bring that funny twist.

The point is that Polygamy was never and will never be a sin.

It is permissible just as Divorce was permissible even when these were not God's original plan.

So how can people embrace divorce and not embrace polygamy

Krankhead:
come to USA and see baby mama and baby daddy galore. That's why you will see the double standard of the west. Whenever they say Nigerians has many wives, I always replied them by saying you have five chidren and 5 Baby DADDY and the men series of baby mama's. I have an American friend who has 9 children with 8 women, he doesn't even work No child support,

In the UK they see people living together as a couple EVEN WHEN THERE IS NO FORMAL MARRIAGE between them.

Yet the same people are faulting A MARRIAGE BETWEEN A MAN AND TWO WOMEN.

How else can be define double standard.

Fesline:
This Three bible verses below demands that only the bishops, deacons be husband of one wife....that is, you can have more than one wife as long as you don't aspire this posts.


Although, it is advisable to have only one wife to reduce the stress of taking care of them which come with a lot of responsibilities.

The bible have not once condemned the idea of having two wives or more but it encourages we have our own wife to avoid furnication.

what the bible/God word always disagreed/hate is divorce, furnication and adultery.

Check this out
1 Timothy 3:2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;

1 Timothy 3:12 Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.

Titus 1:6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.

This is only advisory and not a mandate.

The word must does not appear in all manuscripts and even at that, it is an advise.

Natbrowny:
After plenty observation.

The West selling the baby mama culture to women but condemning polygamy is something i will never understand!

Future has 8 baby mamas
Nick Canon has 6 baby mamas

but polygamy is evil according to the WEST!

God bless you.

I live in the UK where every sort of perverted relationship is allowed but polygamy.

Make this make sense.

God1000:
His father married 13 wives with 53 children, so this is not surprising coming from him.


1 Corinthians 7 and states that polygamy is unlawful; and that one man is to have but one wife, and to keep to her; and that one woman is to have but one husband, and to keep to him and the wife only has a power over the husband's body, a right to it, and may claim the use of it: this power over

Madness is when you misquote the bible.

Stop this madness.

omojeesu:
1. God's PERFECT WILL IS MONOGAMY as established in the garden of Eden.

2. Polygamy entered after sin entered the world.

3. Before the law Abraham (the Friend of God), Jacob (Israel), etc were polygamists.

4. After the law came polygamy continued. David and Solomon were polygamists.

5. Jesus' discussion with the religious hypocrites, the Pharisees, was about divorce not polygamy and Jesus told them that DIVORCE IS NOT THE PERFECT WILL of God! ....

6. CHRISTIANITY RESTORED GOD'S PERFECT WILL FOR MONOGAMY because Jesus is symbolically the "husband" of "one wife", His "Bride", "Body", "Church".

7. If UNMARRIED BEFORE BECOMING A CHRISTIAN you MUST MARRY ONLY ONE WIFE who MUST be a Christian.

8. If ALREADY MARRIED BEFORE BECOMING A CHRISTIAN you don't need to divorce your UNBELIEVING wife / wives . You should encourage her / them to give her / their own life / lives to Christ. HOWEVER, if she decides to leave you, you can't force her to stay...

9. MARRIAGE or SEX OUTSIDE a MONOGAMOUS Christian marriage is SIN of ADULTERY.

10. POLYGAMISTS BEFORE BECOMING CHRISTIANS are welcome. It is up to each wife to personally give her life to Christ just as applied to number 8 above.

11. The POLYGAMIST IN CHURCH however SHOULD NOT be GIVEN RESPONSIBILITY for official SPIRITUAL OVERSIGHT so that no precedent is laid (Sebi brother Lagbaja niyawo meji! 😞)

12. In essence GOD ISN'T BOTHERED ABOUT POLYGAMY OUTSIDE CHRISTIANITY. What HE WON'T ACCEPT is WANTING to BECOME a POLYGAMIST AFTER you HAVE BECOME BORN AGAIN & MARRIED the CHRISTIAN WAY!

This is a summary on the discussion. Anything outside this is man made. This is Bible's non-denominational position. No one needs to accept it.

You were making sense until you got to number 7.

Arrant Balderdash... Show me a scripture that specifically says you MUST marry one wife.

FACT.

I HAVE said it many times that Paul only advised General overseers to be husband of one wife.

It is not a mandate.

Gullible Christians will argue this fact.

Audio gain.

Morbeta11:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/04/supreme-court-rules-on-13-years-suit-against-p-square-awards-n1m-cost/

When they ought to have paid back the dude's money with apologies, they arrogantly chose to spend the money in court.

Just imagine.

What they thought was gone and forgotten has come back to hunt them at a time when they are not as rich as famous as they were(argue with your keypad)

It is well.