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I found out about NL just last month! I was reading the news about how an online forum called NL is a good litmus test for potentially shady job interviews. I googled and found NL, a faceless forum with a thread for almost any topic imaginable. You can actually have intelligent discussions which is a far cry from FB, Instagram and all those other social media platforms. Hubby is skeptical and says to watch out for perverts, but I havent met any yet...everyone has been very respectful towards me, so far. The forum is entertaining and enlightening and I wish I had found it sooner.

Can't even comprehend your faithfulness towards me and my family. Your joy permeates our very existence. You overwhelm me with Your loving kindness. Great God, I adore You.....

For shame

Stephen2324:
Please which song can you recommend for someone with fresh heartbreak?

Pls, look up Mike Abdul on YouTube and jam to any of his praise/worship songs. Make sure you boogie till you sweat and the room starts to spin. Feel better

OP your fiance likely has an episiotomy that didnt heal properly the first go around and that's why it keeps reopening. How frustrating and painful for her! I'm surprised this wasn't detected before because the surgeon who made the original incision should inspect the vagina, cervix, perineum, and anus for any developing complications. Was it a 4th degree tear, involving the rectal tissue? It should have been monitored for weeks and even months afterwards to ensure it heals properly. Pls have her see a reputable OB/GYN to have this problem surgically fixed and it's very doable. Most women take at least 12 weeks or longer to heal enough to enjoy intercourse again but it shouldn't extend into years. Since you say you love her, ride this wave with her and she will appreciate you all the more for your patience and your care. Best wishes

Laudable

Thank God there are still places in the world that show that political correctness and tolerance for rubbish are not synonymous.

Don't let nostalgia get you down. Best wishes to you.

Rest on, sweet angel....

Make hay while the sun shines

House Call

successhungry:
E ku ile oooo!
I was on this thread where I learnt alot in 2019; then I said till 2022.
Alas! I got a BFP today.
Which team do I join now *flips hands in the air* #teamFebruary2022tillscansaysotherwise

Congrats on your BFP!!!! So exciting

Matheusmartin:
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Done already?

Yes, graduated years ago

Matheusmartin:
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Pharmacy or nursing?

Nursing

Doing very little yields little rewards

Into perpetual transitions

Pharmacology. I hate cramming. I aced it eventually but cramming for it was such a drag

Game?
Life is not a game; we all have to lie on our bed the we laid it.

Ewww gross

House Party

shakir0802:
Attitude speak louder than voice

Voice your concerns and never suppress your true feelings

Just keep it moving. Continue to prayerfully apply for other positions. Don't let one opportunity tie you down in limbo; plenty of fish in the sea as long as your qualifications are on point. That ur one call to find out your status is enough, don't call anymore. If they want you, they will chase you and track you down via phone/email/linkdin etc.

States of mind is a manifestation of different attitudes

GeeCee:
Under reckless environment

Entering new transactions

Hour glass

He wrote this last year...
https://www.nairaland.com/5650519/wife-still-cheating#86090707

....[/quote]Wow, thanks for this insight and backstory; it clarifies a lot of things. OP, your wife didn't just cheat on you, she is a sex addict. She is the same as a drug addict, reasoning with her will not change anything. Forget her promises for reformation, she can never change unless she goes for rehabilitation and detoxes completely. Can drug addicts stop themselves from bankrupting their lives and destiny? No, they cannot and in this case, sex is her drug and she will always need her daily fix until something drastic changes. Sometimes addicts have to be left to hit rock bottom before real change can come. Here in the US, they have rehabilitation centers for sex addicts. They are committed for weeks with no contact with the outside world. No phone, no internet, and intensive therapy. And even then, some of them relapse and go back to their vomit when they come out. I dunno if they have this in Naija but you can also hold her accountable and she has to win your trust back. No more chatting erotically with random dudes! Even if they do not see physically, this is still an emotional affair which studies show can be even more devastating than a physical one. If you confiscate her phone for a week you will see how she will cry and beg you...she might even refuse to eat.....that will show you the level of the addiction. Honestly, I don't even know what to say anymore. It's women like this that give these 'redpillers' the ammunition to demonize all women saying ALL women are whores and disloyal. OP give yourself a real chance to heal and let your wife get real help for her sexual addiction....The last thing you need is to be an enabler, making excuses for her. The best way to love her right now is to give her the space to fix this addiction. She needs to decide on her own to cut out this deplorable behavior once and for all. I've read of sex addicts who give away their phones, computers, tablets, TVs, etc; turning their back on anything that can bring temptation. An alcoholic should not even go near a club or have a taste of wine....same thing, a sex addict has to run far from temptation. You also need therapy; the trauma is much and you will likely feel it for years to come. Prayers your way....

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Easyincome24:
There is still no none fact why stew prepared with grinding stone tastes differently.

Some have argued about it that it's not the store in particular but the person preparing it.

It is my opinion that the stone has a lot to do with it. The closest I have come to replicating the taste of the stone ground 'ata dindin' is using a food processor without water to grind

Used to use it as a single gal in Naija and I remember the stew tastes delicious in a unique way compared to using blender. Wish I could get my hands on one here...

Power, Change, Health

These kids are babies, they don't know any better. It's a frustrating mess though so important for me not to react immediately with the annoyance I may feel. I would get them out of their wet clothes, clean up and then calm down. Once the heat of the moment has subsided, they will need a good talking to No repeat performances will be stressed

Wow! So introverts like me have a thread all to ourselves....that's cool, truly something for everyone on NL