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Health / Re: I'm About To Abort A 4-Month Pregnancy Tomoro, My Babe Is So Scared! Help Pls by Oyolohi24: 8:32pm On Jan 11, 2022
My humble advise: leave that pregnancy Incase of your unknown future. The stress won't kill you but will pass with time. I am still regretting mine I did previously now No baby from my wife after 6yrs of marriage. That incoming baby might be the only one God destined for you. Pls leave it and talk to God to open way for you cos of Her. quote author=Mylordmygod1 post=109247872]Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

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Career / Re: Two Jobs I Will Advice My Children Against. by Oyolohi24: 3:23am On Dec 27, 2021
May be cos any flights managing $ operating by Nigerian people can fail in operation any time cos of quacks employed on tribalism ground. quote author=DropsMic post=108824725]

It's obvious you wrote this one out of pure ignorance [/quote]
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Thinks There's Nothing Wrong With Her Sleeping Over At Guy's Place by Oyolohi24: 2:13am On Dec 26, 2021
Is this all you have to say? You have insults in your DNA. Too bad of you. Is it not better you keep quiet than saying all this trash?t
BlackfireX:
Who ??


Now listen you incompetent simp imp.. you were never the lovely fully endowed girl's boyfriend... how do I put it you are not even a side guy... you are like the last mugu in her scale of preference.. and know this that she is even good to you by associating with a rug rat like you...

Also note that you are blocking the progress of that lovely girl with your poverty..shabby..myopic life

Can you give me her digit let me bless her with 200k for been lovely endowed
Crime / Re: Husband Kidnaps His Wife & Murders Her To Inherit Her Properties In Ebonyi by Oyolohi24: 2:29am On Dec 16, 2021
It means useless person in idoma language. quote author=davodyguy post=108534424]What does Efulefu mean?[/quote]
Events / Re: Couple Danced As Money Rained Heavily On Them At Their Wedding (Video) by Oyolohi24: 9:33pm On Dec 14, 2021
I hope you are a better person too, cos that better man is praying for a better woman too.
obembet:
Goobd remember me too, I want to marry beta man next year o
Romance / Re: Lady Sheds Tears On Facebook Over Her Inability To Land A Husband Before Dec. 4 by Oyolohi24: 3:35am On Dec 01, 2021
If a man pity you $ get married to you now, you will later forget they help u out when you cried one time, but you will start giving such a man nightmare. As for me, still stay $ learn lesson. Womecan full up in marriage meen nuote author=drizslim post=108086717]A beautiful Nigerian lady has taken to social media to lament over her sad situation after her dream of getting married on December 4th this year appears unfeasible.

The beautiful lady identified as Isioma Favour, revealed that earlier this year, precisely in January she picked December 4th 2021 by faith during a prophetic service im church.

She however said it’s almost the fateful day but presently she is not getting married.

Favour said she doesn’t have any suitor or even a boyfriend as she is still single.

She wrote;

I Just Want TO CRY, WEEP AND LAMENT OH
WHEN THE SINGLES WERE ASKED TO PICK THEIR WEDDING DATE JANUARY THIS YEAR, I PICKED 4TH OF DECEMBER 2021
MY CALENDAR JUST REMINDED ME THAT NEXT WEEK SATURDAY IS 4TH����
WEDDING I AM NOT DOING ����
HUSBAND I DIDN’T SEE
FIANCEE I DIDN’T SEE
SERIOUS BOYFRIEND I KNOW GET
ORDINARY BOYFRIEND KWANU, I DON’T HAVE
NO BODY SHOULD TELL ME OTHERWISE, AM CRYING TO STUPOR TODAY �����
I WANT TO MARRY OOOOOOOOOO
SOMEBODY SHOULD GIVE ME HANDKERCHIEF ���

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Family / Re: Her Mother Making Passes At Her Husband by Oyolohi24: 2:55am On Nov 28, 2021
Still doesn't matter, mind your business. Thank God u asked yourself "how do I even start?" Meaning face your front quote author=FirefliesSun post=93512695] we have known each other for over 15 years. [/quote]
Family / Re: His Manhood Is Too Big – Divorce Seeking Woman Tells Zamfara Sharia Court by Oyolohi24: 1:46am On Nov 28, 2021
The man deployed all Asernal of war.quote author=adenigga post=107995638]

Source: https://dailypost.ng/His-manhood-is-too-big-Divorce-seeking-woman-tells-court [/quote]

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Family / Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Oyolohi24: 4:34am On Nov 14, 2021
Don't mind her, after milking him using all sorts of tricks, she is running now. You think you are smart. quote author=MarketDispatch post=107566016]After enjoying your Sugar Daddy, you want to leave him?

Given the closeness to your family, how did you introduce your Sugar daddy to your current fiance that you want to marry?

Something tells me you would have introduced him as your uncle...




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Romance / Re: She Is Into Runs Should I Still Marry Her? by Oyolohi24: 4:24am On Nov 14, 2021
My brother, you are seeing a red hot stove and still not running away but must touch it? Runs is already in her DNA - blood, she can't change oo!!! My brotherly advise, pls avoid her for your peace of mind. quote author=bigpriik post=107578151]I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..

But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. embarassed,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.

Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..

Elders please i need your help..
I need

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Romance / Re: 27-Year-Old Man Batters Lover For Denying Him Sex After Buying A Phone For Her by Oyolohi24: 1:18am On Aug 02, 2021
Oyolohi24:
my sister struggle to avoid eating another sweat for free. Life is not easy for any one
as in another person sweat for free
Romance / Re: 27-Year-Old Man Batters Lover For Denying Him Sex After Buying A Phone For Her by Oyolohi24: 1:17am On Aug 02, 2021
obembet:
Some guys are very useless. Only thing in there head is Sex?

Ordinary drink , they will ask for sex.

If they manage send you data, they will ask for something in return.

Mad pple
my sister struggle to avoid eating another sweat for free. Life is not easy for any one
Romance / Re: As A Lady, Would You Accept Marriage Proposal From A Guy Living In This Room? by Oyolohi24: 3:06am On Jul 10, 2021
Bigredmachine:
Hmmmm rice wey dey bottom pot today go dey on top cooler tomorrow... Any way who ever is staying there won't stay there forever
u spoke with wisdom and understanding. remain blessed
Business / Re: GTBank Hit By Mass Resignation, Mobile App & USSD Transaction Failures by Oyolohi24: 3:01am On Jul 10, 2021
juwoonn:
Banking job in Nigeria is too stressful.
Bankers are starting to realize that being a business person is better.
I am a banker,:and u said it all. working to be on my own now. Really stressful

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Politics / Re: Malami Replies Kelechi Madu On Nnamdi Kanu by Oyolohi24: 2:25am On Jul 08, 2021
pongwa:
self determination should never lead to instigating violence and calling for forceful take over of authority. There's a way things are done everywhere in the world. Moreover, our constitution forbids that so ultimately, our problem is the law
where is the same law when boko boys are caught? Granting pardon to real law breakers
Romance / Re: Stressed Ugandan Groom Absconds From His Wedding To Rest At Friends Place (Photo by Oyolohi24: 8:28pm On Apr 13, 2021
Kebbiprince:
grin grin grin

Marriage benefit only women that's the fact, you take care of all the bills, suffer and die Atleast 10 years before her while the children you gave her celebrate their mother monthly and how good she is while you the Loser is gone cheesy cheesy

Local man decided to run for his life
Bros you nailed it. Oil de your head
Romance / Re: Uncletochii: My Girlfriend Sleeps On Floor With Me, I'm Broke, She Didn't Leave by Oyolohi24: 2:17am On Apr 10, 2021
chiommy123:
Hope you won't start talking from the other side of your mouth when things finally turn around for you?
. My sister, even if he will, do your part as a loyal and humble woman first. Note that a man with conscience can't disappoint such a woman. Even God will not allow that. I prefer this to those gold diggers. My wife too is like that lady and we are better now. Really sweet to gist about a story like that if things become ok later
Religion / Re: This Dream My Fiancee's Mother Had Is Bothering My Fiancee And I. by Oyolohi24: 1:22am On Apr 02, 2021
DoubleFingers:


Hmm!

But what if... what if the dream is just an irony of the reality?
my dear, as for me, Na so l override dreams warning me not to continue with my marriage and up till now no baby, no peace with different men of God saying almost same thing that is spiritual attack from spiritual husband.

Never u undermine some early signs like this please B4 marriage.when it starts these guys will be in their homes leaving only u in It. I am taking from experience
Religion / Re: A Thread For Those Who Want To Draw Close To God. by Oyolohi24: 2:43am On Mar 22, 2021
A younger sister complained of having sex in dream sometimes, kindly advise on what to do please quoteor=Nuttella post=98213173]Good morning people of God. Have you prayed this morning? Dont underestimate the importance of praying before you go to bed and when you wake up from sleep.


If you are under witchcraft manipulation or suffering from their attacks, send me a pm and I will guide you on how to release yourself from the cage and stop the attacks totally, Don't let any witch intimidate you, because right from the days of john the baptist until now, the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence and the violent taketh it by force(Matthew 11:12)

The weapon of our warfare are not carnal but mighty through God in pulling down strongholds. (2Corinthians 10:4).

Don't be scared of witches and wizards, if you have God Almighty they won't win you.

If you have sex in your dream too, send me a pm let me tell you how to separate yourself from sexual demons.

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Romance / Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Oyolohi24: 2:08am On Mar 21, 2021
Humble advise, if u like your life my sister, jeje settle this guy B4 something u will start paying above 50k comes to or happens. Those advising u against returning it will be in their homes enjoying when it starts
Romance / Re: What Do Some Men Find Attractive In Other People's Wives? by Oyolohi24: 3:19am On Mar 15, 2021
I personally don't support such. Biblically, koranically and morally, it is condemned. But sometimes, the wives will not even said they are married.

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Religion / Re: What Almost Broke Your Faith In GOD And How You Overcame It? by Oyolohi24: 2:44am On Mar 15, 2021
Mine is my wife inability to give birth after 5yrs in marriage. she constantly have miscarriages but of recent, not even pregnancy let alone miscarriage again.

Really painful and discouraging especially when you married a virgin that knew nothing about men B4 and facing such.

Prayers are been done every where, hospitals visited. Diff things have been mentioned by diff pastors as been d cause, but they worked on it yet failed.

The point is that we were having faith in God B4 but at a point, we are loosing it cos we have spent a lot and have been waiting but no response. I pray he sees us through to maintain that faith pls. Really hard sometimes when face d with issues of life

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Romance / Re: Rhoda Ameh And Sunday Agbo Wedding At Lagos Beach by Oyolohi24: 3:48am On Nov 06, 2020
After a beach wedding, then what follows? Ladies way of reasoning. Just because is romantic. To leave in harmony is d best.
ukaface:
I want a beach wedding too
Romance / Re: If You Want To See How Much A Girl Likes You, Do These 6 Things. by Oyolohi24: 3:41am On Nov 04, 2020
My brother, channel your energy and reasoning on how to make money and the rest is story except you are not talking of this generation
of ladies. As for me I find it hard to waste much time if I know you will not help me in any way except giving me sex. quoterTAnonymous post=95641162]If you want to see how much a girl likes you, do these 6 things.

Showing love to your partner is one of the ways you can make them feel loved and special. However, you can't know how much your partner likes you. You don't know if they love you more than you do or it is just vice versa. Well, we will get to know that here in this article.

1. Appreciate her more.

One of the ways you can know a girl likes you is just by appreciating her. If she does something for you, appreciate her in a cool manner. Some men don't appreciate their women no matter what they do for them, and that's very wrong. Women love it when you appreciate them and in this way, you can get to know how much she loves you. If she shows you more love and affection, then she likes you more.

2. Compliment her more in front of others.

Unlike appreciating her, you should also compliment her. Make her feel loved, tell her how amazing she is, how lovely and generous she is. Don't ever stop telling your girl how wonderful she is especially in public. Girls love it when their man compliments them especially in front of others.

3. Be more romantic with her.

Girls love guys that are romantic and if you want to know how much she likes you, you have to also be romantic with her. Don't be the boring type, grab her from behind, hug her whenever you want to greet and also give her a peck, hold hands when you're walking together, and do some other romantic things.

4. Easily admit your wrongs and then apologize.

Men can be stubborn and hard when it comes to admitting their wrongs, but if you want to know how much a girl likes you, you need to easily admit your wrongs and then apologize. It won't kill you, just 'I am sorry', that's enough to settle the fight. Easily admitting your wrongs, also shows your level of maturity and how much you respect her in the relationship.

5. Play your role.

Lastly, do your part in the relationship. Support her, make her feel loved if you have spent on her. Encourage her, be supportive enough, and also be there whenever she needs you. Also, don't make her get hurt, protect her, and don't let her cry. In this way, you can know how much she like you.

6. Spend on her.

Last but not the least, spend on her. It is a known fact that girls like being spent on. So they appreciate when their man spends on them.

P.S

Never waste your money on entitled girls; i.e. girls that feel they are entitled to your hard earned money, it ain't healthy for your health and the relationship in general.

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This is only for those who are in a committed, serious and long term relationships not the casual ones undecided


If you have any reservations, do well to use the comment box.

Incase you don't know na me talk
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Family / Re: I Am Suspecting My Wife Is Cheating. Should I Confront Her? by Oyolohi24: 2:12am On Sep 06, 2020
Prof0fficial:
what do you expect when you marry a pretty woman. I can't see myself getting jealous for my woman when I'm 100% more cute..
correct my person. My old man used to say that 80% of beautiful wives are other men's girl friends. This is cos they are always on men's eyes that even when the woman is not even interested, some (men) can still go Xtra mile to get them. Back to the topic. The op is actually trying cos as for me, I can't cope. God gave me a virgin who is very religious especially that area. Is a divine gift to marry a faithful wife my people.

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Romance / Re: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by Oyolohi24: 9:39pm On Aug 31, 2020
aywhy93:
For their mind, na true love cheesy Well, True Love always win when oyinbo is involved grin

How many of them can marry 48yrs old naija woman.? lipsrsealed
few but o boy this guy will be free from dear I need kudi for Maggi, hair, cream etc like our black girls. 2ndly, the woman will enjoy the boy kpekus cos is still fresh

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Romance / Re: Man Rolling On Owerri Mud Water To Propose To A Girl by Oyolohi24: 2:22am On Aug 30, 2020
SmartProf:
Once an Idiot, always an Idiot. This man shouldn't be addressed as Mr...he is a specimen that should be kept to study foolishness. I'm sure if his father gets to see this, he wont attend his wedding even on Zoom or Skype.
O boy! you have really finished this guy from line. You sounded correct to be sincere

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Family / Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Oyolohi24: 1:09am On Aug 28, 2020
Oyolohi24:
Are you their only male child? If yes, I see reason with them for the fear of uncertainty. This life is some how some how bros. But if no, to me, you are not emotionally, financially and even sexually mature going by age to withstand nowadays ladies brohaha except if they can buy you shock absorbers
Family / Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married While I'm Not Ready & Financially Fit by Oyolohi24: 1:06am On Aug 28, 2020
cooooooks:
How can they be forcing you to get married when you're not in a relationship?

Who are they forcing you to marry?

Are you their only male child? If yes, I see reason with them for the fear of uncertainty. This last few is some how some how bros. But if no, to me, you are not emotionally, financially and even sexually mature going by age to withstand nowadays ladies brohaha except if they can buy you shock absorbers
Family / Re: If You Have Boys, Don't Rejoice Yet That You Have Children: Pastor Funke Adejumo by Oyolohi24: 12:34pm On Aug 21, 2020
SirMichael1:
Try to process things more deeply.

I'll explain this topic to you. A father would love to have a male child and would go any length to have one. She's of the opinion that having a male child isn't the same as taking care of them. What happens to your male children, what you do to take care of them during the first stage, goes a long way to tell if you should be happy that you've got children who would be taking care of you in your old age.

No need to process things on the lower level when you can in a higher level.
my Dear, you can see why some fail compehension Part in English during examination. Just to reason and assimilate logiacally, see where he is heading.
Health / Is Pelvical Polyp Operation Scaring? by Oyolohi24: 2:36pm On Aug 19, 2020
Just to find out from our Gynaes in the house. Is the surgical operation of endomestrial polyp anything to fear of? My wife was advised to undergo one but still scaring.
Family / Re: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by Oyolohi24: 2:09pm On Aug 19, 2020
Righteousness89:


You Have allowed the Issue to Overwhelm you..
That's not the way to Go..
Take it away as an issue in your Head.. it's not an issue..
Invest your Time in Boosting your Relationship with God first and your Wife ..

This Matter is not a Problem...

Live life to the Glory of God ! Not According to people..

Your wife will take in and put to bed in due course..
Thanks so much

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