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Dear Sister,
You will handle it and handle it well

Even if you have real evidence of infidelity, you will regret in future if you end your marriage because of that. Why because over time you will see people way worse than that.

Bottom line is , manage your Ishmael because it's not a matter of life and death.

Heaven is the goal so don't live in hate. You will die before your time and hell awaits a bitter soul.

Dpen11:
Try to have savings and leave on your own.

He might think you are being a burden to him, maybe that's why he is acting that way.

I pray you find something that will pay well so you can stand on your own

There is something that serving does. Not everytime one will be advised to move out and stay alone.

Serve for some time. Serve under someone. It grows you inside.

It hurts based on say na your big bros.

It's possible he doesn't have much and is not a person who can sacrifice for others.

Tho this is not a good thing, try to source for something that can sustain you. The work you are learning can be half day then labour half day because of ulcer.

Look for car wash place,or anywhere you can be paid either based on number of services provided like number of cars washed or number of hours put in.

You can also do dry cleaning.

Just do something cos you are in the city and accomodation isn't a problem for now.

Klass99:
I sweep/clean mine twice a week or even more times than that if or whenever my spirit feels the place is dirty and needs a clean.

It sounds like you live with your aunty and she's the type to squeeze every benefit she can get out of someone for hosting and accommodating them.You know the type who expect you to work out and earn your keep in their house. It's exhausting!

On the other hand when you live with people make sure to be the sort of guest who provides value and is helpful while in that household. So when you want to leave, you will be missed, and when next you want to visit you will be welcomed.

actually some people are thorough with cleaning like that.

Once upon a time I use to mop my parents double flat every single morning

My sisters were so angry. Lol. I had just returned from obodo oyibo and the place was looking untidy everyday.

I don't ceremoniously sweep every morning. Tho I should cos it just gives you a feeling of orderliness.
I want to start sweeping every morning.

What I do every morning is wash the bathroom floor. That is a must. Daily Bathroom cleaning is very necessary.

Geniero:
Telegram group link sir

hello there.
Kindly send him an email.

Happy birthday to God's general,God's battle axe and weapon of war.
@enthronedbyGod1
I pray that on this special day, May Abba increase you on every side in Jesus name amen.

God bless you Sir.

Be diplomatic.

If they don't want to assist with expenses, do it anyhow in the capacity you can afford
If you budgeted 300k for food. Reduce it to 200k and carry the 100k to fix another cost

It's not wise to start on the wrong foot with your in-laws. It will directly strain your marriage

In things like this,one party must play the fool cos peace is very critical in arrangements like this and for the sake of future relationships

EdgarAllan007:
How did you sustain yourself financially?

I just graduated and was still in my parents house.

I discussed with my Father about my plans to work for free and he supported with transport fare.

I remember as a fresh graduate in accounting, I looked for employment to no avail. I then searched online for audit firms in my city.

I dressed up and went to the first on my list. There I met with the owner of the firm who harshly told me he doesn't have vacancy and I told him, I will work for free.

The man looked at me and said okay .

At the end of the month, he may have pitied me as he placed me on a 10k take home.

I thanked him because I wasn't expecting anything.

It was a great experience and it wasn't long after, my cv was no longer bare. I started job hunting online while working.

Less than 6 months later,I landed my first official job in another audit firm with a take home of 70k. From there to a job of 120k etc etc. It has been from glory to glory

Most times being selfless and adding value generously pays.

I am healthy and strong, God gave me these for free, why should I not work hard to add value where I find myself? That's my school of thoughts.

Money- excess or deficiency of it is not enough grounds for divorce.

If he ran to chill in the village, why is she still in Lagos? She should go and chill with the husband in the village too.

She thinks marriage is for the shallow or faint hearted. Tell her to roll up her sleeves.
More grace.

The word queen mother is a marine kingdom terminology.

Tell me what you see.

Oh yeah oh yeah.

What you fail to understand is that before a breakthrough or a birthing,there is travail. How is it that you are not conscious of this?
Maybe you were not taught.

If you give up on God, where do you want to go? What else will be your hope?

End time advice.

Jesus is coming soon.

Interesting.
An Accountant can prepare an audited accounts however it's not ethical because an external body should do it since the process requires auditing the books of the accountant in charge.

RevenuesBoost:
I've never applied relaxer from birth and I feel it's the best decision I have ever made.

My mum applied it from childhood and saw how harmful it was.
So she Successfully convinced us that relaxer will damage the hair you succeeded in growing for months or years.

It may look beautiful at first but...

Most people believe your hair won't look beautiful if you braid it without relaxing it, anyone who believes this needs to change his or her hair stylist.

I also believe that hair is hereditary

If you have it, you have it
If you don't have it, then don't stress.

The picture below is me styling my natural (virgin) hair.
My hair is 13yrs old already
Some say it will stop growing as soon as it's 5yrs but it's a lie.
You just have to take care of your hair, make sure it's well creamed before braiding or plaiting it to avoid breakage

Also, don't allow anyone to rough handle your hair.

you have such beautiful hair dear.

Yes! In Nigeria,one of the enemies to healthy hair is the salon folks...oh my.

I am getting concerned of how weary I am getting over anything hair.

I do miss my hair when I was strictly texlaxing...it was very long, dark and had a lovely shine.
I went from that to relaxing now I am tempted to cut the hair cos it's not what it used to be plus I don't give it the needed care and treatments anymore.

SUNNINO:
Be mindful of who and what you envy,all that glitters are not gold. Can you pay price some people to be who they are.

you have said it.

People are quick to applause "success" not minding how it came about.

Not everything you see you clap. Not everything. Life is spiritual.

This is why it's so good to be a Christian who has the fear of God.

So in all your analysis, you didn't factor God anywhere.
You rather allowed the devil to solve maths on your head with the analysis of who will take care of you when you grow old.

Sir let me ask you,what is your assurance your children will live long enough to take care of you in old age? You see,you can't play God neither can you do without Him. He is God.

Your so called wisdom at its best is absolute foolishness before God.

I don't even want to dwell on the matter at hand. What I want to tell you is, stop playing God in your life and surrender your life to Jesus.

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May God see you through.

Please just have savings no matter how things are tight,for cases of emergency.

It's a challenging time and we all need God's grace more than before.

TabletMan:
How much do you guys buy white waste paper per Kg/Ton?

We buy 90/kg

How many tons do you have and what location?

But the basis of both scenarios are totally different.

The first said he MAKES....
The second said she SPENDS....ON EATING OUT.

If both genders were switched, the second will still come under fire because any reasonable person will do well to save money by adding home cooked meals to their lifestyle to curb unecessary spending.

So it's not a gender attack my dear.

My daughter will not have a boy friend but a fiance when the Lord has appointed and it has been confirmed.

enthronedbyGod1:
The scenario that happened in the dream I narrated before the elections is still being played out before our very eyes after one month of Tinubu's presidency. Everything is pointing to the fact that he's for himself and his circle alone. No signs of cutting the cost of governance yet the people are still praising him. Only one man used over a 120 convoy motorcade , yet the people found a way to justify it. He's more interested in using propaganda and lies to launder his image than in working for the people , yet they are still praising him.

The price of everything has skyrocketed, yet he's still being praised. One can't even import goods anymore , cos the exchange rate these days is scary.
The media was awash with propaganda and lies in his first week in office. The foreign media outlets were not left out as they collected their own share of the loot to launder his image. It got to the extent the propagandists even had to use a prophetic hymn of hope written by Baba Adeboye for their propaganda claiming he wrote it for Tinubu and the Christian body fell for it.

Looking around you , do you still think it was extreme for the people to have been referred to as sycophants and zombies in my dream ? , Do you think any person in his/ her right frame of mind would support the charade going on.
Don't fall for the propaganda and lies, don't be moved by the so many likes and shares being generated by the propagandists posts and comments, there are BOT's involved in this.

I told you all when Tinubu was sworn in that a leopard can't change its spot. Open your eyes my people, I repeat open your eyes APC can't deliver you from APC.

All we can do for now is to keep asking God to give them no peace till they decide to work for the people, and then hope for a better Nigeria.
May God's mercies rejoice over His judgement upon Nigeria for the blood of the innocents crying and seeking for vengeance, and may our leaders know no peace till they actually begin to work for the people in Jesus name. Amen

God bless Nigeria.

Amen!

I was expecting to read that they are doing all in their power to bring down the current price.

This is a psychological tactics to make everyone embrace the current price.

That's unfortunate.

enthronedbyGod1:
It shall not stand.
I cancel every negative pronouncement against her in Jesus name.
God has made her a shinning light amongst her peers and so shall it be in Jesus name. Amen

Amen!

maasoap:
You can't make anything in the village. We are are not talking about someone with money investing in agriculture, we're talking about jobless lazy ass man and his family moving back to village. They will only be living from hand to mouth. He is relocating simply because of free accommodation that awaits him, nothing else. He just wants to solve the problem of house rent without hustling or sweating. Such man shouldn't be taken seriously.
What is in the village? Nothing! Take it from someone who had village experience. Boring life, nothing more.

but the free house gives her peace of mind and room to be creative and proactive.

She can start poultry and take her livestock to the city to sell and back.

Sometimes everything is not hustle hustle. Sometimes peace everything.

Even if it's just planting what can be feeding them, you are at peace and will live longer

The dynamics are changing by the day.

Peace of mind is priceless. If you go to the village you will have peace of mind.

Secondly people are still making it in that village.

Go to the village with your husband.

Your children will be fine.