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FamilyRe: In A Marriage, Responsibilities Should Be 50/50 by Pacesetter2021: 6:15am On May 22, 2021
daylay7:
Everything na bible. Abi? Pastor! I beg, shift!
says the man that was constructed in a lab. Who formed man? Where did man originate?
FamilyRe: In A Marriage, Responsibilities Should Be 50/50 by Pacesetter2021: 6:14am On May 22, 2021
daylay7:
Okay,
Don't you think sharing responsibilities is also part of the help to be rendered. Yes, it is not an obligation but in advance world were women are given more preferences, it is never the same. If your assertions is right, then I would say, woman should accept that the men are more superior in every ramification instead of fighting for gender equality.
it's good you mentioned all you did because first of, I don't benchmark on advanced World but on God's word which also says that THE MAN in a woman's life, ie her husband is superior to her, not to victimize her but to protect her so gender equality can be referenced only for a woman and a man but not for a woman and HER MAN.

With reference to the subject matter, any well meaning, hard working woman will want to support financially but let it be on free will bases not as by force responsibility.
FamilyRe: Parents Pls Stop Sending Kids To Uni If You Are Broke by Pacesetter2021: 6:05am On May 22, 2021
fatymore:
We thank God for life.

2015/2017 I was in school with my younger brother being sponsor by my mum only, How we survive only God knows.


I make sure during holidays our school fees are completed by any means before resumption.

I don't but hand out, I borrowed from people and write out points, so many stories. Food nko, different delicacies of orishirishi....lol, yet I graduated with a good GP and was given prize...


No be say we know the book, but we can't afford to fail grin
beautiful. Congratulations dear
FamilyRe: Parents Pls Stop Sending Kids To Uni If You Are Broke by Pacesetter2021: 6:04am On May 22, 2021
You can't tell a struggling parent not to send their child to the university why because they blv tomorrow will be better and that child will eventually finish school. It's the final lap, why shld they not put in their best??

As for the female students pimping themselves, it's not poverty but long throat greed. They can go into small scale business, like wears and edibles and make money off the ones following big men, etc. That is no excuse to be stupid pls.

I knew someone whose father died in his 2nd year or so, not only did he see himself tru school, he also did masters from money he got from writing projects for other lazy students. There will always be a way.
FamilyRe: Can U Allow Ur Male Friend Continue Stay In Ur House With Ur Wife While U Relo by Pacesetter2021: 5:54am On May 22, 2021
What nonsense. I will tell the friend to pls MOVE Out because a family member is coming to help out the wife.

Friendship is what will kill some people. Stupid loyalty when you don't know the heart of who you are pledging loyalty to. How can someone even consider such nonsense!
FamilyRe: In A Marriage, Responsibilities Should Be 50/50 by Pacesetter2021: 5:49am On May 22, 2021
A woman should not be compelled to bring 50% of rent, utilities, etc. If that's the case why did the man go and marry her only to hand her more responsibilities? The woman is the help and shld contribute as help not obligation. Like I said, MAN UP!
FamilyRe: In A Marriage, Responsibilities Should Be 50/50 by Pacesetter2021: 5:47am On May 22, 2021
Which part of the Bible said so? Please man up.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Hell On Earth by Pacesetter2021: 9:14pm On May 16, 2021
Very unfortunate but you are alive. You can't give up on life, on God. Pick yourself up. For me, I rather be alone that to remain joined to a saddle of pain and sorrow.
Take courage and start over, with God this time.
FamilyRe: Help!!! My Environment Is Draining Me Psychologically. by Pacesetter2021: 7:19pm On May 14, 2021
Iamdbull:
See as u mention the money like say na small change, its not as if I can't afford it but then I will have to empty all the little savings I get and before I know it 1 year don pass and am left with nothing, if things don't work as planned in lagos
as in! �
FamilyRe: Help!! My Sister Marriage Is About To Crash by Pacesetter2021: 7:09pm On May 14, 2021
If you and your sister know what is good for u, u better listen to your parents. Besides u sound like a very young chap who doesn't know Jack about life. What's fascinating you is that he dashes you money.

The truth is that despite your parents being tribalistic, there could still be a yoruba man that your parents will accept, and I don't mean a richer person.

What your parents perceive, you don't know half of it. If she forces her way and goes ahead, she will suffer alone cos she won't have the face to go back to them when it comes crumbling down and you are little brother won't be of help either.

My own is, if you make mistake to marry the wrong person, you will so suffer. I can tell you that for free.
FamilyRe: Woman Buries Her Dead Husband With A Live Snake (Video) by Pacesetter2021: 7:26pm On May 07, 2021
What is going on here? I am not understanding. Is it a venomous snake that killed someone that they are holding and tapping like that? Then of all places it bit the deseased, on the tonguehuh
FamilyRe: Ladies: Would You Welcome A Framed Picture Of Your MIL In Your Home? by Pacesetter2021: 7:03pm On May 05, 2021
This question, on it's own is very wicked. Why shld it be an issue,that a man hangs the picture of the woman who birthed him on his wallhuh
FamilyRe: Should I Confront My Brother's Wife? by Pacesetter2021: 6:54pm On May 05, 2021
Wahala be like bicycle. Abeg how is this an issue? What an ignorant person thinks in her head and says in her house, how is it making you loose sleep?
CelebritiesRe: Davido Wears A Coat With His Son, Ifeanyi's Face On It, Spotted At Airport by Pacesetter2021: 6:22pm On May 05, 2021
SouthWestBlood:
I just love the way he loves and carries his children along.
where shld he have dropped them?
RomanceRe: Lady Beaten By Her Lesbian Girlfriend (disturbing Photos) by Pacesetter2021: 6:19pm On May 05, 2021
What is all this? Where do I begin? Young lady, pls repair your life and make not better choices but right ones. Smh
FamilyRe: Divorcees, What's Your Experience Like? by Pacesetter2021: 12:06pm On May 04, 2021
foreman:
Thanks people for your contributions.

My children are girls, very brilliant girls. Apart from their mother being a control freak, I think she is okay to take care of them. The major concern for me is that she seems to be naïve about people around the children. She tried to leave them at a time with one of her siblings to look after them, of course I didn't agree because its a guy, a guy that we drink together sometimes. She allows them go to neighbors house, for extended hours, to play which I have had to intervene in the past. And so many instances that we had serious disagreements. I cannot just imagine my girls left around potential rapists. My wife believes my mind is too dirty. I agree. But I have seen things that makes me suspicious of people and I don't want to take chances, especially with girls. If they were boys, I wouldn't even bother. I grew up on the streets and I believe boys must see ugly side of life.

I am thinking taking them with me and hiring a mature maid will work.
if what you said is true, then pls look into this deeply in terms of living arrangement for the girls. My mother was carefree when I was little and I gree up always fighting to protect myself from more molestation. Whatever you do, let the girls not be left in a potentially harmful environment and their mum shldnt be denied access to them. And if you are getting divorced, hope your focus is to raise those girls to the best of your ability and not to get a new wife that will give you a boy..... It most likely will get worse from there, I mean your life and peace.
FamilyRe: Divorcees, What's Your Experience Like? by Pacesetter2021: 4:22pm On May 01, 2021
adadike:
i don't like divorce at all and I don't pray to end it suddenly with my future husband
Can you tell us why you want to get divorced, maybe we can help remedy the situation Biko my dear, divorce is not the best
everyone hates divorce till it happens to u.
FamilyRe: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by Pacesetter2021: 2:42pm On Apr 30, 2021
michru:
You mean like homosexuals and transgendered? God put that trait in them?

I'm not sure we know what's happening in western culture today.
I didn't in any way shape nor FORM imply what you just stated. GOD IS NOT AN AUTHOR OF CONFUSION.
FamilyRe: My Wife Wants To Kill Me. What Should I Do? by Pacesetter2021: 9:43am On Apr 30, 2021
One common mistake we make is that we don't think ahead and plan ahead.
Why will you not take preventive measures so you both delay having a baby till you are financially stable?

If you put the thought down and followed with corresponding action, you won't be in this situation now.

There isn't much advise that can help you. Whatever damage control you can employ, do but know that you must face your responsibility to that baby.
FamilyRe: How Do I Instill Boldness And Confidence In My Daughters? by Pacesetter2021: 2:39pm On Apr 28, 2021
I think that there is a way God created all children. Our job is to prune them but in the same direction that they are naturally. because there is a purpose God brought her to this world and that trait might just be what she needs to fit into the role God has for her.
PoliticsRe: How Will You Handle The Situation Of Nigeria If You Were To Be The Mr President by Pacesetter2021: 9:13pm On Apr 27, 2021
I will declare state of emergency. I will solicit for security support from countries like Cameroon, etc, triple the battle front and fight all these mystery gun men, bullet for bullet.

I will also prosecute and sentence bandits caught.

I will subsidize tarrif for electricity, appoint capable hands to man sensitive sectors.

I will drive up the value of naira by investing in good brains...
FamilyRe: Why Are There More Birth Complications IN Marriage Than Outside Marriage? by Pacesetter2021: 12:40am On Apr 22, 2021
Aside from some valid points above, you should know that the devil is not happy when two become one, he feels threatened by what it could produce.
Marriage is under attack by the devil and while some of these problems are due to natural causes, a huge percentage is as a result of devilish manipulations..
Tell you what, a couple having fertility issues, God forbid but if the man sleeps with a woman outside, she will most likely get pregnant, if the wife does same, it will most likely result also in pregnancy.
There are forces beyond the physical eyes and that's why one should be spiritually alive.
HealthRe: This Is The Reason My Marriage Is Crashing by Pacesetter2021: 10:02pm On Apr 18, 2021
boom99:
This is very serious. I pray that she gets perfect healing right now. If you have faith you will see God settling her case. Amen
yes, that's it! Divine healing works!
Christianity EtcRe: Why Youtube Suspended TB Joshua’s Emmanuel TV by Pacesetter2021: 7:08pm On Apr 16, 2021
Calitoscassius:
Yea! Fairytales grin grin all this rubbish are in your crazy imaginations. Brainwashed goon.
Jesus, king of Kings and Lord of all, may your name be praised from the rising of the sun to the going down of the same. Your beauty oh Lord is beyond description. MIGHTY GOD, HOW GREAT THO ART!
Christianity EtcRe: Why Youtube Suspended TB Joshua’s Emmanuel TV by Pacesetter2021: 6:48pm On Apr 16, 2021
Calitoscassius:
If you don't like it go invent your own youtube, you gullible goon. Joe Biden is still the American president not your Trump as you were preaching lies to people on here that your useless God told you Donald.Trump will win. grin
Jesus, king of Kings and Lord of all, may your name be praised from the rising of the sun to the going down of the same. Your beauty oh Lord is beyond description. MIGHTY GOD, HOW GREAT THO ART!
Christianity EtcRe: Why Youtube Suspended TB Joshua’s Emmanuel TV by Pacesetter2021: 6:46pm On Apr 16, 2021
The end is truly near. For those laughing, this is the beginning of a new trend, it will soon get to you and yours. The Church prevails no matter what.
RomanceRe: She Sent Me A Picture Of Her Hand But It Looks Like That Of A Man (Photos) by Pacesetter2021: 3:26pm On Apr 15, 2021
grin grin grin
padi94:
You dey even talk of the hand, that leg no fear you?
FamilyRe: My Mum Want me To Marry My Cousin Husband Because Of Money by Pacesetter2021: 7:49pm On Mar 01, 2021
It must be sad, having shameless shallow people as family. If you mistakenly marry that Man, u will suffer.
BusinessRe: SF 1000 For Site Remediation And Oil Spill Clean Up by Pacesetter2021(op): 3:31am On Feb 27, 2021
Still available
FamilyRe: Am I About To Make A Wrong Marital Choice by Pacesetter2021: 8:51am On Feb 26, 2021
Whatever you do, don't marry this person.
BusinessRe: SF 1000 For Site Remediation And Oil Spill Clean Up by Pacesetter2021(op): 6:37am On Feb 25, 2021
Remediation / oil spill response.
BusinessRe: SF 1000 For Site Remediation And Oil Spill Clean Up by Pacesetter2021(op): 7:53pm On Feb 21, 2021
Still available.

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