₦airaland Forum

Truvelisback:
My point is that, why are they acting like they are helping with the work without putting any hand? It's obvious from the pics.

Most of their work is mental, that is why it does not look physical looks like they are acting. It reminds me of those who are artisans thinking educated people are wasting their time. When they need a bank loan or have court cases, they understand the importance of the mental work.

It is always easier on the other side until you put on their shoes. Danfo Bus conductor go de call us butty but if passenger no de, money no go enter. He think say everything na to shout.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=derfqy3OPwc?feature=shared

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Without labour there is no entrepreneur.

Without capital there is no entrepreneur.

Without an entrepreneur, labor is just sitting on land, wasting it because he has no capital.

Without labor, entrepreneur is with capital but has no letter to capitalise.

Without land, all of them are useless.


We all need each other. Without management, there is no work for you. Without workers, there is no activity for management to work with

toprealman:
Stop spewing shii. Stay on the topic. At 90+, some activities become hazardous. Go to his crib in ABK, baba walks around EVERY evening with his security. Staying active is the key word and not indulging in just any activity to prove to people like you that he is fit.

I'll ignore your tantrum because that shows how mature you are. But I will reply you for the benefit of those reading the thread. Who are the old men in my village trying to prove that they are fit when they still plant and till Something a lot pf young people will not do. Or have you been near old men who still drive and repair their cars? Who are you to certify what is dangerous or not? Are you the doctor Just remain grateful for your life and health, some young man is in hospital and he cannot stand up, one old man is outside and jumping like a baby. It is nature telling us to appreciate the bodies we have.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nxeTEQbd87I

EmperorCaesar:
Seems most of our men are truly women worshipers

Who run the world? Girlsssssss

The same woman that birthed them is the one they want to go to. What is this life without good good women?I pity those bitter leaf that the world has confused to hate men. Men will work and still look for money, women will work and still expect money. No matter how man form hard, e go soft for woman. If only women knew the power they had, they will play men with sense. No de follow man compete, allow am do work and come meet you.

Even women who try to be like men know how hard being a man is, they just want someone to take care of them.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Blood is never available because people do not donate blood. Simple!

Before any of you start castigating LASUTH, if you are an able-bodied young man. Have you donated blood VOLUNTARILY before?

Not because your wife is about to deliver, or because your relatives are going for surgery.

As long as people don't donate blood VOLUNTARILY, demand for blood will always be more than supply.

When blood is donated by a relative, it is screened to be free from diseases like hepatitis B and C, syphilis and HIV. A lot of people found out they had hepatitis B and HIV when they donated blood. Infected ones like that will be thrown away leaving less for everyone.

What you fail to understand here is not voluntary blood donation, it is those who donate blood and don't get it and have to pay for it. What you are talking about is different and gaslighting people to donate blood. That can never work. You know that not all bloof is eligible even after screening and there is a racket around this donation. It is said that if you donate blood in Lagos, you and your family can get it FREE. Don't let me get to LSBTS because there is a law on this topic. I can't post links because of the bot but let me share screenshots

This is so sad. We must learn to stop preying on ourselves. Everything is not money, that is what makes me leave Nigerian matter. People are so myopic, they can't think beyond mula.

We make the easiest things in life hard.

You want to get birth certificate, someone will make mistake so you can come back and pay for their mistakes.

You want to go to school, they will bribe you for exam forms.

You want to get immunisation that is free, they will find a way to make you pay.

You want to take money fron your bank, they will bring BVN policy that is not my fault. I want to call for help, they will block my SIM because of NIN that is something they should have given me at birth. I now want to get passport, they will take bribe from me. Thank God for Tunji Ojo instructions because booklets are never available until you grease hands.

When you then want to travel out, one idiot at the airport will take your food or ask you oga anything for us The idiot that is supposed to do their job will let criminals bring in contraband but harass innocent people.

Police is my friend.Bail is free.

toprealman:
Impressive but unnecessary. Baba you don’t need to be doing this okay. The people you are trying to please don’t really care as much as you think they do.

This was Obasanjo last week

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4hQSX0dvk9U


After leaving Aso Rock, he
1. Went to school
2. Went to farm
3. Became active in African mediation politics


Let him rest, let him rest is how we kill our elders and make them senile till they die. Their mates abroad are still active after retirement doing one thing or the other. I used to pity them but when I think about what we want old people to do, we are mistaken. The earlier they stop being active, they start to die immediately. Something must kill a man.

op

Now I want to see triplets. Imagine 3 people at 60 yo. They have a combined age of 180 years

A big rule in business is never go to the ring with someone who has nothing to lose.

When the rich cry, we must weep with them.

When the poor cry, they can sweep it away.

Animal kingdom

It is not that Nigerians are not compassionate enough but these wicked politicians will rather close an outlet where people are working and foreign investment is coming in because it is a rich man's son. We are not blind, we see how you selectively apply the law when it involves you but when it involves the poor man, you tell them to go to Court because you control them from behind. I am not angry because it is a rich man, I ak angry because his dad is a public servant and an engineer. Let us start from the buildings and infrastructure built during his time as governor. Were they accessible? Is Kresta laurel accessible? What changes did they make when they had the opportunity to serve us? You see these our politicians, they think they are smart but God has a way of handling them.

Many Nigerians have been complaining about inaccessibility to public facilities. The government has not shown example but it is making example of KFC. What a joke

Care for Nigerians first and I will start to empathise with you. Don't care for us and i will be waiting like a hyena who is waiting for your death because you have taught me how to be a jackass with your wickedness and insensitivity as a so-called public servant.

Michael Jackson

Beat me, hate me
You can never break me
Will me, thrill me
You can never kill me
Jew me, sue me
Everybody, do me
Kick me, kike me
Don't you black or white me

All I wanna say is that they don't really care about us
All I wanna say is that they don't really care about us

Tell me what has become of my life
I have a wife and two children who love me
I'm a victim of police brutality, now (Mhhm)
I'm tired of bein' the victim of hate
Your rapin' me of my pride
Oh, for God's sake
I look to heaven to fulfill its prophecy...
Set me free

Are we all not human enough to be treated with dignity

Irupetepete:
my problem is giving my all to whomsoever I am dating, like 💯 dedicated...
When the last one eloped with my kids in the name of not being financially buoyant, I lost every atom of love and dedication, I lost my soul for loving...
Met a lady recently, I took her virginity, this lady is beautiful, like exactly what I needed in a lady..
She is respectful, responsible, supportive and dedicated and believe me, I just can't love her.. I tried every single day to bring myself to love her but I just can't.. Not cheating on her, I do whatever am supposed to do for her but still, the love is not forthcoming... That's what betrayal can do...
I told her, she said with time the love will come that if I dare leave her, she will commit suicide...

You have not healed fron that relationship and if you do not heal, it will co tinue to affect you for life. Go for therapy, it will help you

kkins25:
I think OP dodged a bullet because if things go south, she'll blame her woes on all of him. And the marriage would be a living hell.

someone that should be celebraring his escape. I sympathize with him na love de shack am. Na dis kain woman fit cost am dna test and small boys on nl will be calling him sim card. Love is blind, marriage is an eye opener.

Irreplaceable01:
The excuse they are giving is that Edo men_that are not even from my side of Edo_has hurt two of their daughters in the past. So they no longer want to give out their daughter to Edo people. This girl and her family totally kept everything a secret from me. It now look as though they are using her to avenge what was done to their daughters before. And she totally played the script. All I had was good intentions and love for her and her family.

My guy, they have shown you that you are not irreplaceable. Be happy that they are doing this to you now. Do you know what this could mean to you when you force your love to marry her? They will take over your properties and your kids. Be happy that they have shown you their true colors now. You dodged a bullet. Family that can arrange your death for their own daughter to enjoy life and you are here talking about love. If you marry a woman who does not have a mind of your own, you will have a problem in your house. She will follow the script of my brother said, my uncle said in your own house. Love has taught you a lesson.

SuperOnyi:




I appreciate the brutal truth, sir. I was just trying to be that loyal brother but I don't know why he keeps judging me when he only met me recently. He was even yelling and insulting me so loud that my neighbors could heard everything. These are people that respect me so much because I've never had any issue with anybody in the neighborhood.

It's not like I'm a weakling or look like a single broom, I'm physically fit yet he kept saying he was gonna beat me up. He also talked about how my big brother who's physically challenged was more sensible than me. What will I gain being more "sensible" than my big brother?

I'm sorry for talking about death but that's being a part of me since I was a kid.

No-one is leaving this world alive so We know that. You cannot allow someone do this to you in your own house. You must draw the line on what is acceptable or not. Draw the red line like Buhari will call it. Family red line no one must cross. If he came to your house to do this, ask yourself if this is what you will do if your mother in law or your wife's brother come to your house and start insulting you. This is why I told you this is initiation. You have to handle this now because when you get married, you will see another style from your in-laws. You are the man of the house. You are responsible for that household. Act like HOH, Head of House.

Ignore the insult, tell him to leave. People like this only need one humble reminder of who's in charge and they will stop. but if you keep letting them have their way they will control you. Let it stop now.

[quote author=Irreplaceable01 post=129142279]The next day 12th February, I matched back to the house with my soldier friend to ask her about the warfare of the unborn child,this girl replied that she thought she was pregnant but she's not. Omoh, how can someone be thinking she's pregnant for 7months? I spent money to Register her for antenatal, do send money for provisions,buy fruits and all that. It was obvious she had aborted the pregnancy/quote]

allow me laugh here I know it's a mistake but I like how the soldier went for warfare. Are you sure you made her pregnant or the other guy did it? Are you sure it is your baby? Only the mom can tell who the father is if the other bros cannot score and you helped them put the ball into the net. The family has given you big statement, stay out of it. Move on and leave the flesh of another bone for dog wey get am.

Rolings:
Like my Yoruba people will say
"Gambari pa Fulani, ko Kan aye"
Chioma cancelling Eric Umuofia company....it's a family affair

You guys make NL boring with your childish pranks. Every damn thing is tribal to you. The FCCPC Chair who came out to defend Chioma and was replaced was not Yoruba? I believe many of you are jobless that's why your best job is to continue the divide.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5Nw5XAfRoc

PARADIZEPRIEST:
They is why Senegal is a wasteland filled will hideous people.

How?Why?

SuperOnyi:
For now, I'm focused on fulfilling my promise to my father — I told him as he laid lifeless that I will wipe Mom's tears away and stay alive for her sake. I will use the anger to make progress instead of holding grudges against him. I'm on my lane unfazed.

Stay on your lane. Any bus stop wey na agbero full there, no stop dere, keep moving. Find your peace. Some people are family because blood let them, some people are family because they brought peace to you. Find your peace, keep the pieces apart.

SuperOnyi:

I already knew where he was heading too, I told him that he can come stay with me even though I knew this dude had crazy sentiments about me.
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The genesis of all your revelation and lamentation. Why

You will learn how to be nice with this encounter. Respect is a good thing in Africa but if the elder does not respect himself, do not let them disrespect you. You are now becoming a MAN but let me correct something boy. Yes I call you boy for this cowardly piece:

I haven't intentions of living a long life so when I die, he can go ahead and tell people at my funeral everything he just said about me.

This is a cowardly thing to say and think of. So you want to give up like this? Welcome to the world son. Go and watch animal kingdom and see how cowardly that thought is. My son, this life is a life of struggle. We are like hyenas and lions but you must fight for your spot. The weak ones die easy because they cowardly quit fighting.

This experience is an initiation to your manhood. How you handle it will establish your place in society. Your father has lived his life, now it is time to live yours. Go and look into the mirror and ask yourself what your father would have thought if he heard you think that way. He did not give birth to a weak boy, he gave birth to Super onyi. Do not disappoint him.

They cannot retrain you at 22 years old. The past is gone already. what you have herr are bullies trying to take advantage of you because they have information about you. Let me tell you, if you don't stop it now, they will continue to ride you like free Uber. Stand up to them, don't disrespect them. You pay the bills, tell the man to leave. Pass the lighter the way they passed it to you. Why do you think your big cousin sent him to you?I am sure his wife could no longer tolerate him, he had to save his marriage. You are a nice guy but people take advantage of seniority to bully young people. There is nothing wrong in saying you want him out because you pay the bills man. Don't cut off family but let them know who you are. That they cannot try any stunt with you because you be Onyi. Onyi that is generous with kindness and no-nonsense.

For what people say, people will always talk. You are a dangerous person because you don't talk too much. Just put your ears to the ground and talk less. Act more with wise decisions. Keep working on yourself while they keep talking. That one is not your truth. Your truth is who you choose to become in life, not what others are choo choo chooing about you. The choice is yours..

cucumbar:
😁 if you dont know what difference 300 naira makes when talking about FX, then you are an antelope. A lot of you APC supporters are actually dull. I can’t take that away from you guys.

You know what is sentiment analysis? It is such a shame what the internet does to how we see things and people.

1300 and 1000, wetin be the difference? 300 naira. Continue the freefall. We love it when the country is in trouble but don't like it when it is doing well. Are we sure we are okay

Ningishzida:
How can they be teaching our kids about human evolution according to Darwin's opinion and you see a photo of a black Ape evolving into a White man. That should have been one of the first things to remove from our Educational system after gaining independence.

I had an inquisitive mind when I was in school but you dare not question Aunty and Uncle for teaching you nonsense. It is not in the syllabus. They are taught to teach us nonsense handed down by Europeans. You see it on Nairaland, people will condemn everything African and tell us the white man's way is the best. Their brains have been programmed. So many people have tried to change the syllabus that was not designed to make us think critically but the defenders are Africans who enjoy the status quo.

to enslave a man, first enslave his mind and make him hate himself. Most of the tribal fights you see on NL is a result of what was done to us. To fight ourselves and learn Arabian/European cultures.

Seun I thought you had a new year resolution on your platform. This one got to page 3. If small thing happen, you won't blame your content moderation, it's something else you will blame. I want to assume most of these folks are in 18-25 group with nothing tangible to do irl.

advanceDNA:
All u are doing is trying to blame men for u woman's infidelity and paternity fraud..

Paternity fraud is a one person's decision.. the woman's..... but it's fine if u want to blame the men that she consensually committed adultery with.

When you read child custody cases, which are real and not make believe, you will know it has nothing to do with polygamy. Someone just wants to blame men for women's wrong decisions.

The same abroad that ban polygamy have these cases

Angelfrost:
Because, y'all will rather earn a lot, evade taxes, and show off or pepper your fellow citizens: The Nigerian Dream! SMH!!!

This!!!!!!!

It's a rat race to drag I beta pass my neighbour generators. That's why people will look away from what is affecting everyone than come together to fight it. Everyone is looking for what it is in there for them. See what Lai Muhammed said about his wife days back. She was interested in her people than the country's money.

hkidola00:
women date higher,but what would you say bout Jeff bezos wife,second richest man's wife that divorced him to go marry their child's school teacher earning peanut

Power move to teach teacher nonsense

Face your books. Facebook

Women date higher, so motivate yourself to use that to suceed so that when you are more comfortable, you can comfortably reject any woman's rejection.

You need to know as a man that women want to be taken care of, even the ones who act macho, if they see someone who will be true to them, they will leave macho and become madam. That's why they will not take chances with you.

As a well read man, you will know the one who is a good woman and the one who is only after status. Use the rejection to increase your chances of being successful. This same women will come back for you later but by then, you would have chosen your true beauty, with clear eyes

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Be careful before you score an own goal. The man on nose mask now works for the govt

You cannot force me to love you. That's what our military is like. Nigeria is still suffering from militocracy because of abuse and bloody civilians trauma. ALL of a sudden, you want them to love soldiers? Those who love them are those whose family have people in NA. NA have made Nigerians fear them, so you cannot all of a sudden, start loving such people.

Klass99:
Exactly! I didn't read pass this point. Are you listening to yourself right now? Can you even see the irony in your own words?

If men were faithful/stayed faithful without carrying polygamous by nature on their heads like gala, where will some women have the energy to be passing one man's child to another.

I stand by what I said, for as long as your gender keeps hoeing around in the name of we are polygamous by nature, expect that you may father children who are not yours.

You people want to hoe around but you expect that women will do whatever it takes to not saddle you with another man's child. Una never see something.

I'm not about to get into an argument with you about this. Polygamy is when one man marries more than a woman. Note the word, marries. Fela had more than 20 wives. Is that okay with me? Not entirely but did he marry women? Yes

They are adults who agreed to be part of the man's family. Polygamy is not foreign to Africans so I am very pleased to announce to you that it is by nature. Just the way a monogamous man and woman will cheat, so will a polygamous or any couple do. Ashley Madison that freely advertised men and women to cheat na wetin?

We can choose to hate it or use western eyes to look at polygamy but the fact remains it was and it is cultural.