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@Mod, where the hell did you put my post? If you have some personal grudge against me, then meet me somewhere and lets settle this once and for all.

What gave you the effrontery, the audacity, the boldness and semi-colon to delete my post. The post wasn't derogatory nor was it offensive. It was educational and eye-opening. I see each time I mention white people, you're quick to defend them or delete the post. Are you ota-aje, do you need a petition to vote you out?

Don't spoil this forum with your poisoned opinion, we know all about BBC and it's agenda.

He is a Pastor!!!

fatdon2: The both are down to earth, sule
lamido changes the rural state of
jigawa to a more peaceful and a
better environment for investors
he believes in one nigeria! On a two
weeks visit to port harcourt, i was
able to feel and even touch the
tremendous work of the rotimis
administration! I hear by give my
sincere support for them!

Igbo should stop the follow-follow bullshhitt. Why not the other way round (Amaechi/Lamido)?

firstolalekan: [size=32pt]ISLAM IS A RELIGION OF PEACE.
A TRUE AND REAL MUSLIM IS A PEACEFUL INDIVIDUAL.


BOKO HARAMS ARE NOT MUSLIMS, THEY ARE JUST IGNORANT FANATIC PAGANS HIDING UNDER ISLAM.[/size]

Where there's always an emphasis on a particular subject, name or place, you definitely know there's a problem somewhere. Main reason why people often call Islam a religion of 'peace' is just because they afraid to get attacked again. Just do the arithmetic, add 2 to 2, call them war-mongers or criticize them, they'll show you the other side of 'peace' (their real nature). Atheist, Christianity and others never calls themselves a religion of "peace", why? Because it is obvious they are.

When you always want to prove to the world that you're good or nice, then you've got problem. Let people decide, the world is watching, you're being noticed, but trying too hard automatically means there's something cynical about you. And that's where Islam has got it wrong.

Should we then because of the way we're being oppressed by our leaders start bombing and killing the innocents? Can't God (or Islam Allah) fight for Himself anymore? Or are we as the rest of the world afraid of the backlash if we openly and sincerely caution this faith?

And as for Nigerian Muslims (except ofcourse the Hausas), pls disregard your claims of being called a Muslim. Your total submission (Islam) to the will of Allah is questionable. While Islam preaches 'peace' amongst it's brethren, it admonish the total annihilation and destruction of other faith or belief. Let not go there again pls!

coogar: emotional display of affection? then how come you don't kiss your dad in the mouth? you don't love him as a dad or he doesn't love you as a son?



there lies the problem!
the bible insisted the physical act does not have to be involved to commit sin. thinking about beyonce's boobs on tv is fornication on it's own. there's no way you would kiss a woman without thinking of immoral things to do with her. that's the sin!

Don't be silly...we're talking about the opposite sex here, and someone we are in love with (not your parent). Naturally you don't go about kissing your mum or dad in the lips (you might be an exception though), and all these holly than thou attitudes of nigerians is hypocritical.

You profess you are Christians and have thousands of Churches in virtually every corners and streets, yet corruption dominate you like cankerworms. A country where people find it difficult to construct a sentence without mentioning God's name, yet they lavish in poverty. Kissing or hugging should be the least of our worries, doing good and helping one another should be our priorities.

I am a Christian (not religious) and I love kissing. Depending on your definition of sin, i think Nigerian Christians are gullible and are overly spiritual. When does kissing become a sin and where in the Bible was it clearly stated? Kissing is an emotional display of affection, and it doesn't necessarily have to lead to sex.

When kissing leads to sex, then you can call it a sin, but when it doesn't, what then do we call it, sin? Forget about the "it will lead to sex or other stuff" talk, @op question is simple and direct; is kissing or hugging a sin a not? If we are to isolate kissing or hugging, then everything we do in this world should be sinful then.

Kaymisola: Good Lord! Mercy Aigbe Is Hot (see Her In Jeans Wear)

Mercy Aigbe is one of the leading yoruba actresses in Nollywood today. She says she loves Jeans so much and wears them for casual occasions. I really love the combo, especially that blue bag and the hair, and the shoes and the "shako-mended" goggles ...I love everything - in other words, she is HOT!

http://www.kemifilani.com/2013/03/good-lord-mercy-aigbe-is-hot-see-her-in.html

You are a big fool and very silly in trying immoralize, materialize and medialize the few inocent girls we've got left.

bettymafy: Nope! I'm not being sarcastic. I just want to understand the reason behind this thread and the kind of advice he seeks. Because this whole story begs the question; why does he want the MIL to come see his child? Someone that wicked and evil? Tell me, would u be bothered if u had this kind of MIL refusing to come see your child?

So, it is either this MIL isn't as bad as the OP painted her, and the OP knows deep down that she meant some good and he's kinda feeling quilty for sidelining her but refusing to see his fault and wants a pity-party, or the OP just doesn't know where he stands!

OP, until u answer that question sincerely, u won't get any reasonable advice.

You got it all wrong, the poster never demanded or requested for any advice. He clearly stated what he did and pose a rhetorical question if he was right or wrong. You're speaking from a woman's perspective and no man would take this crap you've been saying.

Like I said before, there's someone closer to you who is doing this silly manouvre of power and pride. What good mother would chose not to visit her daughter after delivery just because they're not in good terms. A good mother would automatically pardon that child for the sake of the new baby. I believe there's more to it a that the mil is got something up her sleeves.

Until something happen you lot won't believe shhit. The Mil is not a good mother period.
@poster is open and willing to work with the wifes family as long as the Mil and the rest of her family stay stop intruding.

bettymafy: Hehehehehhehe. . .If she is as bad as u claim, then why bother that she hasn't come to see her grandchild?

I made my post according to the previous story u gave. Now that u have added "jara" to it, then, please kneel down and thank God for keeping your wicked MIL away from your home and family!

Now, u don't have anything to worry about. The wicked woman that has caused u and your wife somuch pain and grief has finally stayed away. All u need do is celebrate! Goodluck!

Now, you're been sarcastic, and you know what; I think you know this MIL. I think the story is familiar to you and you're refusing to believe the story of the couple. It doesn't matter what you think, I believe the couple made the right decision.

[quote author=chaircover]. . . . and on the same page . . . .



For this single reason alone . . . .I wont even bother responding to the rest of your post or any subsequent ones. Have a good afternoon!!![/quote

I only asked a question, and maybe she is, who knows.

chaircover: I like looking at the bigger picture when I read/see headline catching stories and so my angle of looking at things are not usually surface level.

I wouldn't blame this woman entirely. This woman is just trying to be a mother in the real sense of it. A woman you said provided financial assistance and a roof over the head of her daughters and son in laws who were needy. i.e she saw a need/was approached for help and she obliged. She could spend all her money on aso ebi and gold and no one dare fault her. She has raised her kids and if she chooses to spend it all frivolously who can stop her . . . but she didnt. She was still there for her needy grown up children.

Now if you go to someone with your financial difficulties and you live under someones roof, wont they know you in-to-to? if you are living under someones roof and you have an argument with your spouse would she know about it and get involved to try and resolve issues? She is in their biz because they invited her in and they all allowed it fullstop.she is in their biz because the wall is open and the wall gecko got in.

She is used to doing this and that is why she is attempting to do the same to you and your wife. . . .and all you have to do is to firmly, consistently but politely make your ways known to her. She will soon understand that you are not like her other children and she will eventually begin to accept that you are different from the others and she will respect your views and step back. of course she sounds like she is overdoing things . .. and she must be for you and your wife to be complaining about it, but there is a possibility that she doesn't even know that what she is doing is wrong and is a way of life for her and so you need to point that out to her but not in a "in your face way"!

Now the baby is a different issue all together. First let me congratulate you on your new arrival. but let me tell you something . . Families are different o! so you cant compare. Your family may be ok with it, but my mum will "die" if I or any one of us kids did that to her. Basically you are indirectly saying that you dont trust them and they are wicked enough to kill and eat their own grandchild. I doubt that you are looking at the bigger message that you are sending here. I CC will be devastated if God forbid my kids did that to me. Let us remember that we are parents too now and one day we will be mother and father inlaws too.

On the issue of miscarriage, 12% of pregnancy's result in miscarriages so its very common. Ive been through it, family members including my own mum have been through it, so as heaps of my friends. were they all spiritual? NO!!!! if someone really wanted to get you, they will, regardless of if you tell them about the pregnancy or not. What you did was out of fear. Fear sometimes is even worse than the actual issue at hand. When I had my miscarriage I said to myself baby wasn't meant to stay and I trusted Gods judgment end of.

You people should go and apologize your MIL. She didnt deserve that kind of treatment. You robbed her of being able to fuss round your wife and the new baby. The fact that your family understood and applauded your actions doesn't mean that everyone else has to.
She is right to stand back. She will touch the baby now and you people will say that she cast a spell on the baby?!.

Pastors in churches these days no longer teach us to be fearless and to be strong in His word, so we are fearful and running back to them every 5 minutes. Go and apologize to your MIL . . and remember to read the 5th commandment. Remember one thing too!!!! She never killed her daughter, your wife! so why now?

You made conclusions just like a typical Nigerian would do. I'm sure nothing was covering your eyes when @poster said he and his wife have begged and apologized to the MIL countless times, all with no avail. What else do you want them to do? And regarding this Nja mentality of dominating another, what difference does it even make if the MIL knows about the pregnancy at a latter stage?

It doesn't have to be a matter of spirituality, @poster is a man and can decide whom to tell and who not to. My problem with the MIL is, why was she so particular the the lady should have told her in an early stage? Wasn't this MIL present when her daughter lost the first preg? She should be sensitive enough that the couple did what they did for them (couple) only and not anyone else. All in all, she should be overjoyed and happy for her daughter for having that baby. Except if she's hiding something we all don't know.

And who even said she like her daughter, for what kind of mother would refused to visit her daughter after 5 days of delivery? Regardless of this lady's misunderstanding with her mum, mum should always act like one..always forgiving and loving. I believe there's more to this, and I also believe the MIL is selfish and lack respect for other peoples opinion or decision.

Just because she provide for her son-in-laws doesn't mean she has a good intention. Son-in-laws should be sufficient themselves and never received anything from MILs. MILs would have the final say in her daughters home if she continue feeding or assisting them. @poster is diff and a real man and would not allow any MIL to decide for him.

Na craze dey worry your mother-in-law ni? She be winch

fonssy: Never knew IK was married

Too late for you babe...look for your guy somewhere else..

FRR1: That cloth wey u call cheap go pay your transport fare for a month LOL...

You are so silly for saying so. Not to brag or anything, most celebrities clothes are cheap and not upto to my standard. Okocha dare not compete with me, I'll change his naira for him

FRR1: They are the best couples here. True smiles. Others were smiling sheepishly...

Why is JJ looking like a washed man? That clothe na wa, too cheap and looked washed.

Answer: Everything. Women are miserable. Give them so much money, they'll still complain you're not always there, citing " na money we go chop".

Give them the attention they so much crave for; they'll still complain " why are you all over me" would be their response. Some of them would even tell you to go out and do something more constructive.

Tell them the truth everytime, you'd become mugu and your nickname would become " bobo is nice".

Give them sexx all the time, they'll call you names and even abuse your mother " is this how your papa they service your mother every minute, I guess that's why you can't break, olosi, you wan kill me ni".

Give them all that money can buy, avail yourself, show them love, be the nicest man on earth, you cannot just satisfy or win these bunch of creature we call women. If they love you, they love you ( even without all the material things). But if they don't love you, even with all your money, time, energy and all, you cannot do shhit, they will find themselves another guy.

This is actually a bad trend from our Nja babes. They are technically beggars.

Ashodi is smart. Few years ago, she went to the UK and gave birth, to a different man though, another child came after, she had that one in Canada. Now she's done it again, gave birth in a US hospital, again to a different man. Kudos my sister.

Now your children are now British, Canadian and US citizens. Congrat!!!. The one she had in the UK became a UK citizen by registration 2 years ago. She had that one in 2004. Now that law doesn't exist anymore. If you gave birth in the UK now without one of the parent being a UK national, your child won't have a status until he/she is 18 years.

bee444: Ok. But note, the Britons do not openly criticize their govt regardless of what is happening in their country or how bad and corrupt their govt is. They support their own and are very patriotic. You seem to be British than Nigerian.

I observe the same.

In the next 5 years or so, regardless of your accent or status, as long as you're black and from Africa, this slave trader country will start deporting everyone. UK has achieved their aims and would no longer need the services of the Africans.

You've built their roads, clean their streets and toilets, washed the bum of their elderly, trained their doctors and provided countless services. These bunch came to Africa, whipped our fathers, chained them, killed them, sold them as slaves for peanuts, took all our golds and resources, build their nation and left nothing for us.

They introduced Aids and other diseases to kill the rest of us, manufactured drugs for some of these disease so as to take all our money, invented guns so we can kill another, put us against other African countries and the rest of the world so as to cause enmity, brainwashed our elites in believing we are that bad and corrupt our leaders.

Well, I will repeat, UK is dwindling, her economy is suffering because of the immigration policies.

naptu2: Niqab

No, Ninja

1. Justme
2. Paris10
3. Myself

And no one is sensible and critical enough to ask of his age. Naija with mediocrity mentality. They don't critique but only accept anything. Happy b'day sir joor.

My parents did not do s.h.i.i.t, married in the 70's, they have between them five lovely children. Well, my dad has 6, impregnated another woman . All in all, the 6 kids, mum and dad, AA ni everybody joor

[quote author=Ejiné]Why do you guys always love being coons though?

I remember the other thread where nolongTin opened a thread glorifying and worshipping white women while trying to put down black women, until MzDarkSkin and the others took him to the cleaners..

Oh wait... I almost forgot it was Musiwa I was replying...

Never mind.[/quote]Do you mind these miscreants? Pls don't. Let them continue to display their open ignorance. Just yesterday, an 8 year old black Alton primary pupil was handcuffed and detained for 2 hours in the Alton district of New Hamshire here in the state. Who was responsible? Ofcourse her white principle. A white pupil misbehave, she's a spoilt child; A black pupil misbehave, she's a nigg** and need to be restrained with an handcuff.

eddy1977: I totally agree with henke pistorius.
Black people are the most racist people in the world. And black south Africans are even worse.not only are they racists,they are also xenophobic.
Have you seen what they do to other african immigrants?

I have been to south africa many times. My last trip was last November. And i can testify that those black south africans,especially the political leaders are very racists.

Henke pistorius is telling the truth. White south Africans should open their eyes because those savagez hate them with a passion. If i was a white south African i would do just like henke. Buy my guns and bullets and wait for those savages.

Won't accuse you of anything, but let me educate you. Have you heard about reverse racism? I guess not; this seek to redress social inequalities and also to remove discrimination that minority group (blacks) may already face.

Now, when you say black people are the most racist people on earth, I guess you're referring to how you've been treated by a few blacks you've come across. But let me burst your bubble, have you been to the states or Europe, especially the so-called UK? You'll be amazed how not only blacks but other non-white people are being treated. Your appearance on itself would mitigate the hospitality you receive. And regardless of your position or personality, white people still hate your gut.

For more than a century, blacks (especially) Africans, endured a torrid debasement and torture from your people. And whilst they were being transported to the US and other EU countries for slavery purpose, millions of them died a violent death. They were stocked in shelves, chained and told to defecate and urinate on one another until they reach destination. 500 millions of them choked on their vomit and millions of others died before reaching destination.

Black South Africans are too lenient. Although they terrorize your white people (Afrikaans), they however still lavish in poverty. The poverty that was created by the families of the likes of 'the Pistorius' and others. Remember Apartheid? Well, technically, that's still fresh in the minds of millions SA. However, this discussion shouldn't be that of race, but that of a killer. Remember, Oscar din't murder a black person, he killed a fellow-white countrymen.

@op, I sincerely believe you are a Yoruba Muslim. Only and Most Yoruba Muslims uses these words you just listed.

As long as it's Man Utd, justified joor! European referees cannot be bought over or intimidated by Alex Ferguson and the FA. This is not EPL. 12 points clear above Man city didn't just happen, this is base on some criminal decisions by the ref to award unwarranted penalties and "6" minutes extral time to every game.

Karma is b.i.t.t.c.h