₦airaland Forum

sainty2k3:
Yes, but the same society will blame him if he fight back abi

Rather than fight back in the manner that the law will blame him, he is better off for his mental well-being to separate from that source of frustration.

And some are die-hard legionaries of these Politicians!

sainty2k3:
If a man report to state that he was assaulted by his wife they will all laugh at him ,call him names but if a woman is the one reporting all energy are made ready to fight for her. Is that not gender inequality

By our socialization, how many men will be bold enough to go report such? The mockery from his family and peers is enough deterrent!

Yawns.....

TINALETC3:
A frnd if mine got preg 4 her bf, bt unfortunately, d guy refused to marry her, he agreed to take care of her til she delivers, u no women na, she gradually pressed her way in2 living wt d guy, thinking dat mayb, he wl change his mind and marry her, she is 7 months gone, I visited her yesterday, mere luking at her, she is seriously suffering, I met her eating biscuit which she soaked in water as lunch, dis morning, she culd me and toad me dat d guy almost strangled her 2 death and told her 2 leav his house, she seeks advice 4rm me on Wat 2 do, unfortunately I hv none, which body is responsible 4 such case pls

I will never advocate for marriage, just because the lady involved is pregnant because it breeds the feelings of entrapment which triggers resentment.

She should go back to her family and don't continue to force herself on the guy. Should the guy finally kill her, won't her family be involved? Won't they be the ones to bury her?

Let her go back home, for her mental well-being and have the child in a safe environment.

Her family should engage the guy's family on the issue of care.

Make him leave home with you as you go out for the day's hustle, he is not an infant that only eats and sleeps. He needs to assist you at work to know what it means to earn what you use to support him and the family, hopefully he will begin to appreciate things.

If he refuses, ship him back home as it is your father's responsibility to straighten him as he allowed him to become who your brother is now.

crazyABO:
dres nothing like his not guilty even if d man caught her with another man on dre matrimonial bed she doesn't deserves ds

I never implied she deserves any abuse from the man, I responded to the part where you posted "She sha wants the man in kuje prison".

No human has the right to inflict injury on another except in a situation one has to self defense. If a man feels he has a right to beat the wife when they have issues, does the woman have the right to add "something" to his food since she has advantage in that regard?

crazyABO:
She sha wants the man in kuje prison the man they beat abeg he should go to olymipc abeg

If he is not guilty of the charges, with evidences from his part he will not be jailed.

I agree with him on that.

genieluv:
Really, must everything be about tribe?

Cute couple. They look beautiful together.

The OP gave an incomplete description, it should have been Urhobo meets Yoruba (the thread title has now been corrected to it). If a non Nigerian had read it and asked you which tribe is Delta, what would have been your answer?

Freiden:
Meanwhile

You hate Mondays?......My pay day!

Once you put out your life on social media, every passerby is entitled to comment!

Is Delta a tribe?

Love seeing such.....Father, mother and children.

Chinedu...his name truly played out.

God bless that man that got him to safety.

Sad.

Every accident is preventable.

That is bad for his career.

39 years old, sighs.

"The trouble with most of us is that we would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism”....Real deep.

Deep content.

It is a public forum, so na "everybody come inside"!

danelson007:
I totally disagree. President buhari wears only one cloth anytime he travels to London. that should be oshomole from the head shape.lol

U no well!

fuckerstard:
9ja mentality go set in, some people go say she get coded parol

Na 9ja we dey! Some will say she is"collecting" the destiny of those she is feeding... Destiny that can not feed them!

Money they spend on alcohol, weed and women!

Someone will just choose to attract the attention of outsiders to their marriage!

She is certainly dealing with some insecurities.

Went to meet up with a stranger with N150k in her possession?

I suspect the Police told the lady to add the N150k theft in her statement. As long as the guy accepted stealing the phone, any other theft can be heaped on him!

TechPanda:
But Who Is To Blame?

It is a complex issue, where is the father of the girl? Is he late or an absent father? What is the girl's relationship with her mother? Failed parenting is the root cause then the 25 year old idle mind who is more interested in sex with a minor than getting himself economically engaged should be made to go out and hustle for the means to cater for the girl and his unborn child as he is not mentally challenged!

TechPanda:
You feel my pain

Really painful.

I support the protesters, Government at all level should be accountable to the people.

NwaObinkita:

Nigeria will always be different.


Osibanjo is standing farthest on the right of the greatest world power. Why didn't he stand next to Donald Trump, isn't Nigeria the giant of Africa again?

And he is the only one not on a suit.



Osibanjo why are you like this...see as you be like korofo while the rest look presidential

Your type take group pictures with Papa lolos!